The SINGLE black women's prayer group...

BigUnc said:
A reasonable and on point response. I agree we have to give ourselves some wiggle room in regards to "choosing " a mate but to be careful not to put ourselves on the sidelines because our preferences are too hard and fast. On a similar note i've personnally witness some hook ups that happen even though one or both are like WTF!!! how did I get with her/him thy are nothing like what was on my list.So word to the wise you never know when,where, and with whom love is gonna strike.

cool. i hear ya bro.
 
tech9 said:
"thick girls" as in mo' nique's misconstrued vision of what thick is???


I would tell that fat sista to quit trying to get brothas to lower their standards just because more and more black women find it easier to stuff their face and not exercise.

Tariq touched on it in one of those macklessons

Tariq????.....macklessons?????......aren't we the ones making the "suggestion" to black women that they ignore the advice of girlfriends and the Oprah's of the world while at the same time listening to this Tariq character and discussing women amongst ourselves. Doesn't that make us at least hypocrits and in the extreme flaming assholes in their eyes. Fair is fair brothers if we gonna sit down and listen to Tariq at the appointed time then can we complain if they're listening to Oprah??

BTW whothe fuck is Tariq??
 
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That was slamming me?????...Nigga Please!!!..you basically dissed black women calling them fat..and i responded back with another true fact saying that white chicks that black dudes are fucking with usually look worse than Monique...and therefore must not be hitting the gym as well...Like it or not
(I could gives a fuck) i just cannot agree with you...because i see soo many beautiful black women and even the so-called thick Monique ones...look better than the flabby trailor trash white chicks that some of these black dudes be gassing (My opinion)



tech9 said:
okay now I'm gonna slam you

first off I don't date white chicks and nowhere in any of my posts to this thread have I said anything about me being involved or interested in dating cave women

secondly, weight issues are a huge problem when it comes to most black women. Did you read the thread cuz seriously I didn't say anything about cave broads. You just went off on some other junk. 67 posts, you come in here make a good point then make an incoherent one? eh not too late to save yourself rook.
 
femmenoire said:
I remember a man I was dating years ago sat down and prayed with me minutes after having sex.
Shit! :confused: :smh: Sorry but i have to asking you these,
1. how did you feel about it? :confused:
(i hope, he was thanking god for that successful session that he had!) :D :lol:
2. and if you go to church, do you go that kind of prayer group?
I've been with them twice, never prayed before and after! :smh:
 
Okay the issue is that a black woman is praying for a good black man ...(Why is that a problem????) and yes she should definitely be asking God to improve herself as well( and anyone who is trying to find someone in their lives...should be doing everything humanly poossible to make sure they go their shit together)...but to find fault with a woman praying for a good mate....thats just trying to find fault where there is none...




OnyxFemme said:
I understand where you are coming from I really do, but I just wanted to address one of the things you stated. Well actually it was brought up previously as well...
For those that believe in prayer (yes I do too) instead of praying for a man, shouldnt they pray to fix their own shortcomings or for self love and patiance? If they do those things, wouldnt she be able to KEEP the man coming her way? I dunno...Just thinking about why a woman would be praying for a man...She should be working on herself as no one is perfect.
 
So you also are a hypocrite because if you actually read my post i say nowhere that i (Search for and like Fat women)..so thats you adding that little extra part...im saying that if we are going to diss the sistas that are Fat....why not diss the white bitches that are also Fat and Sloppy and OH Yeah...also with lot's of black dudes that are (Marrying them) and while they are married to these whales....they are also having the audacity to talk about Black Women Being Fat.... it makes no sense to me and never once did i accuse you of being with a White chic...i was speaking in general to the ones that do...




tech9 said:
you're involving white women where I didn't.

and if you like fat women good for you

get them outta my way so its easier to see the fit sistas

and put quotes before your response that shit looks backward than a mofo
 
BigUnc said:
Tariq????.....macklessons?????......aren't we the ones making the "suggestion" to black women that they ignore the advice of girlfriends and the Oprah's of the world while at the same time listening to this Tariq character and discussing women amongst ourselves. Doesn't that make us at least hypocrits and in the extreme flaming assholes in their eyes. Fair is fair brothers if we gonna sit down and listen to Tariq at the appointed time then can we complain if they're listening to Oprah??

BTW whothe fuck is Tariq??

you can't be serious :smh: :lol: :smh: :lol: :confused: :confused: :lol: :lol:
 
The problem that many sisters have, are not Black men nor is it white women, but rather when they are in prime peak, the ages of 18-25 they are too busy, too much into work, religion, school, bullshit games, hoeing, partying up or what ever to ever be serious about marriage. Now after their stock begins to fade and the years start catching up with them, perhaps after a kid or two, they are ready for a serious man to rescue them!
The problem is that the serious men are looking at the chick in their prime years, and since many black women aren't ready at that age, they often turn to other races!

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DiamondDeuce said:
THIS IS HOW YOU WIN

#1 Internalize that simply having a vagina does not entitle to a “good man”

#2 Show basic respect to every black man you meet.. that has not shown you some form of disrespect 1st.

#3 Remember that men desire feminine women (check that Lil’Kim/Foxy Brown/ Trina/LOVE NY attitude at the door)

#4 Quit fucking with Thugs

#5 Don’t ask for anything out of a man that you don’t have or exhibit yourself remember the “Ideal Black Man” can command HIS “Ideal Black Woman”

#6 Keep and maintain good physical health and shape

#7 Respect a man’s money and time as you would your own

#8 Don’t listen to your girlfriend’s advice on men. Don’t seek their approval for the men you date

#9 Check your baggage at the door

#10 Be socially polite and be willing to initiate conversations with black men you meet in public.

#11 When you meet a man stop telling him “What you ain’t gonna do” and SHOW HIM WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO DO

#12 Show the man that you enjoy him for his company from DAY 1 and not for what “you think he can do for you”

#13 Be willing to do some of the initial work from DAY 1 that it takes to develop a friendship/relationship with a man

This is some good shat. cosign!
 
RoadRage said:
The problem that many sisters have, are not Black men nor is it white women, but rather when they are in prime peak, the ages of 18-25 they are too busy, too much into work, religion, school, bullshit games, hoeing, partying up or what ever to ever be serious about marriage. Now after their stock begins to fade and the years start catching up with them, perhaps after a kid or two, they are ready for a serious man to rescue them!
The problem is that the serious men are looking at the chick in their prime years, and since many black women aren't ready at that age, they often turn to other races!

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lol no... for example, i know many sistas over 25-40 that party, make the excuse too busy, furthering their education, some still working on their bachelors, working etc... and they play games too, so we are back to square one with just doing the simple basics. :rolleyes:
 
superman2004 said:
lol no... for example, i know many sistas over 25-40 that party, make the excuse too busy, furthering their education, some still working on their bachelors, working etc... and they play games too, so we are back to square one with just doing the simple basics. :rolleyes:
Many women of other races go to college and get out at around 25, find a husband and by 30 they are having their first child!
Many sister go through the Diva stage, basically playing make believe that they are someone that they are not!
Then they graduate to the independent woman stage then finally to desperate 30ish woman who want to find the love of her life, as the years progress her standard of what that man should be erodes with each passing day!
My point is, if marriage is such a high priority, better sell your stock while your value is high rather than to look for a sucker to bail you out once your shit has crashed!

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RoadRage said:
Many women of other races go to college and get out at around 25, find a husband and by 30 they are having their first child!
Many sister go through the Diva stage, basically playing make believe that they are someone that they are not!
Then they graduate to the independent woman stage then finally to desperate 30ish woman who want to find the love of her life, as the years progress her standard of what that man should be erodes with each passing day!
My point is, if marriage is such a high priority, better sell your stock while your value is high rather than to look for a sucker to bail you out once your shit has crashed!

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lol i hear ya good point :D
 
Swizz Heat said:
"me: "y'all need to start praying and hanging-out with them white gals, cause while y'all are asking god, they're asking black men-ya heard?"

I like that statement, black women are talking to god about finding a good man while white women are actually going up to a good man and start talking. Can't hate on white women, they don't mind making the first move.

:yes:

Can't hate on snow flakes. She sees, she likes, she approaches, she flirts and then lays the puss on you silly. The best part is, she'd hang around for as long as possible, letting you be King Mofasa!
 
afroyale said:

:yes:

Can't hate on snow flakes. She sees, she likes, she approaches, she flirts and then lays the puss on you silly. The best part is, she'd hang around for as long as possible, letting you be King Mofasa!

:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: co sign... that's why i tell a sista, if you don't like it, do something about it. don't sit on the sidelines mad/complaining cause you are not getting playing time and the snowflakes are starting ahead of you. if you want play, step ya game up plain and simple. but many don't want to listen to good advice on obtaining a good brotha. they rather listen to the girlfriends (many of which are in the same situation) :smh: :smh:
 
afroyale said:

:yes:

Can't hate on snow flakes. She sees, she likes, she approaches, she flirts and then lays the puss on you silly. The best part is, she'd hang around for as long as possible, letting you be King Mofasa!

not here to praise the white woman and not here to degrade the black woman, but i just got back from wal-mart, and here's what happened:

i saw my new white gal neighbor. i noticed her last week when she moved-in cause she's got a nice round ass, but i didn't say anything cause i don't fuck with women in my apt. complex.

well, i passed by her and said, "hi neighbor." then, once she recognized me, she said, "hi, blah, blah..... blah.... blah." cot damn, i couldn't shut the bitch up!!!! got her name, where she's from, got invited to shop with her and talk, was asked to help her with her dog going to the vet, etc. etc. etc...

i basically had to sneak away from this motor mouth gal... :lol:
 
max-dawg said:
not here to praise the white woman and not here to degrade the black woman, but i just got back from wal-mart, and here's what happened:

i saw my new white gal neighbor. i noticed her last week when she moved-in cause she's got a nice round ass, but i didn't say anything cause i don't fuck with women in my apt. complex.

well, i passed by her and said, "hi neighbor." then, once she recognized me, she said, "hi, blah, blah..... blah.... blah." cot damn, i couldn't shut the bitch up!!!! got her name, where she's from, got invited to shop with her and talk, was asked to help her with her dog going to the vet, etc. etc. etc...

i basically had to sneak away from this motor mouth gal... :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:
 
Are you fucking kidding me....so let's get this straight (Let me see if i have this correctly) Basically Black Men want and like when White Women (Approaches you,Flirts with you and lays the puss on you and who hangs around and lets you be King)...but ya see that doesnt sound like letting you be the king...it acually sounds like Letting you be the Female....You bitch made mother fuckas want a woman to do all the work,give you whatever you want and cater to you 24/7...But meanwhile what are you doing? Geting your pussy hair waxed????


So it seems like the black man wants to play the female role....it seems like you guy's have opted out of playing any Man role and you have just given up on Black Females...because we actually force you guy's to be men. Yes you should be approaching us,flirting with us...and actually stepping to us like men ...but because in 2007 Black men have no Balls they silently want to be females and taking out on dates and catered to like some fucking Female.

What a shame....I say why not go on ahead with the sex change operation and stop frontin like you guy's are men and come on out of the closet.....And them stupid white snowflakes can definitely play themselves by treating you like Kings...even though you don't deserve it because all you guy's are doing is using them.....I say you want to be treated like Kings then earn the fucking respect to be treated like one...The day you guy's do that ...that's when Black Women will treat you like a King!!!!!


And for them haters that will come out and say that the white woman is showing the black man love and treating him like he deserves to be treated...please save that shit.....Then please explain to me why you still treat them like shit and dump all over them even though they are treating you like Kings...It seems to me maybe you guy's just don't know how to treat women in general......


Now i see the problem between the Black Male and Female....The Black male wants the be the female and the Black Female want's to be the female...we have a whole race of females!!!!!!!!!!!!!!










Quote:
Originally Posted by afroyale



Can't hate on snow flakes. She sees, she likes, she approaches, she flirts and then lays the puss on you silly. The best part is, she'd hang around for as long as possible, letting you be King Mofasa!





superman2004 said:
:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes: co sign... that's why i tell a sista, if you don't like it, do something about it. don't sit on the sidelines mad/complaining cause you are not getting playing time and the snowflakes are starting ahead of you. if you want play, step ya game up plain and simple. but many don't want to listen to good advice on obtaining a good brotha. they rather listen to the girlfriends (many of which are in the same situation) :smh: :smh:
 
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GODIVA said:
Are you fucking kidding me....so let's get this straight (Let me see if i have this correctly) Basically Black Men want and like when White Women (Approaches you,Flirts with you and lays the puss on you and who hangs around and lets you be King)...but ya see that doesnt sound like letting you be the king...it acually sounds like Letting you be the Female....You bitch made mother fuckas want a woman to do all the work,give you whatever you want and cater to you 24/7...But meanwhile what are you doing? Geting your pussy hair waxed????


So it seems like the black man wants to play the female role....it seems like you guy's have opted out of playing any Man role and you have just given up on Black Females...because we actually force you guy's to be men. Yes you should be approaching us,flirting with us...and actually stepping to us like men ...but because in 2007 Black men have no Balls they silently want to be females and taking out on dates and catered to like some fucking Female.

What a shame....I say why not go on ahead with the sex change operation and stop frontin like you guy's are men and come on out of the closet.....And them stupid white snowflakes can definitely play themselves by treating you like Kings...even though you don't deserve it because all you guy's are doing is using them.....I say you want to be treated like Kings then earn the fucking respect to be treated like one...The day you guy's do that ...that's when Black Women will treat you like a King!!!!!


And for them haters that will come out and say that the white woman is showing the black man love and treating him like he deserves to be treated...please save that shit.....Then please explain to me why you still treat them like shit and dump all over them even though they are treating you like Kings...It seems to me maybe you guy's just don't know how to treat women in general......

look who's back fellas :lol: :lol: :lol: should of known GODIVA would come
out of lurker status for this thread :lol: :lol: :lol:

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blackmouth said:
so i ask this young lady, "what do y'all pray about in that group?" and that conversation led to some interesting comments:

her: "we're christian black women that pray for guidance and direction."
me: "so y'all sit around asking god for a man, correct?"
her: "well, sometimes, but mainly we pray for advice at work, etc."
me: "so, you're trying to date a man from work?"
her: "look, we don't JUST pray for a man; there are other things in this world we worry about too, you know."
me: "like what? what's the last thing y'all discussed before the prayer session?"
her: "we discussed interracial relationships and why white women are marrying more and more black men."

me: "for real. do you think those white gals are praying for a black man?"
her: "who cares? i don't know, and i don't care."
me: "well, y'all discussed it. somebody 'round here cares and is obviously worried about it."
her: "they NEED to stick to their own and leave our men alone."
me: "so when you pray to god for a man to marry you, do you specifically state, 'make it a black man, 6-4" tall, light-skinned, etc., and PACKING'?"
her: :hmm:
me: "y'all need to start praying and hanging-out with them white gals, cause while y'all are asking god, they're asking black men-ya heard?"
her: "why am i even talking to you?"
me: "'cause you saw what i'm driving and was hoping god sent me to you."
her: "excuse me, i have to go now. you're going to make me lose my religion."
me: "i understand. btw, 'where all da white womens at'? just joking lady, relax."
her: "see, y'all brothers be tripping."
me: "well, maybe you should ask god to make us 'stop tripping,' cause he and only he knows why y'all like to confuse y'all's lives with thugs, etc."

*she then gives me the "nigga please" look and walks off.
me (yelling): "i'll ask them white gals what god they pray to, and i'll hip you to the game next week. peace."


she just pust her foot in her mouth.
this is just another satanic driven prayer group.
or maybe a fake story , who knows
 
RoadRage said:
The problem that many sisters have, are not Black men nor is it white women, but rather when they are in prime peak, the ages of 18-25 they are too busy, too much into work, religion, school, bullshit games, hoeing, partying up or what ever to ever be serious about marriage. Now after their stock begins to fade and the years start catching up with them, perhaps after a kid or two, they are ready for a serious man to rescue them!
The problem is that the serious men are looking at the chick in their prime years, and since many black women aren't ready at that age, they often turn to other races!

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but i dont understand. white women btween 18-25 r into the same shit. and they age faster. who taking the white chicks serious. black dudes?
who saves them hoes after they hit 30.
 
DiamondDeuce said:
Well you have to decide what is important to you. But if you say that the most important thing is a man be taller than you.... fine just accept reality about it. Only 14.5% of the male population is over 6ft. So if one of your main criteria is that a man be over 6ft you have effectively eliminated over 85% for a trait that has nothing to do with living a healthy productive life or fostering a mutually beneficial relationship.

Now again if you have your preferences and that is WORKING for you. Great! But if it is not.. then you can't keep saying that you can't find a good man or how do you "Win".

You need to say how come I can't find a 6'2" good man. BIG DIFFERENCE!


THIS IS HOW YOU WIN

#1 Internalize that simply having a vagina does not entitle to a “good man”

#2 Show basic respect to every black man you meet.. that has not shown you some form of disrespect 1st.

#3 Remember that men desire feminine women (check that Lil’Kim/Foxy Brown/ Trina/LOVE NY attitude at the door)

#4 Quit fucking with Thugs

#5 Don’t ask for anything out of a man that you don’t have or exhibit yourself remember the “Ideal Black Man” can command HIS “Ideal Black Woman”

#6 Keep and maintain good physical health and shape

#7 Respect a man’s money and time as you would your own

#8 Don’t listen to your girlfriend’s advice on men. Don’t seek their approval for the men you date

#9 Check your baggage at the door

#10 Be socially polite and be willing to initiate conversations with black men you meet in public.

#11 When you meet a man stop telling him “What you ain’t gonna do” and SHOW HIM WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO DO

#12 Show the man that you enjoy him for his company from DAY 1 and not for what “you think he can do for you”

#13 Be willing to do some of the initial work from DAY 1 that it takes to develop a friendship/relationship with a man



50%true


however this will happen in the perfect world!!
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GODIVA said:
Are you fucking kidding me....so let's get this straight (Let me see if i have this correctly) Basically Black Men want and like when White Women (Approaches you,Flirts with you and lays the puss on you and who hangs around and lets you be King)...but ya see that doesnt sound like letting you be the king...it acually sounds like Letting you be the Female....You bitch made mother fuckas want a woman to do all the work,give you whatever you want and cater to you 24/7...But meanwhile what are you doing? Geting your pussy hair waxed????


So it seems like the black man wants to play the female role....it seems like you guy's have opted out of playing any Man role and you have just given up on Black Females...because we actually force you guy's to be men. Yes you should be approaching us,flirting with us...and actually stepping to us like men ...but because in 2007 Black men have no Balls they silently want to be females and taking out on dates and catered to like some fucking Female.

What a shame....I say why not go on ahead with the sex change operation and stop frontin like you guy's are men and come on out of the closet.....And them stupid white snowflakes can definitely play themselves by treating you like Kings...even though you don't deserve it because all you guy's are doing is using them.....I say you want to be treated like Kings then earn the fucking respect to be treated like one...The day you guy's do that ...that's when Black Women will treat you like a King!!!!!


And for them haters that will come out and say that the white woman is showing the black man love and treating him like he deserves to be treated...please save that shit.....Then please explain to me why you still treat them like shit and dump all over them even though they are treating you like Kings...It so seems to me maybe you guy's just don't know how to treat women in general......

wow!!!! this post alone will generate at least 2 pages.

ain't nothing like a woman telling a man how to be a man and FORCING him to be one. :hmm: :rolleyes:
damn.
 
max-dawg said:
wow!!!! this post alone will generate at least 2 pages.

ain't nothing like a woman telling a man how to be a man and FORCING him to be one. :hmm: :rolleyes:
damn.

bro, you can't pay her/it/him (godiva) no mind. all you have to do is look up her/it/his profile and find the past posts and you would clearly see that godiva cums out of lurker status for these types posts and rants.
 
NEW_STAR_EMERGING said:
Im sorry you acting like everytime i see a black guy with a white chic ...she is on some Pamela Anderson level....Let me take you back to reality (I see a lot of very very fat white chicks on the arms of these dudes...some who look wayyyy worse than Monique) So it must be a lot of white chicks stuffing their faces and not excersing as well....I'll wait for Tariq to touch on that as well.

i cosign that one!!


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superman2004 said:

2. over exaggerating INDEPENDENT/STRONG SISTA mentality. mature brothas don't want to hear that shit, again why brag/boast about it. it's not like you are in a contest. SHOW US POSITIVE SHIZZLE.


If you over exaggerate, "Damnit I'm this or I'm that" ad nauseum :puke: , 9.9999 times out of 10 you're only kidding yourself. :smh: This applies to men as well as women.
 
GODIVA said:
Are you fucking kidding me....so let's get this straight (Let me see if i have this correctly) Basically Black Men want and like when White Women (Approaches you,Flirts with you and lays the puss on you and who hangs around and lets you be King)...but ya see that doesnt sound like letting you be the king...it acually sounds like Letting you be the Female....You bitch made mother fuckas want a woman to do all the work,give you whatever you want and cater to you 24/7...But meanwhile what are you doing? Geting your pussy hair waxed????


So it seems like the black man wants to play the female role....it seems like you guy's have opted out of playing any Man role and you have just given up on Black Females...because we actually force you guy's to be men. Yes you should be approaching us,flirting with us...and actually stepping to us like men ...but because in 2007 Black men have no Balls they silently want to be females and taking out on dates and catered to like some fucking Female.

What a shame....I say why not go on ahead with the sex change operation and stop frontin like you guy's are men and come on out of the closet.....And them stupid white snowflakes can definitely play themselves by treating you like Kings...even though you don't deserve it because all you guy's are doing is using them.....I say you want to be treated like Kings then earn the fucking respect to be treated like one...The day you guy's do that ...that's when Black Women will treat you like a King!!!!!


And for them haters that will come out and say that the white woman is showing the black man love and treating him like he deserves to be treated...please save that shit.....Then please explain to me why you still treat them like shit and dump all over them even though they are treating you like Kings...It seems to me maybe you guy's just don't know how to treat women in general......


Now i see the problem between the Black Male and Female....The Black male wants the be the female and the Black Female want's to be the female...we have a whole race of females!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I won't sit here and say that black females DON'T have their issues to work out when it comes to dealing with a black man BUT.....

CO-SIGN
 
Nice to see the ladies adding their nickel to the pot. I just hope that you can keep the hyperbole to a minimum then maybe in a small way here on BGOL we can take a few baby steps to heal some real divisions that are apparent.

As far as this brother Tariq, no I don't know him. I've seen his name a few times here and I'm thinking he has a radio program geared towards younger black men concerning his htoughts and opinions concerning black women. I might be wrong but hey I put it out there.


To Godiva hope to engage you in some meaningful dialogue sometime in the future.

PEACE :)
 
max-dawg said:
:lol:

you've obviously NEVER been to houston, texas. houston is the #1 spot to see LOTS & LOTS of sisters married-to and dating white men.

if the sisters there are praying for men, they've specifically stated, "send me a white one."

thats how it is here in NY. I see about 4 or 5 white male black female couples a day. There's more black women dating white men in this city than black men dating white women. And it's always the ones that are thee most afrocentric, with the afros, or dreads or some other "non conforming" look. Yet they're sucking a white dick. lol I guess to each his/her own!
 
DiamondDeuce said:
Bruh I been saying this shit for the last few years. Women make the same error in judgement across different plains. When a woman is "goldigging" or is "impressed" by what she perceives as a man that has money. PEOPLE WITH REAL MONEY DON'T FEEL THE NEED TO BROADCAST IT. I broke NIGGA with some scraps will drive a big ESCALADE on 24# wheels. Because he is trying to portray an image. A nigga with SERIOUS assests and wealth may drive a TOYOTA CAMRY because he does not feel the need to broadcast what he has...

Just as in the search for a good brother. The really good and decent brother is not out trying to broadcast his "decency" you are going to have to really talk and spend time with said man to figure it out.

A good number of women place a great deal of value on their VAGINA. So they protect and guard it.. and ration it out as a meas of control and power over men. They do not work on the other charateristics of personality or social graces.. . because they think they hold the TRUMP CARD of the pussy.

Sorry niggas that have few options are easily controlled by pussy... because they realize that the only way for them to get some, is to PAY A HIGH PRICE FOR IT. Internally the sorry nigga KNOWS that he is sorry and has nothing to offer a woman... and also knows that HE IS NOT DESIRED RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL. Thus, said sorry nigga has to satisfy himself by only being able TO HAVE SEX with women in lieu of realistically being able to sustain anything MORE. And again he is places a HIGH PRICE on just the PUSSY, because that is the best he knows he will be able to achieve.


On the other hand a MAN OF WORTH knows that he has several options and understands that he is the PREFERRED LONG TERM SOLUTION, thus he does not place as much value on ONE PARTICULAR PUSSY OVER THE OTHER. In addition due to the fundamental law of economics SUPPLY and DEMAND. Short supply of QUALITY BLACK MEN vs HIGH DEMAND... understands his personal value.

Women don't know how to deal with MEN OF WORTH because it is a unfamiliar dynamic to them. The women are accustomed to dealing with men who place a higher priority and value her PUSSY than on her long term mate characteristics and potential. These women have not developed their long term mate characteristics or potential... because most of them have never had to...Thus when the MAN OF WORTH comes along these women are not skilled in the areas needed to sustain MAN OF WORTH's interest.

Yet instead of working on their deficits the women RATHER keep dealing with NIGGAS who put on VALUE ON PUSSY, which the women knows that she is proficient in.

This is why you see women passing over good brothers. This is also why you even see women with good jobs/education not understanding how to get along with black men of worth.

excellent point

We need to get people to think more highly of themselves. Reading through the thread it seems the descriptions match people with low self image overcompensating by being arrogant, brash and ultimately ignorant in their assertions. The type of condescension that is counterproductive when seeking a mate or getting along with people. Similar ideology among groups of friends[group think] oft paralyzes individuals within those groups and prevents them from positive individual growth. And we still have to fight the real battle.
 
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GODIVA said:
Are you fucking kidding me....so let's get this straight (Let me see if i have this correctly) Basically Black Men want and like when White Women (Approaches you,Flirts with you and lays the puss on you and who hangs around and lets you be King)...but ya see that doesnt sound like letting you be the king...it acually sounds like Letting you be the Female....You bitch made mother fuckas want a woman to do all the work,give you whatever you want and cater to you 24/7...But meanwhile what are you doing? Geting your pussy hair waxed????


So it seems like the black man wants to play the female role....it seems like you guy's have opted out of playing any Man role and you have just given up on Black Females...because we actually force you guy's to be men. Yes you should be approaching us,flirting with us...and actually stepping to us like men ...but because in 2007 Black men have no Balls they silently want to be females and taking out on dates and catered to like some fucking Female.

What a shame....I say why not go on ahead with the sex change operation and stop frontin like you guy's are men and come on out of the closet.....And them stupid white snowflakes can definitely play themselves by treating you like Kings...even though you don't deserve it because all you guy's are doing is using them.....I say you want to be treated like Kings then earn the fucking respect to be treated like one...The day you guy's do that ...that's when Black Women will treat you like a King!!!!!


And for them haters that will come out and say that the white woman is showing the black man love and treating him like he deserves to be treated...please save that shit.....Then please explain to me why you still treat them like shit and dump all over them even though they are treating you like Kings...It seems to me maybe you guy's just don't know how to treat women in general......


Now i see the problem between the Black Male and Female....The Black male wants the be the female and the Black Female want's to be the female...we have a whole race of females!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

NO...NO.....A THOUSAND TIMES NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Straight black men dont want to be the female, we want to approach a woman with a pleasent disposition, no stanks ass fucking attitude, and here's a novel thing love, happy and not fucking miserable with themselves

It would be nice for sistas to approach us, but when we approach some, not all, its as almost if you place your damn arm in a tank filled with piranahs. Its sistas like you that want to be the Boss, the man, but still be treated as if you have the pussy. I'm not a particular fan of pinky's, but damn, at least some are easy to approach. I have great love for my beatiful black women, but some of you play too many games, run too many test, and come off as fucking angry, stank, unapproachable bitches.

And how in the hell can you force men to be men, when your ass cant act like no damn woman, it seems you want the dick and be treated like a woman to boot. And you're on a black male dominated board, but hate black men, then spread your hate on the net where you cant in real life, because you know it will cause no man in his right mind to even approach you, let alone try and wife you and treat you with respect that women deserves.

Then again, your life probably is already in checkmate and you're in sore loser mode, good luck finding whatever non-black man to deal with you
Checkmate.jpg
 
DiamondDeuce said:
Why is having a man taller than you at the top of your list?
Shouldn't the #1 thing be a man of good solid character?
You emphasizing the wrong thing.....
Plus what does a man's height which is something that he has zero control over be our main priority? :smh:

But then again you probably wonder why you can't find a good man?
smh@ this midget nigga mad cause a bitch dont want him. nigga dont know real women want a fuckin midget little 4'11 ass niggas better step your height game up. :lol: :lol:
 
Laughing Man said:
NO...NO.....A THOUSAND TIMES NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Straight black men dont want to be the female, we want to approach a woman with a pleasent disposition, no stanks ass fucking attitude, and here's a novel thing love, happy and not fucking miserable with themselves

It would be nice for sistas to approach us, but when we approach some, not all, its as almost if you place your damn arm in a tank filled with piranahs. Its sistas like you that want to be the Boss, the man, but still be treated as if you have the pussy. I'm not a particular fan of pinky's, but damn, at least some are easy to approach. I have great love for my beatiful black women, but some of you play too many games, run too many test, and come off as fucking angry, stank, unapproachable bitches.

And how in the hell can you force men to be men, when your ass cant act like no damn woman, it seems you want the dick and be treated like a woman to boot. And you're on a black male dominated board, but hate black men, then spread your hate on the net where you cant in real life, because you know it will cause no man in his right mind to even approach you, let alone try and wife you and treat you with respect that women deserves.

Then again, your life probably is already in checkmate and you're in sore loser mode, good luck finding whatever non-black man to deal with you
Checkmate.jpg

:lol: she won't reply to that. cosign x 1000.

EVERY black man has been thru those tests and shit... man, am i tired of that shit.
 
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