I need me a male jumpoff,fuck that.Why do you men get to have all the fun
The Demise of Dating: Hooking-Up aka Random Smashing is Here to Stay!
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I need me a male jumpoff,fuck that.Why do you men get to have all the fun
and that my friends is the problem , too many females have bullshit mentalities. They don't have the good sense to realize that all the dudes who go around with a bunch of jumpoffs are usually the dudes who don't have their shit together. Instead of emulating productive behavior they emulate crap behavior because it feels good. I don't know you personally so i'm not gonna speak on you but that "if it feels good do it, i wanna have fun too" mentality is the exact reason why so many females end up alone and hurt at 35. They let a couple moments of pleasure cloud their mind and get them unfocused on what they really want out of life, they look up and somebody done posted them on bgol with a dick in their mouth... and after all that they want some good dude come along and save them, sick sad world
What else can people do other than accept it? This woman did not get herself pregnant. And most likely it was another teenager who got her pregnant. So now that she is an adult, she is not supposed to date or marry anyone because she had a child at a young age and out of wedlock? I am sure you have done something in life that you wished you had not, but do you think that makes you an evil person who should be looked at sideways by women?
Yup. Only women use the internet to fuck around. Nevermind the fact that it was on BGOL where more than one guy admitted to using Myspace to find sex buddiesTrue the net allows women to fuck around a lot.
But if you are in the clubs, that makes you a terrible candidate for being a husband using that same logic. The fact that you KNOW that she is there every weekend means that you are also there every weekend--or you are keeping tabs on her whereabouts. What is wrong with going out and having a good time? Unless she is picking up different men from the club and screwing them, I do not see why going to clubs is such a problem...
And this is where male logic failsand that my friends is the problem , too many females have bullshit mentalities. They don't have the good sense to realize that all the dudes who go around with a bunch of jumpoffs are usually the dudes who don't have their shit together. Instead of emulating productive behavior they emulate crap behavior because it feels good. I don't know you personally so i'm not gonna speak on you but that "if it feels good do it, i wanna have fun too" mentality is the exact reason why so many females end up alone and hurt at 35. They let a couple moments of pleasure cloud their mind and get them unfocused on what they really want out of life, they look up and somebody done posted them on bgol with a dick in their mouth... and after all that they want some good dude come along and save them, sick sad world
The person you quoted said "A" jumpoff. You interpreted that to mean a bunch or sleeping around with a bunch of men to mimic a male slut. And you are really naive if you believe that all married women are saints who never did anything you would disapprove of sexually. All of us know whores who got married
When you say "tons of pretty female friends", how many would you estimate that to be? Because when I see "tons" it makes me think that you know countless numbers of pretty bitches. And if you know countless numbers of pretty bitches, then you need to post some pics.
And this is where male logic fails
umm what's your point? Im sure tons of women who were hoeing around got married and are living healthy happy lives. I'm not talking about individuals rather a mindset and way of thinking. A mindset that more than likely will not output happiness in the end.
when dealing with individuals variables happen , if a group of people decide it's a popular thing to go out and crash their cars into a wall at 60 MPH the results will vary. Some folk wont get hurt , some folk will have an insignificant injury that will heal and in the end they will be ok. Fact of the matter is that most of the idiots that do it will die because it's generally not a smart thing to do.
Same thing for young women and sex they have a lot to loose so the attitude of saying "hey why should guys have all the fun" isn't one that should be adopted among such fragile people.
Since you know so much about what male logic is and you want to bring it up i'll go ahead and explore it with you: She said "A" jumpoff but every male knows you don't have one jumpoff. If you only have one then that one jumpoff will become 1 of 2 things: A girlfriend or a fuck buddy. Usually since your fuck buddy is just that a fuck buddy who you have little or no connection to beyond sex eventually you will get tired of them and move on to the next. the numbers add up and b4 you know it A jumpoff has turned into a team of jumpoffs. that's just how the game works when you play it that way...
... anybody can play the game that way but like i said above females have a lot more to loose than males. You don't see no 35 year old dudes on tv or the radio complaining the way you hear 35 year old females. Again you can play the hoe game and win but don't be surprised when it comes up snake eyes. that's all i'm saying no male logic just truth.
You just lost all credibility. Black men in their 30s and 40s are the main ones boohooing about "the state of black women today". That's why you always hear them talking about going to other countries to get married
, dating non-black women, never getting married, quoting fake stats like "70% of black women are single while only 50% of black men are single", etc. Don't assume that I do what you do. Whore yourself out while you can, but no woman desires a man like you. Unlike the image you are trying to paint, women choose which men they want to be with and you stand to lose just as much as the women you sleep around with So let me get this right. You saw a girl you knew back in the day. She is beautiful. She has a nice personality (since you did not say that she has a "stank" attitude). She has a decent job. She is a single mother for the past at least 10 years taking care of her child. And your excuse for not talking to her is "I don't know her that well"?
Seems like YOU need to take it down a notch. Obviously you are not married or in a happy relationship, so you are at these same parties where single women are too. Maybe you are not the great catch you think you are otherwise you would not be kicking it so hard with your boys
The reality is that men of means look at a lot of factors when choosing a mate. If a women has children, especial children at a young age it does reflect on her character. Men of means generally don't want to deal with that. ( i know some men will tolerate it , but it few)
I stop dating when I found out I could get what i want without a date.
Date = SEX. The purpose of a date is to get laid.
I stop dating when I found out I could get what i want without a date.
Date = SEX. The purpose of a date is to get laid.
I was under the assumption that dating could also lead to a decent relationship? I've seen it happen among some of by friends.
Its not all and only about the sex.
If men are in a club, we are looking for delusional women who assume we are looking for wives. Few men go in thinking the mother of their children is behind a cover charge. Women are the delusional ones who get all dressed up, walk around like they the shit in a place men go to defile womnen, then complain about the outcome. We knew the outcome, why for come women do not? Going out and having a good times involves better planning than weave+tight pants+wait for free drinks. There are social spots, and then there are hole-in-the-wall clubs. You know which one you stepped into, and if ya don't...Nah, you're lying if you say you don't.
I'm construction my opinion from her weekend exploits that she post on her facebook page. Also I was at the party because my boy said I could get in on vip. I usually hang around my hood in the local bars chillin with my girl or homies. I prefer buffalo wild wings to catch a game.
What else can people do other than accept it? This woman did not get herself pregnant. And most likely it was another teenager who got her pregnant. So now that she is an adult, she is not supposed to date or marry anyone because she had a child at a young age and out of wedlock? I am sure you have done something in life that you wished you had not, but do you think that makes you an evil person who should be looked at sideways by women?
Yup. Only women use the internet to fuck around. Nevermind the fact that it was on BGOL where more than one guy admitted to using Myspace to find sex buddies
But if you are in the clubs, that makes you a terrible candidate for being a husband using that same logic. The fact that you KNOW that she is there every weekend means that you are also there every weekend--or you are keeping tabs on her whereabouts. What is wrong with going out and having a good time? Unless she is picking up different men from the club and screwing them, I do not see why going to clubs is such a problem...
If men are in a club, we are looking for delusional women who assume we are looking for wives. Few men go in thinking the mother of their children is behind a cover charge. Women are the delusional ones who get all dressed up, walk around like they the shit in a place men go to defile womnen, then complain about the outcome. We knew the outcome, why for come women do not? Going out and having a good times involves better planning than weave+tight pants+wait for free drinks. There are social spots, and then there are hole-in-the-wall clubs. You know which one you stepped into, and if ya don't...Nah, you're lying if you say you don't.
I was under the assumption that dating could also lead to a decent relationship? I've seen it happen among some of by friends.
Its not all and only about the sex.
For most men/women it is.(maybe not you and your friends - people hang around people they are like) Sex is a basic for most relationships. If your not giving it. their getting it from some where else. Men/Women need sex like they need air.
Advise: if you give your partner sex when ever he or she wants. You'll have a long and happy and healthy relationship.:
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You just lost all credibility. Black men in their 30s and 40s are the main ones boohooing about "the state of black women today". That's why you always hear them talking about going to other countries to get married
HUH where did I say anything about my personal sexual behavior. For real can you have a conversation without exposing how much of an idiot you are. I'm talking about people in general not you , me , blunt or anybody specifically and for the record you wish you could have a man like me. god I swear bitches are dumb
for real though how fucking dense can you be ? I had other things to say to you on the subject but it's clear to me that you can't understand nor have the intellectual ability to comprehend even what i'm talking about. I was trying to have a real conversation but as it stands you just wanna insult people so here's to you hoe...
If men are in a club, we are looking for delusional women who assume we are looking for wives. Few men go in thinking the mother of their children is behind a cover charge. Women are the delusional ones who get all dressed up, walk around like they the shit in a place men go to defile womnen, then complain about the outcome. We knew the outcome, why for come women do not? Going out and having a good times involves better planning than weave+tight pants+wait for free drinks. There are social spots, and then there are hole-in-the-wall clubs. You know which one you stepped into, and if ya don't...Nah, you're lying if you say you don't.
best post of the day.
I LIKE YOUR ADVICE!!
Well, most of the men here are not "men of means" and a lot of them had children out of wedlock at a young age... do they also have a character flaw? Everyone has reasons for why they choose who they want, but this idea that women have to put up this whole act and image that comforts the male ego is ridiculous.The reality is that men of means look at a lot of factors when choosing a mate. If a women has children, especial children at a young age it does reflect on her character. Men of means generally don't want to deal with that. ( i know some men will tolerate it , but it few)
I stop dating when I found out I could get what i want without a date.
Date = SEX. The purpose of a date is to get laid.
Maybe YOU are the delusional one thinking that women think men are in the club looking for a wife
If men are in a club, we are looking for delusional women who assume we are looking for wives. Few men go in thinking the mother of their children is behind a cover charge. Women are the delusional ones who get all dressed up, walk around like they the shit in a place men go to defile womnen, then complain about the outcome. We knew the outcome, why for come women do not? Going out and having a good times involves better planning than weave+tight pants+wait for free drinks. There are social spots, and then there are hole-in-the-wall clubs. You know which one you stepped into, and if ya don't...Nah, you're lying if you say you don't.
IT IS A DAMN CLUB! Trust me. Women are in the club for one of two reasons:(a) To simply go out and have a good time, listen to music, party. This is why you will see a bunch of straight women dancing in a circle and refusing to dance with anybody other than the women they came with. But some women actually dance with men, get this, just to dance with men. Not to get a number, not to ever see him again outside of the club.
OR
(b) To look for men to hook up with--and they will let you know right off the bat.
The same way you do not expect to find your wife in a club, we are most definitely not expecting to find husband material in a club. Not saying that good men and women do not go to the club. It's just not the best environment for anything other than a meat market.
One more thing: it is perfectly normal to get dressed up to go out. Unless you wear Tims and jeans everywhere, you should know this.
Awwww... Did I hurt your feelings? I thought since you made a lot of assumptions and generalizations, I would do the same. Did not make sense and did not apply to you, right? Next time think before you type some nonsense like "you wish you could have been a man like me"HUH where did I say anything about my personal sexual behavior. For real can you have a conversation without exposing how much of an idiot you are. I'm talking about people in general not you , me , blunt or anybody specifically and for the record you wish you could have a man like me. god I swear bitches are dumb
for real though how fucking dense can you be ? I had other things to say to you on the subject but it's clear to me that you can't understand nor have the intellectual ability to comprehend even what i'm talking about. I was trying to have a real conversation but as it stands you just wanna insult people so here's to you hoe...
Until then, you do not have to ever address my posts again
^^ Its not that jumpoffs didn't exist but rather jumpoff sex has spread beyond the club scene... to now random sex amongst 'book club' members.
Btw, author is a NY Op-ED columnist:
The Demise of Dating: Hooking-Up aka Random Smashing is Here to Stay!
Awwww... Did I hurt your feelings? I thought since you made a lot of assumptions and generalizations, I would do the same. Did not make sense and did not apply to you, right? Next time think before you type some nonsense like "you wish you could have been a man like me"
no you didn't hurt anything. I just thought you should know a little something b4 u go running your mouth. I could really give a fuck about u and nobody needs to address shit you have to say cause it clearly is the opinion of a dumb bitch. Also just so you know it's ok to make generalizations when you are having conversations about general things, hence the term GENERALIZATION. whatever though i have no further need to demonstrate how faux-smart bitches like yourself continue to make fools of themselves by acting self-righteous as if they know anything about anything other than taking a fat one on the chin, peace
Well, most of the men here are not "men of means" ( Do a search for a thread on this board entitled "Successful Black Men in BGOL ") and a lot of them had children out of wedlock at a young age... do they also have a character flaw? Everyone has reasons for why they choose who they want, but this idea that women have to put up this whole act and image that comforts the male ego is ridiculous.
It's not an act, it's reality.(Smart) Men are cracking down on the B.S.
Maybe YOU are the delusional one thinking that women think men are in the club looking for a wife
(a) To simply go out and have a good time, listen to music, party. This is why you will see a bunch of straight women dancing in a circle and refusing to dance with anybody other than the women they came with. But some women actually dance with men, get this, just to dance with men. Not to get a number, not to ever see him again outside of the club.
That's the biggest bull, I have ever seen someone type. lets be real for a moment- Women go out to public gatherings for attention. They may not want to go through with an interaction, but women love to feel/know guys are looking at them.(women are attention hore's)
All the above reason to go to a club you mentioned - they could have done that at home.
OR
(b) To look for men to hook up with--and they will let you know right off the bat.
I think at this point your subconscious kicked in and decided to tell the truth. ( women may not act on it, sometimes - but keep it real. )
Nah, the problem is too many women show they ain't worth shit early in the game, thus, why take them bitches anywhere? LOL!!! Every real kat has a lil game he runs on a broad to see where to take it next, if she falls for the entry level shit, that shit is a wrap! No nachos for you, hoe! LOL!!!
I'll date a woman, but bitch gets no love. Sadly, too many females act like, look like or hang with bitches, so they get the bitch treatment. Dating hasn't decliined, the quality of women worthy of taking on a date has.
You/we have weak game for worthless bitches, than tight game for women you assume are above board or have some class. If your weak shit works on the above board broad, that bitch is declassified promptly! LOL!!! Think of any weak line you would never use, if it works, don't care what the bitch says, she loses! Game over!
Secondly, I for one don't date bitches i meet at clubs or anywhere i go to get pussy or a buzz. If the bitch was worth something, she wouldn't be posted up where i go for pussy and snacks. Can't claim to be a high dollar bitch when you got low budget plans like me. In short, clubs are where you go to meet hoes not wives. At that point, she's already failed the wifey test.
Lastly, if i can fuck without a dance, buying her a drink (which i never do) or before i know your last name, address or where you even work, yo ass will never get a date.
Weekend pussy at best! Fuck her, than spray her with a can of Bitch-
be-Gone![/B]
If men are in a club, we are looking for delusional women who assume we are looking for wives. Few men go in thinking the mother of their children is behind a cover charge. Women are the delusional ones who get all dressed up, walk around like they the shit in a place men go to defile womnen, then complain about the outcome. We knew the outcome, why for come women do not? Going out and having a good times involves better planning than weave+tight pants+wait for free drinks. There are social spots, and then there are hole-in-the-wall clubs. You know which one you stepped into, and if ya don't...Nah, you're lying if you say you don't.
What else can people do other than accept it? This woman did not get herself pregnant. And most likely it was another teenager who got her pregnant. So now that she is an adult, she is not supposed to date or marry anyone because she had a child at a young age and out of wedlock? I am sure you have done something in life that you wished you had not, but do you think that makes you an evil person who should be looked at sideways by women?
Yup. Only women use the internet to fuck around. Nevermind the fact that it was on BGOL where more than one guy admitted to using Myspace to find sex buddies
But if you are in the clubs, that makes you a terrible candidate for being a husband using that same logic. The fact that you KNOW that she is there every weekend means that you are also there every weekend--or you are keeping tabs on her whereabouts. What is wrong with going out and having a good time? Unless she is picking up different men from the club and screwing them, I do not see why going to clubs is such a problem...
But, the bottom line is that Maury Povich is in business because it is and always will be the woman who pays the biggest consequences for sex.
There was just a study done that I posted that shows that men are the biggest beneficiaries of "random hookups". Mentally and physically, women will never be what men are, because you guys have the babies. You'll be the one looking trying to prove who the babies father is. Women are the ones who are physically more susceptible to every disease there is. It's hard for a man to acquire HIV, Hepatitis, and all those type of diseases compared with women, who because of the way sex works are way, way, way more susceptible to STD's.
You trying to "do what we do" would be the equivalent to a man trying to get pregnant and do what you do. We're not built for that, and you're not built for what men are. It's not right when men do it, but it's just downright stupid when women try to be players.
bump.
You/we have weak game for worthless bitches, than tight game for women you assume are above board or have some class. If your weak shit works on the above board broad, that bitch is declassified promptly! LOL!!! Think of any weak line you would never use, if it works, don't care what the bitch says, she loses! Game over!
Secondly, I for one don't date bitches i meet at clubs or anywhere i go to get pussy or a buzz. If the bitch was worth something, she wouldn't be posted up where i go for pussy and snacks. Can't claim to be a high dollar bitch when you got low budget plans like me. In short, clubs are where you go to meet hoes not wives. At that point, she's already failed the wifey test.
Lastly, if i can fuck without a dance, buying her a drink (which i never do) or before i know your last name, address or where you even work, yo ass will never get a date.
Weekend pussy at best! Fuck her, than spray her with a can of Bitch-
be-Gone![/B]
Dude is like the big brother who always come correct with the knowledge on dealing with these hoes...always spot on.and that my friends is the problem , too many females have bullshit mentalities. They don't have the good sense to realize that all the dudes who go around with a bunch of jumpoffs are usually the dudes who don't have their shit together. Instead of emulating productive behavior they emulate crap behavior because it feels good. I don't know you personally so i'm not gonna speak on you but that "if it feels good do it, i wanna have fun too" mentality is the exact reason why so many females end up alone and hurt at 35. They let a couple moments of pleasure cloud their mind and get them unfocused on what they really want out of life, they look up and somebody done posted them on bgol with a dick in their mouth... and after all that they want some good dude come along and save them, sick sad world
now that the "houston movement" has died, all the vixens & 'models' are trying to reform into "professional" women. Don't nobody want these sluts, a good dude sure as hell don't want the drama.The broads on here are out in full force defending woman foolishness
DAMN
Well, most of the men here are not "men of means" and a lot of them had children out of wedlock at a young age... do they also have a character flaw? Everyone has reasons for why they choose who they want, but this idea that women have to put up this whole act and image that comforts the male ego is ridiculous.
Maybe YOU are the delusional one thinking that women think men are in the club looking for a wife
(a) To simply go out and have a good time, listen to music, party. This is why you will see a bunch of straight women dancing in a circle and refusing to dance with anybody other than the women they came with. But some women actually dance with men, get this, just to dance with men. Not to get a number, not to ever see him again outside of the club.
OR
(b) To look for men to hook up with--and they will let you know right off the bat.
The same way you do not expect to find your wife in a club, we are most definitely not expecting to find husband material in a club. Not saying that good men and women do not go to the club. It's just not the best environment for anything other than a meat market.
One more thing: it is perfectly normal to get dressed up to go out. Unless you wear Tims and jeans everywhere, you should know this.
Awwww... Did I hurt your feelings? I thought since you made a lot of assumptions and generalizations, I would do the same. Did not make sense and did not apply to you, right? Next time think before you type some nonsense like "you wish you could have been a man like me"
Most women dont get dressed up they do their best to dress like straight whores yet act surprised when they get treated like a bitch.
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