Dear Brother,
Allow me to start this letter by saying that there is no one in this world that I respect more than you. I came from a two parent home, watched a black man bust his back to feed five kids and we're now watching another black man bust his back to lead our country. You're a strong breed of man. Almost a super human. You're fast, you're strong, you're loyal. These are all reasons we as women respect you. Sad thing is, recently we don't feel we get that respect back.
What's wrong with us as women that we know longer deserve your respect? Have we not held down the home. Did a black woman not give you life? Don't we stand beside you through the good and bad? Why aren't we allowed to have the good in you? No, this isn't about you dating outside the race. Frankly, that doesn't bother me a bit. I want you to date whoever makes you happy. But why in dating another race must you tear down ours? I'm a chicken head. I'm black. I'm ugly. I'm ghetto. I'm a bitch. I'm too dark. I'm too fat. I'm too loud. Women of other races are dying to get these curves, this hair, this tan. White women live our lifestyle and it's okay, we live our lifestyle and we're trash. What happened to protecting us Brother? Did we go out of style? It used to be cool for us to be intelligent but now we're to be seen and not heard, naked and not dressed, racially ambiguous or not loved. It seems that no matter how much you say you love us, you have an awfully crazy way of showing it.
To my young brothers, why do you take from us when you know how much we're willing to give for you? I don't mean money, I mean yourself. You take yourself from us. You give yourself to the streets and you're leaving us widowed way too young. What happened to wanting to have a career? We still need teachers. We will always need doctors. You're so smart, yet you feel it's cool to be dumb. What do your "boys" give you out there on the streets that my home didn't provide for you? Your mother wouldn't be happy. I'm sure you can tell I'm not happy. What makes you think I want to spend my Sunday morning at the county correctional facility to spend 20 minutes conversing with you behind glass? Where are your boys now, huh? I'm working my hands to the bone to feed a child and everyday it's the same old jail mail "I'll never do it again. I love you. Can you put money on my books?". I wish I could call you and tell you how sick and tired I am of being sick and tired but I can't.....because collect calls are a dollar a minute. Where is your drug money to help us now? Chances are it'll die with you.
To my grown brothers, why is it okay to forget you had kids? Something that was once frowned upon is now the norm. Our sons and daughters need fathers and it seems that most fathers would rather cop an excuse. We don't need you to be an ATM nor do we need sperm donors. We need men to teach our sons how to be men and to love our daughters so that they don't have to search for love elsewhere. It isn't fair to the kids. Sure we may not always get along, I know sometimes I get on your nerves, but you don't have to love me to love them. Let's raise our princes and princesses to be the kings and queens that they are meant to be. Let's save our money to put them in ivy league schools instead of worrying about the new Jordans that are coming out soon. Let's show them more attention. Let's make more strong, black brothers.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry at you. I'm more disappointed. More so hurt than anything. No matter how hurt I may be, I'll always remain loyal to you because I want to see you do well. Through it all, you're still the one I run to, just want to know that you'll be there when I come running.
With Love,
- Eleven8
http://www.balleralert.com/profiles/blogs/dear-brother-an-open-letter-to-the-black-man
Don't even ask me how i came across this shit but i wish i didn't. I can't stand this shit another back women bashing black men. I'm bout to fry her son like Benihana on a friday night
1. Your open up the letter respecting us but then the next 4 paragraph trying hard to point out our faults.
2. You post articles to a site called balleralert where your main GOAL is to find men that have money and milk it from them
3) You openly bash "Ballers" who just got married talking about 'another bites the dust". Shouldn't you actually be congratulating the formation of a union between a black man and women? This point itself contradicts your whole letter. Wait i guess cuz he's a "Baller" he's not the one being addressed in this letter. Hell most of still try to get at dude knowing he's married. SMH!
4) You make some mighty good points about niggas because there are some worthless ones out their yet you fail to realize their are some trifling ass bitches out there mostly the ones that are coming to your site to get an update.
5) Most black men would love to marry/date black women but yall make it hard as shit and most of the time its involves your Stank ass ATTITUDE. You know how many times i just tried to have half a conversation with a black women for them to turn around and act like their doing me a favor by talking to me FUCK-YOU. My ass will go right ahead and talk to the white women standing right next to you who doesn't have an attitude enjoys conversation. Hell the Chick might even offer to buy me a drink (No im not talking about the club but any social setting other than that)
6. Black women don't know how or when to admit their wrong. Don't know when to shut the fuck up and stingy with giving up the head. Why can't I come home from a hard day of work sit my ass on the couch and just get my dick sucked without asking.
6) Chivalry isn't just dead its been murdered and beaten to a plump and your site it the #1 reason. We dont mind doing nice things for yall but yall take it to the extreme. $500-1000 for somebody else's hair you better deal with that shit on your own head and stop worrying about paying for somebody else's. Its 2011 im not buying you hoes a damn thing yall better be PAYING ME for my time and energy to even deal with you ass.
7) You wouldn't know a good nigga if he walked up to you pulled his dick out and slapped you with it. The reason is your fucking site your looking for all the wrong things. If a nigga dont have a bottle in the club wearing some type of diamonds and pulling up in a Bentley you not paying the nigga no attention.
8) Most of yall dont know how to Cook. Niggas dont like going out to the restaurant all the damn time. We want to kick back watch our women cook in some sexy ass lingerie eat some of her good ass food then return the favor.
9) Your fucked up list of what you need a man to have or want before you date them while im sure most are good but you might have to start lowering your standards. Plenty of niggas got good jobs whether they your local garbage man or drive a truck stop looking for the next come up and look at yourself first.
10) Numbers Numbers Numbers dont you know know females out number males like 5-6 to 1 and i bet its even more for the black community. The good niggas is out here but you probably passed them by in high school because they wasn't a jock and or wasn't one of the top 5 popular niggas in school. Now you in your late 20-30 looking for a good man that you most likely already met unfortunately time isn't on your side and your the one to blame. Whose got the power now its sure not yo pussy but my DICK is in supply @ the moment.
My bad fellas i had to get that off my chest. BGOL is my release back to your regularly scheduled program. I will leave you with a gift for your troubles. Shorty bust it wide open too.

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