i think some, but not all, of the people who frequent with SOL and BGOL lack honesty and high self esteem.
i see people, both male and female, get props on physical shit that they know look bogus.
some may really like what they see in the pics, but it obvious that a lot of the males and females compliment pics just so they wont hurt the other persons feelings.
...and thats something im not really feeling.
i know some niggas and females may be suicidal when they find out others dont approve of them....therefore, people gotta sugarcoat their comments.
but a brotha like me wouldnt give a fuck.
it is what it is!
if something didnt look right on me i would want the person to tell me the truth.
its ok if you like hearing compliments....but u still gotta keep an open mind......everybody aint gone like what you got.
accept the shit and move along.
Agreed with all of the above man, I think it is what someone else said before though, compliment what you like, and you don't have to bring it up if you don't like something... It's like real life I talk to the girls I think look good, but I don't go out of my way to shit on someone who I find unattractive.. Honestly what person from BGOL has gone out of their way to tell a woman she was fat or ugly?? I don't like overweight women, are what some liars on BGOL would call thick(but really fat) but to go out of my way to clown them just because I prefer something else is stupid and a waste of time...
Even if there are some people straight gassing up the females heads, let them live and do what they have to do, I'm sure one or two of them might actually be sincere and like what they see, you can go out on the street and see people dating obese people so someone out there likes them, you can't get into another man's mind and frankly you shouldn't care to try to..






Please Dale ... like I said before ... if I wanted to fuck a PUSSY ... I'd be a dyke



OK if you say so...