Sistas Real Talk: How do you feel when you see a brotha with a nonblack chick..

brothas dating non black women

  • hell no

    Votes: 13 15.9%
  • its okay as long as she not white

    Votes: 11 13.4%
  • i odn't give a fuck...okay i do a little

    Votes: 19 23.2%
  • truly don't care

    Votes: 39 47.6%

  • Total voters
    82
it is not irrellevant. its fucking disgusting. you automatically think you are better than other black people just because of your lil business and you brag and talk about your money and business all day and how all these women throw themselves at you and are beneath you. :smh:

i ain't mad at ya neither I am just saying...

first let's clarify something. the women that do "come at me" are beneath me. they're not there for the sake of "me" as an individual. so i wouldn't even mix that lot with you because this is about two different things. a woman right out asks me to be her sugardaddy? yeah ok...she was there for the expressed purpose to get to know me.


and you keep on and on about me bragging. i had to think for a sec but when was the last time i actually said anything about material gain? you brought up material gain first. i said two pages ago that material gain is something not to base one's interest with another off of.

but let's see digging back.....

let's see there was a post i made about young women going after older men. someone asked me about clothes. i showed them some stuff. let me guess you took that as bragging.

oh wait before that i made a post about a new location i had was opening up and anyone that was interested in dropping by i'm reducing/waiving security deposits.....yeah that sounds like bragging over me hooking people up with a deal.

today i listed what i use to look for in a woman, let me guess, when i said she has to make 45k (and that's not asking much since i made x amount of dollars....you took that as bragging.
 
It's funny how this board was to be different than the main board, but just like on the main board a good discussion turns to dissing and attacks. Instead of FUCKYOU and GDFOLKS obsessing and attacking, it's BiGirl. Where are the mods?
 
It's funny how this board was to be different than the main board, but just like on the main board a good discussion turns to dissing and attacks. Instead of FUCKYOU and GDFOLKS obsessing and attacking, it's BiGirl. Where are the mods?

Right here doing our job.:cool:
 
you know damn well he added extra shit in there on top of it
now take your lil side switching devils advocate ass the fuck somewhere else

whoa...whatever's between you and dibiase doesn't involve me.

and i didn't add extra shit you asked where' i've been and i told you.

your the one that made the assumption i stayed at home.
 
he has way less of a chance than even you.
i have an extreme distaste for amerikkkans whos god is money and their egos attitudes and values :puke:

I don't fuck "women", I fuck women.

you know damn well he added extra shit in there on top of it
now take your lil side switching devils advocate ass the fuck somewhere else

How do you know? The list of places I've been is three times as big as his and he's 10-15 years older than me and if I were to post it, you wouldn't believe it/think I was bragging. I'm not being a devil's advocate, I'm calling it like I see it.
 
It's funny how this board was to be different than the main board, but just like on the main board a good discussion turns to dissing and attacks. Instead of FUCKYOU and GDFOLKS obsessing and attacking, it's BiGirl. Where are the mods?

lol

me and fem are mods
 
he has way less of a chance than even you.
i have an extreme distaste for amerikkkans whos god is money and their egos attitudes and values :puke:

bi i don't have any intentions of getting with anyone off of this site.

at the most i've spoken to scorp only because she's local and i wanted to ask her something about folks around cleveland.
 
See you a real wicked lil motherscunt. YOU the one complaining i being too diplomatic then you switch sides. I really fucking hate you.

Obviously they don't have sarcasm in "da ilands". The word "diplomatic" was being used in a sarcastic tone. It was an indicator to a previous conversation that FemmeNoire and I had in regards to conversing with other posters on this forum.

lol y'all need to hug and be friends....it's not that serious....

I don't know why "she's" so hostile. I just think "she" needs love. I love you BiGirl.

hug.jpg
 
i made no assumption. i asked where you have been and you add in all kinda extra school shit and how many times a year and your famous sports friend and whatever. that is underhanded bragging.

bottom line i don't like what you said to that girl and i don't like your sig and what it represents.

i was being very nice about it until people started alluding to the fact i was being too nice.

i am not going to lick your ass just cause you a mod. i will say what the fuck is on my mind just how everyone else does.

what does me having to be a mod have to do with what you say? i thought we were two people having a debate on several topics. I don't delete or threaten people because of what's said. you have me mixed up with some other folks. again, it's not that serious.

and you did ask where i went. i told you and i told you why. your over analyzing what i say, clearly. did you consider it bragging as well because i said i was in NC for school?


and as far as you being "too nice" or "too mean" or whatever, it doesn't phase me. seriously when have we ever even responded to each other before today?

and as far as the sig goes, to each his own.
 
Last edited:
now as far as femm goes

femm has problems with things i "use" to say a looong time ago, i'm talking in the late 90's. anything i say now just reminds her of that.
 
never and i had no problem with you until you said that 5 levels above shit and i had to say something. we have a new problem now though as you complained agianst me for "harassing" you :hmm: :smh: :angry:


harassing me?

i never said nor reported such a thing. think for a sec. i'm a mod why would i report harrassment?
 
reading the reported posts emails....

i didn't report you for harassment bigirl

you and dibiase reported each other.

don't take my word confirm it with femm.....
 
now as far as femm goes

femm has problems with things i "use" to say a looong time ago, i'm talking in the late 90's. anything i say now just reminds her of that.

I don't even remember what you said in the 90's. :smh:
 
Whoa. The mood really changed in this thread. Come on yall let's keep it mature & civiliazed and RESPECTFUL

i thought i've been civilized with it the whole time......

i thought debating a discussion would be more "refreshing" over here. an entirely completely different view. not the first time i've been wrong and not the last....
 
I used to be very bothered by it when I was younger.

But now I just see it as though it's probably a brother I don't want to be messing with anyway.

Plus generally when I find out a guy has dated or has no problem dating white women, I'm turned off.

^^^Do you apply the same distinction when black women date white men? :confused:
 
Da Don, I got ya back on this. I'm now about 5 levels above most of the females that are attacking you right now. Is it me or does Bigirl seem like she has a case of penis envy? I'm not trying to have personal attacks, just personal observation. Maybe the women in this thread should read the 48 Laws of power and realize that people who are successful don't associate with others who aren't because they bring them down. That is one reason why I date who I date. Most black women who I run into think that being successful is to work for themselves by opening up a hair or nail salon. They are thinking to small and can't see themselves out of their comfort zone. The type of women that I date are the ones who can handle business in the boardroom as well as the bedroom.
 
reading the reported posts emails....

i didn't report you for harassment bigirl

you and dibiase reported each other.

don't take my word confirm it with femm.....

Ok, what type of FUCKERY is this? I thought reports were anonymous?? Not that's I'm scared or anything to admit that I complained that she was harassing DaDon, but why publicize that??
 
^^^Do you apply the same distinction when black women date white men? :confused:

Not exactly the same distinction. I feel that women who date white men are like black men who want to experiment with something new or have some self-hatred issues.


And for the record, Da Don...it is your recent posts in this past year that I have a problem with.
 
so how come people just can't like who they like for common interests/etc.???

it's always an extreme. they're self hating or they can't handle this, etc. etc.....
 
Ok, what type of FUCKERY is this? I thought reports were anonymous?? Not that's I'm scared or anything to admit that I complained that she was harassing DaDon, but why publicize that??

well then you better leave me the fuck alone on all the boards cause i sure as hell will be reporting you for harassment on any shit you say to me. put me on ignore and
LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE ALREADY
 
i thought i've been civilized with it the whole time......

i thought debating a discussion would be more "refreshing" over here. an entirely completely different view. not the first time i've been wrong and not the last....

You have been and I commend you. I thought the language that was used towards you to be unwarranted.
 
so how come people just can't like who they like for common interests/etc.???

it's always an extreme. they're self hating or they can't handle this, etc. etc.....

Let be real here, what could you really have in common with someone who isnt in tune with what it means to be whatever???... I cant relate to a dog because Im not one, so how can I relate to a white chick and her to me??? Black-Latin I dont mind so much, but black folks and white folks are from two different worlds, even the one we grew up with.
 
Not exactly the same distinction. I feel that women who date white men are like black men who want to experiment with something new or have some self-hatred issues.


And for the record, Da Don...it is your recent posts in this past year that I have a problem with.

please...elaborate.




regarding who dates who...

women usually respond with those same two or similar answers..experimentation or self hatred. i can't believe the majority of women everywhere feel it is for those two reasons and those two reasons only.

y'all gotta 'scuse me i to make a quick run....
 
please...elaborate.




regarding who dates who...

women usually respond with those same two or similar answers..experimentation or self hatred. i can't believe the majority of women everywhere feel it is for those two reasons and those two reasons only.

y'all gotta 'scuse me i to make a quick run....

From my experience I wanted to see what it was like. I was in my early 20's. After that I realized, it wasn't at all what I wanted.

However, I know several females that can't stand the black in them and want to "whitewash" themselves and "whitewash" their seeds.

I know alot of Black men that feel the same way.
 
Let be real here, what could you really have in common with someone who isnt in tune with what it means to be whatever???... I cant relate to a dog because Im not one, so how can I relate to a white chick and her to me??? Black-Latin I dont mind so much, but black folks and white folks are from two different worlds, even the one we grew up with.

last one i can respond to and then i have to respond back in about 3o minutes....


what could anyone have in common with someone that's not the same hue of skin?

the only thing you can't have in common is maybe history and customs...to a point.

i'm not about to sit here and convince people why to date /marry interracially. not my job. on top of that my reasons are not the ones most would think. i don't hate black women in the least. i don't hate anyone. too much going on to stop and just hate another.


gotta go brb....hungry...
 
so, to you those that are around you are acceptable to some point. you all are on the same playing field, you just have a better advantage.

now when i say this do not take offense. but to me, your still on the same parking floor with them while i'm maybe 5 floors up. from my past experience we would have nothing in common, say sex if there was a physical attraction there. we would not find a common ground as far as conversation, music, interests, etc.

if i asked you about investments, business startups, t-bills, interest on accounts, a jdm oem turbo, the culture of gran canaria or the artwork of ernie barnes, would you be able to respond?

more then likely not. but my wife can. not because she's the better person, again, but it's because we have the same interests/likes, etc.

same as i wouldn't be able to tell you what's the newest "drank", what weed is the strongest, who's the best rapper or what the newest dance is and who's up in the club.

basically i'm just saying it's not about a race thing. it's a what level are you on thing. and unfortunately there are not many black women on that level. same as a guy from the projects more then likely wouldnt be dating halle berry, and elise neal wouldn't be dating a janitor.

You sound really arrogant so I guess you definitely did marry into the appropriate ethnicity.

None of the points you mentioned has any real merit and is more indicative of the fact that you have a low opinion of people who may not be as "succesful" as yourself.

It's attitudes like this that really get on my last nerve regardless of who the perpetrator is or what ethnicity they represent.

Any person of African descent who cannot find happiness or a sense of comonality in their own kind is sorely lacking in the self esteem department.

Does it bother me when I see a sister with a white man?

For the most part, yes. (Especially if she's one of those bitches who likes to belittle black men like it's going out of fashion)

But I feel exactly the same way about black men who feel that they're better than anyone else just because they just happen to be married to a woman who isn't black.

Nothing beats black-on-black love.

But to each their own I suppose.
 
Back
Top