SCHOOLING BGOL NIGGAS: FEMALE advise about HOW to get QUALITY PUSSY!!!
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Hilarious. You should not talk to kids lurking on porn boards. Stick to posting with the adults
No offense meant to you. Was wondering about a few of the comments posted and asked. That's it. Don't know anything about all the rest. LOL I tend to try and just take people as they come.
Oh no. Not the turd again LOL. Yes it does make sense. If I just want to call a guy up for some penis and nothing else, that is one thing. If I want to see a man outside of the bedroom *LOL* then I want to spend time and find out where he's at. I guess it's not "holding out" per se, but it is not jumping into the sack right away since I am not only interested in him for sexYour logic is funny
Get it?
Well to be honest, I was not feeling the grammar and the N word in the original post, so I just asked my own question and I've been rolling with thatI am feeling real Fantasia like and not feeling like reading all of the posts...Someone give me the short version of what is going on?
**sidebar: Tasia's teeth are looking good!!**
But "Good Men" want sex also. I know you not trying to hold out but why the "Good Man" got to wait for the goods?Oh no. Not the turd again LOL. Yes it does make sense. If I just want to call a guy up for some penis and nothing else, that is one thing. If I want to see a man outside of the bedroom *LOL* then I want to spend time and find out where he's at. I guess it's not "holding out" per se, but it is not jumping into the sack right away since I am not only interested in him for sex
Because the good man is not being used only for the goods LOL. He is needed for other things too so that might not be the first thing that happens.
Let me give you an example:
Let's say I meet this gorgeous guy. Very handsome, with the cutest glasses
Physically I am very attracted to him, right? He has a great personality and we have great conversations. Well, although I am attracted to him physically I am also attracted to his personality. So we will be dating and going out and spending quality time together. At some point it will get physical and we will have sex, but it's not the first thing on my mind.Now say I am not seeing anybody or I have only been dating this tall, handsome, spectacled man for a short time. When I get that itch, there is the guy I can call up when I need a little something. This guy has been around for some time and I know him well--but he is not someone I would ever date or be in a relationship with. He is there strictly for penis duty and we have an understanding.
**I hope this makes my point clearer to you. If I was a man looking for a relationship, I would not want a woman to jump into bed with me right away. I would think that she did that with every guy she 'dates'**
Your too kind!
Thank you, thank you!
Glad to hear it.
with the cutest glasses
DA FUCK!! OH HELL NAW!!! I DON'T WEAR GLASSES!!! WHERE'S THIS FOUR EYED FUCK AT!!
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Ok... Clear this up for me if you may.
So the "good guy", the one that you like, want to get to know, want to USEDfor things other than sex, gets rewarded by going a couple of rounds in the "waiting game."
While the other guy ,for the sake of using opposites, the "bad guy" , the guy you see no future in further than his penis, gets rewarded by going a couple of rounds in your bedroom.
Men, good and bad, useful and useless, complex and simple, want sex.
And you reward the bad, useless, simple man (If he was good, complex and above all USEful you would be trying to date him...right?) with sex when every the itch arise.
Men are observant by nature.
And apparantly, using your logic, it doesn't pay to be anymore than a dick to a women. And ya'll wonder why good men are hard to find.
Please explain...
*Sets down two cents, goes back to lurking*
So the "good guy", the one that you like, want to get to know, want to USEDfor things other than sex, gets rewarded by going a couple of rounds in the "waiting game."
While the other guy ,for the sake of using opposites, the "bad guy" , the guy you see no future in further than his penis, gets rewarded by going a couple of rounds in your bedroom.
Men, good and bad, useful and useless, complex and simple, want sex.
And you reward the bad, useless, simple man (If he was good, complex and above all USEful you would be trying to date him...right?) with sex when every the itch arise.
Men are observant by nature.
And apparantly, using your logic, it doesn't pay to be anymore than a dick to a women. And ya'll wonder why good men are hard to find.
Please explain...
*Sets down two cents, goes back to lurking*
YOU JUST SHUT THIS WHOLE THREAD DOWN, IMO.
The only thing I take away from some of these (female) responses is....
- Their reward for the *good guy*...
- is to be stuck into the *friend zone* for an undetermined length of time....
- just hoping that she is truly *worth the wait*.
- But the *one-hitter-quitters*....
- are allowed to break-out the *baby oil* after midnight...
- then roll-over & *be ghost* like unused *mobile minutes*.
Because they had 'the talk' / an agreement.
And somehow there is some kinda logic to it all.
Not judging.
Just saying.So this is how terms like...
'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'
get started, huh?
(btw, I'm not calling anyone a cow
so don't trip or take offense ladies, it's just a figure of speech)
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Your too kind!
Thank you, thank you!
Glad to hear it.
DA FUCK!! OH HELL NAW!!! I DON'T WEAR GLASSES!!! WHERE'S THIS FOUR EYED FUCK AT!!
Shane you're stupid you know that right?
YOU JUST SHUT THIS WHOLE THREAD DOWN, IMO.
The only thing I take away from some of these (female) responses is....
- Their reward for the *good guy*...
- is to be stuck into the *friend zone* for an undetermined length of time....
- just hoping that she is truly *worth the wait*.
- But the *one-hitter-quitters*....
- are allowed to break-out the *baby oil* after midnight...
- then roll-over & *be ghost* like unused *mobile minutes*.
Because they had 'the talk' / an agreement.
And somehow there is some kinda logic to it all.
Not judging.
So this is how terms like...
'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'
get started, huh?
(btw, I'm not calling anyone a cow
yeah ummm i gotta admit, i'm not in agreement with the logic in this thread either lol
but yeah you summed it up
Your problem is that you are seeing sex as the reward or the prize--which it is not. At least it is not the reward if you are looking for a wife. As soon as you stop chasing pussy, you will get it. I can't make myself any clearer than I did. The "good" and "bad" terminology came from the person who I quoted, not from me. I do not have any "bad" guys in my life.
Stop chasing pussy and stop seeing it as the reward, then you won't be worried about cows and milk.YOU JUST SHUT THIS WHOLE THREAD DOWN, IMO.
The only thing I take away from some of these (female) responses is....
- Their reward for the *good guy*...
- is to be stuck into the *friend zone* for an undetermined length of time....
- just hoping that she is truly *worth the wait*.
- But the *one-hitter-quitters*....
- are allowed to break-out the *baby oil* after midnight...
- then roll-over & *be ghost* like unused *mobile minutes*.
Because they had 'the talk' / an agreement.
And somehow there is some kinda logic to it all.
Not judging.
So this is how terms like...
'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?'
get started, huh?
(btw, I'm not calling anyone a cow
Umm.. correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you the one who just admitted in this thread that she just has sex with guys she wouldn't even consider dating?
But guys that you REALLY like, have an even smaller chance of having sex with you.
So for them, it's like rolling the dice. Regardless of the length of time of the waiting period.
With you, Sex is never a reward.
The *pleasure of your company* is the reward, right?
So doesn't that mean that you use sexuality to your advantage...
to get exactly what YOU want out of a relationship?
Like companionship, among other things.
But the men in your life should never look at it that way, huh?
It's never about rewards, or prizes, or milk, it's only about companionship, love and commitment.
There's no so-called bad guys in your life.
Only guys who definitely get sex...
and guys who might get sex.
But it should never be considered a reward.
Under no circumstances.
Ok, I get it.
I was confused for a sec, but you cleared it all up.
Thanks.
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Nope. You're wrong. Go back and read what I typed, then try again. O.K.?Umm.. correct me if I'm wrong but aren't you the one who just admitted in this thread that she just has sex with guys she wouldn't even consider dating?
But guys that you REALLY like, have an even smaller chance of having sex with you.
So for them, it's like rolling the dice. Regardless of the length of time of the waiting period.
With you, Sex is never a reward.
The *pleasure of your company* is the reward, right?
So doesn't that mean that you use sexuality to your advantage...
to get exactly what YOU want out of a relationship?
Like companionship, among other things.
But the men in your life should never look at it that way, huh?
It's never about rewards, or prizes, or milk, it's only about companionship, love and commitment.
There's no so-called bad guys in your life.
Only guys who definitely get sex...
and guys who might get sex.
But it should never be considered a reward.
Under no circumstances.
Ok, I get it.
I was confused for a sec, but you cleared it all up.
Thanks.
followup said:
Get it? If you don't get it now, you never will...
Ok... I think I understand. Stop seeing pussy as a reward and stop chasing it. Got it.
Questions however...
Since pussy should not be a reward then why do women hold out on a man they like and give it to a man they just tolerate? Why is gauntlet free pussy the prize for the man you really don't see a future with? And if you don't see a future with this person why are you letting him INSIDE YOU? And if you would just let someone you know you have no future with run up in it strings free, what does that say about how you value yourself? And if you value yourself on a level that a man with no future in your eye can get the ass why would a man you value have to wait? Why not just give him some ass, you like him and the guy you don't like is getting it right?
And inspite of that, what are you bringing to the table to compensate for having him have to wait?
Pussy may not be an reward but it damn sure seems like a prize awarded to men with no "future".
Explanation please.
*sets down 2 cents and goes back to lurking*
Questions however...
Since pussy should not be a reward then why do women hold out on a man they like and give it to a man they just tolerate? Why is gauntlet free pussy the prize for the man you really don't see a future with? And if you don't see a future with this person why are you letting him INSIDE YOU? And if you would just let someone you know you have no future with run up in it strings free, what does that say about how you value yourself? And if you value yourself on a level that a man with no future in your eye can get the ass why would a man you value have to wait? Why not just give him some ass, you like him and the guy you don't like is getting it right?
And inspite of that, what are you bringing to the table to compensate for having him have to wait?
Pussy may not be an reward but it damn sure seems like a prize awarded to men with no "future".
Explanation please.
*sets down 2 cents and goes back to lurking*
hmmm there goes that prize thing again
Thanks jucurious, because I definitely am not going to repeat myself again *SMH* I guess it depends on what a man is looking for...
Actually, i read this whole thread. (a few times)
And frankly, I doubt I'm wrong, I just have a different opinion at the moment.
And your suggestion to 'stop chasing', or go back & re-read stuff... doesn't invalidate my point of view, either.
Because someone else could just as easily read this whole thread and come to the conclusion that 'you're in denial' about the games you play... with guys you might REALLY like.
Meanwhile, it seems you are VERY straightforward & honest with 'trifling types' who only satisfy your physical urges.
(Especially since pogobor99 been popping in and out of *lurk mode*, while asking similar questions, but in a different manner
)Maybe I could say your 'trifling types' are rewarded with honesty. (not sex)
While your 'decent types' don't know what to expect. (Since they have to wait... to find out if you are even feeling them passionately enough to be upfront with them about sex. Get it?)
But that might be considered 'jumping to a conclusion'. *shrugs*
So for the sake of discussion....
If sex is not a 'reward' for a caring guy who puts his ALL into you...
Better yet, let's say you (as a person) are a GIFT.
And sex is just one part of the package.
Then why are the guys who are TRULY undeserving....
allowed to unwrap the same 'parts of your present' so early?
(and possibly so often? depending on how many times you actually hook-up)
Is there a different gift inside for the trifling types? with no batteries? or missing pieces? or no love attached?
Now to me, that would make a good explanation.
They just not getting the same gift that the dudes who WAIT receive.
Now I might buy that (keyword: might) if your jump-offs never get the 'premium' goods.
Nah, they just get that ol' lazy, shiftless, mohave desert-type sex.
Never the 'top-shelf', make-your-toes-curl, sloppy endings... which is only reserved for the decent dudes.
Jump-offs are considered jump-offs for a reason. Sheeiit.
[SIDENOTE] Now if these 2 types of men don't receive the same gift, reward, person, sex or whatever term you like... then why do most people/women get so emotionally hurt over infidelity? [/SIDENOTE]
Cuz to me, everything else you said makes it just seem like you tend to run GAME...
especially on dudes who might have their shit together....
and may genuinely be interested in you... for the long-term.
But just want the same 'sex-privileges' as them trifling dudes.
Correction.. not trifling dudes... just 'un-date-able' dudes.
Sorry my bad, I still got it all twisted, huh.
Just depends on perspective, I guess.
But since we don't see eye-to-eye... I'll leave it at that.
See this response is one that is appreciated.
Straight and to the point.
Respect.
Personally, I just think some of Followup's posts (in this thread) which seems to be supported by *faulty logic* are the ones that make some guys (like me) shake their heads in disbelief.
But that's just me.
Hey, to each their own.
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Does it matter though? Rudey, what do you think about women having a sex buddy?
Is the issue with accepting the fact that women do this or is it that we won't necessarily jump right into bed with a new guy we're dating? Does it make a difference if the sex buddy is a good friend of the woman's or at least she has known him for a while? If the woman and the new guy are going to have sex eventually, what is the big deal with getting to know him first? (I am not saying what I do or do not do in my private life, these are just hypotheticals. @ shane: I have never dated a tall, handsome, spectacled man in my life LOL. I was just saying IF I happened to meet this type of person)
Does it matter though? Rudey, what do you think about women having a sex buddy?Is the issue with accepting the fact that women do this or is it that we won't necessarily jump right into bed with a new guy we're dating? Does it make a difference if the sex buddy is a good friend of the woman's or at least she has known him for a while? If the woman and the new guy are going to have sex eventually, what is the big deal with getting to know him first? (I am not saying what I do or do not do in my private life, these are just hypotheticals. @ shane: I have never dated a tall, handsome, spectacled man in my life LOL. I was just saying IF I happened to meet this type of person)
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Of course it does,the minute somebody say "I am a woman" on BGOL, confirmation is needed.
BGOL rule not mine.
btw urban cycle presentation just appear to be mannish.
Great! without women having sex buddy how much of a player would men be.
You know every men on here have ran through 1000 women in their lifetime.
Is the issue with accepting the fact that women do this or is it that we won't necessarily jump right into bed with a new guy we're dating? Does it make a difference if the sex buddy is a good friend of the woman's or at least she has known him for a while? If the woman and the new guy are going to have sex eventually, what is the big deal with getting to know him first? (I am not saying what I do or do not do in my private life, these are just hypotheticals. @ shane: I have never dated a tall, handsome, spectacled man in my life LOL. I was just saying IF I happened to meet this type of person)
To be honest nothing is wrong with a woman wanting to wait to have sex with a new guy,as long as I'm fucking some other chick/chicks while I wait.
What you are witnessing in this thread is the logic of hoes. Some women are in denial of who they really are. They still want to believe that they are that precious innocent girl their mother or father told them they were. A good man to a hoe is a problem because he does not operate like the typical dude she is use to dealing with. Hoes suppress their feelings through sex and inferior men because they need to feel a since of control. Since they are not giving their heart out they keep complete control.
When a good man comes along. These women try to be that innocent girl that their mother and father preached to them when they were little. When she was a little girl she was told that to get a good man you have to make him wait. Now the facade and fake persona is put in place. We all know the line..."the reason I am not having sex is because I am waiting for someone special. I don't want to give it to just anyone. I want only my man to receive it" Now mind you she just gave it to a clown ass brotha about a week ago. What these women don't realize is that it does not take long to see through their facade and fake persona.
The reality is that hoes want romance, love, gifts, and to be cared for but they don't know how to go about attaining those things. The only things these women know is how to suck and ride a dick. How can she give love or even know what it is if she has never experienced it herself? These women have suppressed their feelings so long until when they begin to feel them they don't trust them. This leads to making the good man jumping through hoops.
When a good man comes along. These women try to be that innocent girl that their mother and father preached to them when they were little. When she was a little girl she was told that to get a good man you have to make him wait. Now the facade and fake persona is put in place. We all know the line..."the reason I am not having sex is because I am waiting for someone special. I don't want to give it to just anyone. I want only my man to receive it" Now mind you she just gave it to a clown ass brotha about a week ago. What these women don't realize is that it does not take long to see through their facade and fake persona.
The reality is that hoes want romance, love, gifts, and to be cared for but they don't know how to go about attaining those things. The only things these women know is how to suck and ride a dick. How can she give love or even know what it is if she has never experienced it herself? These women have suppressed their feelings so long until when they begin to feel them they don't trust them. This leads to making the good man jumping through hoops.
LOL! Turd don't be a punk. NAME NAMES!!!!! Say exactly who uses that line: "the reason I am not having sex is because I am waiting for someone special. I don't want to give it to just anyone. I want only my man to receive it". Are you still in your teens? Stop dealing with materialistic "hoes" and you might stop venting your frustrations on SOL.
Say exactly who uses that line: "the reason I am not having sex is because I am waiting for someone special. I don't want to give it to just anyone. I want only my man to receive it". Are you still in your teens? Stop dealing with materialistic "hoes" and you might stop venting your frustrations on SOL.
LOL!! I swear I do not know where these characters come from. Calling someone a hoe on the internet to get a rise... but only making himself
^^Funny^^
But do guys really seeing paying for dates as paying for pussy? I never saw it that way and I never imagined that men did. Is that why you all complain so much about paying for dates? What if a woman paid for dates with you all? Would you be alright with that?
But do guys really seeing paying for dates as paying for pussy?
I never saw it that way and I never imagined that men did. Is that why you all complain so much about paying for dates? What if a woman paid for dates with you all? Would you be alright with that?