- cliche behavior (like celebrating holidays, putting rims on your vehicle, jock grabbing, etc., saying "hey ma, mama" or "what's good", etc.)
not singling you out but i have to ask, do you:
have a common greeting for your friends "hey girl", etc.
have an expensive accessory (prada, gucci, dooney burke purse, expensive shoes)
put on a "definitive walk" when you see a male you like.