Physical Turn Offs

[DarkOne]

HI ladies and Gents

What is the one thing that would turn you off when you first meet or see somebody of the opposite sex. it could be anything (bad teeth , small package, smelly feet, etc..)

i will name mine later , i want you guyz to have a go first.

 

[Iron]

HI ladies and Gents

What is the one thing that would turn you off when you first meet or see somebody of the opposite sex. it could be anything (bad teeth , small package, smelly feet, etc..)

i will name mine later , i want you guyz to have a go first.

Smoking tobacco, Foul language, laziness, hair not done, dirty nails, fucked up shoes(pet peeve I stay with fresh kicks on) fucked up attitude, dirty clothes. And the number one thing on my list: Scent. I love women who smell good. When i was in school I used to steal a piece of my friends clothing ( sweater, jacket,or hoodie) and would keep it the whole day.

 

[femmenoire]

• Bad breath
• fucked up teeth
• bad skin (razor bumps or that bumpage on the back of their head)
• too much body hair
• peezy haired balls
• longer fingernails or worse a long pinky nail
• dirty fingernails
• chapped lips
• ashy skin especially an ashy dick and ashy feet

The following aren't physical turnoffs but they turn me off physically:

• any indication that you don't see a doctor regularly
• cliche behavior (like celebrating holidays, putting rims on your vehicle, jock grabbing, etc., saying "hey ma, mama" or "what's good", etc.)
• lack of drive (if i can work 2 full time jobs to achieve my goals and/or if the need is there, why can't you?)
• men who have kids but don't keep pictures of them in their wallet or around the house or who jump to say "but they don't live with me"
• men who don't own dress shoes or a suit
• smokers

 

[mcguyver]

• cliche behavior (like celebrating holidays, putting rims on your vehicle, jock grabbing, etc., saying "hey ma, mama" or "what's good", etc.)

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  Whats wrong with holidays? Even valentine's day? cause I'm with you on getting rid of that one.

 

[femmenoire]

Whats wrong with holidays? Even valentine's day? cause I'm with you on getting rid of that one.

I'm the kind of person that doesn't need a day to show the person I love that I love them. And on Valentine's day I send everyone, including my friends and family a card saying how much I love them. But as for gifts, that's not what it's about for me.

 

[Izayoi]

• peezy haired balls
• ashy skin especially an ashy dick and ashy feet

Peezy ball hair- I have never seen that! Now I have been witness to ball ash on occasion. Feet The only cute feet are baby feet.

My main turn off is basically excess abdominal what my mom refers to as apron fat type guts. I like a man that values his health. If you are walking around looking pregnant, that scares me. You don't have to be buff or have a six pack, but look like you are committed to eating moderately and exercising. Plus I'm little and I don't want a big man crushing me like a crash test dummy every time I get the dick down.

Teeth- a pretty smile makes a face

Big Santa Clause Beards or Bin Laden style facial hair

Too much cologne

Wearing bad 80's classic all white sneakers with 3 inches of white heel looking like a pair of nursing shoes (why do they still sell those?) Otherwise I'm not particular about the way a man dresses as long as it's his style and he looks good. Just have a style!


Non physical things:

No sense of humor/boring

Does not read (not because he can't. a ninja just won't)

Can't respect my spiritual beliefs

Low libido ugh!

Complains about everything

 

[mcguyver]

Big stomachs

24/7 365 weaves

Shaven and drawn on

Hughe feet

Women that. Thinks exercise is a burden.

Burping loud

Farting

 

[Izayoi]

24/7 365 weaves

Is that a special weave category like 360 waves for men?

 

[KINGFROMQUEENS]

SMOKING
NAILS NOT DONE
HAIR ON LEGS
NO HAIR ON HEAD
BAD TEETH
VERY SMALL BREAST

 

[DarkCity]

Being un-kept( Nails, hair, clothes)

Excessive sneaker wearing

Hair that is died a lighter color than their natural; same for contacts

Weaves

When I can tell you are wearing make-up

Body spray (like the Vicky Secret & Bath and Body stuff; I'd prefer perfume on a grown woman)

Overly sticky lip lacquer, i mean lip gloss

Not wearing clothes appropriate to your body type.

No need to even mention out of shape females

 

[Imhotep]

Any of you poster in a real (mono)relationship

 

[yureeka9]

Let's see:
-Weaves
-Too much make up
-Too much perfume
-Drinking
-Smoking
-Cursing
-Drugs
-Guady jewelry
-Fake nails
-Colored contacts

 

[Jam_Jam]

Bad breath - discolored teeth - smoking

Dirty and/or grungy looking

Outdated clothes - shoes

Gheri curls/perms/relaxers on a man

Grills - fake or real

Greasy hair/greasy neck

Too much cologne

Filthy fingernails

Too much jewelry

Big gut

An ass that looks like its been beaten with a hammer / cottage cheese

Too skinny with no muscle tone

 

[harlem1nyc]

All that shit!!

 

[SinaminDelite]

• Discolored teeth
• heavy smoking
• unkempt appearance all the time
• "Grills"
• long pinky nail
• dirty fingernails
• too much jewelery
• too much cologne
• bad personal hygiene
• the inability to dress appropriately (sneakers cannot be worn everywhere!)

Nonphysical turn offs are the aversion to work out (or do some kind of physical activity), plain laziness, and no kind of intellect or conversational skills.

 

[SWATLANTA]

-hair bumps around the cooter
-noassatall
-bad teeth
-bad breath
-too much weave and/or makeup

 

[superman2004]

- bad breath
- fat bishes
- ugly bishes
- fucked up feet top and bottom
- fucked up hygeine ( Take a fuckin bath and wash that cooch and ass)
- jacked up teeth
- toe or finger nail polish peeling off (fix that shit)

 

[LennyNero1972]

Very interesting post.

 

[lilsexii]

Gold Teeth

 

[FIVEFIVE]

• Bad breath
• fucked up teeth
• bad skin (razor bumps or that bumpage on the back of their head)
• too much body hair
• peezy haired balls
• longer fingernails or worse a long pinky nail
• dirty fingernails
• chapped lips
• ashy skin especially an ashy dick and ashy feet

The following aren't physical turnoffs but they turn me off physically:

• any indication that you don't see a doctor regularly
• cliche behavior (like celebrating holidays, putting rims on your vehicle, jock grabbing, etc., saying "hey ma, mama" or "what's good", etc.)
• lack of drive (if i can work 2 full time jobs to achieve my goals and/or if the need is there, why can't you?)
• men who have kids but don't keep pictures of them in their wallet or around the house or who jump to say "but they don't live with me"
• men who don't own dress shoes or a suit
• smokers

I aint mad at'cha.

FOR ME:
1. No ass
2. Body Hair
3. Bad Teeth
4. Obesity (I like thickness, well proportioned)


Non Phys.
1. Dumbass-tivity
2. Cup Hands (Beg-a licious)
3. Lazyness
4. Dirty House
5. Kids in background of our phone convo screaming and tearing shit up
6. Interrupting phone convo every 5 seconds to calm down said kid.
7. Kid is awake during Booty call hours.
8. Low sex Drive
9. Refusal to give oral.
10. Argumentativeness
11. Anti-social/Lack od Communication skills/Shyness.

Prolly leaving shit out but thats enuff.

 

[Rudey]

HI ladies and Gents

What is the one thing that would turn you off when you first meet or see somebody of the opposite sex.

Broke women.

 

[femmenoire]

I aint mad at'cha.

FOR ME:
1. No ass
2. Body Hair
3. Bad Teeth
4. Obesity (I like thickness, well proportioned)


Non Phys.
1. Dumbass-tivity
2. Cup Hands (Beg-a licious)
3. Lazyness
4. Dirty House
5. Kids in background of our phone convo screaming and tearing shit up
6. Interrupting phone convo every 5 seconds to calm down said kid.
7. Kid is awake during Booty call hours.
8. Low sex Drive
9. Refusal to give oral.
10. Argumentativeness
11. Anti-social/Lack od Communication skills/Shyness.

Prolly leaving shit out but thats enuff.

HAHAHHAA. You said cup hands. I like that.

And you know what. I don't like men who lack social skills. I used to date a guy who put ketchup on everything and couldn't eat with a fork.

My best friend complained about a man who suggested they meet at an ethiopian restaurant and complained they didn't have hot wings on the menu.

That stuff turns me off for real.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

I hate, HATE, HATE bad teeth, or even you have nice teeth, but they are yellowed.. invest in a whitening treatment...

Timidness.. i like confident men, men who know who they are, not finding themselves, but yet you still have to know when to compromise and realize that being you won't help the situation.

Laziness... nuff said

dirty nails

cigarette smoking

Overly hood dudes- gotta get that paper... so unattractive

hhhmmm... no personality.. ok, i'm not the most interesting person, but I'm definitely unlike anyone you've met before. I appreciate your ability to make me laugh, make me think, anything. I don't want conversations to be a recital of what you did today.

Probably more, but idk...

 

[thoughtone]

Women that gratuitously draw attention to themselves (if your pretty, you don’t have to try hard)

Overweight women that wear clothes that are too tight (this slut image has lasted too long, lets bring back understated elegance)

Women that let themselves go physically (pay as much attention to your body as you do the hair, the fingernails the clothes…)

Arrogance (there is a difference between confidence and arrogance and they can be distinguished)

Women that don’t have any outside interests (a hobby, sports, love of art… are all big turn ons and they are great for bonding)

Judgmental women (some people think their shit don’t stink, they must like living alone)

Fake hair (I would rather have a women with short natural hair than a wig or a weave)

Fake boobs, nose jobs, crazy hair colors, colored contacts, gold teeth, fake nails etc.

Bad English

Selfish unappreciative women (I like giving my women nice things, but the most precious thing I can give is my heart and my time, recognize that)

 

[mc2]

Un motivated women, overweight women and gold diggers are turn offs

 

[buck_ya_bitch]

I have very good hygiene
so I expect the same from a female
any bad odors fucks it up for me..
bad breath , smelly hair(hate a sista with a weave) if you don't have shoulder length hair, get one of those cute low hair styles like halle berry use to have.
body odor, smelly pussy...

all deal breakers

if a woman's breath sinks , gurantee to have a stink pussy...

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[HoneyBerry]

The last few responses got me dying LOL!
Desperation
Pot belly (I don't mind a little pudge, but too much is too much)
Begging
dirty/wrinkled clothes
Not working during work hours
Unkept hair, long hair that is not in locs
Messed up teeth & gold teeth (everyone wasn't blessed, but at my age brothers should be proactive about their dental health)
Bad body odor or wearing too much cologne
Wearing sneakers to a dress up event

That's it for the physical. I got a lot more for the mental & emotional turn offs

 

[SuperGenius]

A chick that farts (poots, whatever) around me. GOTDAMN that shit is a turnoff. Yeah it may show you are comfortable around me, but don't get THAT comfortable. Just the thought of skid marks in your panties is enough for me not to even mess with u.

Eh, i'll be back with more.

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

Yall folks are picky...

I only have two turn offs

1. Non Black women

2. Women that aren't willing to work towards improving themselves ( mentally or physically).

That's it... if a woman meets those two criteria she can get it !!

 

[DigitalAngel2007]

I'm finding these turn offs hilarious

What I really want to know is how many of you either have one or more of the things you listed wrong with you or your spouse has one or more of the things you've listed.

 

[Chicutie]

• bad teeth
• bad breath
• body odor
• long hair
• long nails (esp pinky nail)
• too much cologne
• long beards
• laziness/no ambition
• lack of sex drive or can't get it up!
• jealousy
• not independent
• crusty lips
• dirty nails
• run-over shoes

That's all I can think of for now. . Bad teeth, dependence, and no ambition are very high on my turn-off
list. .

And not able to get it up is a huge. . .

 

[Pitchdogg]

• bad skin (razor bumps or that bumpage on the back of their head)

LOL round my way they call that shit "gremlin eggs". That shit is disgusting!

 

[DAYNE]

I hate, HATE, HATE bad teeth, or even you have nice teeth, but they are yellowed.. invest in a whitening treatment...

Timidness.. i like confident men, men who know who they are, not finding themselves, but yet you still have to know when to compromise and realize that being you won't help the situation.

Laziness... nuff said

dirty nails

cigarette smoking

Overly hood dudes- gotta get that paper... so unattractive

hhhmmm... no personality.. ok, i'm not the most interesting person, but I'm definitely unlike anyone you've met before. I appreciate your ability to make me laugh, make me think, anything. I don't want conversations to be a recital of what you did today.

Probably more, but idk...

how you want something that you lack in yourself.

 

[RashaansGirl]

PHYSICAL

1. Long fingernails & toenails.
2. Dry, ashy skin
3. Of course, dirty teeth & breath
4. Professionally Arched eyebrows
5. Dark lips (from smoking)

NON-PHYSICAL

1. If he asks me for money.
2. Worn-out socks & underware.
3. Any man over 30 who wears jerseys (..and ain't playing ball or goin to the gym!)
4. Doesnt keep his car clean.
5. Doesn't get a haircut regularly.
6. Stained undies (eww!!)

 

[Cleopatra_J]

how you want something that you lack in yourself.

I have a very strong sense of self. I know who I am, and so should he!