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i love my children dont get me wrong but if i had a chance to do it again i would take the route of having no children.the hard work isnt the problem im raising 3 kids by myself its the other parent that makes everything sour.yea when you meet a female she's all sweet until she gets pregnant and then you meet the real person you slept with...doesn't matter how sweet and gentle they act they always change.you might get luck and find that special one but thats like hitting the lotto.it takes a lot of time energy ill say that.it takes money but not like these females talk about like 25,000 per month for child support naw it don't take money like that it also depends on your lifestyle too.meaning if you try to keep up with the jones you're gonna be spending a lot on expensive clothes,shoes etc.but if you get them middle class clothes and a few nikes if that's what they like then money isnt that bad.food to feed them and here and there family fun time takes a bit of money but its doable......like i said its mainly th babay moma drama and all the bull they try to pull especially if they cader to the father and not the mom thats how my children is there on my like skin and treat her like crap.thats when its stressful and hard so im rambling lol but ill say this. make sure you want kids in your heart first use the right head instead of your friends head and if you think you have the one make sure 2 or 3 times and if she passes then start your family i wish you luck fam.