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My Wife Threatens to “End It All” Whenever I Ask Her to Get a Job

You're either leaving out important details, or you just don;t know how to have a real conversation with someone you care about.

If my SO said something like what you say that your wife said to you, I'd have way more detail than just that quote.

1) What do you mean, "End it all"? (Important ass question to ask someone you plan to sleep next to for the rest of your (hopefully long) lives.
2) What, exactly, is your passion and/or dream job? (If she really has a passion or thing she wants to work on or in, she can probably do that without the degree or at least find something related to it. That's assuming she wants to work at all.)

At any rate, unless she is mad heavy depressed, this attitude is some bullshit, especially when you're bringing debt to the table with you. And if she is mad heavy depressed... I'll just say from experience (1st and 2nd hand) that you need to make a real honest decision about whether or not you want to stay on that train with someone. It's a long term illness, and she will likely still have issues even if it gets properly treated.

The two of you need to have another conversation where you cut through the bullshit and get real about things. And if she won't at least try to find some work to help out the team, then the team needs to call it quits. Or make that choice to stick it out, but prepared to be called a simp by the community. I won't do it, but it's gonna happen.
 
717jet said:
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
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You a Sucka...I'm a Sucka Ducka...brah
 

"I, _____, take thee, _____, to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy ordinance; and thereto I pledge thee my faith.

If you ain't built for these parts then stay the fuck outta marriage. Hope you learned something.
 
717jet said:
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
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You're going to be miserable and unhappy anyway. Take the advice people have given you and cut your losses. The pussy can't be that good. She sounds delusional. And someone that delusional will leak into every aspect of your lives. She's taking advantage of the fact that she's already being coddled and taken care of by you. Bounce. Now. Not tomorrow, not next week. Now
 
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Either you didn't talk about this stuff at all before you got married, you got married way too quickly to have a real idea of her personality/habits/goals, or you got railroaded fam.

If you don't have kids and those loans are in her name, fucking bounce.

Whether that story is real or not, here is something that is real for everyone in or looking to be in long term relationships. The #1 issue in failed relationships is MONEY (that runs the gambit from a lack of consistency of it, to one or both not being able to hold down consistent jobs, to terrible budgeting of it, to one or both trying to live way above their means). Not infidelity, not differing interests, not boredom...nothing will have partners (and friends and family) at each others necks like MONEY.
 
Figure if the master’s program saw fit that they kick her out.... An to have accumulated 100K of debt and not
want to take a job... I have 2 questions for you. Is the pussy that good? If not why then haven't you kicked her out? Cause this speaks volumes of her character.

She'd rather end it all.... :hithead:
 
The man is the backbone of his family they always count on use to hold it down she may be feeling worst that she cant help and using the term "i will end it all as a defense ", no one said it would be easy and trust me and am sure that many of us have stories to tell about our marriage that almost made us give up. Ask yourself what would she do is the shoes was reverse, and pray for the answer it always harder once you put a ring on it. And remember we all are face ordinary times it can and will get better , just be careful with the choices you make. most of all thats your wife not just some girl you banging. Good luck
 
Tiger_Hood said:
Get your marriage anulled.
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Don't know what state he is in, but annulment's usually have very specific guidelines, like:
incompetent to consent to marriage at the time of the marriage
fraud
narcotics or intoxication at the time of marriage, etc.
and even then if you live together after sobering up or discovering the fraud it could prevent an annulment.


Like said before. Get life insurance and keep up the pressure...the problem might just solve itself.
 
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717jet said:
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
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I had a partna with a phd and I understand the point your wife and my partna thinks. I mean you get that level of education you can't flip burgers brug. We gotta keep it 100% man. Everything is about status and what you got. Bad look one of her homegirls see her folding clothes in Marshalls.

Buddy ended up moving to LA to try to come up, he has no job and no bread but he's determined to make it. We don't know what could happen but I applaud dude for taking action.
 
peterlongshort said:
...That’s some of the best sleep you gonna get in your life.
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I already gave my honest opinion. But to the point you're making, no you won't sleep well if you have any sense. It shouldn't come as a surprise to you, that suicidal people often take unsuspecting loved ones along with them. Just saying. Sleep well if you want to, and your slumber could be a lot longer than you bargained for. :(
 
717jet said:
She has $100,000 in loans from a master’s program that kicked her out.

I’m newly married, about six months now. My wife had difficulties that resulted in her getting kicked out of her master’s program. Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case. I’ve tried talking about it, but she claims it makes her “too stressed” and “too angry to talk about.” How can I approach this? It’s unlikely she’ll be able to work in her original field, and I don’t think I can support us and her student debt alone.
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Time for you to “End It All”
 
717jet said:
Until this point she had taken out around $100,000 in loans. I’ve been trying to persuade her to get a job, any job, to help pay down her student debt, but she always says, “I’d rather end it all than work a job I don’t love.” I entered this marriage thinking we’d be equal partners, but I’m finding that’s not the case.
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Is she Black?

How did she get kicked out of grad school? I hope it’s not because she didn’t want to do her homework.
 
Sir, you are a goddamn FOOL!!!

If you were a student of the Honorable Elijah Muhammad, you would have long gotten rid of her and been praying to Allah facing Mecca 6 times a day like a true Mooshlum, you can be rid of her and the Honorable Elijah Muhammad will allow you to have up to 4 wives. And I will personally teach you that the white man is the devil that the Bible speaks of.
 
Mrfreddygoodbud said:
bruh..

what program did she get kicked out of, whats her passion??

she sounds pretty flighty???

and you sound pretty pussy whipped.. but thats ok....you aint

the only in the world...

lol,

while we discussing her situation, Id be lowkey getting her to sign a prenuptial...

and when she says end it all..

does she mean the marriage or her life..

if she is talkin her life..

Id tell her ass straight up... if you need some help lets talk about this now

and what can I do to help..

because if she says that shit again.... I will end the marriage..

I aint stayin with NO suicidal bitch.. all that till death do us part..

is some bullshit most of the time...
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MrFreddyGoodBuddy,

This man needs to help this woman video her own suicide so he can save his own ass in court in front of the white devil judge. But not before he takes out a $2.5 million dollar life insurance policy. I can teach him how to solve this problem. But afterwards, he will need a fake name and new I'd.
 
Whether she got kicked out for grades or money, she's irresponsible either way. She waited until she got 100k in debt to decide whatever she was working towards wasn't worth it no more.

What's to say she won't have that type of change of heart about the marriage?

And then on the flip side, he waited until 6 months into the marriage before even having this discussion about finances.

It's like they both share some type of near sightedness.
 
1. Sorry, I'm a bit remedial on terminologies but does "end it all" mean?

2. Didn't you discuss this and other pertinent things before marriage?

3. She might as well finish that degree. If you have to threaten the dean of the school to get back in, do it, just kidding but she should get back in the program.

4. Take advantage of this to discuss other important things in y'alls lives for your marriage to survive past 3 years.
 

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