Make him pay like $100 for it if you are trying to teach responsibility?
MY SON LIVES WITH me RENT FREE AND IS NOW MOVING OUT. I WONT LET HIM TAKE THE BED
- Thread starter RUDY RAYYY MO
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You doing good brother. Make him buy that bed or get his own.
Let him take that nasty ass bed. You really wanna keep a bed that’s probably soaked in teenager young adult nut? His daddy on BGOL he probably on here too.
His first time moving out, trust me there will be plenty of time to show and teach lessons about being on your own.
Right now he’s excited and eager for the experience nothing wrong with giving him the bed to add some creature comforts to his new place make it feel like home a little bit.
His first time moving out, trust me there will be plenty of time to show and teach lessons about being on your own.
Right now he’s excited and eager for the experience nothing wrong with giving him the bed to add some creature comforts to his new place make it feel like home a little bit.
This is brilliant
You wrong for that. LMAO
You know he wanna move out so he can run dem hoes like he want to so you tryna throw a wrench by keeping the bed that he gonna need.
You ain't slick.
#petty
Does he still have the keys to the crib? You gone fuck around, come home from work one day and that bitch gone be gone. Then what will you do?
Nah, fuck him. Tell him to buy his own shit just get the fuck out. Like now. Also tell him you welcome son! You always motherfucking welcome! You lil bitchass nigga!
You wrong for that. LMAO
You know he wanna move out so he can run dem hoes like he want to so you tryna throw a wrench by keeping the bed that he gonna need.
You ain't slick.
He will be fine with that air mattress. It ain’t gonna kill him plus no hoe I ever encountered could resist fucking on that air mattress!
THIS!!! My punkass son asked me could he move in and I said sure son! I’d love to have you! But you under my rules, I’m not your mama. Mf then asked me for a couple thousand to move in? To Move IN?!? I said nigga, you normally “pay” to move in! I don’t fucking pay you, you numbskull motherfucker!
He still with his mom.Life is hard. As a man life is harder. As a black man life is a struggle. Welcome to the struggle son. IDGAF you my son either. Life ain’t gonna treat you kind. Sooner you realize that better off you’ll get on your grind.
Mf then asked me for a couple thousand to move in? To Move IN?!? I said nigga, you normally “pay” to move in! I don’t fucking pay you, you numbskull motherfucker!
Nigga that's your seeds, mines know better
Bruh huh
True. But one thing I'm not with putting seeds out when they hit 18 ,19 . By 21 you gotta go thoughTHIS!!! My punkass son asked me could he move in and I said sure son! I’d love to have you! But you under my rules, I’m not your mama. Mf then asked me for a couple thousand to move in? To Move IN?!? I said nigga, you normally “pay” to move in! I don’t fucking pay you, you numbskull motherfucker!
Life is hard. As a man life is harder. As a black man life is a struggle. Welcome to the struggle son. IDGAF you my son either. Life ain’t gonna treat you kind. Sooner you realize that better off you’ll get on your grind.
yea bro give his little ass the bed and the bedroom set ... and if for some reason ( it will be ) he comes back he gets to sleep on the floor now and PAY YOU RENT ( tough love ) ( THEN GIVE THE RENT BACK TO HIM THE WAY HE GAVE IT TO YOU) when he moves out again... Its the old recycling trick
My son is way past his age limit. I'd never give him the key to anything in my house. Not even the tool shed.
Example: Charge him $200 a month for rent, two years later he moves out. He would have paid you $4,800 over the span of two years.Bruh huh
On his move out day, hand it all back to him. $4,800.
I had a ho ass dad that did that shit to me... with a bed that no one was using except me for like three years...
Fagit Extraordinaire. But it does explain everything.
Give a fish it’ll always be eaten. Teach him to fish and he can catch whatever he wants to eat. Learn a life skill you can use forever. If they don’t want to learn to fish I’m chucking yo ass into the water and you figure it out. Now you don’t have to worry about eating a fish or catching one. You are the fish now!
To all you dads coming with the love I understand. I did that too. Got me nowhere. From here on out it’s all ether. I tried everything. Mf can’t get right.
Moving at 19 is cool, if he fails it will be a life lesson. Sounds like you are not ready to let go and you are being petty. Let the young king be great, a test run @ independence will not hurt him.
Man he can get a better bed at Macys clearance for $300.
I had two of the older rugrats move out over the years.
My oldest, left his furniture, years later asked for it when he was at a temp job somewhat close by, we gave it to him, he brought it back later and was all missing madd pieces that I had to go and buy back the slats and hardware. We turned his old room into an exercise room so out that into a guest room.
Dresser and night stands he destroyed.
Daughter when she left, she wanted new furniture, which I had to go assemble anyways.
I feel OP, about the bedroom furniture thing cause when they leave, you have to refurnish the rooms. We have family come from time to time and stay like over Xmas had madd fam fly down, everyone had their own bedrooms. No one slept on couches.
Our thing wasn't about teaching them fuckers a lesson. Shit was about me having to shell out bread to furnish another God damn room that's gonna be for "looks". We have a 5 bdrm with only two occupied. Last kid now here, sleeps in one, uses the other for full VR and gaming setup.
He got one more year and he gonna feel the bottom of my foot on his ass, I can't wait for him to go to college.
Then I'll be rugrat free.
My oldest, left his furniture, years later asked for it when he was at a temp job somewhat close by, we gave it to him, he brought it back later and was all missing madd pieces that I had to go and buy back the slats and hardware. We turned his old room into an exercise room so out that into a guest room.
Dresser and night stands he destroyed.
Daughter when she left, she wanted new furniture, which I had to go assemble anyways.
I feel OP, about the bedroom furniture thing cause when they leave, you have to refurnish the rooms. We have family come from time to time and stay like over Xmas had madd fam fly down, everyone had their own bedrooms. No one slept on couches.
Our thing wasn't about teaching them fuckers a lesson. Shit was about me having to shell out bread to furnish another God damn room that's gonna be for "looks". We have a 5 bdrm with only two occupied. Last kid now here, sleeps in one, uses the other for full VR and gaming setup.
He got one more year and he gonna feel the bottom of my foot on his ass, I can't wait for him to go to college.
Then I'll be rugrat free.
Let him have the bed man that thing is probably filled with dried nut.
Not one that's hold your bed hostage.
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This post has made my day...
Nigga I ain't got no gat damn kids
THIS!!! My punkass son asked me could he move in and I said sure son! I’d love to have you! But you under my rules, I’m not your mama. Mf then asked me for a couple thousand to move in? To Move IN?!? I said nigga, you normally “pay” to move in! I don’t fucking pay you, you numbskull motherfucker!
Life is hard. As a man life is harder. As a black man life is a struggle. Welcome to the struggle son. IDGAF you my son either. Life ain’t gonna treat you kind. Sooner you realize that better off you’ll get on your grind.
sound like my wife's son ..... she been paying that nukka rent since forever, I'm thinking he got a grip saved, but he ain't got no car ..... so i guess not .....
He's your son......let him have the bed.