The whole concept of marriage is outdated and needs to be rethought. I’m saying this as I’m going through my second divorce! Marriage should be a short term renewable contract that can be opted out of after x amount of years. The conditions for exit should be preset based off the number of years of the contract and/or if you renewed a previous contract or not.
I’m far from perfect, but the mindsets of today’s modern women are delusional and I don’t see myself putting myself through this shit again. I will be 50 in a few weeks and I have to concentrate on rebuilding myself mentally, spiritually, physically and financially from this shit. They don’t tell you that part before you sign up! I take my hat off to KD! Take your time young man! He’s probably seen his teammates wife up, knock up and wife the same internet thots that have been passed around the entertainment industry and wants no part of it. What I’ve learned is it takes a while to find quality. We as men just get impatient or lonely and end up settling. NEVER settle!!! If you can’t find what you want, love yourself enough to be content being alone and ride it out!
I have two daughters from my first marriage that I love with everything and I wouldn’t trade that in for the world. They are the only thing that was beneficial out of this marriage shit. But they’re expensive though lmao!!! I would say, get your financial house in order before you have kids! Create and execute your plan first! It’s easier that way. Just my two cents for the young bloods on the board biased off of my experiences!