Know Anyone to Commit (or try) Suicide?

See that's where I'm probably fucked up for not being too sympathetic. He didn't have to do that. Just caused a lot of anguish for those that cared about him.

True seen it time and time again, I assume they built habits and routines with that person. Then it all of sudden comes to an end. I see it no different then somebody losing their career or about to go to jail like R.Kelly. I’ve broke up with women that was trying to off themselves. It’s a sad sad case one story.

My ex walk over to my truck and I was parallel park with traffic coming through. She was shaking uncomfortable with her hand on windows, but she kept looking back for cars. My sense kick in not to cuss her out or be mean. Just cool and calm, she look back one more time a Fed Ex truck was coming and you know they be flying! She turned I grab her arm just in time and saved her ass!

Fuck me up mentally and damn near had to check on her and mentor her back to normal.
 
Wow. His brother did roids and became an MVP and went to a WS while he did it only to become a journeyman scrub.

I wonder if that played a part in his demise.

 
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Wow. His brother did roofs and became an MVP and went to a WS while he did it only to become a journeyman scrub.

I wonder if that played a part in his demise.



It's sad that someone could come to a point in their life where they feel like there is no hope.
 
Decided to get counseling for myself. I'm not suicidal, but the despondency can be deep and dark at times. It WILL cause outward effects on yourself, family, friends and work. TRUST ME. Thinga you need to do you'll neglect. Things you don't want to do you'll find yourself doing it again.

Beginning this week.
 
Decided to get counseling for myself. I'm not suicidal, but the despondency can be deep and dark at times. It WILL cause outward effects on yourself, family, friends and work. TRUST ME. Thinga you need to do you'll neglect. Things you don't want to do you'll find yourself doing it again.

Beginning this week.
I'm thinking of doing the same. I havn't really opened up to anyone in twenty plus years. It seems surreal to think someone would get paid to listen to my problems. :rolleyes:
 
I'm thinking of doing the same. I havn't really opened up to anyone in twenty plus years. It seems surreal to think someone would get paid to listen to my problems. :rolleyes:

Talking and maybe crying things out of your system can be beneficial. Possibly you might even find some answers.

The thing is, who else is going to actively listen without trying trying to top you and start talking about themselves?
 
Question: can mental toughness supercede suicidal thought or it doesn't matter?
Not trying to be insensitive, just asking for clarity sake.

I think in most cases a person can take a step back and wait things out. There are many y stories of those that have attempted suicide and failed and have gone on to a better life. So for the most part few are truly compelled.
 
Saw another suicide posting brothers.

We need to recognize how powerful the mind is and what deep depression or mental illness can cause you to do.

Think about it. The for Miss USA winner had everything going for her. Looks, career, money, friends and qe still don't know why she did it. She was even an advocate for getting mental health assistance.

You've got to talk with someone.
 





 
does therapy even help? like are therapist that available to help when you're going thru an episode or you have to wait for your weekly session to unpack all the shit that you've already say fuck it and kept it moving about?
 
does therapy even help? like are therapist that available to help when you're going thru an episode or you have to wait for your weekly session to unpack all the shit that you've already say fuck it and kept it moving about?


I've heard that the crisis / emergency lines can be quite helpful. They can offer immediate support or link the person in need to appropriate resources. One of our oncall coworkers trained for that position, and has been doing crisis line support this past year.
 
I've heard that the crisis / emergency lines can be quite helpful. They can offer immediate support or link the person in need to appropriate resources. One of our oncall coworkers trained for that position, and has been doing crisis line support this past year.
Thanks for the clear response
 
Question: can mental toughness supercede suicidal thought or it doesn't matter?
Not trying to be insensitive, just asking for clarity sake.



That's a good question. It definitely varies from person to person, as many people have been through some serious shit in their lives. Mental toughness can help, but the brain / mind can play tricks on an individual as to just how bad things really are. The despair or hopelessness that things can't or won't ever get better, etc. Unfortunately alot of people take drastic measures before allowing things to potentially improve.
 
Thanks for the clear response



You're welcome. I was surprised when I was talking to her (coworker). She's pretty quiet and reserved, but she was explaining it's honest work. Intense, but rewarding in the sense that you're helping people and I think the fact that it's over the phone is helpful in that she's a good communicator. And while being in conversation, she had her information lined right up so she could make clear, informative responses to their concerns. Offer them phone numbers, links, addresses to support networks, etc.
 
You're welcome. I was surprised when I was talking to her (coworker). She's pretty quiet and reserved, but she was explaining it's honest work. Intense, but rewarding in the sense that you're helping people and I think the fact that it's over the phone is helpful in that she's a good communicator. And while being in conversation, she had her information lined right up so she could make clear, informative responses to their concerns. Offer them phone numbers, links, addresses to support networks, etc.

Shit we need more health services like this instead of wasting or tax dollars on bulllshit.
 
Shit we need more health services like this instead of wasting or tax dollars on bulllshit.



Agreed & also readily advertise / make it clear what the suicide prevention and mental health support links, numbers & networks are. Have those numbers clearly listed in public places so that people are reminded that "help" is out there - just have to reach out and ask for it, or hopefully have someone encourage you to do so.

Credit also to the places like drop-in centers or food shelters / soup kitchens for helping people out. Ensuring people have a sense of community, friendships & of course access to food.

Some of the most rewarding work I've done is at the cold / wet weather shelters back in the day earlier in my career. Ensuring people were safe and sound, had a place to get back on their feet & resources we could offer them. Simple stuff - a bed (whether for a few days or up to say 3 weeks), food, shower, getting their laundry done, getting phone numbers and contacts to reach out for volunteer or part-time work, and so on.

Helping people get back on their feet, as the saying goes. Also hearing peoples' stories and ensuring their info/contacts were in the database so we had an idea how people were doing. Also - they could refer their friends to us who were down on their luck and living on the street ... fleeing a toxic home situation, etc. Refer them to treatment programs if they were looking to detox, etc.
 
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