KESHIA KNIGHT PULLIAM HUSBAND FILES FOR DIVORCE IN 1 WEEK

Well damn. If true: #TeamKeshia
I never believed this dude, call me guilty for watching the housewives shows with the wife way back when Lisa Wu and him were on. She dumped him cause of money issues, she denied it on social media, but watching the show, she was the money maker with her businesses, think she was developing real estate. But Keshia is no saint, cause Lisa was her friend and she shouldn't of went there. But you reap what you sow...
 
Doesn't look good for Ed. Even by his own reported admission, he never said he actually thinks Keshia cheated on him. So what the fuck does he think asking for a paternity test inside of a marriage implies? Somebody needs to show this dude a bird and bees middle school health class video! And there are multiple 2016 Youtubes and podcasts still online where both he and she talks specifically about wanting children together.

Keisha is a public figure who weighs 100 lbs and people were already asking about her baby bump, so of course she needed to make some type of public statement before Black Twitter started speculating. Listen to that Kandidly Keisha podcast from Friday 07/22/16 again - she and her mama and brother and family all sound genuinely excited and happy about the pregnancy. She might be an actress, but nobody is THAT convincing.
 
No real man would divorce a lady while she's pregnant.

All the men in the world and she choose this loser.
Word on the streets down here (Atlanta) is that she wanted kids but he didn't. She agreed to that, they got married, she flipped the script and started talking about wanting a baby. They separated and he moved out. She is now pregnant, and Tigga (her ex) is possibly the daddy.

So yeah, he's a loser for leaving a woman who (possibly) cheated and got knocked up by another dude.
 
No, I didn't skip. I just think he's full of shit.

he's full of sheit for thinking his wife cheated on him and has another man's baby growing in her?

but she is not full of sheit for possibly being the one at fault?

unless of course you blame him for her infidelity (if true)
 
No. Belief ain't facts.

He's a bitch and he's in his feelings.

So, could I divorce my husband and ask for spousal support if I believed that he cheated on me even though I have no proof/facts/receipts?
He's gonna have all the proof in the world if the dna test proves someone else is the father.
 
Word on the streets down here (Atlanta) is that she wanted kids but he didn't. She agreed to that, they got married, she flipped the script and started talking about wanting a baby. They separated and he moved out. She is now pregnant, and Tigga (her ex) is possibly the daddy.

So yeah, he's a loser for leaving a woman who (possibly) cheated and got knocked up by another dude.

I live in Atlanta and that's not the word. The word is he's full of shit. I have never heard one bad thing about Keshia and that says a lot being that everyone gossips here, even the males.
 
Mary J Blige on the market too.....I'm bout to fire up my resume!!:dance::dance:


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Can't you tell? :lol:

My point is that might be your antiquated view of marriage, but there are so many women out there who don't get married for the "Cinderella/marriage experience," as you say. I find it very interesting that you seem to point out how this is what "most" women want out of marriage - how do you know what most women want? Also, as I stated earlier in the thread, marriage is no joke. I get it - maybe men don't want to be settled down. Maybe women just want it as a status update. How about THOSE men and THOSE women get together and figure that out. As for a woman who takes it seriously, I was offended because I know what my marriage is and has done for both myself and my husband financially, etc.
 
Keshia Knight Pulliam I Want the House And My 'Cosby' Money

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Keshia Knight Pulliam
is demanding the Atlanta home she and Ed Hartwell shared, her pre-marriage possessions and everything she made during their marriage.
In new divorce docs -- obtained by TMZ -- Keshia's asking for all assets she acquired during their marriage -- which is interesting considering most couples split assets accumulated during a marriage.
Keshia also makes a point to demand she be awarded all property and assets she had before the two married, which includes even more 'Cosby' cash.
And get this ... in Ed's divorce filing, he stated they had no kids, but Keshia makes it a point to say a child IS expected of the marriage. In other words ... Ed's the daddy.
 
My point is that might be your antiquated view of marriage, but there are so many women out there who don't get married for the "Cinderella/marriage experience," as you say. I find it very interesting that you seem to point out how this is what "most" women want out of marriage - how do you know what most women want? Also, as I stated earlier in the thread, marriage is no joke. I get it - maybe men don't want to be settled down. Maybe women just want it as a status update. How about THOSE men and THOSE women get together and figure that out. As for a woman who takes it seriously, I was offended because I know what my marriage is and has done for both myself and my husband financially, etc.

It could be just as true that you don't know beans about how your husband feels about being married to you. Like a lot of married men, he could be very bored with being married and with the woman he's married too. He may wish he could have your income and not you. He could be in it only because he fears the consequences of leaving you. He could be lying to your face every day, telling you how much he loves you, while wishing you'd get hit by a bus. He could be thinking of another woman while you think he's making love to you. It could be, that if he got amnesia tomorrow, he'd wouldn't be attracted to you at all--because yesterday's good memories can sometimes become today's bad obligations. But, you probably wouldn't have dated him if he felt obligated to be with you; but I bet you'd use it to keep him now.

Then again, none of that could be true. All you really know is what he tells you and what you perceive as his true his reactions to what's around him. Because the truth is, as much as many women truly believe that they intuitively know what's going on with their husbands/men, the truth is that married men are the greatest liars on the planet. They're ain't a unmarried man on the planet that can match an married man in deception.

Married men have to be great liars to lie to themselves and keep finding the daily motivations to allow them to live lives completely against their own natures. Lying, just like with any other skill, you get better at it with practice. Married men are also like caged lions. They eat, pace, sleep, occasionally mate, shit, do a few tricks for the lion-tamer, and wait for death. But cruelly, just like caged lions, married men live longer. But does anyone think a lion in a cage, even with greater longevity, is really better off then he would be if he could roam freely without any interference? Hell no!

Strong males (human or animal) do not want to be caged, even if there's pussy in the cage. LOL. As soon as you spring the trap, they'll forget the pussy and focus on how to get the fuck out of the cage. And everyday a male spends with a female mate he becomes less sexually interested in her. Men don't want to be married. We want our own exclusive harems. Give any man the means to do it and that's what he'll do. He'll put together his own private stock of high-end (or the highest he can get) pussy. All without any animus or harm intended to any of his women. Why any woman gets angry about a man "cheating" with another woman is completely insane. No, he was only "cheating" when he was only fucking you--cheating himself from being what he was created to be, a polygamous. Real men are born polygamous and are not at all troubled by it, except for the external penalties society (Western) has placed upon us.

I laugh when people want to talk about "gender" and feeling completely different than what they are made to conform too by society. Tell them muthafuckers to get in line behind married men, because we were the first to experience that shit! LMAO! And, we'll be the last to be able to live our true lives without fear of losing our income, our property, and our children for deigning to be our true selves. Remove those 3 guns pointed at your hubby's head, heart, and balls; first, then let's see how he feels about you and what your marriage has done for him. Perhaps he is just tickled to death to be waking up beside you every day. Or, you could be like Keisha Knight Pulliam and be completely unaware that he wants nothing to do with you. Who knows?

Remove the heavy legal penalties levied upon men in Western society for divorcing their wives, then let's see what happens at your house. (And, while we're at it, let's stop shaming men for not wanting to be married to begin with.) Until then, I'll decline to accept the testimony of individuals (married men) under duress and trust what they say in private when they feel free to speak candidly.

Marriage, especially in the Western context, is archaic and dying because women are now empowered and no longer need the provisions or the protection of a husband, especially Black women. Men never needed marriage, but submitted to it as a means to hoard pussy and out of social obligation. All that is really left today is marriage out of tradition, not as a real means to any logical ends. And its about time society adjusted to this new reality and removed marriage from its traditional perch as the ultimate social relationship--its not and never was; it is the individual relationship to the State which is the ultimate social relationship--it always was. That's why marriage is not mentioned in the U.S. Constitution, but the individual and the State are!

The truth of the individual and State relationship as the most important one is being realized in the Black Community today. Black women are the most employed, educated, and most liberated women on the planet. That would not have happened if the majority of Black women were married instead of being free to operate as single individuals with the State. But for White Supremacy, all Black American adults would be the freest people on the planet because we are disproportionately free from the outdated bonds of marriage.

I think if less Black people got married and Black women did not covet marriage as the ultimate social validation, relationships between Black men and women would be far better. Why? Because we are wrongly using marriage as the standard for heterosexual love--while it is clear that Black women do not really need husbands, they have the State. The high divorce rates for married Blacks prove it.

We, as a community, have to embrace this new reality and stop trying to measure ourselves based upon old models from a nearly dead Black institution. We must develop a new healthy culture built upon our true reality, because majority married Black households aint ever coming back. Continuing to shame each other about it has to stop.

Let Blacks (mainly black women) who fetishize marriage to the point of anger and bitterness toward the opposite sex of the group, find it in non-Black communities and stop seeking new company to share in their misery.
 
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It could be just as true that you don't know beans about how your husband feels about being married to you. Like a lot of married men, he could be very bored with being married and with the woman he's married too. He may wish he could have your income and not you. He could be in it only because he fears the consequences of leaving you. He could be lying to your face every day, telling you how much he loves you, while wishing you'd get hit by a bus. He could be thinking of another woman while you think he's making love to you. It could be, that if he got amnesia tomorrow, he'd wouldn't be attracted to you at all--because yesterday's good memories can sometimes become today's bad obligations. But, you probably wouldn't have dated him if he felt obligated to be with you; but I bet you'd use it to keep him now.

Then again, none of that could be true. All you really know is what he tells you and what you perceive as his true his reactions to what's around him. Because the truth is, as much as many women truly believe that they intuitively know what's going on with their husbands/men, the truth is that married men are the greatest liars on the planet. They're ain't a unmarried man on the planet that can match an married man in deception.

Married men have to be great liars to lie to themselves and keep finding the daily motivations to allow them to live lives completely against their own natures. Lying, just like with any other skill, you get better at it with practice. Married men are also like caged lions. They eat, pace, sleep, occasionally mate, shit, do a few tricks for the lion-tamer, and wait for death. But cruelly, just like caged lions, married men live longer. But does anyone think a lion in a cage, even with greater longevity, is really better off then he would be if he could roam freely without any interference? Hell no!

Strong males (human or animal) do not want to be caged, even if there's pussy in the cage. LOL. As soon as you spring the trap, they'll forget the pussy and focus on how to get the fuck out of the cage. And everyday a male spends with a female mate he becomes less sexually interested in her. Men don't want to be married. We want our own exclusive harems. Give any man the means to do it and that's what he'll do. He'll put together his own private stock of high-end (or the highest he can get) pussy. All without any animus or harm intended to any of his women. Why any woman gets angry about a man "cheating" with another woman is completely insane. No, he was only "cheating" when he was only fucking you--cheating himself from being what he was created to be, a polygamous. Real men are born polygamous and are not at all troubled by it, except for the external penalties society (Western) has placed upon us.

I laugh when people want to talk about "gender" and feeling completely different than what they are made to conform too by society. Tell them muthafuckers to get in line behind married men, because we were the first to experience that shit! LMAO! And, we'll be the last to be able to live our true lives without fear of losing our income, our property, and our children for deigning to be our true selves. Remove those 3 guns pointed at your hubby's head, heart, and balls; first, then let's see how he feels about you and what your marriage has done for him. Perhaps he is just tickled to death to be waking up beside you every day. Or, you could be like Keisha Knight Pulliam and be completely unaware that he wants nothing to do with you. Who knows?

Remove the heavy legal penalties levied upon men in Western society for divorcing their wives, then let's see what happens at your house. (And, while we're at it, let's stop shaming men for not wanting to be married to begin with.) Until then, I'll decline to accept the testimony of individuals (married men) under duress and trust what they say in private when they feel free to speak candidly.

Marriage, especially in the Western context, is archaic and dying because women are now empowered and no longer need the provisions or the protection of a husband, especially Black women. Men never needed marriage, but submitted to it as a means to hoard pussy and out of social obligation. All that is really left today is marriage out of tradition, not as a real means to any logical ends. And its about time society adjusted to this new reality and removed marriage from its traditional perch as the ultimate social relationship--its not and never was; it is the individual relationship to the State which is the ultimate social relationship--it always was. That's why marriage is not mentioned in the U.S. Constitution, but the individual and the State are!

The truth of the individual and State relationship as the most important one is being realized in the Black Community today. Black women are the most employed, educated, and most liberated women on the planet. That would not have happened if the majority of Black women were married instead of being free to operate as single individuals with the State. But for White Supremacy, all Black American adults would be the freest people on the planet because we are disproportionately free from the outdated bonds of marriage.

I think if less Black people got married and Black women did not covet marriage as the ultimate social validation, relationships between Black men and women would be far better. Why? Because we are wrongly using marriage as the standard for heterosexual love--while it is clear that Black women do not really need husbands, they have the State. The high divorce rates for married Blacks prove it.

We, as a community, have to embrace this new reality and stop trying to measure ourselves based upon old models from a nearly dead Black institution. We must develop a new healthy culture built upon our true reality, because majority married Black households aint ever coming back. Continuing to shame each other about it has to stop.

Let Blacks (mainly black women) who fetishize marriage to the point of anger and bitterness toward the opposite sex of the group, find it in non-Black communities and stop seeking new company to share in their misery.

At least this time you posted about what married men want...stay in your lane and understand that that's men. I feel sorry for anyone (male or female) who feels trapped into social conventions for the sake of "looking well." If that applies to you, I'll pray for you.
 
At least this time you posted about what married men want...stay in your lane and understand that that's men. I feel sorry for anyone (male or female) who feels trapped into social conventions for the sake of "looking well." If that applies to you, I'll pray for you.
LOL. Just as you can "understand that that's men". Men can "understand [when] "that's" women too.

Polygamous trapped in a monogamous legal and social context do not need your prayers. They need you to help change the laws and the society so they can live freely without persecution. If you're a theist then advocate for a return to legal polygamy as was permitted in true Christianity; Islam; Judaism; Buddhism; and Hinduism (before those faiths were forced to conform to Western traditions), especially in Black America where women far outnumber men and where polygamy could help as a legal social option.
 
I think I can say what constitutes a man to a certain level. If I see a man wearing a skirt and a bra, is he a real man? Just like a man allowing a woman to take care of him is not a real man. The line of masculinity and feminity is not blurred and dare I say that the black community has taken on the slave masters view of what a man really is. Hell, men these days don't want to be labeled...men are okay being a stay at home dad, not providing for his family, can't fixed shit because he doesn't want to get his nails dirty, gossiping like females, in the beauty shop getting mani and pedi's.

A man is a man because of his genitals, if he chooses to wear a skirt thats on him but you can never take his manhood from him.

Today's roles have changed, but I will agree no one one, has self respect should want to be kept, being a stay at home dad may work for that family I won't knock it thats their dynamic

to apply the prefix "real" in front of man brings a bad connotation, period, and to feel the ability to decide what a man is, is no different then the white dudes you love, in turn telling you how to be a black woman, thats acceptable right ?

Yet menfolk on here attempt to tell women what a real woman consists of on a daily basis.

Can't speak for them, this is me and I never tell a woman how to be a woman nor what constitutes as one, but I will speak on the qualities I like in a woman, or the way I want to be treated
 
I live in Atlanta and that's not the word. The word is he's full of shit. I have never heard one bad thing about Keshia and that says a lot being that everyone gossips here, even the males.

NO!

I have heard bad things about Rudy Huxtable. She used to do some partying in her college days, she used to date a thug nigga (my cousin), she is a (undercover) freak in the bed, went through a stop sign once and jaywalked downtown once on her way to a hair appointment!!

Yeah - SHE IS THE BAD SEED HERE!





























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That girl was sweet as hell and fine. When I met, I almost didn't let go after I hugged her. Wifey just looked at me and shook her head.


oNE
 
It could be just as true that you don't know beans about how your husband feels about being married to you. Like a lot of married men, he could be very bored with being married and with the woman he's married too. He may wish he could have your income and not you. He could be in it only because he fears the consequences of leaving you. He could be lying to your face every day, telling you how much he loves you, while wishing you'd get hit by a bus. He could be thinking of another woman while you think he's making love to you. It could be, that if he got amnesia tomorrow, he'd wouldn't be attracted to you at all--because yesterday's good memories can sometimes become today's bad obligations. But, you probably wouldn't have dated him if he felt obligated to be with you; but I bet you'd use it to keep him now.

Then again, none of that could be true. All you really know is what he tells you and what you perceive as his true his reactions to what's around him. Because the truth is, as much as many women truly believe that they intuitively know what's going on with their husbands/men, the truth is that married men are the greatest liars on the planet. They're ain't a unmarried man on the planet that can match an married man in deception.

Married men have to be great liars to lie to themselves and keep finding the daily motivations to allow them to live lives completely against their own natures. Lying, just like with any other skill, you get better at it with practice. Married men are also like caged lions. They eat, pace, sleep, occasionally mate, shit, do a few tricks for the lion-tamer, and wait for death. But cruelly, just like caged lions, married men live longer. But does anyone think a lion in a cage, even with greater longevity, is really better off then he would be if he could roam freely without any interference? Hell no!

Strong males (human or animal) do not want to be caged, even if there's pussy in the cage. LOL. As soon as you spring the trap, they'll forget the pussy and focus on how to get the fuck out of the cage. And everyday a male spends with a female mate he becomes less sexually interested in her. Men don't want to be married. We want our own exclusive harems. Give any man the means to do it and that's what he'll do. He'll put together his own private stock of high-end (or the highest he can get) pussy. All without any animus or harm intended to any of his women. Why any woman gets angry about a man "cheating" with another woman is completely insane. No, he was only "cheating" when he was only fucking you--cheating himself from being what he was created to be, a polygamous. Real men are born polygamous and are not at all troubled by it, except for the external penalties society (Western) has placed upon us.

I laugh when people want to talk about "gender" and feeling completely different than what they are made to conform too by society. Tell them muthafuckers to get in line behind married men, because we were the first to experience that shit! LMAO! And, we'll be the last to be able to live our true lives without fear of losing our income, our property, and our children for deigning to be our true selves. Remove those 3 guns pointed at your hubby's head, heart, and balls; first, then let's see how he feels about you and what your marriage has done for him. Perhaps he is just tickled to death to be waking up beside you every day. Or, you could be like Keisha Knight Pulliam and be completely unaware that he wants nothing to do with you. Who knows?

Remove the heavy legal penalties levied upon men in Western society for divorcing their wives, then let's see what happens at your house. (And, while we're at it, let's stop shaming men for not wanting to be married to begin with.) Until then, I'll decline to accept the testimony of individuals (married men) under duress and trust what they say in private when they feel free to speak candidly.

Marriage, especially in the Western context, is archaic and dying because women are now empowered and no longer need the provisions or the protection of a husband, especially Black women. Men never needed marriage, but submitted to it as a means to hoard pussy and out of social obligation. All that is really left today is marriage out of tradition, not as a real means to any logical ends. And its about time society adjusted to this new reality and removed marriage from its traditional perch as the ultimate social relationship--its not and never was; it is the individual relationship to the State which is the ultimate social relationship--it always was. That's why marriage is not mentioned in the U.S. Constitution, but the individual and the State are!

The truth of the individual and State relationship as the most important one is being realized in the Black Community today. Black women are the most employed, educated, and most liberated women on the planet. That would not have happened if the majority of Black women were married instead of being free to operate as single individuals with the State. But for White Supremacy, all Black American adults would be the freest people on the planet because we are disproportionately free from the outdated bonds of marriage.

I think if less Black people got married and Black women did not covet marriage as the ultimate social validation, relationships between Black men and women would be far better. Why? Because we are wrongly using marriage as the standard for heterosexual love--while it is clear that Black women do not really need husbands, they have the State. The high divorce rates for married Blacks prove it.

We, as a community, have to embrace this new reality and stop trying to measure ourselves based upon old models from a nearly dead Black institution. We must develop a new healthy culture built upon our true reality, because majority married Black households aint ever coming back. Continuing to shame each other about it has to stop.

Let Blacks (mainly black women) who fetishize marriage to the point of anger and bitterness toward the opposite sex of the group, find it in non-Black communities and stop seeking new company to share in their misery.
LOL. Just as you can "understand that that's men". Men can "understand [when] "that's" women too.

Polygamous trapped in a monogamous legal and social context do not need your prayers. They need you to help change the laws and the society so they can live freely without persecution. If you're a theist then advocate for a return to legal polygamy as was permitted in true Christianity; Islam; Judaism; Buddhism; and Hinduism (before those faiths were forced to conform to Western traditions), especially in Black America where women far outnumber men and where polygamy could help as a legal social option.

QUOTE OF THE YEAR NOMINATION!
:cheers:

*two cents *
 
It could be just as true that you don't know beans about how your husband feels about being married to you. Like a lot of married men, he could be very bored with being married and with the woman he's married too. He may wish he could have your income and not you. He could be in it only because he fears the consequences of leaving you. He could be lying to your face every day, telling you how much he loves you, while wishing you'd get hit by a bus. He could be thinking of another woman while you think he's making love to you. It could be, that if he got amnesia tomorrow, he'd wouldn't be attracted to you at all--because yesterday's good memories can sometimes become today's bad obligations. But, you probably wouldn't have dated him if he felt obligated to be with you; but I bet you'd use it to keep him now.

Then again, none of that could be true. All you really know is what he tells you and what you perceive as his true his reactions to what's around him. Because the truth is, as much as many women truly believe that they intuitively know what's going on with their husbands/men, the truth is that married men are the greatest liars on the planet. They're ain't a unmarried man on the planet that can match an married man in deception.

Married men have to be great liars to lie to themselves and keep finding the daily motivations to allow them to live lives completely against their own natures. Lying, just like with any other skill, you get better at it with practice. Married men are also like caged lions. They eat, pace, sleep, occasionally mate, shit, do a few tricks for the lion-tamer, and wait for death. But cruelly, just like caged lions, married men live longer. But does anyone think a lion in a cage, even with greater longevity, is really better off then he would be if he could roam freely without any interference? Hell no!

Strong males (human or animal) do not want to be caged, even if there's pussy in the cage. LOL. As soon as you spring the trap, they'll forget the pussy and focus on how to get the fuck out of the cage. And everyday a male spends with a female mate he becomes less sexually interested in her. Men don't want to be married. We want our own exclusive harems. Give any man the means to do it and that's what he'll do. He'll put together his own private stock of high-end (or the highest he can get) pussy. All without any animus or harm intended to any of his women. Why any woman gets angry about a man "cheating" with another woman is completely insane. No, he was only "cheating" when he was only fucking you--cheating himself from being what he was created to be, a polygamous. Real men are born polygamous and are not at all troubled by it, except for the external penalties society (Western) has placed upon us.

I laugh when people want to talk about "gender" and feeling completely different than what they are made to conform too by society. Tell them muthafuckers to get in line behind married men, because we were the first to experience that shit! LMAO! And, we'll be the last to be able to live our true lives without fear of losing our income, our property, and our children for deigning to be our true selves. Remove those 3 guns pointed at your hubby's head, heart, and balls; first, then let's see how he feels about you and what your marriage has done for him. Perhaps he is just tickled to death to be waking up beside you every day. Or, you could be like Keisha Knight Pulliam and be completely unaware that he wants nothing to do with you. Who knows?

Remove the heavy legal penalties levied upon men in Western society for divorcing their wives, then let's see what happens at your house. (And, while we're at it, let's stop shaming men for not wanting to be married to begin with.) Until then, I'll decline to accept the testimony of individuals (married men) under duress and trust what they say in private when they feel free to speak candidly.

Marriage, especially in the Western context, is archaic and dying because women are now empowered and no longer need the provisions or the protection of a husband, especially Black women. Men never needed marriage, but submitted to it as a means to hoard pussy and out of social obligation. All that is really left today is marriage out of tradition, not as a real means to any logical ends. And its about time society adjusted to this new reality and removed marriage from its traditional perch as the ultimate social relationship--its not and never was; it is the individual relationship to the State which is the ultimate social relationship--it always was. That's why marriage is not mentioned in the U.S. Constitution, but the individual and the State are!

The truth of the individual and State relationship as the most important one is being realized in the Black Community today. Black women are the most employed, educated, and most liberated women on the planet. That would not have happened if the majority of Black women were married instead of being free to operate as single individuals with the State. But for White Supremacy, all Black American adults would be the freest people on the planet because we are disproportionately free from the outdated bonds of marriage.

I think if less Black people got married and Black women did not covet marriage as the ultimate social validation, relationships between Black men and women would be far better. Why? Because we are wrongly using marriage as the standard for heterosexual love--while it is clear that Black women do not really need husbands, they have the State. The high divorce rates for married Blacks prove it.

We, as a community, have to embrace this new reality and stop trying to measure ourselves based upon old models from a nearly dead Black institution. We must develop a new healthy culture built upon our true reality, because majority married Black households aint ever coming back. Continuing to shame each other about it has to stop.

Let Blacks (mainly black women) who fetishize marriage to the point of anger and bitterness toward the opposite sex of the group, find it in non-Black communities and stop seeking new company to share in their misery.
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It could be just as true that you don't know beans about how your husband feels about being married to you. Like a lot of married men, he could be very bored with being married and with the woman he's married too. He may wish he could have your income and not you. He could be in it only because he fears the consequences of leaving you. He could be lying to your face every day, telling you how much he loves you, while wishing you'd get hit by a bus. He could be thinking of another woman while you think he's making love to you. It could be, that if he got amnesia tomorrow, he'd wouldn't be attracted to you at all--because yesterday's good memories can sometimes become today's bad obligations. But, you probably wouldn't have dated him if he felt obligated to be with you; but I bet you'd use it to keep him now.

Then again, none of that could be true. All you really know is what he tells you and what you perceive as his true his reactions to what's around him. Because the truth is, as much as many women truly believe that they intuitively know what's going on with their husbands/men, the truth is that married men are the greatest liars on the planet. They're ain't a unmarried man on the planet that can match an married man in deception.

Married men have to be great liars to lie to themselves and keep finding the daily motivations to allow them to live lives completely against their own natures. Lying, just like with any other skill, you get better at it with practice. Married men are also like caged lions. They eat, pace, sleep, occasionally mate, shit, do a few tricks for the lion-tamer, and wait for death. But cruelly, just like caged lions, married men live longer. But does anyone think a lion in a cage, even with greater longevity, is really better off then he would be if he could roam freely without any interference? Hell no!

Strong males (human or animal) do not want to be caged, even if there's pussy in the cage. LOL. As soon as you spring the trap, they'll forget the pussy and focus on how to get the fuck out of the cage. And everyday a male spends with a female mate he becomes less sexually interested in her. Men don't want to be married. We want our own exclusive harems. Give any man the means to do it and that's what he'll do. He'll put together his own private stock of high-end (or the highest he can get) pussy. All without any animus or harm intended to any of his women. Why any woman gets angry about a man "cheating" with another woman is completely insane. No, he was only "cheating" when he was only fucking you--cheating himself from being what he was created to be, a polygamous. Real men are born polygamous and are not at all troubled by it, except for the external penalties society (Western) has placed upon us.

I laugh when people want to talk about "gender" and feeling completely different than what they are made to conform too by society. Tell them muthafuckers to get in line behind married men, because we were the first to experience that shit! LMAO! And, we'll be the last to be able to live our true lives without fear of losing our income, our property, and our children for deigning to be our true selves. Remove those 3 guns pointed at your hubby's head, heart, and balls; first, then let's see how he feels about you and what your marriage has done for him. Perhaps he is just tickled to death to be waking up beside you every day. Or, you could be like Keisha Knight Pulliam and be completely unaware that he wants nothing to do with you. Who knows?

Remove the heavy legal penalties levied upon men in Western society for divorcing their wives, then let's see what happens at your house. (And, while we're at it, let's stop shaming men for not wanting to be married to begin with.) Until then, I'll decline to accept the testimony of individuals (married men) under duress and trust what they say in private when they feel free to speak candidly.

Marriage, especially in the Western context, is archaic and dying because women are now empowered and no longer need the provisions or the protection of a husband, especially Black women. Men never needed marriage, but submitted to it as a means to hoard pussy and out of social obligation. All that is really left today is marriage out of tradition, not as a real means to any logical ends. And its about time society adjusted to this new reality and removed marriage from its traditional perch as the ultimate social relationship--its not and never was; it is the individual relationship to the State which is the ultimate social relationship--it always was. That's why marriage is not mentioned in the U.S. Constitution, but the individual and the State are!

The truth of the individual and State relationship as the most important one is being realized in the Black Community today. Black women are the most employed, educated, and most liberated women on the planet. That would not have happened if the majority of Black women were married instead of being free to operate as single individuals with the State. But for White Supremacy, all Black American adults would be the freest people on the planet because we are disproportionately free from the outdated bonds of marriage.

I think if less Black people got married and Black women did not covet marriage as the ultimate social validation, relationships between Black men and women would be far better. Why? Because we are wrongly using marriage as the standard for heterosexual love--while it is clear that Black women do not really need husbands, they have the State. The high divorce rates for married Blacks prove it.

We, as a community, have to embrace this new reality and stop trying to measure ourselves based upon old models from a nearly dead Black institution. We must develop a new healthy culture built upon our true reality, because majority married Black households aint ever coming back. Continuing to shame each other about it has to stop.

Let Blacks (mainly black women) who fetishize marriage to the point of anger and bitterness toward the opposite sex of the group, find it in non-Black communities and stop seeking new company to share in their misery.

LOL. Just as you can "understand that that's men". Men can "understand [when] "that's" women too.

Polygamous trapped in a monogamous legal and social context do not need your prayers. They need you to help change the laws and the society so they can live freely without persecution. If you're a theist then advocate for a return to legal polygamy as was permitted in true Christianity; Islam; Judaism; Buddhism; and Hinduism (before those faiths were forced to conform to Western traditions), especially in Black America where women far outnumber men and where polygamy could help as a legal social option.


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The real reason Ed Hartwell split from Keshia Knight Pulliam

Keshia Knight Pulliam’s marriage to Ed Hartwell fell apart after just two months, Hartwell told “Page Six TV” exclusively.

Speaking to the media for the first time since sensationally filing divorce papers on Monday, Hartwell, 38, said that their marriage was torn apart by jealousy, disagreements about starting a family and suspicions about infidelity on both sides.

Hartwell, who married “Cosby Show” star Knight Pulliam, 37, on January 1 after dating for four months, said that they stopped having sex once the romance soured — but claims she was so fixated on getting pregnant he suspects she went behind his back to do it.

He told us that after they wed, “she wanted a baby really fast, and what I was trying to explain to her was that — from my beliefs, from seeing other successful people — that when you first get married, especially since we didn’t have a long courtship, that we should actually focus on each other and not just have a baby. That’s something she really did want to do.”

Hartwell added that in February he “had a sit-down” with his wife, who became the youngest-ever winner of an Emmy award for her role as Rudy Huxtable on the once-beloved NBC show.

“I said, ‘I think we probably messed up. I think we moved too fast,'” he told us, “‘Our lives and wants are headed two different directions.'”

During the heart-to-heart Hartwell confessed that his ex, whom he dated for four years, had “lost a baby” and it made him realize he still “cared about her.” Knight Pulliam was so upset after Hartwell’s admission that she virtually disappeared from his life.

“[Knight Pulliam] wasn’t mad that I still cared about her,” Hartwell, who played for the Baltimore Ravens, said. “All she was a mad about was, ‘You don’t want to have a baby, but you’re mad about her baby. You can’t talk to her 13-year-old daughter. And there was a big fall-out.”

Hartwell added that his wife fled to visit a spiritualist and “started going out with friends all the time and not telling me when she was coming home or sometimes not coming home at all.”

After the confrontation, Hartwell — who has a 9-year-old son, Ed Jr. with his ex-wife, former “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Lisa Wu — says Knight Pulliam was willing to have a baby by any means possible, through in vitro, adoption or naturally.

“What I learned about her is that if she wants something, she wants it now and she’s going to go get it. That’s one of the reasons we actually stopped having sex,” he said.

The former linebacker, who has asked for a paternity test for Knight Pulliam’s unborn child, moved out of the house, and was surprised to discover Knight Pulliam was pregnant — but returned home to support her.

“As time kept going past and the days went past, some things just weren’t adding up. So for me it’s not me saying she’s a bad person,” he said. “She wants what she wants, I want what I want: she wants a baby, I want to find love and happiness. But at the end of the day, I think if things don’t add up, I think it’s fair for me, if things don’t add up, to want a test.”

“I can’t say she’s been unfaithful. I can say she’s stayed out, she’s not came home, she’s went out-of-town … for three days, I don’t know what’s going on. I can say that,” he said. “I can’t say she was unfaithful. I can say she wanted to get in vitro, I can say she wanted to do some things to make sure she got pregnant. I just want to make sure it is mine.”

Meanwhile, he denied allegations made by his soon-to-be-ex wife on “Entertainment Tonight” on Wednesday night that he cheated on her, and accused her of stretching the truth to make herself look better.

“One thing I have found out about her — and it’s not to bash her — is that she can tell a half-truth to make sure that she seems like, I don’t want to say the victim,” he said. “But that she’s the one that’s right.”

http://pagesix.com/2016/07/28/the-real-reason-ed-hartwell-split-from-keshia-knight-pulliam/

 
Basically they both moved too fast if this is to be believed...those rose colored glasses got slapped off his face
 
The real reason Ed Hartwell split from Keshia Knight Pulliam

Keshia Knight Pulliam’s marriage to Ed Hartwell fell apart after just two months, Hartwell told “Page Six TV” exclusively.

Speaking to the media for the first time since sensationally filing divorce papers on Monday, Hartwell, 38, said that their marriage was torn apart by jealousy, disagreements about starting a family and suspicions about infidelity on both sides.

Hartwell, who married “Cosby Show” star Knight Pulliam, 37, on January 1 after dating for four months, said that they stopped having sex once the romance soured — but claims she was so fixated on getting pregnant he suspects she went behind his back to do it.

He told us that after they wed, “she wanted a baby really fast, and what I was trying to explain to her was that — from my beliefs, from seeing other successful people — that when you first get married, especially since we didn’t have a long courtship, that we should actually focus on each other and not just have a baby. That’s something she really did want to do.”

Hartwell added that in February he “had a sit-down” with his wife, who became the youngest-ever winner of an Emmy award for her role as Rudy Huxtable on the once-beloved NBC show.

“I said, ‘I think we probably messed up. I think we moved too fast,'” he told us, “‘Our lives and wants are headed two different directions.'”

During the heart-to-heart Hartwell confessed that his ex, whom he dated for four years, had “lost a baby” and it made him realize he still “cared about her.” Knight Pulliam was so upset after Hartwell’s admission that she virtually disappeared from his life.

“[Knight Pulliam] wasn’t mad that I still cared about her,” Hartwell, who played for the Baltimore Ravens, said. “All she was a mad about was, ‘You don’t want to have a baby, but you’re mad about her baby. You can’t talk to her 13-year-old daughter. And there was a big fall-out.”

Hartwell added that his wife fled to visit a spiritualist and “started going out with friends all the time and not telling me when she was coming home or sometimes not coming home at all.”

After the confrontation, Hartwell — who has a 9-year-old son, Ed Jr. with his ex-wife, former “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Lisa Wu — says Knight Pulliam was willing to have a baby by any means possible, through in vitro, adoption or naturally.

“What I learned about her is that if she wants something, she wants it now and she’s going to go get it. That’s one of the reasons we actually stopped having sex,” he said.

The former linebacker, who has asked for a paternity test for Knight Pulliam’s unborn child, moved out of the house, and was surprised to discover Knight Pulliam was pregnant — but returned home to support her.

“As time kept going past and the days went past, some things just weren’t adding up. So for me it’s not me saying she’s a bad person,” he said. “She wants what she wants, I want what I want: she wants a baby, I want to find love and happiness. But at the end of the day, I think if things don’t add up, I think it’s fair for me, if things don’t add up, to want a test.”

“I can’t say she’s been unfaithful. I can say she’s stayed out, she’s not came home, she’s went out-of-town … for three days, I don’t know what’s going on. I can say that,” he said. “I can’t say she was unfaithful. I can say she wanted to get in vitro, I can say she wanted to do some things to make sure she got pregnant. I just want to make sure it is mine.”

Meanwhile, he denied allegations made by his soon-to-be-ex wife on “Entertainment Tonight” on Wednesday night that he cheated on her, and accused her of stretching the truth to make herself look better.

“One thing I have found out about her — and it’s not to bash her — is that she can tell a half-truth to make sure that she seems like, I don’t want to say the victim,” he said. “But that she’s the one that’s right.”

http://pagesix.com/2016/07/28/the-real-reason-ed-hartwell-split-from-keshia-knight-pulliam/



Wtf did you expect Ed....the woman's 37, of course she want to have a baby ASAP :confused:
 
Well damn. If true: #TeamKeshia


i got a funny vibe when she said she never cheated since she was married


looks like they never got over the 1st year ex shit

never got chance to tie up loose ends

4 months is way too soon to get married

anyway

wish all the best to her and that baby
 
Not So Blind Item
Monday, May 23, 2016

This former child star and a former NFL player got married at the start of the new year. But insiders whisper that their brief marriage is on the rocks. The child-star, who played the daughter of a legendary comedian on a ’80s TV sitcom, married the broke womanizer about a month after they got engaged.

The marriage was troubled from the start, according to insiders. The husband, who has with a roving eye for women, used the actress’s B-list clout and money to open up a gym in Atlanta. But now he is missing in action from her social media pages and she has made no mention of him in her podcasts in months.

http://sandrarose.com/2016/05/not-so-blind-item-72/
http://straightfromthea.com/2016/05...-newlyweds-ed-hartwell-keshia-knight-pulliam/
http://straightfromthea.com/2016/07...-e-interview-ed-hartwell-responds-full-video/

 
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^^^ used her to open a gym?

He saying she did invitro without him knowing? I mean why would she wait til she was married to have invitro, she could of done that without him. Don't even make sense...

Her clock ticking I get. But he was pressing Lisa to have a second baby if I remember correctly, think she couldn't. Can't remember.
 
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