Is this just an excuse?!?

[Buttnaked]

Thats funny....it earned me an engagement ring. I may have come off harse but you should be able to talk to your bf whenever you feel the need to. You shouldn't have to hold your tongue because he's watching football. That's ridiculous!

just 'cause you have a ring doesn't mean he isn't steppin' out on you...

there's a cat i know that fucked around on his current wife the whole time the were "going out." this cat was w/this chick for years. cheated on her the whole damn time w/multiple women (more than 3). now they're married w/3 seed. for all i know he's still wil'in' out. he seems to have stopped, but we don't interact as much as we used to, and he may just be on the DL more now.

all that to say, you're approach is not going to garner positive sentiment from any man who has any man about him. i don't give a fuck how sensitive dude is. i'm a sensitive ass nigga. i cry, rarely, but i've been known to grown ass man cry. anyways, i'm enlightened & sensitive, basically not your average dude, but i found your approach highly aggressive and patently offensive.

all that to say, an engagement ring don't mean much of shit. niggas cheat when they're married. what the fuck does an engagement ring mean?

DON'T CHASE AWAY MEN W/SHITTY ATTITUDES AND INSENSITIVE PERSPECTIVES ON SHIT YOU DON'T NECESSARILY UNDERSTAND...

that shit could come back to fuck you at later date...sometimes in a literal sense...

 

[Buttnaked]

You must be a baseball fan.

 

[Buttnaked]

TAKE HEED!

the curse of the average nigga rears its head as always...

everybody ain't like this...does it happen often, why yes the fuck it does, but that doesn't mean everybody is built the same way...



on a separate note, i'd like to go on record as saying fuck Valentine's Day. it's a fake ass European holiday that has shit to do with anything valuable about any real long-term relationship. why the fuck i gotta wait 1 day out of 365 to show you how much i love you? fuck is that dumb ass shit? i'm not gonna fuck you special 1 day out the year. how 'bout i fuck you like that every fucking day? show your love always, not on a special occasion. WTF is that? that shit kills me. i keep my shit daily, not annual...silly humans...

 

[Noir]

MAN, WHAT THE FUCK ARE PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT "BAD TIMING AFTER THE SUPERBOWL"

JESUS, IT'S A FUCKING GAME, did he lose his apartment after the game. did his house catch fire or something.?

You must be a baseball fan.

Or a Patriots Fan

 

[Robeson]

First off, it WAS after the superbowl game (at least an HOUR after the shit), so it wasn't like it was on at the time. He was alone, and so was I. He is NOT into sports like most guys, but was in the spirit cause his boys were in the spirit.

I do agree with the other posters when they say we need to talk about it in person, and not over the phone. I'm flying to him next weekend, so I, myself, said that's probably a good time to discuss things. I was not trying to be inconsiderate, and, please, he would NOT cut me off over something like this. If a man cuts a three-year long relationship over me asking a question "at a bad time," I wouldn't need to be with him anyway...

Damn.. three years??? Sweetie, this is the thing. After three years, there is no profession both of you are in that ONE of you cannot relocate to the locale of the other. Me? If I want to be with somebody, I'm gonna be with them. Maybe not after 6 months... but THREE FUCKING YEARS????

Nope, cat has it good. You prolly got some killer sex. He can hit that at least once or twice a month, then in NY he can do his thing. Hey, if he is with someone there that doesn't work out, he will always (yep) have to you to help him get over any NY dry spell.

No, baby, cat is prolly fucking his head off up there. If he ain't fifty, no way he is going to be satisfied hitting it once or twice a month. Now, I haven't read all of your posts, so you may be cool with that. But from my take he has NO REASON to even discuss tightening things up. I'd keep it just like it is for as long as I could.

Women....

 

[YouLikeMyStyle]

So, yesterday, after the game, my boyfriend and I are talking...we've been doing this long distance thing for a while, and I asked him a question about how long can we really keep things up like this. Personally, it is just a drain and, financially, its crazy always shelling out money to fly and see each other at least once a month.

His response was why would I bring such a thing up at a time like this (it was about an hour after the superbowl game, he's in NY, and he had previously finished saying goodbye to his boys he had invited over)...my gut feeling is that he may be trying to avoid talking about it because he is confused. However, is "this is bad timing" really a viable excuse?

For more details about it, I feel he, overall, avoids discussing long term plans for us... but, I try to "back off of him" and not nag him about it too often.

DO YOU NOT REALIZE THAT WAS ONE OF THE BEST SUPER BOWLS IN HISTORY? AND THAT HIS TEAM WON?

Women just do stupid shit sometimes. I watch sports, so I completely understand why he wouldn't want to talk after that. He's trying to chill and celebrate. I am a woman, so I'm sure I do my fair share of stupid shit but damn...the super bowl?