i have a question

[mariano42]

Your second and third question are interconnected...be straight up with her,up front, and sincere. Let her know your intentions, and don't back off of them. You said that you wouldn't mind dating her. So let her know that, but smoothly. Tell her that you'd like to get to know her better because you are attracted to her and want to see if her personality matches the outer beauty you see in her. Believe me, she'll bite, because that there will separate you from the others. Very important key thing YOU MUST DO...Back up what you say with your actions!! That will definitely set you off from the rest. The rest is up to you Mariano.

I'll expect my check in the mail... JUST KIDDIN'...

thanks

AWWWWWWW SHYT ... I knew she was feelin' you Alright well to answer your questions it'll just take time for her to start trusting you ... you've gotta be consistent and back up your talks ... you gotta check for her meaning call and make plans with her every so often ... about the friend part just let her know what your intentions are ... let her know that you're feelin' her a bit(don't make it sound like you like her too much cuz coming on too strong may scare her off plus you wanna let her know that she has to prove herself to you just as much as you have to prove yourself to her) and that you wanna get to know her to see where things can develop ... this should clear up any misconceptions about wether you wanna be her friend or more ... GO AHEAD HOMIE ... I hope it works out

thanks. i just hope she dont jump to conclusions if i say im feeling her a bit just on our second day talking, cause she might think im like the rest of guys trying to fuck her. cause she said shes only looking for friends at the moment but last night she was giving me complements about my smile and say that we have alot in common. or should i wait a lil bit to let her know my intentions?

whats more important. wondering about the games some chick is playing or
working on shit thats beneficial to you? Chicks will always be here. They
out number men. The time your mind is spent wondering whats up with
her you could have mastered some aspect of your studies.

my school is important but the chick looked good and she was eyeing me and i was eyeing her. so i wanted to take advantage of the opportunity.

 

[MagicMarvin]

well, i approached shorty today and it was all good. she was looking at me all the time because she wanted to know me because i was soo quiet. She wanted to approach me but she said shes extremely shy and she said she been hawking me through the windows and syhtyes. but she was very sarcastic, nice and funny. so far she thinks im like every guy who met her (they only want the pussy), and she said she hate guys and dont want to deal with them, but this shorty was very nice to me the whole time.

my second question is....how do i separate myself from the rest of guys? dont get me wrong shorty look cute and have a banging body but i want her to gain my trust and friendship, she looks like the type of chick i would love to date.

3rd how do i stay out of the friendship zone? because i dont want her to look at me like a friend( i dont mind) but i want her to see me as a guy who could be her man and syht?

p.s- she said we have alot in common

Man, don't underestimate the value of friendship. What better way to get to know her well enough to "be her man and syht?" How can you possibly look at her as wifey material when you've only known her for a day or two. Cute looks and a pretty smile doesn't tell you nearly enough about somebody to be talking that serious shit. Don't be like the other guys. Invest in getting to know her on a friendship level. If it's meant to be, it will be. Ain't nothing like being friends and lovers.

 

[mariano42]

Man, don't underestimate the value of friendship. What better way to get to know her well enough to "be her man and syht?" How can you possibly look at her as wifey material when you've only known her for a day or two. Cute looks and a pretty smile doesn't tell you nearly enough about somebody to be talking that serious shit. Don't be like the other guys. Invest in getting to know her on a friendship level. If it's meant to be, it will be. Ain't nothing like being friends and lovers.

i didnt look at her as a wifey.

 

[LoneStar29]

thanks. i just hope she dont jump to conclusions if i say im feeling her a bit just on our second day talking, cause she might think im like the rest of guys trying to fuck her. cause she said shes only looking for friends at the moment but last night she was giving me complements about my smile and say that we have alot in common. or should i wait a lil bit to let her know my intentions?

That's why I said to tell her that you're feelin' her "a bit" so she'll feel like okay he's interested and she'll know your intentions but you're not sounding too overbearing or fake about it ... but you're right though ... maybe wait a little before you even tell her that much ... I hope she's not one of those bitter girls that's gonna take all her previous man frusturations out on you

 

[Harlem's Angel]

1. Don't call her a chick.
2. Be honest.
3. Be upfront.
4. Don't let her walk all over you.
5. Make sure she always knows what your intentions are. Whatever they are.

 

[Noir]

well, i approached shorty today and it was all good. she was looking at me all the time because she wanted to know me because i was soo quiet. She wanted to approach me but she said shes extremely shy and she said she been hawking me through the windows and syhtyes. but she was very sarcastic, nice and funny. so far she thinks im like every guy who met her (they only want the pussy), and she said she hate guys and dont want to deal with them, but this shorty was very nice to me the whole time.

my second question is....how do i separate myself from the rest of guys? dont get me wrong shorty look cute and have a banging body but i want her to gain my trust and friendship, she looks like the type of chick i would love to date.

3rd how do i stay out of the friendship zone? because i dont want her to look at me like a friend( i dont mind) but i want her to see me as a guy who could be her man and syht?

p.s- she said we have alot in common

Your second and third question are interconnected...be straight up with her,up front, and sincere. Let her know your intentions, and don't back off of them. You said that you wouldn't mind dating her. So let her know that, but smoothly. Tell her that you'd like to get to know her better because you are attracted to her and want to see if her personality matches the outer beauty you see in her. Believe me, she'll bite, because that there will separate you from the others. Very important key thing YOU MUST DO...Back up what you say with your actions!! That will definitely set you off from the rest. The rest is up to you Mariano.

I'll expect my check in the mail... JUST KIDDIN'...

AWWWWWWW SHYT ... I knew she was feelin' you Alright well to answer your questions it'll just take time for her to start trusting you ... you've gotta be consistent and back up your talks ... you gotta check for her meaning call and make plans with her every so often ... about the friend part just let her know what your intentions are ... let her know that you're feelin' her a bit(don't make it sound like you like her too much cuz coming on too strong may scare her off plus you wanna let her know that she has to prove herself to you just as much as you have to prove yourself to her) and that you wanna get to know her to see where things can develop ... this should clear up any misconceptions about wether you wanna be her friend or more ... GO AHEAD HOMIE ... I hope it works out



You're so silly

Man, don't underestimate the value of friendship. What better way to get to know her well enough to "be her man and syht?" How can you possibly look at her as wifey material when you've only known her for a day or two. Cute looks and a pretty smile doesn't tell you nearly enough about somebody to be talking that serious shit. Don't be like the other guys. Invest in getting to know her on a friendship level. If it's meant to be, it will be. Ain't nothing like being friends and lovers.

That's why I said to tell her that you're feelin' her "a bit" so she'll feel like okay he's interested and she'll know your intentions but you're not sounding too overbearing or fake about it ... but you're right though ... maybe wait a little before you even tell her that much ... I hope she's not one of those bitter girls that's gonna take all her previous man frusturations out on you

Follow all of the good advice above. . . To answer all of your questions:

Let her know and let her see that your primary focus is your studies, that there will be times where you will have to choose to be in the library instead of with her. It will let her know that you not like other guys just wanting pussy, that she can trust you to be serious about your goals and she will have to step up to keep up with YOU, and that your personality and determination would make you a good FRIEND and LOVER.

Ultimately the choice is with her, she can decide to mature and focus on school and a relationship with a together brother on the way up, or remain trifling and on a high-school maturity level, settling on whatever jerk spits "game" at her.

 

[mariano42]

this is weird. (no colin powell)

She always telling me how good i look with my hat and how she loves the way i smile. but there was this guy(lets say his name is charles) she was talking to in september, but not anymore. the guy played her but she played him back and she dont talk to him any more.

so last nite i was chilling with her, when she was drunk and she was telling me how she always having dreams about charles and she dont know whether shes infactuated or whether its love. and first she didnt want to tell me about this guy and what they went through but last nite she did. she keep talking about this guy and it made me feel bad and syht cause shes talking about some guy when me and her is chilling.

she was like her head isnt in the right place because how she, got charles on her mind. she kept saying all guys are the same. i really like this girl's demeanor, because shes so sincere, real and strong in terms of personality and i like that. im kinda afriad to tell her im "feeling her a bit" because i dont know how she will look at me like a pig. i know i gotta flirt with her a lil bit but im not a good flirter. how can i flirt?

because she always talking about charles like every 10 seconds. help a bruh out!!

 

[LoneStar29]

this is weird. (no colin powell)

She always telling me how good i look with my hat and how she loves the way i smile. but there was this guy(lets say his name is charles) she was talking to in september, but not anymore. the guy played her but she played him back and she dont talk to him any more.

so last nite i was chilling with her, when she was drunk and she was telling me how she always having dreams about charles and she dont know whether shes infactuated or whether its love. and first she didnt want to tell me about this guy and what they went through but last nite she did. she keep talking about this guy and it made me feel bad and syht cause shes talking about some guy when me and her is chilling.

she was like her head isnt in the right place because how she, got charles on her mind. she kept saying all guys are the same. i really like this girl's demeanor, because shes so sincere, real and strong in terms of personality and i like that. im kinda afriad to tell her im "feeling her a bit" because i dont know how she will look at me like a pig. i know i gotta flirt with her a lil bit but im not a good flirter. how can i flirt?

because she always talking about charles like every 10 seconds. help a bruh out!!

WTFThat's some disrespectful shitHomegirl should not be talking about another man when she is chillin' with youEspecially after SHE'S the one who went out of her way to get you to notice her and talk to her ... woman don't do that for "new friends" they do that when they are feelin' a man ... she sounds all bitter and shit and she's still in love with a man that played herSHE'S SILLY AS HELL ... okay ... I think maybe you've been too nice to her now ... now it's time to take the control out of her hands and put it in yours ... I think you should stop pursuing her so much ... don't call her ... if you do call her then just be like "hi how are you doing just checkin' up on you" type flex ... don't make dates with her either ... see how long(if even)it takes for HER to call you or ask you out again ... if she calls and asks why you haven't been paying her attention tell her that you're just giving her time to get over "Charles" so she realizes how dumb she was being ... then she's gonna have to pursue YOU now cuz she fucked up ... if you don't hear from her well then you know she ain't worth your time cuz she's crying over a player ... silly ass ... THIS GIRL GOT ME PISSED AND SHIT ....... and I don't even know you like that

 

[mariano42]

WTFThat's some disrespectful shitHomegirl should not be talking about another man when she is chillin' with youEspecially after SHE'S the one who went out of her way to get you to notice her and talk to her ... woman don't do that for "new friends" they do that when they are feelin' a man ... she sounds all bitter and shit and she's still in love with a man that played herSHE'S SILLY AS HELL ... okay ... I think maybe you've been too nice to her now ... now it's time to take the control out of her hands and put it in yours ... I think you should stop pursuing her so much ... don't call her ... if you do call her then just be like "hi how are you doing just checkin' up on you" type flex ... don't make dates with her either ... see how long(if even)it takes for HER to call you or ask you out again ... if she calls and asks why you haven't been paying her attention tell her that you're just giving her time to get over "Charles" so she realizes how dumb she was being ... then she's gonna have to pursue YOU now cuz she fucked up ... if you don't hear from her well then you know she ain't worth your time cuz she's crying over a player ... silly ass ... THIS GIRL GOT ME PISSED AND SHIT ....... and I don't even know you like that

shes always hitting me up on the celly wondering what im doing and she invited me to her room last nite while her firend was in the room(we was chilling , all three). yesterday she wanted me to call her to go and eat with her and i did. like in the lounge in the dorm we was talking on the first day we met and she was saying how me and her got alot in common and we do. but shes not really sure why she keep thing about this guy.

should i flirt with her more? cause she say i look good with my fitteds and she takes my hat off and wave it around and she said that whenever i see her i need to smile because she likes my smile. its like this guy charles is really left an impact on her.

spring break is comming up and i want to tell her "we should chill when we get back home" is this a good idea? i know u said dont makes dates but just curious?

 

[Noir]

WTFThat's some disrespectful shitHomegirl should not be talking about another man when she is chillin' with youEspecially after SHE'S the one who went out of her way to get you to notice her and talk to her ... woman don't do that for "new friends" they do that when they are feelin' a man ... she sounds all bitter and shit and she's still in love with a man that played herSHE'S SILLY AS HELL ... okay ... I think maybe you've been too nice to her now ... now it's time to take the control out of her hands and put it in yours ... I think you should stop pursuing her so much ... don't call her ... if you do call her then just be like "hi how are you doing just checkin' up on you" type flex ... don't make dates with her either ... see how long(if even)it takes for HER to call you or ask you out again ... if she calls and asks why you haven't been paying her attention tell her that you're just giving her time to get over "Charles" so she realizes how dumb she was being ... then she's gonna have to pursue YOU now cuz she fucked up ... if you don't hear from her well then you know she ain't worth your time cuz she's crying over a player ... silly ass ... THIS GIRL GOT ME PISSED AND SHIT ....... and I don't even know you like that

I have to give credit to LoneStar29 for recognizing a "disrespectful" female and giving sound advice to the brother . . .

shes always hitting me up on the celly wondering what im doing and she invited me to her room last nite while her firend was in the room(we was chilling , all three). yesterday she wanted me to call her to go and eat with her and i did. like in the lounge in the dorm we was talking on the first day we met and she was saying how me and her got alot in common and we do. but shes not really sure why she keep thing about this guy.

should i flirt with her more? cause she say i look good with my fitteds and she takes my hat off and wave it around and she said that whenever i see her i need to smile because she likes my smile. its like this guy charles is really left an impact on her.

spring break is comming up and i want to tell her "we should chill when we get back home" is this a good idea? i know u said dont makes dates but just curious?

I've got to agree with LoneStar29, you've been too nice, and need to start pulling away from this girl and not give her so much attention. You are starting to see how perhaps she is not as mature as she should be, and unfortunately, you are enabling her and just making her the center of attention.

If you start paying less attention to her, and she sees that you have other more important things to do than just cater to her, she may "wake up" and decide whether she really wants to be with you or just wallow with reminiscing over "Charles". It's time for her to "woman up".

 

[Andeyhollawho]

this is weird. (no colin powell)

She always telling me how good i look with my hat and how she loves the way i smile. but there was this guy(lets say his name is charles) she was talking to in september, but not anymore. the guy played her but she played him back and she dont talk to him any more.

so last nite i was chilling with her, when she was drunk and she was telling me how she always having dreams about charles and she dont know whether shes infactuated or whether its love. and first she didnt want to tell me about this guy and what they went through but last nite she did. she keep talking about this guy and it made me feel bad and syht cause shes talking about some guy when me and her is chilling.

she was like her head isnt in the right place because how she, got charles on her mind. she kept saying all guys are the same. i really like this girl's demeanor, because shes so sincere, real and strong in terms of personality and i like that. im kinda afriad to tell her im "feeling her a bit" because i dont know how she will look at me like a pig. i know i gotta flirt with her a lil bit but im not a good flirter. how can i flirt?

because she always talking about charles like every 10 seconds. help a bruh out!!

Oh shit son...run son...RUN...you are in...it's...it's....

AND you already fucked up. Now let me explain this. My girl Lonestar is dropping science, but she is being nice.

What you should have done right there when she started talking about dude is said "Fuck Charles. Let's talk about us." Period. Or you should have forcefully tried to change the subject and showed you dislike. By sitting there you now look like a weak ass bitch (no disrespect intended) and you are now subject to be played.

Anytime a woman who seems like she is feeling you starts bringing up ex's that shit is a test for future reference. Change the subject twice...on the third time she try to bring it back you should walk out and tell her that she should call Charles. If she is REALLY feeling you she will try to stop you from leaving, but you should anyway. LEAVE so your word can mean something with her. Then you should be in there.

 

[mariano42]

I have to give credit to LoneStar29 for recognizing a "disrespectful" female and giving sound advice to the brother . . .



I've got to agree with LoneStar29, you've been too nice, and need to start pulling away from this girl and not give her so much attention. You are starting to see how perhaps she is not as mature as she should be, and unfortunately, you are enabling her and just making her the center of attention.

If you start paying less attention to her, and she sees that you have other more important things to do than just cater to her, she may "wake up" and decide whether she really wants to be with you or just wallow with reminiscing over "Charles". It's time for her to "woman up".

thats what ima do. what if she calls me to go and eat with her? what should i do?

Oh shit son...run son...RUN...you are in...it's...it's....

AND you already fucked up. Now let me explain this. My girl Lonestar is dropping science, but she is being nice.

What you should have done right there when she started talking about dude is said "Fuck Charles. Let's talk about us." Period. Or you should have forcefully tried to change the subject and showed you dislike. By sitting there you now look like a weak ass bitch (no disrespect intended) and you are now subject to be played.

Anytime a woman who seems like she is feeling you starts bringing up ex's that shit is a test for future reference. Change the subject twice...on the third time she try to bring it back you should walk out and tell her that she should call Charles. If she is REALLY feeling you she will try to stop you from leaving, but you should anyway. LEAVE so your word can mean something with her. Then you should be in there.

thats what i should do. because she was talking about this guy teh whole nite and i was looking soft and awkward. it was a very very very very uncomfortable position to be in. it was so uncomfortable i really didnt say much.

she was saying how she goes to counciling because of this guy and because of the stress of school. she even told me shes mentioned me in the counciling with her councilor.

like i dont know, i like talking to this chick but i feel lost sometimes. I kinda scared to say i feel her a bit cause she might look at me different. i remember her saying how if a guy dont wana be friends with her she wouldn't care because she aint looking for no man. im really in the smokes with this chick.

but im separating myself with this chick because its making me lost even tho we started talking on Wednesday.

 

[LoneStar29]

should i flirt with her more?
spring break is comming up and i want to tell her "we should chill when we get back home" is this a good idea?

NAW fuck it ... you seem like a really sweet guy and you deserve a girl whose mental is on point with yours ... sadly she's going through some other shit right now so let her get her mind right and then tell her to holla back at you

What you should have done right there when she started talking about dude is said "Fuck Charles. Let's talk about us." Period.Change the subject twice...on the third time she try to bring it back you should walk out and tell her that she should call Charles. If she is REALLY feeling you she will try to stop you from leaving, but you should anyway. LEAVE so your word can mean something with her. Then you should be in there.

DANG Andey ... that's true game right thereThat's how you get that control back

what if she calls me to go and eat with her? what should i do?

You're so cute

she was talking about this guy teh whole nite and i was looking soft and awkward. it was a very very very very uncomfortable position to be in. it was so uncomfortable i really didnt say much.

That's fucked up homieshe doesn't sound like good company

she was saying how she goes to counciling because of this guy . she even told me shes mentioned me in the counciling with her councilor.

WTF?????????Not a good look for homegirlMaybe you SHOULD just be "friends" ... seriously ... like I said before she's going through some shit and needs to ger her mind right ... no need for you to suffer along her emotional rollercoaster ... no disrespect to her ... I mean it happens to the best of us ... but you don't want her to bring you down ... do you ... be her "friend" and you never know ... maybe after she gets "better" you guys will "hit" it off

but im separating myself with this chick because its making me lost even tho we started talking on Wednesday.

FUCK ... that's alot to be going through in only 3 1/2 days

 

[LoneStar29]

I have to give credit to LoneStar29 for recognizing a "disrespectful" female and giving sound advice to the brother . . .

Thank you

 

[mariano42]

you know what LoneStar29 .......


ima charge it to the game. if i see shorty im say wut up and keep it moving, but im not going to hold a convo with her. fuck it.

at the same time im kinda sad because this chick been eyeing me since the year started and i waited too long and i feel its my fault, because ive should've stop acting like a bitch and holla at her since day 1. i really liker her personality too but...

life goes on.

 

[LoneStar29]

you know what LoneStar29 .......


ima charge it to the game. if i see shorty im say wut up and keep it moving, but im not going to hold a convo with her. fuck it.

at the same time im kinda sad because this chick been eyeing me since the year started and i waited too long and i feel its my fault, because ive should've stop acting like a bitch and holla at her since day 1. i really liker her personality too but...

life goes on.

Don't worry about it baby it's not your fault ... you were focused on the right things at that time and now it's time for you to shift your focus back ... you will meet another nice girl(who isn't in counselling) and you will know exactly what to do then cuz of all the advice you've gotten so the same mistakes wont be made again AND you'll be able to tell which girl to give your attention to and which one to not ... this one isn't worth it I don't think and you would have seen that wether it was now, 6 months ago, or 6 months down the road ... you'll be good don't worry about it ... and you've always got Momma LS here to help you out if you need itYou're a nice boy

 

[Andeyhollawho]

True story...

When I was in college I had this BEAUTIFUL girl roll up on me out the blue while I was waiting on the campus bus (GA Tech by the way) and was giving me the eye from jump street. I quickly struck up a long convo with her and she gave me her number. I waited about a day to give her a ring and called her up. NOW she won't say shit to me.

I'm like what the fuck??? So I just said forget it. Next day I'm walking to class along my same route and I see ol' girl working at the bookstore that I pass everyday going to class. So I step to her like hey what's up with you? I never noticed you worked over here. She's like I notice you everyday but you never say shit to me. Long story short she went through the trouble just to get me to notice her. That's what she wanted and that's what she got. She was happy as hell to see that puzzled look on my face. She just was wondering how in the hell a guy couldn't notice her standing there everyday so she followed me just to get in my line of site and "dump" me.

Sometimes women are just crazy.

 

[LoneStar29]

True story...

When I was in college I had this BEAUTIFUL girl roll up on me out the blue while I was waiting on the campus bus (GA Tech by the way) and was giving me the eye from jump street. I quickly struck up a long convo with her and she gave me her number. I waited about a day to give her a ring and called her up. NOW she won't say shit to me.

I'm like what the fuck??? So I just said forget it. Next day I'm walking to class along my same route and I see ol' girl working at the bookstore that I pass everyday going to class. So I step to her like hey what's up with you? I never noticed you worked over here. She's like I notice you everyday but you never say shit to me. Long story short she went through the trouble just to get me to notice her. That's what she wanted and that's what she got. She was happy as hell to see that puzzled look on my face. She just was wondering how in the hell a guy couldn't notice her standing there everyday so she followed me just to get in my line of site and "dump" me.

Sometimes women are just crazy.

That IS sort of crazyBut I guess it was all about the thrill of the chase for her ... not only women do that ... I had a man chase me for 10 years and the day I gave in he stopped callin' mesilly fool ... cuz then I locked him off and he's back to sweatin' me again

 

[Noir]

you know what LoneStar29 .......


ima charge it to the game. if i see shorty im say wut up and keep it moving, but im not going to hold a convo with her. fuck it.

at the same time im kinda sad because this chick been eyeing me since the year started and i waited too long and i feel its my fault, because ive should've stop acting like a bitch and holla at her since day 1. i really liker her personality too but...

life goes on.

Don't worry about it baby it's not your fault ... you were focused on the right things at that time and now it's time for you to shift your focus back ... you will meet another nice girl(who isn't in counselling) and you will know exactly what to do then cuz of all the advice you've gotten so the same mistakes wont be made again AND you'll be able to tell which girl to give your attention to and which one to not ... this one isn't worth it I don't think and you would have seen that wether it was now, 6 months ago, or 6 months down the road ... you'll be good don't worry about it ... and you've always got Momma LS here to help you out if you need itYou're a nice boy

That's okay Mariano, you blew one save, but you know that you'll have your next shot out of the bullpen . . . Put the cape away for now, you'll get a chance to use it later . . .

But seriously, keep moving. She needs to get herself together. You keep yourself focused. I'm sure when she sees you talking to the next girl, she'll realize what she missed out on and will start sweating you again.

Besides, you got Momma LS to help you

 

[LoneStar29]

That's okay Mariano, you blew one save, but you know that you'll have your next shot out of the bullpen . . . Put the cape away for now, you'll get a chance to use it later . . .

But seriously, keep moving. She needs to get herself together. You keep yourself focused. I'm sure when she sees you talking to the next girl, she'll realize what she missed out on and will start sweating you again.

Besides, you got Momma LS to help you

I HEARD THAT .................................................

 

[mariano42]

Don't worry about it baby it's not your fault ... you were focused on the right things at that time and now it's time for you to shift your focus back ... you will meet another nice girl(who isn't in counselling) and you will know exactly what to do then cuz of all the advice you've gotten so the same mistakes wont be made again AND you'll be able to tell which girl to give your attention to and which one to not ... this one isn't worth it I don't think and you would have seen that wether it was now, 6 months ago, or 6 months down the road ... you'll be good don't worry about it ... and you've always got Momma LS here to help you out if you need itYou're a nice boy

thanks for the help. its 9:31pm and she didn't call me. thats a good sign.

ina matter of fact why is her phone# still in my cell?

*deletes her number*

 

[mariano42]

True story...

When I was in college I had this BEAUTIFUL girl roll up on me out the blue while I was waiting on the campus bus (GA Tech by the way) and was giving me the eye from jump street. I quickly struck up a long convo with her and she gave me her number. I waited about a day to give her a ring and called her up. NOW she won't say shit to me.

I'm like what the fuck??? So I just said forget it. Next day I'm walking to class along my same route and I see ol' girl working at the bookstore that I pass everyday going to class. So I step to her like hey what's up with you? I never noticed you worked over here. She's like I notice you everyday but you never say shit to me. Long story short she went through the trouble just to get me to notice her. That's what she wanted and that's what she got. She was happy as hell to see that puzzled look on my face. She just was wondering how in the hell a guy couldn't notice her standing there everyday so she followed me just to get in my line of site and "dump" me.

Sometimes women are just crazy.

same here with this chick. im not going to expose her like that but shes really on some syht. i will never understand women. that why i never been ina relationship

That IS sort of crazyBut I guess it was all about the thrill of the chase for her ... not only women do that ... I had a man chase me for 10 years and the day I gave in he stopped callin' mesilly fool ... cuz then I locked him off and he's back to sweatin' me again

that what i think this chick did. because she said the was so curious to know me and syht because i never talked, or make eye contact with nobody.

like i said its a wut up and ima keep it trucking. i just hope she dont stop me to hold a convo or invite me to her room or to eat. im not trying to hear her talk about her dreaming about that other guy and how she miss him and syht.

i felt sick to my damn stomach last nite with her talking about this guy. love is like AIDS or somesyht .

 

[LoneStar29]

thanks for the help. its 9:31pm and she didn't call me. thats a good sign.

ina matter of fact why is her phone# still in my cell?

*deletes her number*

So you don't wanna be her "friend"??? ... and please ... don't get all bitter over this ... she is just one silly girl ... there are lots of great women out there who will appreciate a sweet guy like you ... something about your innocence is really turning me on though ... oh .. sorry ..... *back to Momma mode*

 

[mariano42]

So you don't wanna be her "friend"??? ... and please ... don't get all bitter over this ... she is just one silly girl ... there are lots of great women out there who will appreciate a sweet guy like you ... something about your innocence is really turning me on though ... oh .. sorry ..... *back to Momma mode*

nah. maybe it just the moment or maybe its permanent. im wait and see how i feel in the week.

but i really dont want to play this chick by making her look invisible and syht.

because if i do, i go hard. like ill walk into ninjas like they're air and syht. and ill make her look real bad.

i did that syht once. some chick said hello to me in front of 12 people and i kept on walking like i didnt hear that syht. her self-esteem took a real big blow.

 

[LoneStar29]

nah. maybe it just the moment or maybe its permanent. im wait and see how i feel in the week.

but i really dont want to play this chick by making her look invisible and syht.

because if i do, i go hard. like ill walk into ninjas like they're air and syht. and ill make her look real bad.

i did that syht once. some chick said hello to me in front of 12 people and i kept on walking like i didnt hear that syht. her self-esteem took a real big blow.

Save that kind of venom for a really bad girl ... not a silly girl with issues ... be cool ... cuz you never know what could happen after she "gets better" ... you don't wanna burn that bridge right

 

[mariano42]

Save that kind of venom for a really bad girl ... not a silly girl with issues ... be cool ... cuz you never know what could happen after she "gets better" ... you don't wanna burn that bridge right

true. but i perfer to charge it to the game completely. i dont care right now.

are all women confusing like this? because if thats the case ill perfer to die a single lonely old man in a retirement home with no kids or grandkids and syht.

 

[LoneStar29]

true. but i perfer to charge it to the game completely. i dont care right now.

are all women confusing like this? because if thats the case ill perfer to die a single lonely old man in a retirement home with no kids or grandkids and syht.

No baby ... WOMEN aren't confusing like that ... GIRLS are ... it's the game of love ... you will meet more 0's then you will 10's ... that's just how it goes ... it's all about learning to feel them out and deciding who is worth your time and who isn't ... but you can't let just one chick fuck it up for the rest of usTake it easy ... do you ... be yourself ... and the girls will come knockin' on YOUR door ... you've just gotta know when to open it and when to pretend noone is home ... that takes time ... don't worry you'l learn

 

[mariano42]

No baby ... WOMEN aren't confusing like that ... GIRLS are ... it's the game of love ... you will meet more 0's then you will 10's ... that's just how it goes ... it's all about learning to feel them out and deciding who is worth your time and who isn't ... but you can't let just one chick fuck it up for the rest of usTake it easy ... do you ... be yourself ... and the girls will come knockin' on YOUR door ... you've just gotta know when to open it and when to pretend noone is home ... that takes time ... don't worry you'l learn

u do have a point. but i actually went out of my quiet and shy ways just to approach her and its a dud. its reason like this why i dont put myself out there like that.

i hope she dont try and feen over me when i ignore her. . because im not going for it.

 

[Crown&Coke]

u do have a point. but i actually went out of my quiet and shy ways just to approach her and its a dud. its reason like this why i dont put myself out there like that.

i hope she dont try and feen over me when i ignore her. . because im not going for it.

Some girls just like the attention. They just want everyone to want them even if they dont wanna talk to you like that.​

 

[LoneStar29]

u do have a point. but i actually went out of my quiet and shy ways just to approach her and its a dud. its reason like this why i dont put myself out there like that.

i hope she dont try and feen over me when i ignore her. . because im not going for it.

As cute as she said you look she probably willOh well ... too bad for herYou ever heard that old saying "a love lost is better than no love at all" ... the experience will make you a better person ... trust me ... this is how you will know when you meet the "right" girl ... you wont know what's good until you've gone through the badJust don't become bitter like her and it'll be all good

 

[Noir]

I HEARD THAT .................................................

...................... Hey, you can help me with my problems anytime

 

[Noir]

No baby ... WOMEN aren't confusing like that ... GIRLS are ... it's the game of love ... you will meet more 0's then you will 10's ... that's just how it goes ... it's all about learning to feel them out and deciding who is worth your time and who isn't ... but you can't let just one chick fuck it up for the rest of usTake it easy ... do you ... be yourself ... and the girls will come knockin' on YOUR door ... you've just gotta know when to open it and when to pretend noone is home ... that takes time ... don't worry you'l learn

Mariano, don't worry, sometimes one opportunity closes and another one opens up right in front of you . . .

 

[LoneStar29]

...................... Hey, you can help me with my problems anytime

I got you ... anytime just holla

Mariano, don't worry, sometimes one opportunity closes and another one opens up right in front of you . . .

I caught that one too

 

[mariano42]

As cute as she said you look she probably willOh well ... too bad for herYou ever heard that old saying "a love lost is better than no love at all" ... the experience will make you a better person ... trust me ... this is how you will know when you meet the "right" girl ... you wont know what's good until you've gone through the badJust don't become bitter like her and it'll be all good

thanks. just one last question? if i see her and she ask me why im not speaking to her no more what should i say? i know she aint going to ask but i just wana know just in case.

 

[Noir]

I got you ... anytime just holla

I'm going to hold you to your promise

I caught that one too

Damn, you're just too swift for me . . .