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Yo Fam,

The wife has taxed the last of my nerves. She has turned me into a little bitch with all the naggin and straight bullshit. I got a 2 month old that I want to RAISE and a good salary. I never hit her nor been caught cheating. What should I do to prepare to free this bitch? (clown if you must...but this shit is real.)
 
One thought playa. You can never make up for wasted time. So if you really plan on doin, gather your nuts up and make the move now.
 
quit your job and start begging her for money,,, bitch will be gone like the wind,,,

then when she leaves, cry and beg her to stay,,, this will ensure that the bitch will never bother you again or ask you for shit

 
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gameboy said:
quit your job and start begging her for money,,, bitch will be gone like the wind,,,

then when she leaves, cry and beg her to stay,,, this will ensure that the bitch will never bother you again or ask you for shit
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Destroy his life in the name of an eediot chick?
 
Fresh Chalice said:
Destroy his life in the name of an eediot chick?
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if you have a career skill that you can easily transfer to a new job,,, leaving your current job may not be a bad idea until the divorce is final,,,

look at it like this,,, keep your high paying job & pay a gang on alimony & child support,,, or have zero income until the divorce is final & keep most of your shit,,,

plus is you make a woman leave you,,, most of the time she wont ask you for shit, or try to take your shit,,, worked for me
 
gameboy said:
quit your job and start begging her for money,,, bitch will be gone like the wind,,,

then when she leaves, cry and beg her to stay,,, this will ensure that the bitch will never bother you again or ask you for shit
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This shit right here,.... is classic. Wisdom beyond wisdom, cause if you do this shit, it is fasho gone work. The only problem is you gotta become a triflin' nigga.
 
gameboy said:
if you have a career skill that you can easily transfer to a new job,,, leaving your current job may not be a bad idea until the divorce is final,,,

look at it like this,,, keep your high paying job & pay a gang on alimony & child support,,, or have zero income until the divorce is final & keep most of your shit,,,

plus is you make a woman leave you,,, most of the time she wont ask you for shit, or try to take your shit,,, worked for me
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Say playa, you got that futuristic 21st century game. Niggas ain't ready for what you talkin' bout. I don't think theses cats fully understand how much of a scam alimony and child support truly is... Cause if they did they would be swallowin they pride by the gallon to give you yo propers.
 
gameboy said:
quit your job and start begging her for money,,, bitch will be gone like the wind,,,

then when she leaves, cry and beg her to stay,,, this will ensure that the bitch will never bother you again or ask you for shit
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Never thought of this, good one playa!!!
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

But, on the real, it's best to cut your loses now than to wait because the longer you wait the harder it will be too leave. Especially since your child is so young it wouldnt affect her/him at all. Also, be a father, pay the child support and raise you child. Shit might hurt your pocket now but, in the long run you'll be glad you did it. Last thing you want to happen is for your son to end up on TV pullin serious bank talkin about how much of an ass hole his dad was. Or to be on the internet on day suffin BGOL and see your daughter gettin dicked to death by one of Wesly Pipes rejected sons, talkin bout "right there bitch, right there,dont move"!
 
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On the risk of getting clowned right along with you, i will say that, being that the child is only 2 months old, she is probably going through quite a bit with a child that young and new to both of you. I would say stay and try and work it out. Ask her what is bothering her then...THEN.. let her run her fucking mouth until she gets it all out. Been with my girl 11 years, and the one thing i learned is they gon' talk whether you listen or not, but this time, listen. Don't just walk out cuz, not right now. She may be tired from getting no sleep, still in some pain or discomfort from giving birth, and going threw some withdraws. Life does change drastically when you pop one out, so she may just be seeing all thse life changes and odd feeding/changing hours flash before her eyes.

Talk to her, but let her do all the talking! All the damn talking, LOL!!! Don't even interrupt when she's saying off the wall shit,let her talk long enough to solve her own problem.
 
gameboy said:
quit your job and start begging her for money,,, bitch will be gone like the wind,,,

then when she leaves, cry and beg her to stay,,, this will ensure that the bitch will never bother you again or ask you for shit
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:lol::lol::lol:
 
bgbtylvr said:
On the risk of getting clowned right along with you, i will say that, being that the child is only 2 months old, she is probably going through quite a bit with a child that young and new to both of you. I would say stay and try and work it out. Ask her what is bothering her then...THEN.. let her run her fucking mouth until she gets it all out. Been with my girl 11 years, and the one thing i learned is they gon' talk whether you listen or not, but this time, listen. Don't just walk out cuz, not right now. She may be tired from getting no sleep, still in some pain or discomfort from giving birth, and going threw some withdraws. Life does change drastically when you pop one out, so she may just be seeing all thse life changes and odd feeding/changing hours flash before her eyes.

Talk to her, but let her do all the talking! All the damn talking, LOL!!! Don't even interrupt when she's saying off the wall shit,let her talk long enough to solve her own problem.
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You're trying to reason using intelligence.

The fact that the woman may be going through post-partum depression, I'm sure has never crossed his mind.

And before he even responds with: "She's always been that way", why marry and then reproduce with a female of that calibur.

But then again, I'm using reason here.
 
taikun said:
Yo Fam,

The wife has taxed the last of my nerves. She has turned me into a little bitch with all the naggin and straight bullshit. I got a 2 month old that I want to RAISE and a good salary. I never hit her nor been caught cheating. What should I do to prepare to free this bitch? (clown if you must...but this shit is real.)
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Give her my number. When I get finished deep fuckin your wife and givin her the most powerful multiple orgasms she's ever experienced in her life, you will have peace in your house bruh.
 
bgbtylvr said:
On the risk of getting clowned right along with you, i will say that, being that the child is only 2 months old, she is probably going through quite a bit with a child that young and new to both of you. I would say stay and try and work it out. Ask her what is bothering her then...THEN.. let her run her fucking mouth until she gets it all out. Been with my girl 11 years, and the one thing i learned is they gon' talk whether you listen or not, but this time, listen. Don't just walk out cuz, not right now. She may be tired from getting no sleep, still in some pain or discomfort from giving birth, and going threw some withdraws. Life does change drastically when you pop one out, so she may just be seeing all thse life changes and odd feeding/changing hours flash before her eyes.

Talk to her, but let her do all the talking! All the damn talking, LOL!!! Don't even interrupt when she's saying off the wall shit,let her talk long enough to solve her own problem.
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CO-SIGN!!!

I think that's the best advice for you bruh.

The future of black relations in America is looking more grim by the day.:smh:
 
Originally Posted by bgbtylvr
On the risk of getting clowned right along with you, i will say that, being that the child is only 2 months old, she is probably going through quite a bit with a child that young and new to both of you. I would say stay and try and work it out. Ask her what is bothering her then...THEN.. let her run her fucking mouth until she gets it all out. Been with my girl 11 years, and the one thing i learned is they gon' talk whether you listen or not, but this time, listen. Don't just walk out cuz, not right now. She may be tired from getting no sleep, still in some pain or discomfort from giving birth, and going threw some withdraws. Life does change drastically when you pop one out, so she may just be seeing all thse life changes and odd feeding/changing hours flash before her eyes.

Talk to her, but let her do all the talking! All the damn talking, LOL!!! Don't even interrupt when she's saying off the wall shit,let her talk long enough to solve her own problem.
Mello Mello said:
CO-SIGN!!!

I think that's the best advice for you bruh.

The future of black relations in America is looking more grim by the day.:smh:
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Co-Sign, 11 years, Shiyat yall just babies! I been through post partum and all that shit twice and over 25 years down the road the shit just got worse. If she's fucked up now she'll be fucked up 20 years from now! Believe me I thought the same thing and her azz still ain't change matter of fact she's fuckin worse. Leave while you only got to pay for one kid, dont wait until your 2, 3 kids in the hole and a mortguage, credit cards, and all that bull shit. Because if this shit is killin you now just think what it will be like latter! And thats expeirence talkin not no this is what I think bullshit!!! :cool:
 
femmenoire said:
You're trying to reason using intelligence.

The fact that the woman may be going through post-partum depression, I'm sure has never crossed his mind.

And before he even responds with: "She's always been that way", why marry and then reproduce with a female of that calibur.

But then again, I'm using reason here.
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not always that simple femme...

it's typically not easy to just walk away from someone u've invested emotional and literal capital in. which is y this bruh is here with his question. there is always the glint of hope that coaxes folk to remain in bullshit until it becomes evidently clear that the shit ain't workin... and it's usually shit like PPD or financial burden that does it
 
Sounds Like Post Partum, As The Always Sexy Fem Was Saying. Chill And Just Try To Talk To Her. Dont Rush To Leave Her, You May End Up Regretting That Decision. Then You Will, No Matter What You Are, Become The Trifling Nigga, Atleast In Her Eyes. Always Remember the Shortest Distance Between 2 People Is A Conversation! People Underestimate How Serious Post Partum Is For A Woman. Her Whole Life Just Changed, She Now Has An Obligation That She Cannot Palm Off To Child Support. Aside From That Dont Run From The Situation Like A Coward, Man The Fuck Up And Find Out Whats Wrong With Your Woman/family.

YOU SAID YOU HAVE A GOOD JOB AND FAMILY, WHAT HER STATS? WHAT DOES SHE HAVE IN HER LIFE BRSIDES YOU AND THE BABY?


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You waited until you had a 2 month old baby to get sick of your old lady???? Damn. Well, on the bright side, my baby just went away to university. So, while it sucks to be you, I'm okay.
 
She is going through PPD..give her a few months...it took my wife 5 months to chill out after our first kid... one thing that may help is for her to go back to work ASAP!..If things still bad just get a "shorty" on the side to clear your mind.
 
taikun said:
Yo Fam,

The wife has taxed the last of my nerves. She has turned me into a little bitch with all the naggin and straight bullshit. I got a 2 month old that I want to RAISE and a good salary. I never hit her nor been caught cheating. What should I do to prepare to free this bitch? (clown if you must...but this shit is real.)
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I love my wife and I have 17 years in. She looks just like the chick in my avitar and if I knew then what I know now I would have gotten out of it before I made good money and before I had a bunch of kids. Listen don't be miserable no matter how fine she is or how much you love the kid!!!
 
gameboy said:
don't sleep on my advice player,,, i wasn't bullshitin',,, make her leave you,,, if you dump her, she's going to try to ruin you financially,,, feel me?
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Always let a girl leave you....Its waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay easier.:yes:

It makes them feel better. You dont want her vindictive cause she has the upper hand.
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Niiiiiice
 
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I.F. UCKEDYABITCH said:
A LOOK AT HOW SERIOUS POST PARTUM DEPRSSION CAN BE

http://www.nbc10.com/news/14237461/detail.html?dl=headlineclick
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My mother who is a nurse told me a story when I was about 10 or 11 about post partum depression. In this case a woman going through it accidentally killed her kid and when she realized it she killed herself. Her husband had come home to find both dead.

It is very serious. It's really a shame that black people still do not take mental illnesses seriously. We have so many things against us...most of all ourselves.
 
femmenoire said:
You're trying to reason using intelligence.

The fact that the woman may be going through post-partum depression, I'm sure has never crossed his mind.

And before he even responds with: "She's always been that way", why marry and then reproduce with a female of that calibur.

But then again, I'm using reason here.
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Dearest... you already know about me... so take what I know to be experience or "been there, done that."

Most people (women are the worst) don't show their "true colors" till they got you locked down in marriage... cause then they can shift the conflict dynamics into a lot of "take it or lets get a divorce bullshit."

But in his case, I'm curious as to how long this has been going on.

Yes, "some" women do deal with post partum depression which makes them act mean and ugly towards there spouse. While some people accept it... there is no law that says you have to take abusive behavior from another person.

At the same time, if he's looking for an "out" on this marriage,

I kinda hate to say it but this are some "backdoor" strategies to save a little on the wallet....

1) "lose" your job or 2) start acting so ugly that it forces her to decide to leave him (he could say he's hooked on crack cocaine or something equally absurd).

At this point, its about money... if he's got it, he's gonna have to pay out the ass for the next 18 years which is gonna make him bitter and indifferent with all women from this point forward. He will never be "kind" to another woman again.

I left my wife after my child was born and then 6 mos later I was laid off from my job. I was in distress because of losing my job, but my lawyer said now is a much better time to finish the divorce before you take on another job and get hit with an even bigger bill.
 
femmenoire said:
My mother who is a nurse told me a story when I was about 10 or 11 about post partum depression. In this case a woman going through it accidentally killed her kid and when she realized it she killed herself. Her husband had come home to find both dead.

It is very serious. It's really a shame that black people still do not take mental illnesses seriously. We have so many things against us...most of all ourselves.
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Yes... but at the end of the day...it was all his wife's doings... not his...

Post partum depression and mental illness are sorely misunderstood within the black community. But what we gotta understand is, the person with the problem has the primary responsibility to seek out help. You alone can't force them...

The "victims" of the abusive behavior are not obligated to stay and hang around (and that applies whether its a man or woman). Sadly, the only real wake up call that gets the most attention for people dealing with mental health issues is.... when they're loved ones finally walk away from them.
 
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