I definitely understand why you have responded the way you have in this thread.. The fact that you call someone a "lame" yet, you just said he has money and money=swag, you contradicted yourself in your own response..how can a "lame" have "swag"
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I definitely understand why you have responded the way you have in this thread.. The fact that you call someone a "lame" yet, you just said he has money and money=swag, you contradicted yourself in your own response..how can a "lame" have "swag"
How did he get the money? How did he get his millions? Did he get it through inheritance? Did he win the lottery? Was it just sitting in a paperbag on the street?
I mentioned Russell's qualities..never his money...maybe you missed that..
Maybe in your world success=money...not in mine... I know a lot of people who have money and are not successful at life... again..our definitions are different.. I'm successful and good what I do, I'm not a millionaire...
How many times have fellas on this board talked about "successful" black women who can't find a man..why? because they are basing being successful on professional things but are not successful personally. Because you have money doesn't make you successful IMO, it makes you good at what you do...and even that statement is debatable...
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I definitely understand why you have responded the way you have in this thread.. The fact that you call someone a "lame" yet, you just said he has money and money=swag, you contradicted yourself in your own response..how can a "lame" have "swag"
*Ref blows whistle*
Baby, you're the one that is confused. Let me be nonpartisan here, not taking sides, homie is right.
Lame's can have swag to you! But to a hustla like me..... he is still a lame.
Why? Because real hustlas don't respect the money, we respect the man.
Yes, he built an empire, I can respect that. He has made millions, he has employed a lot of black people. But looking at this guy objectively, I wouldn't want to be like him, around him, or with him in any way. He's a herb. Very likely to take it up the ass. VERY LIKELY!
Rossini, says that "swag"= money. I disagree. I'm broke as fuck right now and people still tell me I "walk like a ball player".
One saying I have is, "Who the fuck needs 'swag' when I got Grown Man confidence!"
And that confidence comes from me validating myself, from what I've already proved to myself, what I've already done for myself!
So I can be broke and still have a fly mouth and pull a bad bitch.... we just ain't gon be able to go nowhere
.Oh, and believe ya boy HAS A MOUTHPIECE on him!
Like Rocko said, "it ain't on ya, it's in ya"
I mentioned Russell's qualities..never his money...maybe you missed that..
Maybe in your world success=money...not in mine... I know a lot of people who have money and are not successful at life... again..our definitions are different.. I'm successful and good what I do, I'm not a millionaire...
How many times have fellas on this board talked about "successful" black women who can't find a man..why? because they are basing being successful on professional things but are not successful personally. Because you have money doesn't make you successful IMO, it makes you good at what you do...and even that statement is debatable...
A lot of people get this misconstrued. These people put a dollar amount on success, assign it a number, usually with 2 commas.
As long as you're growing, learning, and progressing..... you're successful.
Success is a journey, not a destination
*Ref blows whistle*
Baby, you're the one that is confused. Let me be nonpartisan here, not taking sides, homie is right.
Lame's can have swag to you! But to a hustla like me..... he is still a lame.
Why? Because real hustlas don't respect the money, we respect the man.
Yes, he built an empire, I can respect that. He has made millions, he has employed a lot of black people. But looking at this guy objectively, I wouldn't want to be like him, around him, or with him in any way. He's a herb. Very likely to take it up the ass. VERY LIKELY!
Rossini, says that "swag"= money. I disagree. I'm broke as fuck right now and people still tell me I "walk like a ball player".
One saying I have is, "Who the fuck needs 'swag' when I got Grown Man confidence!"
And that confidence comes from me validating myself, from what I've already proved to myself, what I've already done for myself!
So I can be broke and still have a fly mouth and pull a bad bitch.... we just ain't gon be able to go nowhere
Oh, and believe ya boy HAS A MOUTHPIECE on him!
Like Rocko said, "it ain't on ya, it's in ya"
This just made me lmao....not even necessary to comment..but....being concerned about another man's swag or lameness, is lame to me...and commenting on the likelihood that he "takes it up the ass" as you so eloquently said is
... amazing and sad
And that confidence comes from me validating myself, from what I've already proved to myself, what I've already done for myself!
So I can be broke and still have a fly mouth and pull a bad bitch.... we just ain't gon be able to go nowhere
Oh, and believe ya boy HAS A MOUTHPIECE on him!
You're funny.
...and the really funny thing is if a woman is feeling you she will be sitting right next to your broke, confident ass playing Madden eating Happy Meals. Men complain about women being emotional, but trust yall are lucky! I like what you said about validating yourself though.
The hell is wrong wit happy meals?
They give you cancer.
I was referring to a females mindframe when i said that, in her mind... she thinks he has swag but its really the money shes attracted to, not his swag, but they're so confused they dont know the difference.
So you know every woman's "mindframe" (which is not a word by the way) now...but you are not a woman right?
Dhustla agrees by saying he is broke but still pulls beautiful women, yet somehow he isn't wrong....the women who posted just are
So every woman who isn't moved by money but appreciates confidence is confused...even though a few ladies in here talked about their current or recent past relationships with men who are not wealthy, yet we still are "confused".
What makes you an expert on nearly half of the American population's "mindframe"? IF the women you have tried to holla at made you feel this way, maybe it was you
I am tired of these backwards ass threads where "all" "women/men" hate something or do something, and then when the very people you are speaking of say something to counter it, with real world examples, you still say they are wrong, because it hasn't been YOUR experience...and it can never be that YOU are the problem, everyone else is. it's a waste..and makes you sound bitter...
So you know every woman's "mindframe" (which is not a word by the way) now...but you are not a woman right?
Dhustla agrees by saying he is broke but still pulls beautiful women, yet somehow he isn't wrong....the women who posted just are
So every woman who isn't moved by money but appreciates confidence is confused...even though a few ladies in here talked about their current or recent past relationships with men who are not wealthy, yet we still are "confused".
What makes you an expert on nearly half of the American population's "mindframe"? IF the women you have tried to holla at made you feel this way, maybe it was you
I am tired of these backwards ass threads where "all" "women/men" hate something or do something, and then when the very people you are speaking of say something to counter it, with real world examples, you still say they are wrong, because it hasn't been YOUR experience...and it can never be that YOU are the problem, everyone else is. it's a waste..and makes you sound bitter...
Its not me. That just how females are raised in America and I aint sayin you have to be wealthy to get play from women. If you woulda used a better example besides Russell Simmons, you might could prove your point.
You sittin here tryna tell me that you would date this cat even if he was broke but had "confidence"
Get real, the man is worth 100 mil, thats the only reason you find him attractive.
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Its not me. That just how females are raised in America and I aint sayin you have to be wealthy to get play from women. If you woulda used a better example besides Russell Simmons, you might could prove your point.
You sittin here tryna tell me that you would date this cat even if he was broke but had "confidence"
Your font color and size is just
and unnecessary...and shows your bitterness...lol and then you add a pic on your edit to solidify it... and yes I would.. my current boyfriend isn't worth 100 million...and I am dating him and in love with him...and have been with men BEFORE him who had much more wealth and still I chose and continue to choose him...wtf...I have said this repeatedly.. but again, you want to believe what you want.. I have said countless other things in this post, about my real life and about other "successful" men mentioned in this thread" but yet you still go back to Russell..like this cat stole your girl or something
Again, this dialogue with you is worthless. this will be my last response to you... you go back and forth,,, and your above statement did nothing to address anything that you quoted.... you don't get it..in order for him to become successful he had to have drive, confidence, tenacity and that's why he is attractive... you simply don't get it...
Your font color and size is just
I have said countless other things in this post, about my real life and about other "successful" men mentioned in this thread" but yet you still go back to Russell..like this cat stole your girl or something
Again, this dialogue with you is worthless. this will be my last response to you... you go back and forth,,, and your above statement did nothing to address anything that you quoted.... you don't get it..in order for him to become successful he had to have drive, confidence, tenacity and that's why he is attractive... you simply don't get it...
I do get what your saying, its just hard for me to believe that you would date Russell Simmons just because of his "confidence and drive"
but you are right about this dialogue being worthless, thats why I was gonna stop responding to you, you're delusional like most women on here.
I guess success has different meanings to different people, a "journey" is not a success if you dont end up where you want to be.
So you know every woman's "mindframe" (which is not a word by the way) now...but you are not a woman right?
Dhustla agrees by saying he is broke but still pulls beautiful women, yet somehow he isn't wrong....the women who posted just are
So every woman who isn't moved by money but appreciates confidence is confused...even though a few ladies in here talked about their current or recent past relationships with men who are not wealthy, yet we still are "confused".
I am tired of these backwards ass threads where "all" "women/men" hate something or do something, and then when the very people you are speaking of say something to counter it, with real world examples, you still say they are wrong, because it hasn't been YOUR experience...and it can never be that YOU are the problem, everyone else is. it's a waste..and makes you sound bitter...
Never their fault. Never could be how they are. Like i said in a previous post, they can't accept that it is THEM. These women don't like. So they make up other excuses. "Oh it's because he's rich. that's why." Can't be anything else.
You sittin here tryna tell me that you would date this cat even if he was broke but had "confidence"
I haven't been here in a while but, nah he would get the bidness. Money or not, personality or not I don't find Russell attractive.
I think that is the missing thing here...before there can be a relationship of any kind a person has to be attracted in some sort of way. I'm sure some woman out there finds him attractive for him and not his money but nay said the speaker.
Intelligent Dime finds his "confidence" attractive(note: she dont even know this man)
Sounds like something a gold digger would say so she doesnt seem shallow by saying its his money she really likes.
Intelligent Dime finds his "confidence" attractive(note: she dont even know this man)
People CAN exhibit a persona of confidence in their public life. I mean if Obama was doing interviews where he was looking scared and sweating, stumbling over words n shit, we as the public wouldn't have that much confidence in him to do his job. But he exudes the confidence that he is doing what he thinks is right and it comes across when he is in public by being a cool and level minded person. I mean look at the chicken episode of the Boondocks to see what I mean.
I can't knock ID for liking Russell's confidence but I'm just saying it takes more than that. Hell people get jobs for liking a person's confidence and interning from them out of admiration; it doesn't necessarily lead to a weekend in the Bahamas, marriage and 2.3 children.
I agree with you Mel.. I don't know where I said I'd marry him at lol.. of course it takes more than that (or should) in order to have a life with someone..I said I found him to be attractive not fine or sexy, and there is a difference... I don't know when it became a crime to be attracted to someone that others are not.. but apparently since he has money, that would mean that all women should be attracted to him according to the sagacious Rossini
. because all women confuse confidence with money... And also some missed the comment that I'd take Idris Elba or Darren Sharper over him..but hey people pick and choose what they want to pay attention to in life and in threads.. but yes I do find him attractive, and think that he can teach me things in life..and that is an important quality for me..
I have seen Russell and Obama on tv countless times, and one thing I know is that men don't get in their positions in life without confidence and fearlessness... I remember before OBAMA was Pres. Obama, or even Senator Obama, back in Chicago, women around town talked about how handsome he was and charismatic...that had very little to do with money and more to do with presence.. but again this appears to be a hard pill to swallow for some..
I agree with you Mel.. I don't know where I said I'd marry him at lol.. of course it takes more than that (or should) in order to have a life with someone..I said I found him to be attractive not fine or sexy, and there is a difference... I don't know when it became a crime to be attracted to someone that others are not.. but apparently since he has money, that would mean that all women should be attracted to him according to the sagacious Rossini
ummm I'd say 8 out of 10 girls would fuck russell just because of his money, if he was broke(or an average nigga) and confident, those same girls wouldnt fuck him. I know how yall think
But you dont want to come across as shallow so I understand why you're arguing your point... I noticed that seems to be the trend with you BGOL women, yall try to act like you're different from these women out here in the real world.LoneStar29
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ummm I'd say 8 out of 10 girls would fuck russell just because of his money, if he was broke(or an average nigga) and confident, those same girls wouldnt fuck him. I know how yall think
I dont need to front for no one
I absolutely without a shadow of a doubt would not sleep with that man or even date him for that matter ... I am in no way attracted to older men especially not ones older than my father
And I think you are correct ... alot of these young chicks fuckin him are doin it for the money ... but then again he also has his motives for fucking them which is mostly based on beauty so I guess they're even shallow for shallow
See now thats understandable.
Now if we were talking about some gold digging women, (which I know some), I would hear this followed by "But I wouldn't date him". Smh.
But ID I get cha. I need to scroll back up and read what I missed.
And for the record I don't get the Idris Elba hype...I didn't even know he was Stringer...
ummm I'd say 8 out of 10 girls would fuck russell just because of his money, if he was broke(or an average nigga) and confident, those same girls wouldnt fuck him. I know how yall think
WTF
8 out of 10 WOMEN wouldn't fuck him because they might find him unattractive. Hell I think Rev is more attractive than Russell. Don't no one on here know me, why the fuck would I have to appear not to be shallow?
Not that I am...
I'm not saying that all of us on here are..ahem, different, from other women but perhaps the type of woman that is on a porn 'discussion' board is a different type of woman than what you are used to dealing with.
Lone you beat me to it.
Dang I had a good sleep while this was going on.
Now if we were talking about some gold digging women, (which I know some), I would hear this followed by "But I wouldn't date him". Smh.
But ID I get cha. I need to scroll back up and read what I missed.
And for the record I don't get the Idris Elba hype...I didn't even know he was Stringer...
WTF
8 out of 10 WOMEN wouldn't fuck him because they might find him unattractive. Hell I think Rev is more attractive than Russell. Don't no one on here know me, why the fuck would I have to appear not to be shallow?
Not that I am...
I'm not saying that all of us on here are..ahem, different, from other women but perhaps the type of woman that is on a porn 'discussion' board is a different type of woman than what you are used to dealing with.
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You not that much different from these females out here on the street, I guess you forgot your husband posted this about you
This is prime example of yall females tryna act all holy on the forums but in the real world its a different story LoneStar29
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^^^ That thread is depressing as hell, gat damn!!! And explains alot about some guys mentalities
I can honestly say I haven't cheated ... since I was a teenager
But uuuuuuuum I dont get how people think that is melon ... I didn't read that poster say her name anywhere ... and wtf @ you scroungin up old posts from 2 years ago WOW Ross lmao
I can honestly say I haven't cheated ... since I was a teenager
But uuuuuuuum I dont get how people think that is melon ... I didn't read that poster say her name anywhere ... and wtf @ you scroungin up old posts from 2 years ago WOW Ross lmao
IT was her, she was posting earlier in that thread about how she was cheating an just had a kid and she said he abused her, then he came in and posted that.
It wasnt that hard to find, took me 5 seconds with advanced search
LoneStar29
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IT was her, she was posting earlier in that thread about how she was cheating an just had a kid and she said he abused her, then he came in and posted that.
It wasnt that hard to find, took me 5 seconds with advanced search
Did he say her name??
Maybe the stories were just similar
and yes I'm capin lol
that thread is too long, I dont want to go through all of it
Did he say her name??
Maybe the stories were just similar
and yes I'm capin lol
that thread is too long, I dont want to go through all of it
She was actually saying that he lurks and she was apologizing to him threw her posts, thats why he came out.
Damn, what a turn of events.
What was are you trying to say with you posting that? I mean i guess what i'm trying to ask is what's the relevance to what was being spoken of here?
That most of yall females aint no different from these trifling women in the streets and yall put on a front for bgol.
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