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HELP me BGOL! How do I tell my boy he's a SIMP?

Nicca please. You trying to make it seem like he is falling in love but if he was falling in love then he would be trying to get at the same woman, not different ones.

say i am going to the Superbowl and gonna stay two nights. I like nice rooms so I am going to get me a 500 dollar a night room any fucking way...

basically all the bitch costs is another plane ticket and meals....so fucking what.

some niccas have a bitch on things to travel with just like luggage

 
BiggBawlzMcGee said:
But he's flying the bitch to Vegas...like there ain't more bitches in Vegas! :lol:

He actually cares about these freaks and what they think of him. He's not just paying for the pussy, he's paying to spend quality time with these bitches. Why spend time with them when you can just fuck 'em?

I appreciate the company of a fine woman or 2 myself. But I'll be damned if I'mma pay for 2 extra plane tickets, I don't care if I do got it. Any non-simpin' ass nigga would've paid for his ticket, his room, got two fresh new bitches when he got to Vegas and after the next morning, wouldn't see those bitches ever again.
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If he spending mad time outside of the trips then he tripping. trickin is like leasing a car. You supposed to keep it fresh and updated
 
Basically and dude has no control over the situation the pussy control him if he is getting caught and so desperate as to be setting shit up w/ them while eating breakfast w/ his kids

BiggBawlzMcGee said:
But he's flying the bitch to Vegas...like there ain't more bitches in Vegas! :lol:

He actually cares about these freaks and what they think of him. He's not just paying for the pussy, he's paying to spend quality time with these bitches. Why spend time with them when you can just fuck 'em?

I appreciate the company of a fine woman or 2 myself. But I'll be damned if I'mma pay for 2 extra plane tickets, I don't care if I do got it. Any non-simpin' ass nigga would've paid for his ticket, his room, got two fresh new bitches when he got to Vegas and after the next morning, wouldn't see those bitches ever again.
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BrownTurd said:
I just don't see him as a simp. It is like when you turn on the TV and see a rapper or entertainer posted up with 20 of his boyz...people think that is cool that he flew his boyz out. But if he flew 20 hoes out he is somehow a simp. If a man wants to take trips to the superbowl, post up in 5 star hotel and resorts with hoes then what is the problem?:dunno:

Sounds like trickin to me
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:lol::lol::lol:
 
Niggas up this bitch talkin bout simpin pimpin and trickin like they bonifide. He make good money his family straight so wat the fuck he pose to do he want some extra puss and a companion. He can't bring regular broads wit him they catchin feelins tryin to mess his family up. So he deals with disposable hoes strippers which he can switch up like sneakers. He not in the game so the rules don't apply to him. If u a true friend u would tell the cat get a warchest together. so when his ol lAdy get fed up he can give her a settlement she cool wit and the shit don't break him to broke. Dude ain't the best decision maker but who is that's life. He will learn.
 
gameboy said:
i bet your boy wasn't making 100k before he got married, was he?,,, sounds like he settled for, & wifed up, the 1st piece of ass that he clicked with,,, then found he could fuck the women he was actually attracted too, once he got some dough,,,
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this...................i swear i was thinking the same shit
 
gameboy said:
i've sat up all night schooling a few of my homies on how the game works,,, not any fancy shit, just basic shit,,, they appear to understand what you are saying,,, then the next day, they are right back to being a simp with the same woman they complain about,,, something dramatic has to happen in their life to make them want to change,,, similar to drug rehab,,, otherwise, it's a waste of time
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is this your homie too?


KnownUnknown said:
My perspective: when I'm off to work, she can and will do whatever she feels like. I don't worry about shit I can't control. So long as she still wants to fuck me, cook, clean, and take care of our son, I just don't go smelling her panties. At a certain point not driving myself insane is more important than "catching her."
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I'm with most of the others, I can't see him being a simp........ maybe we need to nail down the definition of who or what a simp really is. I know it's opening a can of worms but the word get's slanged around way too often to gauge what it really means ........ Simp, Simpleton , Chump, sprung , whipped....... A man under full control of a woman who really don't care much for him. A man who would do just about anything that woman wants him him to do , good or bad. There have been many songs written about this person, this simp, but who is he really.....your friend?
 
a-hole18 said:
:smh: He should just bring his wife then that pussy is already paid for. If that's the problem then I understand. Divorce cost's more than them hoes.
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same ole crackers

maybe wife makes a great homemaker, but doesn't like to get loose
 
gameboy said:
i've sat up all night schooling a few of my homies on how the game works,,, not any fancy shit, just basic shit,,, they appear to understand what you are saying,,, then the next day, they are right back to being a simp with the same woman they complain about,,, something dramatic has to happen in their life to make them want to change,,, similar to drug rehab,,, otherwise, it's a waste of time
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Exactly, some niggas just born simps.
 
zipgun1 said:
Nicca please. You trying to make it seem like he is falling in love but if he was falling in love then he would be trying to get at the same woman, not different ones.

say i am going to the Superbowl and gonna stay two nights. I like nice rooms so I am going to get me a 500 dollar a night room any fucking way...

basically all the bitch costs is another plane ticket and meals....so fucking what.

some niccas have a bitch on things to travel with just like luggage
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You missed the part where he said they were strippers. So, they are not coming for free. They will get paid too apart from the room and ticket.

There are hos in every city where he goes, and he can call them up instead of flying hos all over the country on his children's school fees money.
 
jagu said:
You missed the part where he said they were strippers. So, they are not coming for free. They will get paid too apart from the room and ticket.

There are hos in every city where he goes, and he can call them up instead of flying hos all over the country on his children's school fees money.
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:lol: :lol: :lol:
 
jagu said:
You missed the part where he said they were strippers. So, they are not coming for free. They will get paid too apart from the room and ticket.

There are hos in every city where he goes, and he can call them up instead of flying hos all over the country on his children's school fees money.
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I hear you on that, but some folk don't know that just because you break a bitch off, doesn't mean she ain't a cool person to hang out and chill with.

And trust, if he is halfway decent looking and charming, she knows she will enjoy the trip to Vegas with him too. She knows all these Mack Daddys who think it is simping to even buy a bitch a Big Mac ain't gonna ever get her there.

So as much as I hate the term, it is win win. She gets a trip and a lil scrilla and he gets a weekend fuck buddy who he already knows and who is cool to hang with and he doesn't have to risk being a cop or having light fingers or a nicca waiting for her to open the hotel door and rush in and rob his ass.

Most niccas will never learn this, but strippers can be cool as hell to hang out with....
 
zipgun1 said:

I hear you on that, but some folk don't know that just because you break a bitch off, doesn't mean she ain't a cool person to hang out and chill with.

And trust, if he is halfway decent looking and charming, she knows she will enjoy the trip to Vegas with him too. She knows all these Mack Daddys who think it is simping to even buy a bitch a Big Mac ain't gonna ever get her there.

So as much as I hate the term, it is win win. She gets a trip and a lil scrilla and he gets a weekend fuck buddy who he already knows and who is cool to hang with and he doesn't have to risk being a cop or having light fingers or a nicca waiting for her to open the hotel door and rush in and rob his ass.

Most niccas will never learn this, but strippers can be cool as hell to hang out with....
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So, you're telling me that a stripper will come hang out with you for free while she's losing money away from the pole because you look decent.

:lol::lol::lol:

You realize that stripping is a business, right?:hmm:
 
Leroy Soup Nutz said:
Ya but not so cool as to hang out w/ him for free right? Fuck outta here
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jagu said:
So, you're telling me that a stripper will come hang out with you for free while she's losing money away from the pole because you look decent.

:lol::lol::lol:

You realize that stripping is a business, right?:hmm:
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lol....ya'll really got me there...I forgot, strippers don't like to party and hang out...:lol::lol::lol:

If your boy ask you to go to the Superbowl because he got a free ticket for you and your room is payed for....you know got damned well you riding shotgun....

but a stripper won't????
:cool::cool::cool:

Keep living boys.
 
zipgun1 said:
lol....ya'll really got me there...I forgot, strippers don't like to party and hang out...:lol::lol::lol:

If your boy ask you to go to the Superbowl because he got a free ticket for you and your room is payed for....you know got damned well you riding shotgun....

but a stripper won't????
:cool::cool::cool:

Keep living boys.[/SIZE]
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Well, there are many regular girls who want to travel to the super bowl and sleep in a $500 hotel on someone else's dime. Why won't he go with those ones?
 
zipgun1 said:
Nicca please. You trying to make it seem like he is falling in love but if he was falling in love then he would be trying to get at the same woman, not different ones.

say i am going to the Superbowl and gonna stay two nights. I like nice rooms so I am going to get me a 500 dollar a night room any fucking way...

basically all the bitch costs is another plane ticket and meals....so fucking what.

some niccas have a bitch on things to travel with just like luggage
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zipgun1 said:
same ole crackers

maybe wife makes a great homemaker, but doesn't like to get loose
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zipgun1 said:

I hear you on that, but some folk don't know that just because you break a bitch off, doesn't mean she ain't a cool person to hang out and chill with.

And trust, if he is halfway decent looking and charming, she knows she will enjoy the trip to Vegas with him too. She knows all these Mack Daddys who think it is simping to even buy a bitch a Big Mac ain't gonna ever get her there.

So as much as I hate the term, it is win win. She gets a trip and a lil scrilla and he gets a weekend fuck buddy who he already knows and who is cool to hang with and he doesn't have to risk being a cop or having light fingers or a nicca waiting for her to open the hotel door and rush in and rob his ass.

Most niccas will never learn this, but strippers can be cool as hell to hang out with....
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zipgun1 said:
lol....ya'll really got me there...I forgot, strippers don't like to party and hang out...:lol::lol::lol:

If your boy ask you to go to the Superbowl because he got a free ticket for you and your room is payed for....you know got damned well you riding shotgun....

but a stripper won't????
:cool::cool::cool:

Keep living boys.[/SIZE]
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jagu said:
Well, there are many regular girls who want to travel to the super bowl and sleep in a $500 hotel on someone else's dime. Why won't he go with those ones?
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The OP's friend is zipgun1...................

Dude has all the answers, the same supposed answer that would have been given by this "friend"


:lol::lol::lol:
 
Hotlantan said:
My boy is in his mid 30s, married 10 years, two kids and got a good job paying 100k+. His problem is he is always in the strip club making it rain and "falling in love" with these hoez who are only looking at his wallet. I refuse to hit the clubs with him, but I've tried in the past not to count his money or criticize his choices.

He flew into ATL last month with some stripper he had JUST met. Had her in the penthouse at the W, took her for a helicopter ride, the whole nine yards. His WIFE went through his emails and busted him as soon as he got back. Needless to say it was not a Merry Christmas!

Fast forward to last week, and my boy calls and tells me wants to take some different trick he just met to Dallas to hang out for the SuperBowl; he wanted to know if I have a hookup for game tickets. I tell him hold off and I'll get back to him - hoping the trick will have moved on by then.

I get another call this morning from my boy looking for another hookup. He wants to take the SuperBowl Stripper to Las Vegas on TUESDAY (day after tomorrow) and wants advice for hotel suites ("$500/night is cool"). Mind you - he calls me while with his kids at IHOP and I can hear them in the background. I tell him to let me check around and call back tonight.

I can not stand seeing my boy go out like this! WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH HIM??? He calls me because he trusts me, and I know he does not talk to many people about his private life. What should I tell him?

I know I'm gonna get the regular BGOL bullshit answers and that's cool. But seriously - I need to say something but I don't know what to say that will both make a difference and not overly damage our friendship. HELP!
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On the real. You just gotta let your friend be destroyed by his tricking ways and hope he learns his lesson from it. A grown ass man is going to do what he wants to do. Niggas get addicted to trickin off in strip-clubs. I guess getting caught by his wife didn't hurt enough to curtail his trickin ways, maybe if she files for divorce and takes the kids it will.
 
Don't know anyone on this site..and never plan to.

Just like to travel and hang myself, so although I can see you guys point of view, I can appreciate the "friends" also, and since he has a wife; it is safer to kick it with a stripper instead of some single woman who thinks she has a chance.
 
zipgun1 said:
Don't know anyone on this site..and never plan to.

Just like to travel and hang myself, so although I can see you guys point of view, I can appreciate the "friends" also, and since he has a wife; it is safer to kick it with a stripper instead of some single woman who thinks she has a chance.
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That's the point. A stripper only wants her money and not some drawn out relationship. Get it?
 
jagu said:
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That's the point. A stripper only wants her money and not some drawn out relationship. Get it?
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Man, see that response.

Clearly it is him. He is now make it seem like he is not tricking after vehemently backing up his courting of these strippers.


Which is it?

:lol:
 
zipgun1 said:
Don't know anyone on this site..and never plan to.

Just like to travel and hang myself, so although I can see you guys point of view, I can appreciate the "friends" also, and since he has a wife; it is safer to kick it with a stripper instead of some single woman who thinks she has a chance.
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I agree that there is nothing wrong with having a female travel companion but the stripper is just as dangerous as a single woman if he hangs with the same 3 strippers. They may get accustomed to their updated lifestyle and may not want to let go if even if their trick has/is trying to move on. He would be better to cheat with woman who has something to lose not just gain. Maybe even an upscale escort would be better for his needs since she maybe use to that lifestyle from multiple men opposed to just one.
 
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