In my 30s - my younger girlfriends are much less inhibited talking about sex than I was when I was their age, though, so I understand what you're talking about. However, I think women my age and older do struggle with it. My sister, who's a few years older than me, at her own bridal shower couldn't talk or joke about sex when someone gave her a sexy date kit idea...I mean, you're getting married - we know you're either having sex (or about to have sex.) But, there still exists black women who are prudes...and, regardless of the age, there exists a narrative regarding black women and their hypersexuality. We fear that, as a whole, not just black men but ANY man will only view as sexual property and may "move slower" in some sexual situations for fear of that stereotype.
I have to disagree with you. If you were my age (48) I would roll with what you're saying but at your age the attitude of Black women when it came to giving head had completely changed.
Ahhh college... Almost worth the price of admission for the sex and stories alone!!!
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