Fuck Being In Love!!

Let's be realistic. We live in a capitalistic society. Therefore, every fuckin woman in this country values and knows the importance of $$$. And only a foolish woman would think otherwise. Sure, ideas, knowledge, and self improvement are important things too. But so is money, and how a man and/or woman is handling themselves financially can say tons of things about their maturity, personality, knowledge, wisdom, etc. I'd say folks should seek a balance of these things.


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If money defines your self-esteem, fine.

For me, I have found education w/ skills and abilities travel better.

What kind of women do you want, the chick who is impressed with athletes, entertainers, and big $$$$.

Or, a woman who is impressed with ideas, knowledge, and self-improvement?

Cool.


Let your degrees keep you warm.


Like the skit on the Kanye album...


You and your chick can read by the bonfire.


Take care man...
 
she's out there just let her come to u. stop looking. maybe it's the women u choose. stop messin wit them chicks just for their looks. plain girls need love 2. and their more loyal.
 
1st of all - there is difference between what a Real Woman is as opposed to a hood chick.

Have any of you hung out at a good College/University? I see so many intelligent black women there and after speaking with many of them, I've seen that many of them are looking to find a decent brother who will treat them with dignity and respect and they will pour their heart out for them.


Stop messing with these Club rats - those are not women. Any chick that goes to a club more than 2 times a month and is younger than 25 is not a "woman."

The other thing to ask is look at someone like Michelle Obama - where did Barack meet her? During his summer work for a law firm right? :yes:

She was his senior in terms of employment and he was willing to not be intimidated and approached her. The key thing that stood out between the two of them was that they were both very serious about their profession and shared that passion - which reflected their serious nature towards life and relationships.

Ya'll looking for women in the wrong places - next time try a bookshop, coffee shop, library, college campus as opposed to a club, bar, concert. :smh:


yep...my cousin who has been in a relationship for about 2 years met his wifey where...AT COLLEGE...

i'm tired of hood chicks to...i go to the museums, libraries...when you go to different places you meet totally different intelligent sistas that don't want your bread...but want love....

i really hate when brothas slam all black females....thats ridiculous....i never hear white boys "white bitches ain't shit"....:smh:
 
yep...my cousin who has been in a relationship for about 2 years met his wifey where...AT COLLEGE...

i'm tired of hood chicks to...i go to the museums, libraries...when you go to different places you meet totally different intelligent sistas that don't want your bread...but want love....

i really hate when brothas slam all black females....thats ridiculous....i never hear white boys "white bitches ain't shit"....:smh:

Thank you my man! You gonna mess with hood/club chick - what do you expect from her?

No sympathy for cats who don't have better sense than to avoid those girls.
 
Well the only qualities you said about yourself deal with your financial situation. What type of women do you expect to attract if that's how you present yourself?

:yes::yes:

contrary to popular belief...we need other things to satisfy us...you know feelings, emotions, compassion, respect and things of that nature.

just being financial is NOT enough
 
yep...my cousin who has been in a relationship for about 2 years met his wifey where...AT COLLEGE...

i'm tired of hood chicks to...i go to the museums, libraries...when you go to different places you meet totally different intelligent sistas that don't want your bread...but want love....

i really hate when brothas slam all black females....thats ridiculous....i never hear white boys "white bitches ain't shit"....:smh:
how do you make a play for a woman in a library? even if you come at her like you're interested in what she's reading, she'll usually know what's up. most women in a library already have a damn man, or they aint looking for one. i have no luck with quality women, let alone non-quality ones.
 
how do you make a play for a woman in a library? even if you come at her like you're interested in what she's reading, she'll usually know what's up. most women in a library already have a damn man, or they aint looking for one. i have no luck with quality women, let alone non-quality ones.

you can DEF make a play for a woman in a library...its a lot easier than what u think.
 
how do you make a play for a woman in a library? even if you come at her like you're interested in what she's reading, she'll usually know what's up. most women in a library already have a damn man, or they aint looking for one. i have no luck with quality women, let alone non-quality ones.

you can DEF make a play for a woman in a library...its a lot easier than what u think.

im waitin for an actual answer to the question. something that actually rebuts my statement, thanks.


ummm ok

well u don't have to come at her w/ the whole play like ur interested in what she's reading thing..that isn't necessary. u say that she will know what's up....so what. we know what's up when you approach outside, in a store, and everywhere else, the library is no different.

and how do u know most women in the library have men? how did u come to this conclusion?
 
ummm ok

well u don't have to come at her w/ the whole play like ur interested in what she's reading thing..that isn't necessary. u say that she will know what's up....so what. we know what's up when you approach outside, in a store, and everywhere else, the library is no different.

and how do u know most women in the library have men? how did u come to this conclusion?
those kind of women are snatched up real quick. at least where i live.
 
^^ move.

There is a supply and demand to women - go where there is more supply of women and greater demand of men will follow.
 
I HATE A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T PRATICE WHAT SHE PREACHES.

I HATE NON-EDUCATIONAL WOMEN ( LESS THAN 2YRS COLLEGE) CAN'T PRONOUNCE WORDS AND HAVE TROUBLE SPELLING. PICK UP A DICTIONARY AND FIGURE IT OUT BEFORE YOU WRITE IT. SPELL CHECK BITCH!!
You were saying :hmm:
 
You were saying :hmm:


Hey fruckus,

I was writing while i was very angry. I did not even think about spell check I wanted to get some viewpoints across.

Thanks for being the man and knowing the difference between practice and pratice.
 
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DO WOMAN LIKE THIS EVEN EXIST ANYMORE???
 
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interesting word usage....so do u want to find women or just pussy?

do u just see women as pussy? is that a synonym for women?

just askin
it's just bgolspeak for women. i love women, and i don't treat them like shit in real life unless they earn that sort of treatment.
 
nigga claire huxtable aint real! ask ahmad rashad. and who the hell knows how jada is behind closed doors? she might be a gotdam shrew.
 
I feel you.. Kinda in the same boat.. I am a 24yr.botha with no kids.. a decent job for now, a mortgage, and a nice ride, but i just seem to be bagging these scandalouz broadz here in GA.. Been here for about a year and have been on atleast 20 dates, and the trend seems to be the same with alot of them.. Aspiring models,with kids, and a bad attitudes
 
those kind of women are snatched up real quick. at least where i live.

Where are you located now and are you in the position to move or at least go out of the boundaries of your city?? Trust me, regardless of how the men on here constantly bash black women there are some good "single" ones out there who aren't crazy,wear their real hair,have good careers,and can cook.
 
RaulDK, have you thought about country women? from small towns and shit?

i hear they're alot better than City women, and aren't dramatic/materialistic or golddiggin like city women.
 
RaulDK, have you thought about country women? from small towns and shit?

i hear they're alot better than City women, and aren't dramatic/materialistic or golddiggin like city women.


i never thought about country women. my problem is i don't want a slow ass woman.
i need someone who is street smart. but then again, the ones who are street smart are the one who are screwing up.

i will look into it.

thanks,

rauldk
 
I WAS LOOKING AT MICHELE AND BARACK OBAMA'S PICS TODAY AND FELT ENVIOUS OF THEM.
I WANT WHAT THEY HAVE. SHE IS ON HIS LEVEL. I WANT SOMEONE LIKE HER.

I WANT TO BE IN LOVE BUT WON'T ALLOW IT TO HAPPEN. TOO MANY WOMEN HAVE USED & LIED TO ME AND I AM FED UP WITH IT.
I HAVE RUINED MANY STARTUP RELATIONSHIP DUE TO NOT ALLOWING MYSELF TO FALL INTO LOVE.

I HATE A WOMEN WHO NEEDS A MAN FOR MONEY OR STATUS. PAY YOUR OWN FUCKING BILLS, YOU MADE THEM.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO THINKS THE COURTS ARE A WAY TO WORK IT OUT WITH A BLACK MAN.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO MOUTHS OFF THINKING SHE WON'T GET SLAPPED UP BY A BLACK MAN.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO USES HER BODY BY DRESSING SKIMPLY AND FLIRTING WITH THE HOPES SHE WILL BAG A GOOD RICH MAN.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T PRATICE WHAT SHE PREACHES.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO LETS HER GIRLFRIENDS WHO ARE IN NO BETTER POSITION TELL HER WHAT THEY WOULD DO OR WHAT SHE WOULD DO.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO USES THEIR CHILD AS A INSTRUMENT OF PAIN AGAINST THE BLACK MAN.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO WEARS FAKE HAIR, EYELASHES, DRAWN IN EYEBROWS, PUSH UP BRA, GIRDLES, PADDED PANTS, FAKE NAILS, FAKE GOLD AND A STUCK ATTITUDE. GO BACK WHERE YOU CAME FROM (PROJECTS).
I HATE NON-EDUCATIONAL WOMEN ( LESS THAN 2YRS COLLEGE) CAN'T PRONOUNCE WORDS AND HAVE TROUBLE SPELLING. PICK UP A DICTIONARY AND FIGURE IT OUT BEFORE YOU WRITE IT. SPELL CHECK BITCH!!
I HATE A WOMEN THAT DOES NOT WASH HER PUSSY.
I HATE A WOMEN WHO DOESN'T SPEND A DIME ON HER MAN.

I NEED SOMEONE THAT IF I FALL OFF SHE IS WILLING TO EAT JUST RICE WITH ME TILL I GET BACK ON, NO QUESTIONS ASKED. YOU THINK I WANT TO BE DOWN AND AT A LOW POINT IN MY LIFE?
JUST VENTING CAUSE I BROKE UP WITH MY GIRL. NOT ALL THE STUFF I WROTE WAS ABOUT HER BUT I HAVE COME ACROSS A BUNCH OF TRIFLING BITCHES AND I THINK I AM FISHING FROM THE WRONG POND. IT ALL JUST WELLS UP TO A FUCKED UP SITUATION

:angry:


YOU NEED TO GO SAT UP A BLOG SOMEWHERE PLAYA:hmm::lol::hmm:
 
listen bro, you sound like a simp:hmm:
first you say your gonna be a player then you say youre gonna go without pussy for 4 months. get the fuk over it! spend time with your family and show them beeoches you meet that you cant be played. also i work B division as your supervisor and all you ninjas always trying to be players in TA, the mistakes yall make is yall bring them hos on the job to show off but then lose them because ninjas start scheming as soon as they see your ho. also there is too much azz on the trains for you to be crying, damn i miss the road!

:dance:

:lol: I swear every nigga in the country is on BGOL!
 
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