For men who love sistas...

The only reason I scoff is because what is being said here, and what actually happens in the real world are two totally different things. We all know that lighter women get the preference, I hate that that is true, but it is. No one will come out and say, I love lightskinned women better because is a touchy subject with a lot of women of color.
speaking as a lite skinned woman i say that is very untrue.
 
I mean hell I even do it. Not against skin tone but I can honestly say that I am partial to big men, like "Suge Knight" size men.

Well I think that's an important point as well. Everybody is going to find his/herself on the short end of the stick because of preferences. If its not complexion, it will be something so why stress.
 
You know what, I do agree w/ that. After reading the thread now in it's entirity I have to agree. I was suprized at how many said they prefer darker complexions. I am a very deep mocha color and I know growing up and now in my adult hood that my color plays a factor in discrimination from my fellow brothers and sisters. But I also believe in to each his own. I mean hell I even do it. Not against skin tone but I can honestly say that I am partial to big men, like "Suge Knight" size men.

That's cause your little freaky ass likes to get handled with brute strength.

speaking as a lite skinned woman i say that is very untrue.

:hmm: right back at cha
 
Black Women are beautiful in all shades - but I prefer brown & dark complexioned Sisters


but I've dated all shades - I just find darker Sisters sexier
 
The only reason I scoff is because what is being said here, and what actually happens in the real world are two totally different things. We all know that lighter women get the preference, I hate that that is true, but it is. No one will come out and say, I love lightskinned women better because is a touchy subject with a lot of women of color.

No one will openly admit that because they don't want to deal with being condemed for it. Either that or having to justify their reason. Which is why this thread was pointless. It would have been better to do it as a poll.
 
I have to agree with LD. Some of these responses are suspect.

Growing up I was considered dark skinned and all the light skinned girls got play and I used to feel slighted.

Now that I'm older I realize I'm not even as dark-skinned as I thought I was and would like to be.

I absolutely adore Onyx's complexion. GOOD LAWD!
 
I date women of all shades and races, but for some reason I could never see myself falling in love with any woman who wasn't black. Other than that though complexion isn't too important. What's more important is conversation, intelligence, physical attributes, and open mindedness. Of course there's also that all important look in the eyes too (if she's got that one where time stands still when you gaze across the room she'll probably be my next).
 
Well I dont really go for complexion, cause I dont really chase women like that. Bad skin is bad skin, good skin is good skin. I've date light skinned and very, very dark women. You should have just posted a poll and told everyone to pick. I guess if I had to pick a complexion, (no pussing out) I'd say that Brazilian golden brown is very beautiful. Or maybe, I'm just into Brazilian porn right now:D
 
BEAUTY IS IN THE BEHIND OF THE BEHOLDEN.

:hmm:

I don't care what anyone says. People have preferences.

What's wrong with that. I think skin is, one of the sexiest parts of the female body, and I love brown and dark skin.

Mostly because I hate all you Yellow muthafuckas!!

:rolleyes:
 
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I feel as though darker women are naturally prettier than "yella bones" but I don't discriminate against any black woman.

I don't fool with other races though.
 
As a brown skin brotha I mostly get approach by the lighter skin females.
They seem to be more game to me compared to many darker skin females I'm interested in. :confused::confused:

I'm pretty sure some brothas on here can attest to what I'm trying to convey to y'all . The old stigma about light being attracted to dark is true in my case.

In terms of my own personal attraction, I'm very much attracted to caramel complected sistas and silky brown complected Gabriel Union look-alikes.
Yummy!!
 
Do you really pay attention to complexions and do you have a preference for light skinned, brown skinned or dark skinned women?


Initially i'm attracted to lightbrown/caramel/brownskin women with red (not olive) skintone...but almost every woman i've messed with say that I look like the type who messes with lightskin/spanish women.


Does it matter and if so, why? Or do you even know why?


I never limit myself to just complextion because there are so many other physical features on a woman that i'm attracted to, (from slanted eyes, full lips, thick nipples, a phat azz, nice size thighs for examples) that complextion becomes non-existant....with the exception of my cousin, every dude I know who settled down and got married ended up with a woman who's not even considered "their preference".
 
You know what, I do agree w/ that. After reading the thread now in it's entirity I have to agree. I was suprized at how many said they prefer darker complexions. I am a very deep mocha color and I know growing up and now in my adult hood that my color plays a factor in discrimination from my fellow brothers and sisters. But I also believe in to each his own. I mean hell I even do it. Not against skin tone but I can honestly say that I am partial to big men, like "Suge Knight" size men.


Are you partial to thugs?
 
When I was younger (high school/early college years) I had a thing for thick light skinned chics...then I developed a preference for thick women with a brown or darker complexion...
 
Complexion preference, nah not really. I say not really because we all have preferences but that doesn't mean I'm necessarily ruling a fine ass woman out because she may be a tad lighter than what I'm generally attracted too.

Black women from alpine white to the deepest dark chocolate, how can a fella not love that? :yes::yes::yes:
 
It doesn't matter, I'm a sucker for a pretty face and small to medium sized waist; a strong sexual appetite is always a plus.:D
 
I find it dubious that NO man here has a skin color preference. Bull. You do, just like you have a booty size preference, just like you like hair a certain way. I guess this is like those other threads where every woman gives their man all the sex he needs, all the space he needs, and never nags. Be real men.

I have a preference. I cannot stand yellow, bright, light, whatever you want to call it, women. Not to say that they can't get it, but a brown-to-dark skinned sister will get it everytime. If you are caramel-colored or darker, I prefer you.

Why? Because in light-skinned women, the flaws show up more. Facial hair shadow, on the arms, any type of bumps, redness in the face, all that. Darker skin hides it well. Darker-skinned women tend to be the same color from nose to toes. Lighter-skinned women tend to have patches of color like a calico cat. Yellow women have all that Caucasian blood in them which gives them the semi-White woman hips which in turn tends to lower the odds of having that bubble that I like.

Have you ever seen a dark-skinned woman, glistening with the sweat of a marathon love-making session? Sexy. And probably the most important reason....attitude. It's not necessarily their fault, it's how people treat them and show them favoritism based on their skin (well, not the brothers in this thread :rolleyes:) You run into a higher % of snobs and the ones that aren't tend to look like Rain Pryor. :lol: I kid.

All in all, I prefer darker-skinned women, call me a colorist or whatever, at least I have reasons behind my choice other than "I sholl do likes bright skinneded wimmens."

I know EXACTLY what you mean. There's a dark-skinned woman at my gym that has ruined plenty of my workouts. I couldn't take my eyes off of her..
 
Sistas with a nice slim build with a nice chocolate completion will always catch my eyes first. Most of the women that I've dated have been dark and slim, but I don't discriminate against light skin or caramel completion women either. All shades of black women are beautiful. I love them all.

Have you ever seen a dark-skinned woman, glistening with the sweat of a marathon love-making session? Sexy.

CO-SIGN!!:dance:
 
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Light skinned, dark skinned women ......who really cares. Lets show the our beautiful black princesses on how much we cherish and adore them......
 
I Like Dark Skin Women,,to Me The Darker The Skin The Women Becomes More And More Sexy..i Just Think Dark Skin Women Are Very Very Sexy,,but Thats Just Me,,:d:d
 
Do you really pay attention to complexions and do you have a preference for light skinned, brown skinned or dark skinned women?

Does it matter and if so, why? Or do you even know why?


And I guess it's not just limited to women...Do you women prefer a specific complexion over others. Do you absoluely refuse to date a light skinned or dark skinned man? Why?


Naw skin tone really doesnt matter. Beauty is beauty to me and it might not just be in the physical. Mf's get caught up on shape, size, and color that true beauty will gracefully walk past them and they wouldnt even know...
 
I've never dated a thug in my life. Only clean cut football players and brainy guys.:yes:

Im ur man then, Graduated 3.7gpa...All-State football, baseball, track and All-Star football...Started 2yrs University of AR football Free Safety
 
Do you really pay attention to complexions and do you have a preference for light skinned, brown skinned or dark skinned women?

Does it matter and if so, why? Or do you even know why?


And I guess it's not just limited to women...Do you women prefer a specific complexion over others. Do you absoluely refuse to date a light skinned or dark skinned man? Why?

I love black women regardless of complexion. I think it's stupid that there are still people in our community who have preferences on this issue...


On another note, Femm I like the new avi.
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Me, I never had a complexion issue at all. Even though, I do have a lot of love for my dark skin sistas, however I like them all, whether they are dark, brown or light, as long as they are Black and beautiful, with book sense/common sense, and a nasty freak in the bedroom....Im cool. :yes::cool:
 
Me, I never had a complexion issue at all. Even though, I do have a lot of love for my dark skin sistas, however I like them all, whether they are dark, brown or light, as long as they are Black and beautiful, with book sense/common sense, and a nasty freak in the bedroom....Im cool. :yes::cool:

Co-Sign!!!
 
I have to agree with LD. Some of these responses are suspect.

Growing up I was considered dark skinned and all the light skinned girls got play and I used to feel slighted.

Now that I'm older I realize I'm not even as dark-skinned as I thought I was and would like to be.

I absolutely adore Onyx's complexion. GOOD LAWD!


like i said before it's not the 80's anymore it's not that serious...i use to get the "treatment" for being dark skinned as well
 
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