LoneStar29
Banned
Move to America Ma....
I'm on the first flight out there ... you comin' to meet me at the airport???DANG ... I've heard that before ... do you live in the T.DOT???
Do Black Men Still Love Black Women?
- Thread starter jucurious
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I'm on the first flight out there ... you comin' to meet me at the airport???DANG ... I've heard that before ... do you live in the T.DOT???
I agree with cutie MassaQ---cuz caramelcute about to get an LD special delivery
Edit: Post ASAP please.
Izzy it's too late. .
Yep, I agree, but that broad is on some other shit.
I feel the love in here! Thank you gentlemen for still sticking beside us black women, even though we can be an handful at times...
We love you just the same!
Black Power/ Black Love!!
I truly think you are the only person who knows where my head and heart is. Thank you.
LoneStar29
Banned
GOD BLESS YOU AND THE STRONG BLACK BEAUTIFUL MOTHER THAT RAISED YOU ... if you were here I'd plant the biggest kiss on your cheek right now ... no joke ... haven't heard such beautiful words in a reeeeeeeally long time
LoneStar29
Banned
I sort of think he was talking to the both of you though ... about the mutual respect part ... you did say some pretty harsh things about the Black man ... I can understand where you are coming from cuz trust me I've been dogged out too by Black men and met those same type of guys you were describing ... but I just love my people waaaaaaay too much to ever give up on any of them man or woman ... and remember the man that wrote that post you liked so much is Black so he's proven there are some good ones out there
Even though I may date a chic of another ethnicity my first choice will always be the sistas. (pretend I said something insightful here) They're not perfect though. Then again neither am I. I guess we were made for each other. 
Sounds like Turd Gay Looserectum dropped some more knowledge.
then there were the extra comemnts made that stood out like:
most black women aint nothin to brag about
they are only good for their bodies
i don't fuck with them anymore...it's easier to be with other types of chics....no headaches
Sounds like Turd Gay Looserectum dropped some more knowledge.
I'm currently testing the waters for with Black women from Europe and Africa.
I have nothing against sistas from the States, but you can hardly go wrong by going back to the motherland. It will change your life, man... changed mine.
I sort of think he was talking to the both of you though ... about the mutual respect part ... you did say some pretty harsh things about the Black man ... I can understand where you are coming from cuz trust me I've been dogged out too by Black men and met those same type of guys you were describing ... but I just love my people waaaaaaay too much to ever give up on any of them man or woman ... and remember the man that wrote that post you liked so much is Black so he's proven there are some good ones out there
Yes I know he is an angel. He is a pal of mine. We just understand my hurt and frustration. He knows I wont give up on black men. Just want to know what is their deal and why the cannot provide honestly loyalty and trust.
LoneStar29
Banned
Yes I know he is an angel. He is a pal of mine. We just understand my hurt and frustration. He knows I wont give up on black men. Just want to know what is their deal and why the cannot provide honestly loyalty and trust.
I don't know you and I don't wanna judge you in any way but I believe that we get whatever energy we give off ... from what I've read in your posts your attributes you reffered to have only been physical and material ... maybe if you switch it up and focus on the inside you'll attract a better quality man ... no disrespect to you ... just a suggestion
Honestly as a Black woman living in Toronto, Canada I don't feel loved by the Black man ... I would say about 8 out of 10 black men down here date outside the race ... and out of those 8 maybe 3 of them only date outside the race meaning they don't fuck with any black girls AT ALL ... the dating outside of the race doesn't bug me as much anymore cuz I've gotten used to it ... it's the mentallity that goes along with it that hurts my heart ... you will hear alot of "we date other women cuz Black women are rude, gold diggers, have too many kids" etc ... these are the same men that will say they hate being stereotyped but they think it's okay to stereotype usI must admit that I thought black men everywhere were like that until I came on BGOL ... I have heard alot of the men on here say they only date Black women which surprised me and made me smile at the same time
I hear u ma, i hear u. some catz up hea, idunno, but fuc I live in toronto, n dont get it twisted. i , personally dont do dat international shyt. Neva have, neva will. but i c ur point n itz kinda of funny cuz i mean theres a lot of otha non-black chics that really feel nigz up hea, n alot cats go head ova heels fa dat. So chea, big up to all dem sistas up north.
I don't know you and I don't wanna judge you in any way but I believe that we get whatever energy we give off ... from what I've read in your posts your attributes you reffered to have only been physical and material ... maybe if you switch it up and focus on the inside you'll attract a better quality man ... no disrespect to you ... just a suggestion
I know hon. I am giving off angry vibes because I am angry. If you ever met me, you will find I am very sweet, loving, and caring. Because of those things, it is my profession. What you seen with my paragraph is from months of buildup of anger and frustration. I mentioned the material things because I am proud of what I accomplished in life given my poor upbringing. I guess my question is if black men scream (ones I been around) they dont want a woman with multiple kids, they want some financially dependent, they dont want a woman who is fat and who cares about herself, what is the huge problem when it comes to me. I have such mad mistrust issues as a result of the jerks I have encountered. Do I truly hate black men? No. I honestly do not. I just wish the ones of yesterday when my mom and grandmother young will reveal themselves today. Thank you for your input sweetheart however.
i notice you do speak of your material things ALOT. If you do that in real life too I would say first it would be a turnoff to many. Second, you are setting yourself up for those who wish to use you for your $. Perhaps leaving those things out of the conversation might serve you alot better. I have been thru plenty of those types myself and now I am always "broke" or "have to watch my spending" regardless of how much I have and they can't come by me because "i live with my grandmother and couldn't disrespect her like that".
This is highly effective in weeding out all sorts of undesirables. Since I "have nothing", I KNOW that they are chilling with me because they like ME not what I have. Then since I have "no crib of my own", I can find out if they live with a woman or their momma or whatever.
Hi, I dont speak of them all the time. I guess its more of an aggravation that I feel men dont appreciate women who have no need to use them. You know there are alot of women who do use and abuse black men. I am not one of them. If anything I begin to feel kicked at and used. I allow some of the things to happen myself. Part of it is my fault. But I know me and some other folks who know me, know I am a sweet caring girl and far from what people think on this board.
I don't know you and I don't wanna judge you in any way but I believe that we get whatever energy we give off ... from what I've read in your posts your attributes you reffered to have only been physical and material ... maybe if you switch it up and focus on the inside you'll attract a better quality man ... no disrespect to you ... just a suggestion
I note you live in Toronto. I have a friend who is dying to move back there.
ok
i was trippin last night when the server was acting up because i wanted to know if this thread got any traffic and it has....YEA!!
lol
thanks all for the replies
keep them coming
i will use some of the stuff in here to make another thread...well i might see if another one was made about it 1st.
i was trippin last night when the server was acting up because i wanted to know if this thread got any traffic and it has....YEA!!
lol
thanks all for the replies
keep them coming
i will use some of the stuff in here to make another thread...well i might see if another one was made about it 1st.
Let me help you on this, sister. We LOVE women that don't use us (most of us do, anyway) but most grown men have no use for a woman that gives off the "I don't need you" vibe. We like independence but we still need to be needed. You should be careful how you come across.
Trust me my friend. I am very kind. I am protective of myself but extremely kind. Not rude at all. I just appreciate upfront information. I am a very good person. This board doesnt dictate how I am.
You made your own impression on the board. You came at black men in a disrespectful manner, even going as far as worshiping yt. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Sister
Your being kind or not rude is irrelevant to what I was talking about. I'm not referring to anything you've said or has been said to you on the board, I haven't read the whole thread. This might be a topic you should broach with any close male friends you have, especially ones in committed relationships/married.
When I typed "be careful how you come across", I was really meaning in person, not on the board.
Im over it. It was alot of aggravation and frustration that hit a high note. Let it go please.
LoneStar29
Banned
I hear u ma, i hear u. some catz up hea, idunno, but fuc I live in toronto, n dont get it twisted. i , personally dont do dat international shyt. Neva have, neva will. but i c ur point n itz kinda of funny cuz i mean theres a lot of otha non-black chics that really feel nigz up hea, n alot cats go head ova heels fa dat. So chea, big up to all dem sistas up north.
Thanks bruh ... glad to know there is at least one in Toronto
No problem ... keep ya head up homegirl ... hopefully things will turn around for you
The T.Dot's not a bad place to live ... but if she's lookin' for a good Black man down here then her options are damn sure limited
That actually made alot of sense
I still love black women. Actually I never stopped...
P.S. For some reason this thread reminds me of another one on SOL...
...Stop by and share your thoughts...
http://www.bgol.us/board/showthread.php?t=236565
i will stop by
and I LOVE THAT PICTURE
it really put a smile on my face when i saw it....and it still does
ok...enough of the mushy stuff
I never stopped lovin em. I don't look at sistas like they're a fashion item..."in" one year, out the next. I love the fact that Black women can "catch me." That's a term I heard Bill Cosby use to explain which female co-stars he had chemistry with. It's how I feel about Sistas. I KNOW THEM! I know their ins & outs..and they know mine. Other races? I've dated other races, but I really don't have that same chmistry.
I've dated other races, but I really don't have that same chmistry.
yeah i'm a lil vexed right now cuz i just got finished reading a post on the main board about asian women and then it went into black women and it reallllllly bothered me, especially the hypocrisy of the comments.
then there were the extra comemnts made that stood out like:
most black women aint nothin to brag about
they are only good for their bodies
i don't fuck with them anymore...it's easier to be with other types of chics....no headaches
and things of that nature
i KNOW they don't speak for the majority of black men but i just had to make a thread about it
so men, do you still love black women? why? why not? what irks you about them?
and women...do you still feel loved by black men? why? why not?
Do Black Men Still Love Black Women? Absolutely! I know I do, black women IMO are still the most desireable women in the world. They are our sisters, mothers and daughters and wives. They are the foundation to our familys, communities and our race, our very existence.
So yes I love black women. I do what I can for them whenever I can. I don't ever want to see them hurt. In many instances they deserve better than they get.
Most black women are strong and because they are strong they expect a lot from us as men. The weak always fear the strong. Those who elect to go running to another race for a women, shows weakness on their part. Then those attacks addressing their bodies and the other comments. They are best described too as weak, very weak.
If that's the way they feel about black women then they don't deserve to have a sister in their lives. In fact black women should be glad they're not likely to encounter them in the future.We can't go blaming an entire group of people because something didn't go our way.
Regardless of what may go down within a personal relationship that sours, you never fault or look to blame others, that's plain childish and then to denounce the entire race, is just plain stupid. What this shows is a lack of self-worth, confusion about who they are and where the came from. A refusal to admit their mistakes, to address their weaknesses. They are lost souls. Don't get vexed over such nonsense.On some real shit, I am a Black Queen! My role/ purpose is to support the black man. My grandmother raised the women in our family to believe that Black Men are the kings of the earth and that once I find and marry one I am to be submissive to him (my husband, and only him).
Lately black women are more and more being shitted on by all races and more and more black men are jumping on the bandwagon.
Lets look at the numbers... the ratio for Black women to men in college and graduating is like 10:1?! Black men walking around like they some kinda prize. If Black Women did to the men like they do us we would look at those numbers and move onto a race of men who were more on our level.
I refuse to lower myself down to someone who would act more bitch then me. Someone who takes the easy way out and abandon me in order to find a race of women who are more "easy going and more accepting of his bullshit".
If thats the road they choose to take... Ill be over here to the right sitting on my throne with my college degree hanging on the wall, my dinner cooking on the stove, my ass my tiddies, my head game, my sense of the struggle, my by any means necessary attitude, my ride or die stance... all the shit that makes me a Queen> A Lioness> A Strong Black Woman!
I challenge a real Black Man to step up and prove his rightful place in the jungle with me.
Lately black women are more and more being shitted on by all races and more and more black men are jumping on the bandwagon.
Lets look at the numbers... the ratio for Black women to men in college and graduating is like 10:1?! Black men walking around like they some kinda prize. If Black Women did to the men like they do us we would look at those numbers and move onto a race of men who were more on our level.
I refuse to lower myself down to someone who would act more bitch then me. Someone who takes the easy way out and abandon me in order to find a race of women who are more "easy going and more accepting of his bullshit".
If thats the road they choose to take... Ill be over here to the right sitting on my throne with my college degree hanging on the wall, my dinner cooking on the stove, my ass my tiddies, my head game, my sense of the struggle, my by any means necessary attitude, my ride or die stance... all the shit that makes me a Queen> A Lioness> A Strong Black Woman!
I challenge a real Black Man to step up and prove his rightful place in the jungle with me.
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