Do Black Men Still Love Black Women?

[CT's Finest]

On some real shit, I am a Black Queen! My role/ purpose is to support the black man. My grandmother raised the women in our family to believe that Black Men are the kings of the earth and that once I find and marry one I am to be submissive to him (my husband, and only him).

Lately black women are more and more being shitted on by all races and more and more black men are jumping on the bandwagon.

Lets look at the numbers... the ratio for Black women to men in college and graduating is like 10:1?! Black men walking around like they some kinda prize. If Black Women did to the men like they do us we would look at those numbers and move onto a race of men who were more on our level.

I refuse to lower myself down to someone who would act more bitch then me. Someone who takes the easy way out and abandon me in order to find a race of women who are more "easy going and more accepting of his bullshit".

If thats the road they choose to take... Ill be over here to the right sitting on my throne with my college degree hanging on the wall, my dinner cooking on the stove, my ass my tiddies, my head game, my sense of the struggle, my by any means necessary attitude, my ride or die stance... all the shit that makes me a Queen> A Lioness> A Strong Black Woman!


I challenge a real Black Man to step up and prove his rightful place in the jungle with me.

Cooking skills, ass, titties, and head game huh? I gotta get up to BK . I'm a man who can cook and I've got a degree. I also sit on a throne, so I guess we've got a few things in common...

 

[LeroyDibiase]

On some real shit, I am a Black Queen! My role/ purpose is to support the black man. My grandmother raised the women in our family to believe that Black Men are the kings of the earth and that once I find and marry one I am to be submissive to him (my husband, and only him).

Lately black women are more and more being shitted on by all races and more and more black men are jumping on the bandwagon.

Lets look at the numbers... the ratio for Black women to men in college and graduating is like 10:1?! Black men walking around like they some kinda prize. If Black Women did to the men like they do us we would look at those numbers and move onto a race of men who were more on our level.

I refuse to lower myself down to someone who would act more bitch then me. Someone who takes the easy way out and abandon me in order to find a race of women who are more "easy going and more accepting of his bullshit".

If thats the road they choose to take... Ill be over here to the right sitting on my throne with my college degree hanging on the wall, my dinner cooking on the stove, my ass my tiddies, my head game, my sense of the struggle, my by any means necessary attitude, my ride or die stance... all the shit that makes me a Queen> A Lioness> A Strong Black Woman!


I challenge a real Black Man to step up and prove his rightful place in the jungle with me.

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[MzKittyDelicious]

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[blackmouth]

yes, we do still love black women.

but please realize that of ALL races of women, black women are THE absolute hardest to meet and get to know.

it takes a LOT just to get some of you black ladies to even smile.

what the fuck are ya'll so mad about all the damn time?

 

[LeroyDibiase]

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[nukdollars]

I love black women...always & forever.

never been with any other race but black...and why should I?

 

[followup]

I love black women...always & forever.

never been with any other race but black...and why should I?

 

[somebodyshome]

The real question is do we even want those men who think we are too much trouble? If they think we're not worth the hassle then they are not worthy of our time.....

Btw.... they still love us. They just like to talk that mess.

THank You!!!!! Fuck 'em....That black man big dick belief is bullshit anyways. More women need to open their horizons to men who love them, no matter the color.

 

[DANGEROUSBLACKMAN]

I Do.

 

[whoalilmomma]

*swoon*
Talk about intellectual stimulation...
I'm in love.

Do Black Men Still Love Black Women? Absolutely! I know I do, black women IMO are still the most desireable women in the world. They are our sisters, mothers and daughters and wives. They are the foundation to our familys, communities and our race, our very existence.

So yes I love black women. I do what I can for them whenever I can. I don't ever want to see them hurt. In many instances they deserve better than they get.

Most black women are strong and because they are strong they expect a lot from us as men. The weak always fear the strong. Those who elect to go running to another race for a women, shows weakness on their part. Then those attacks addressing their bodies and the other comments. They are best described too as weak, very weak. If that's the way they feel about black women then they don't deserve to have a sister in their lives. In fact black women should be glad they're not likely to encounter them in the future.

We can't go blaming an entire group of people because something didn't go our way. Regardless of what may go down within a personal relationship that sours, you never fault or look to blame others, that's plain childish and then to denounce the entire race, is just plain stupid. What this shows is a lack of self-worth, confusion about who they are and where the came from. A refusal to admit their mistakes, to address their weaknesses. They are lost souls. Don't get vexed over such nonsense.

 

[itwazuntme]

I think that 99% of black men will provide the obvious answer to this question, and that is a resounding yes. What I think black men don't love, is the "Black Queen" syndrome, that comes with loving black women. What country are you a queen of, because I havn't discovered that one yet. Black men want in a black woman,what they want in any woman; Committment, loyalty, respect, excellent communication, good sex and A little home cooking every now and then.

This "come up", that black women have experienced over the last three decades, has really got "most", not all of them, beside themselves. Your degree and level of education is recognized, your independence is dually noted...now is there any chance of a black man getting beyond those things so he can get to know your core values. Because your degree and your independence aren't going to keep "us" together, it's not going to raise our children and it's not going to resolve our problems.

We as people have adopted Western Society's idea of love, and unfortunately in this society, everything has some type of value. Well love, true love, is priceless and to find that in each other, we have to give up our value added ideas. That doesn't mean you settle for less, that means we find in each other, what's really important to us. The one thing I noticed on this board, is after all of the grandstanding, most sista's breakdown and tell a story that reflects why they are the way they are.

That is incredibly attractive to a man, because we want to understand you, not date or marry someone as hard as us. I think the answer to improved relationships between black women and black men is to stop devaluing one another and to stop placing emphasis on achievments, material possessions, and independence. Those things will naturally come out during conversation. Believe me, if a person is not of your caliber, they will talk themselves right out of the picture.

To the ladies, if you advertise your physical attributes first (headliner) that is what a man will value first. If you approach meeting a man, by emphasizing what you're looking for in a man first, that is the type of man you'll attract.

What you have is not who you are, I found that out the hard way, going from living in a $250,000 house and driving a new car, to sleeping in the back of my truck in a parking lot. It humbled me, and boy did it let me know who's really in control.