Dating Red Flags: How to recognize a crazy person before its too late!

I knew this one chick that would listen to the Beyonce song "resentment" on repeat for hours that was the scariest shit ever. But I was superficial and she was cute and had some snapper. But I eventually had to leave her batshit crazy ass alone.


But as I read through some of these things I might be the one waving the red flag in some circumstances. I have gotten jealous over chicks I just meant. Not to the point where I said anything but I was definitely a little green-eyed. And I have no real close male friends I only deal with females. So ladies beware.

Most crazy chicks have some snapper! :lol:
 
call me slow but what the hell do yall mean by "snapper":confused:


:lol: thats what Old Heads called it , most cats nowdays call it "making the pussy talk"



how do you know somebody is crazy ? By the Vibe they give off,
check their conversation & their conduct
 
my ex was crazy...she was a sweetheart in public, but behind doors she wasnt right in the head, cats would be thinking im buggin, cause they aint see what i saw, all the signs were there but i ignored them....chalk it up to being young and dumb
 
Nice thread but unfortunately for me, the signs didn't present themselves til after the relationship was deaded by my choice.

Abbreviated version:
Girl cheated, got pregnant and kept the baby so I bounced. She would call constantly begging to be taken back and even asked if i would be the godfather to the baby. Other crazy shit happened as well but too much to post & I don't feel like seeing Colin Powell pop up on this thread.
 
Someone who says all there exes did them wrong and there family doesnt respect their decisions. that person has no accountabitlity
Someone when you treat them good they dont respect you, but when you treat them like shit they want to be all under you.
 
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Nice thread but unfortunately for me, the signs didn't present themselves til after the relationship was deaded by my choice.

Abbreviated version:
Girl cheated, got pregnant and kept the baby so I bounced. She would call constantly begging to be taken back and even asked if i would be the godfather to the baby. Other crazy shit happened as well but too much to post & I don't feel like seeing Colin Powell pop up on this thread.

Aw Shit you aint the only one that has happened to. Worst thing she asked me when she confessed was "Do you still love me?". Upwards to this day she is still waiting for that answer:smh::lol:. Why, because i put the phone down on her ass.
 
"if a female tells you about how wrong she been treated over,and over,and over again...Leave her alone cause she is scarred and you will pay for it.."

Yeah your ass better run like Carl Lewis if this comes up. It can only get worse.

Dlateshow
 
"if a female tells you about how wrong she been treated over,and over,and over again...Leave her alone cause she is scarred and you will pay for it.."

Yeah your ass better run like Carl Lewis if this comes up. It can only get worse.

Dlateshow


Co-Sign most chicks that cry about getting done wrong
stayed with the Jerk for years :smh:
he was wrong - but so were they for allowing it
 
Aw Shit you aint the only one that has happened to. Worst thing she asked me when she confessed was "Do you still love me?". Upwards to this day she is still waiting for that answer:smh::lol:. Why, because i put the phone down on her ass.
Mine is still trying to get back with me after 2 years. Talking bout marriage n shit when she was the one that fucked that up in the first place. I can never go back to that after all the hell and stress she put me through. :smh:
 
My Ex told me if she cant have me no one can..I moved and changed my number from an ATL number (678) to a NYC number(347)...2 years later i get a call sayin "You thought u got away huh!" MAn im scared she gone find out where i live!.. :smh::smh::smh::(:(:smh::smh:
 
Man, it's a sad state of affairs that we've been through this much damn drama from the opposite sex...crazy ass ninjas! :smh::smh::smh:
 
The craziest incident I ever been in so far, was I once fucked this girl I met four years ago. She was just a booty call to me. Anyways, the next day, she calls me up, and proposes to marry me, and says she wants to have my kids saying "we would have cute babies, if we had children". :eek: Now granted, I only knew her for a few weeks, and we rarely spoke to each other during that time. She was just entertainment to me, but she took the booty call thing WAAAY too seriously! After she said she wanted to marry me and have my kids, I just ended the call and never called her again............:smh:
 
ive noticed that women who start kicking those little white lies, just to see what your reaction is, are usually crazy as hell. most of the time, theyre about issues that arent even worth lying about.
 
The craziest incident I ever been in so far, was I once fucked this girl I met four years ago. She was just a booty call to me. Anyways, the next day, she calls me up, and proposes to marry me, and says she wants to have my kids saying "we would have cute babies, if we had children". :eek: Now granted, I only knew her for a few weeks, and we rarely spoke to each other during that time. She was just entertainment to me, but she took the booty call thing WAAAY too seriously! After she said she wanted to marry me and have my kids, I just ended the call and never called her again............:smh:

you know the way around that? dont give her you A game in the sack. get your nut and be up out, then you dont have to worry about them falling in love like that. you probably wont be able to hit a second time though :lol: nah but on the real, some females just cant distinguish good sex from love...and who can blame them? women are emotional creatures...i dont think that this in itself is a sign of craziness, but her reaction when you tell her that youre not looking for anything serious is the real determining factor. if she starts flying off the handle and sending death threats, then you know. i know from experience.:smh:
 
you know the way around that? dont give her you A game in the sack. get your nut and be up out, then you dont have to worry about them falling in love like that. you probably wont be able to hit a second time though :lol: nah but on the real, some females just cant distinguish good sex from love...and who can blame them? women are emotional creatures...i dont think that this in itself is a sign of craziness, but her reaction when you tell her that youre not looking for anything serious is the real determining factor. if she starts flying off the handle and sending death threats, then you know. i know from experience.:smh:



I hear you. But the funny thing was, she was the one, who proposed the idea first, that we should just be friends, and everyone now and then, we can have sex. And the FIRST time, we had sex, that's when she caught feelings for me, wanting to marry me and all, afterwards. That just freaked me out.
 
the women that say i love you after a couple days/ a week. as stated that's a disaster waiting to happen.


the woman that, after 2 or 3 dates will start introducing you as her man/boyfriend to EVERYONE. that shit is crazy.

anyone who listens to beyonce and cries. :smh: i actually did that to myself but i knew from jump it wasnt going to be anything serious anyway. but still. i would hope i wouldnt hear that song while out.


i had a woman leave her kid at home just so we can go out. that was the worst.


last but not least...anyone who lies about shit that you dont really need to lie about. like in conversation they say they were born in january then later you find out they were born in september. weirdo.
or they say they were born in jamaica when in reality they were born in california. weird.
why lie about shit that you reallly dont need to lie about? THAT shit is weird like a mutherfucker and i leave those alone they end having these fantasies in their heads and believing everything they fantasize about is true :confused:
crazy shit
 
I hear you. But the funny thing was, she was the one, who proposed the idea first, that we should just be friends, and everyone now and then, we can have sex. And the FIRST time, we had sex, that's when she caught feelings for me, wanting to marry me and all, afterwards. That just freaked me out.


that shit is a mutherfucker. trying to change the contract after its been signed. man....
 
My Ex told me if she cant have me no one can..I moved and changed my number from an ATL number (678) to a NYC number(347)...2 years later i get a call sayin "You thought u got away huh!" MAn im scared she gone find out where i live!.. :smh::smh::smh::(:(:smh::smh:










Whoa.............that is some scary shit!!! :eek:
 
Met a chick on hi5 and she checked out my profile and added me. She started out slow with an occasional message. Exchanged emails and she starts chatting anytime i go online.:smh:

Showed her my pic and the talk about me fucking her started. Thought she was joking but realized she was dead serious. She insists i go buy a mic so we can chat via messenger and gets angry when i say no.:confused:

Wants me to vacation in her island just so we can hook up to fuck. Deleted her from my hi5 and msn messenger only for her to track me down on facebook now trying to add me as a friend after about six months.:hmm::smh:
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG THIS THIS NIGGA RIGHT HERE? YOU GAY?
 
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No Man..................................................:smh:
 
WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG THIS THIS NIGGA RIGHT HERE? YOU GAY?

I am so sorry sir that i offended you by not pulling out MY DICK and fucking a woman who looked at a pic of me online and after i chatted with her a couple of times insists that i fly to her island during MY VACATION with MY MONEY and fuck her.:hmm:

You can pass me your email address and i will hook you up with her. I sincerely wish the two of you a happy STD free relationship.:rolleyes:

Use discretion and self control son and you will actually live a long and happy life.:cool:
 
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No Man..................................................:smh:


i cant agree fully. there's gotta be more to the picture before i shrug this off as being crazy.

cant cosign
 
I am so sorry sir that i offended you by not pulling out MY DICK and fucking a woman who looked at a pic of me online and after i chatted with her a couple of times insists that i fly to her island during MY VACATION with MY MONEY and fuck her.:hmm:

You can pass me your email address and i will hook you up with her. I sincerely wish the two of you a happy STD free relationship.:rolleyes:

Use discretion and self control son and you will actually live a long and happy life.:cool:
i'm not even saying you should have done it chump, i'm saying that to write a woman off for wanting to have sex with you is some bullshit. and did you even stick around long enough to find out if maybe she would have been willing to put something on your trip to go see her? i'm doing fine with my life so put your advice back in your pocket next to your dusty ass dick.
 
i'm not even saying you should have done it chump, i'm saying that to write a woman off for wanting to have sex with you is some bullshit. and did you even stick around long enough to find out if maybe she would have been willing to put something on your trip to go see her? i'm doing fine with my life so put your advice back in your pocket next to your dusty ass dick.

:rolleyes::rolleyes:
Rest of story. I fucked a woman from her island whose husband did not appreciate the fact. He got my hi5 info from hacking her email info. The girl then contacted me soon afterwards out of the blue:rolleyes: claiming she fell in love with my pic and insisting i come down there to visit her. She also claimed to be broke and a struggling student.

It smelt like bait for a beatdown so i left her and that situation alone.

As for the dust remark :hmm:(cough,cough) aint bothering me son.:lol::dance:
 
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i cant agree fully. there's gotta be more to the picture before i shrug this off as being crazy.

cant cosign

you aint got to, I'm just talking about my experience.......................You find that chick who's perfect(to me at least) has her own shit, head on her shoulders and you're thinking damn, she aint taken, by the third (or second) date or a couple convo's allllll that CRAZY shit seeps out slowly and you be like (uhmmm) somethin aint right, this chick is a little off.

It's always a reason why. ( I came to learn this shit thru age and experience)

Not all women mind you (neva know a situation) but most in my experience, and i done been out quite a bit b4 wifey................................
 
i cant agree fully. there's gotta be more to the picture before i shrug this off as being crazy.

cant cosign

double noncosign..

i know of a few women who fall under this,
are still single,
and they are not crazy.

some women are just as tired of mens bullshit,
as we are tired of womens.

they stopped focusing on what they want in a man,
and are focused on what they DONT want.

and theyre not going to settle, simple and plain.


it called a woman with integrity.




www.rkellyisguilty.com
 
How so Left? Thats an interesting perspective. Does it really matter?

Whenever a child is abused its going to have an effect, but with support people are able to work through that and not be "crazy."

well for some (not all),
a boy molested by someone of the same sex,
is a tramatic experience that can comprimise the boy sexual identity.

that type of confusion can cause mental instability.

a boy molested my a women is also tramatic,

but because of the natural and accepted relations betwn a man and woman,
it moreso confirms the boys (hetro)sexual identity.

they damn near are applauded for the experience..

i.e. look at the thread about loing their viginity,
where many dudes posted (on a public fourm) about them first gettin some ass at 10, 11, 13, 15 yrs old from a much older women.

where the fuck is chris hanson on that one?


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