Dating Red Flags: How to recognize a crazy person before its too late!

[pokey]

peace

Wish the best for y'all

Am very familiar with these others though - had one chick that used to get goon handed so much in as a young girl in a past relationship with this kat, when she would try and argue about some bullshit & I happened to move suddenly, she'd catch a flashback and flinch;

knew some who subconsciously and consciously asking for that shit; one who had to let go called me after some nigga did ring that neck, crying, asking me if she was really that bad.......

have forgotton more shit that I can recall on '730type' chicks who've even done subtle weird shit that could lead to coo coo decisions;

the few whove actually landed in the looney bin that Ive heard of sometimes committ themselves; that chick ^^^also said she went to MariahCarey's rehab spot to find "somebody to talk to" but had a shitload of issues

Known of chick who wanted to jump out of moving car during an argument......
Banging and yelling outside of window from street......

Call u dozens of times, skipping past the answer machine from work just to make SURE that they talk to You and not the machine....

Strange notes on cars & Im Sure everyone has @ least one of them Silent phonecalls wherere no ones there (or just thinkin about u tryin to hear ya voice or some shit)...

A few back, a young lady would call like 3/4xs a day , everyday
Knew of someone else who drove about 3 hrs just to say hi to someone who wasnt expecting nor feeling them @ all nor gave any impressions.....

But Crazy could be a Good Thing also if utilized correctly :
Kicked it with someone a while back whom I shared a bday with over phone for a few & they decided to drive up and hang out real quick - but lived in Atl and came to NY on some nonstop shit in course of weekend; I think there was a babysitter down there

or a friend bringing a bunch of bags from stores going from a ferry to a train to a subway to a cab (was appreciative of gesture but was like wtf?)

Heard this a few times b4 but sometimes its just a sentiment

peace

damn homie sounds just like this chick I knew her name ain't Roselin

 

[Izayoi]

well for some (not all),
a boy molested by someone of the same sex,
is a tramatic experience that can comprimise the boy sexual identity.

that type of confusion can cause mental instability.

a boy molested my a women is also tramatic,

but because of the natural and accepted relations betwn a man and woman,
it moreso confirms the boys (hetro)sexual identity.

they damn near are applauded for the experience..

i.e. look at the thread about loing their viginity,
where many dudes posted (on a public fourm) about them first gettin some ass at 10, 11, 13, 15 yrs old from a much older women.

where the fuck is chris hanson on that one?


www.rkellyisguilty.com

Thank you for addressing that Left. I see your point about affirming rather than challenging a young boys identity BUT I think whether male or female too early sexualization can be damaging even if it's opposite sex.

True story- a close male family member of mine revealed he was molested by an older girl. This girl was a total hoodrat- not some older chick he had a crush on. This family member has definite trust issues with women and self esteem issue and I think those early experiences really hurt him in some ways he can't even identify.

You're right though, Chris doesn't make an appearance for our boys.

Just my 2.

 

[DeSiRe]

a man who is posessive

some chick thinks its cute but thats how it all starts..

 

[4North1Side2]

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[Cybts1]

This thread must have been washed up by Hurricane Sandy, it's so old.

 

[Lady-Wiz]

This thread must have been washed up by Hurricane Sandy, it's so old.

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[Lucky7s]

This thread should have been on the main board.

 

[Mack1052]

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