Wow you took it back old school with that one.
Dating Red Flags: How to recognize a crazy person before its too late!
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Wow you took it back old school with that one.
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Am very familiar with these others though - had one chick that used to get goon handed so much in as a young girl in a past relationship with this kat, when she would try and argue about some bullshit & I happened to move suddenly, she'd catch a flashback and flinch;
knew some who subconsciously and consciously asking for that shit; one who had to let go called me after some nigga did ring that neck, crying, asking me if she was really that bad.......
have forgotton more shit that I can recall on '730type' chicks who've even done subtle weird shit that could lead to coo coo decisions;
the few whove actually landed in the looney bin that Ive heard of sometimes committ themselves; that chick ^^^also said she went to MariahCarey's rehab spot to find "somebody to talk to" but had a shitload of issues
Known of chick who wanted to jump out of moving car during an argument......
Banging and yelling outside of window from street......
Call u dozens of times, skipping past the answer machine from work just to make SURE that they talk to You and not the machine....
Strange notes on cars & Im Sure everyone has @ least one of them Silent phonecalls wherere no ones there (or just thinkin about u tryin to hear ya voice or some shit)...
A few back, a young lady would call like 3/4xs a day , everyday
Knew of someone else who drove about 3 hrs just to say hi to someone who wasnt expecting nor feeling them @ all nor gave any impressions.....
But Crazy could be a Good Thing also if utilized correctly
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Kicked it with someone a while back whom I shared a bday with over phone for a few & they decided to drive up and hang out real quick - but lived in Atl and came to NY on some nonstop shit in course of weekend; I think there was a babysitter down there
or a friend bringing a bunch of bags from stores going from a ferry to a train to a subway to a cab (was appreciative of gesture but was like wtf?)
peace
Wish the best for y'all
Am very familiar with these others though - had one chick that used to get goon handed so much in as a young girl in a past relationship with this kat, when she would try and argue about some bullshit & I happened to move suddenly, she'd catch a flashback and flinch;
knew some who subconsciously and consciously asking for that shit; one who had to let go called me after some nigga did ring that neck, crying, asking me if she was really that bad.......
have forgotton more shit that I can recall on '730type' chicks who've even done subtle weird shit that could lead to coo coo decisions;
the few whove actually landed in the looney bin that Ive heard of sometimes committ themselves; that chick ^^^also said she went to MariahCarey's rehab spot to find "somebody to talk to" but had a shitload of issues
Known of chick who wanted to jump out of moving car during an argument......
Banging and yelling outside of window from street......
Call u dozens of times, skipping past the answer machine from work just to make SURE that they talk to You and not the machine....
Strange notes on cars & Im Sure everyone has @ least one of them Silent phonecalls wherere no ones there (or just thinkin about u tryin to hear ya voice or some shit)...
A few back, a young lady would call like 3/4xs a day , everyday
Knew of someone else who drove about 3 hrs just to say hi to someone who wasnt expecting nor feeling them @ all nor gave any impressions.....
But Crazy could be a Good Thing also if utilized correctly
:Kicked it with someone a while back whom I shared a bday with over phone for a few & they decided to drive up and hang out real quick - but lived in Atl and came to NY on some nonstop shit in course of weekend; I think there was a babysitter down there
or a friend bringing a bunch of bags from stores going from a ferry to a train to a subway to a cab (was appreciative of gesture but was like wtf?)
Heard this a few times b4 but sometimes its just a sentimentsmoove2k6 said:
peace
I ain't heard that in a long time...Which reminds me of the craziest dude ever who was known as Seven(short for 730)
LADIES: If you meet a man whose name is a number, RUN!!!!
Whenever she starts a sentence off by saying, "I'm not crazy but..."
I expect all women to be crazy, especially the ones that I tend to attract because I'm sane.
And you know it ain't fiction, just a natural fact, opposites attract.
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/FbknGnZXHUk&rel=1[/FLASH]
I expect all women to be crazy, especially the ones that I tend to attract because I'm sane.
And you know it ain't fiction, just a natural fact, opposites attract.
[FLASH]http://www.youtube.com/v/FbknGnZXHUk&rel=1[/FLASH]
Rememberin my car and my motherfuckin license plates right after we just met
Lol,when I go out on dates or whatever I would write down license plates numbers just in case I came up missing one day.Call me over cautious
Me too. You never know what someone new is capable of.
I always give my friends all of my date's information before I go out. Just in case. Phone number, address, full name, etc. . . . If I come up missing, I don't wanna be some unsolved mystery case.
Or the ones that call you on your home phone and ask you where you at?
one chick told me she wished she could cut my dick off and keep it with her, (needless to say i was dressed, out the door, and on 285 north before she finished the sentence.
had another chick take some clothes that i left at her place, put pillows inside them and acted like it was me. When i seen that, i didnt even ask, i just ran.
meet this one chick, Knew her for about a week, banged her once, told her i had to go out of town on business (i did) came home and found her sitting in her car across the street from my house, after the neighbors informed me that she had been sitting there for a little over 40 hours, had to file a restraining order. (That one just scared the hell out of me)
Damn.. these chicks on some Single White Female stuff... straight out the movies!!!!
I had one guy call me and ask me what I was doing. I replied nothing... He's like oh, I just drove by your house and say your car outside, wanted to know if you wanted to chill.... uummm.. HELL NO!!
So do I. If we met a week ago, and you're calling my job making sure I'm there and whatnot, you're outta here.
how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?
My ex of 2.5 years did that... I shoulda known to runOr when you are talking to someone on IM and you have to sign in Invisible so they won't know you are online. I have done that in the past
Girl, I still do that! I took this one chick off block on AIM thinking she doesn't use the S/N anymore. She hit me up 5 minutes after me unblocking her ass. She said she put 2 and 2 together, and put herself on invisible to wait for me. 
Me too. You never know what someone new is capable of.
I always give my friends all of my date's information before I go out. Just in case. Phone number, address, full name, etc. . . . If I come up missing, I don't wanna be some unsolved mystery case.
So do I. You never know nowadays.
I got a red flag: asking about your favorite hangouts so they can "unexpectedly" stop by one day.
Religious zealots are another one. I had a guy who was into santeria tell me that he promises to visit me in my sleep and his spirit guide will keep me safe from other men, two weeks after us meeting.
I've had a few:
The dude's story about his pops made me remember one where this chick called saying she was outside, by the time I got to the door (about 30 secs) she was OUT! It was like the adult version of ding dong ditch. I approached her on it and she said, "My daughter kept calling me, she had a headache." *boot*
A couple of years ago I met a chick with OCD. She kept one room in her house immaculate and the rest of the house was a mess. If you moved a pillow in her living room, she would put it right back. The kitchen stovetop was dirty, her bedroom had piles of clothes. Her car....I took a shower after riding in it.
Chicks that lie on some stupid pathological shit and can't keep up with their own lies. That's the biggest one for me. Too many examples of that....
The dude's story about his pops made me remember one where this chick called saying she was outside, by the time I got to the door (about 30 secs) she was OUT! It was like the adult version of ding dong ditch. I approached her on it and she said, "My daughter kept calling me, she had a headache." *boot*
A couple of years ago I met a chick with OCD. She kept one room in her house immaculate and the rest of the house was a mess. If you moved a pillow in her living room, she would put it right back. The kitchen stovetop was dirty, her bedroom had piles of clothes. Her car....I took a shower after riding in it.
Chicks that lie on some stupid pathological shit and can't keep up with their own lies. That's the biggest one for me. Too many examples of that....
how about someone telling you they love you a week after you start dating?
i have a ex like that.
broad planned out my life.
how many kids she and i would have.
there names
where we would live
what the house would look like(she even drew up a custom floorplan)
what kinda car i would drive.
she planned out a wedding to the detail.
shit was scary...i never ran from a female before till that day..
Your list is pretty accurate but unless you get caught up in the attractiveness of the other party, you could tell what kind of person you will be dealing with based on the the first few interactions.
Observing some of the women on SOL converse, it's another sign I've noticed that I've never checked for before that is another tell-tale sign of what to expect from that person in a relationship but I'm not going to say as truthful talking isn't accepted much around here
Oh yeah...
And don't forget the women that say things like -
1) Don't you think our kids would look/We'd make some beautiful kids
or
2) Talk about things like marriage around you when you have given no indication to even wanting a relationship and are just tryin' to hit.
- Women that insist you come over to meet their parents or family before you are even seriously dating.
- Women that try to stop by your house uninvited.
And etc, etc, etc...
I'd call you crazy for even going out with someone you think would cause that kind of bodily harm to you in the first place.
If you trust a person that little, why go out with them in the first place?
I think the worst thing to hear a man say is "If I can't have you, no one else will" or "I will die before I let someone else have you".
I think the worst thing to hear a man say is "If I can't have you, no one else will" or "I will die before I let someone else have you".
But then again, what's that say about you or anyone else that stays around after hearing that psycho babble?
Some people (men and women) just like drama
Your list is pretty accurate but unless you get caught up in the attractiveness of the other party, you could tell what kind of person you will be dealing with based on the the first few interactions.
Observing some of the women on SOL converse, it's another sign I've noticed that I've never checked for before that is another tell-tale sign of what to expect from that person in a relationship but I'm not going to say as truthful talking isn't accepted much around here
I agree X. That's the real issue. All the signs are there but superficial things OR lets be real our own emotional dysfunctions often cause us to ignore the truth of the matter. We only hurt ourselves in the end.
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Met a chick on hi5 and she checked out my profile and added me. She started out slow with an occasional message. Exchanged emails and she starts chatting anytime i go online.
Showed her my pic and the talk about me fucking her started. Thought she was joking but realized she was dead serious. She insists i go buy a mic so we can chat via messenger and gets angry when i say no.
Wants me to vacation in her island just so we can hook up to fuck. Deleted her from my hi5 and msn messenger only for her to track me down on facebook now trying to add me as a friend after about six months.
Showed her my pic and the talk about me fucking her started. Thought she was joking but realized she was dead serious. She insists i go buy a mic so we can chat via messenger and gets angry when i say no.
Wants me to vacation in her island just so we can hook up to fuck. Deleted her from my hi5 and msn messenger only for her to track me down on facebook now trying to add me as a friend after about six months.
Damn! I've encountered so much of the above I cannot quote it all
How about the women you may be just casual with, or hit it with once or twice, that come to your hangout spot and have to make it a point to everyone there (especially other women you know in your spot) that she is there with YOU and that YOU are HER MAN.
How about that same woman, even though she claims that you two are just "friends", who rides you as you say hello to different women you know in your spot (whether they are married, friends, seeing someone else, whatever) that you must be fucking all of them?
That is why I never reveal:
My home phone (I give my cell and say I do not have a home phone)
My address (I state that my home is like my Fortress of Solitude and BatCave built into one -- I live a bit far out that it would take some effort to see me, thus no "Oh, I was just in the neighborhood" unsolicited visits)
My Work Phone and Address (I say I am not allowed to receive calls -- use my cell -- and my building is in Downtown Manhattan, too much security to go through to get in)
How about the women you may be just casual with, or hit it with once or twice, that come to your hangout spot and have to make it a point to everyone there (especially other women you know in your spot) that she is there with YOU and that YOU are HER MAN.
How about that same woman, even though she claims that you two are just "friends", who rides you as you say hello to different women you know in your spot (whether they are married, friends, seeing someone else, whatever) that you must be fucking all of them?
That is why I never reveal:
My home phone (I give my cell and say I do not have a home phone)
My address (I state that my home is like my Fortress of Solitude and BatCave built into one -- I live a bit far out that it would take some effort to see me, thus no "Oh, I was just in the neighborhood" unsolicited visits)
My Work Phone and Address (I say I am not allowed to receive calls -- use my cell -- and my building is in Downtown Manhattan, too much security to go through to get in)
I haven't read all the replies, so I don't know if this was mentioned, but you can also tell by a persons occupation what their mental stability is. Not saying all of them are like that, i'm just going by my personal experiences with the women I've met....
Police Officers
Mental Health Therapists/physiologist
Social Workers
....just to name a few.
Police Officers
Mental Health Therapists/physiologist
Social Workers
....just to name a few.
I've had a woman tell me that she wished I could leave my dick with her so she could pleasure herself. So I don't really find that need odd, just flattering. But giving pet names in less than a month, oh yeah, broad is loony. Had someone calling me Pookie wookie in less than a month of knowing her and we didn't even fuck.
Fatal attractions happen but I'd attribute the main issue to a lot of people just being narcissistic. You can read this thread and see that is the case.
There are a lot of crazy people out there but most of it can be avoided. A lot of the "having a crazy mate" type situations are self-inflicted but most have their head too far in the clouds to notice the signs.
Or are naive enough to think that they made a "sane" person go crazy
Your list is pretty accurate but unless you get caught up in the attractiveness of the other party, you could tell what kind of person you will be dealing with based on the the first few interactions.
Observing some of the women on SOL converse, it's another sign I've noticed that I've never checked for before that is another tell-tale sign of what to expect from that person in a relationship but I'm not going to say as truthful talking isn't accepted much around here
Fatal attractions happen but I'd attribute the main issue to a lot of people just being narcissistic. You can read this thread and see that is the case.
There are a lot of crazy people out there but most of it can be avoided. A lot of the "having a crazy mate" type situations are self-inflicted but most have their head too far in the clouds to notice the signs.
Or are naive enough to think that they made a "sane" person go crazy
I couldn't have said it better! It pays to be critical and perceptive...
I dated a female who when we first made it to the bedroom..She had a big Butcher Knife beside her bed..I should have knew something was wrong...About a week later..We sleep..And Her crazy Ex outside banging on the windows and doors...she was like "This is why i keep the knife here"like it was normal.. LOL
I was like Sorry....Never went back....(He also flattened the tires so we couldnt leave)
Also if a female tells you about how wrong she been treated over,and over,and over again...Leave her alone cause she is scarred and you will pay for it..
If you know a woman has been hurt deeply..Be careful..
Because i got kidnapped one time. My Ex at the time had made a disc with a bunch of IM's,and pics' of her on it..And i found it..And I was like well THat's IT'..It's over...
She ask me to ride to the store..We were in NC at the time...She locked the doors and hit the highway..We were in Augusta Georgia before i could tell her i wasnt leaving,lol...
I was scared as hell..Im not gonna lie..
I was like Sorry....Never went back....(He also flattened the tires so we couldnt leave)
Also if a female tells you about how wrong she been treated over,and over,and over again...Leave her alone cause she is scarred and you will pay for it..
If you know a woman has been hurt deeply..Be careful..
Because i got kidnapped one time. My Ex at the time had made a disc with a bunch of IM's,and pics' of her on it..And i found it..And I was like well THat's IT'..It's over...
She ask me to ride to the store..We were in NC at the time...She locked the doors and hit the highway..We were in Augusta Georgia before i could tell her i wasnt leaving,lol...
I was scared as hell..Im not gonna lie..
damn you stayed inside and let that ninja flatten your tires?
HE FLATTENED HER TIRES!
I helped her change the tires,and laughed the whole way back to UNCC...
Hsmoke. WTF? Kidnapping
I'm glad you are ok, because a lot of people in similar situations have not made it back home.
More like "chile, we did ex and coke all weekend in Miami"
thats some funny shit folk
why yall couldn't post this shit BEFORE new years? damn..Hsmoke. WTF? Kidnapping
I thought about Jumping out the car..
And you are right Im BLessed....
I had a boyfriend tell me he loved me after 1 week and look at me dead serious like he wanted me to say it back. I should have got out right then and there but my dumb ass just had to give him some. Then he wanted to marry me. This dude actually called me up one day and said he was in the basement with a gun to his head!!
After that I was scared he would kill himself if I dumped his crazy ass.
For some reason I have attracted the attention of a lot of stalkers over the years. I know the the pussy is addictive but that doesn't explain the ones that never even got a whiff.
After that I was scared he would kill himself if I dumped his crazy ass.
For some reason I have attracted the attention of a lot of stalkers over the years. I know the the pussy is addictive but that doesn't explain the ones that never even got a whiff.
I had a boyfriend tell me he loved me after 1 week and look at me dead serious like he wanted me to say it back. I should have got out right then and there but my dumb ass just had to give him some. Then he wanted to marry me. This dude actually called me up one day and said he was in the basement with a gun to his head!!
After that I was scared he would kill himself if I dumped his crazy ass.
For some reason I have attracted the attention of a lot of stalkers over the years. I know the the pussy is addictive but that doesn't explain the ones that never even got a whiff.
pussy whipped to the max. 
I knew this one chick that would listen to the Beyonce song "resentment" on repeat for hours that was the scariest shit ever. But I was superficial and she was cute and had some snapper. But I eventually had to leave her batshit crazy ass alone.
But as I read through some of these things I might be the one waving the red flag in some circumstances. I have gotten jealous over chicks I just meant. Not to the point where I said anything but I was definitely a little green-eyed. And I have no real close male friends I only deal with females. So ladies beware.
But as I read through some of these things I might be the one waving the red flag in some circumstances. I have gotten jealous over chicks I just meant. Not to the point where I said anything but I was definitely a little green-eyed. And I have no real close male friends I only deal with females. So ladies beware.
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