Could you maintain a friendship with a fine woman you arent fuckin

I could maintain the friendship right up until i fuck.....

Strategically befriending a fuckable broad is basically a cop-out. Usually some shit done by a dude who missed or lost his opportunity to fuck.

beautiful/fuckable women create the "friend zone"....they never get put in them.

So YOU would try to fuck every attractive woman you WORKED with in an office or professional setting?? Good luck in jail.
 
Currently, I am.

One is a little air-headedish, though. Not really interested.

The other... well... let's just say if word went out that I hit that, there will be consequenses.

So I guess the answer to your question is, it would be difficult if no consequenses were involved.
 
So YOU would try to fuck every attractive woman you WORKED with in an office or professional setting?? Good luck in jail.

Not quite. I just don't befriend the women I work with. Nor do I fuck them. I think i'm safe from any prison sentence that you'd like to impose ;)
 
yea,,, i've known a fine chick since the 6th grade,,, not nearly as fine now, as she was in high school (& years after),,, but we are cool as shit & i would never go there,,, you can tell who gets pussy & who doesn't by the responses,,, only dry dick kats are out of control in this scenario,,, when you are getting pussy, it's no big deal,,,

Not true. I'm like America homie, the fact that I already have an empire doesn't mean I've quench my thirst for conquering.
 
Yes and No ... All fine women may not be good for dating .. I think looks are overrated ...

Would I reject a fine woman's friendship just cause we aren't sexing? Nah ... that's petty imo .... with that said a lotta fine chicks have nothing else going for them IME...
I've carried on a strictly platonic relationship with a very beautiful woman for the past 17 years. When we were teens I thought about fucking but I also thought about fucking every female that I came into contact with at that time. She saw me through some terrible times and I wouldnt think of soiling our relationship just to add another notch on my belt. It's funny but she embodies all the chracteristics that I want in a woman but I can never see myself crossing that line, her friendship means the world to me.
You are buggin ... unless you have a better chick on your arm or something ... step up to the plate son :cool:

Yep

Make you work even less. Real recognize real.
No offense ... but reading your posts here ... it sounds like you CAN'T smash/would if you could

I mean you WOULD beat if she let you right? Or would you politely refuse to keep riding shot gun on the "Model Express"? :dunno:

smh at the men in here with model best friends.

:lol:
 
I call this appreciating a womans beauty without having a need to own her.

I'm down with probably the finest woman I have ever seen in my life!!! ,known her now for going on 7 years ...

How it happened, I don't frekin' know, she chose me !!!

Certain shyt I only run past her for clarity on life situations, shes also the smartest person I know no question... With a temper to match... Carries heat at all times too, for haterz...

She gives the killer advice about the chics I deal with , she basically gets me pussy... I'm not going to put that in danger on some kool points shyt, that would be selfish of me ...
 
I call this appreciating a womans beauty without having a need to own her.

I'm down with probably the finest woman I have ever seen in my life!!! ,known her now for going on 7 years ...

How it happened, I don't frekin' know, she chose me !!!

Certain shyt I only run past her for clarity on life situations, shes also the smartest person I know no question... With a temper to match... Carries heat at all times too, for haterz...

She gives the killer advice about the chics I deal with , she basically gets me pussy... I'm not going to put that in danger on some kool points shyt, that would be selfish of me ...

It sounds to me like you and her both have convinced yourself that the Friend Zone is something YOU want when deep down you know it isn't the reality. Let me ask you something brotha - if a Woman is gorgeous, understands you, and is a Woman you can appreciate why wouldn't you want a relationship with her? Honestly, if what you say is true you will never be able to have a relationship with a woman because you will be too afraid to destroy your friendship. That's why I believe that you DO truly like/love her but once she told you that you couldn't be Batman you settled for Robin instead of hopping in your Batmobile. Now you're in a situation where you have to repress your inner manhood in order to be around the one you love which is a sorry situation. She may be getting you pussy but at the end of the day that is not the pussy you want - you want hers.
 
I call this appreciating a womans beauty without having a need to own her.

I'm down with probably the finest woman I have ever seen in my life!!! ,known her now for going on 7 years ...

How it happened, I don't frekin' know, she chose me !!!

Certain shyt I only run past her for clarity on life situations, shes also the smartest person I know no question... With a temper to match... Carries heat at all times too, for haterz...

She gives the killer advice about the chics I deal with , she basically gets me pussy... I'm not going to put that in danger on some kool points shyt, that would be selfish of me ...

sounds like u really dig this chic, too bad you are stuck in the friend zone and cant fuck. Seriously why would a grown man still need advice about women? She sounds like she talks to u about sex and chics just to turn you on for her pleasure. Dont tell me she is one of those chics who has alot of guy friends and claim she dont get along with women?
 
Yes and No ... All fine women may not be good for dating .. I think looks are overrated ...

Would I reject a fine woman's friendship just cause we aren't sexing? Nah ... that's petty imo .... with that said a lotta fine chicks have nothing else going for them IME...

You are buggin ... unless you have a better chick on your arm or something ... step up to the plate son :cool:


No offense ... but reading your posts here ... it sounds like you CAN'T smash/would if you could




Can't smash:lol:

Okay chief. :cool:

 
sounds like u really dig this chic, too bad you are stuck in the friend zone and cant fuck. Seriously why would a grown man still need advice about women? She sounds like she talks to u about sex and chics just to turn you on for her pleasure. Dont tell me she is one of those chics who has alot of guy friends and claim she dont get along with women?

Maybe I'm cynical but in my opinion the last person I want to get advice about Women from is another Woman.
 
It sounds to me like you and her both have convinced yourself that the Friend Zone is something YOU want when deep down you know it isn't the reality. Let me ask you something brotha - if a Woman is gorgeous, understands you, and is a Woman you can appreciate why wouldn't you want a relationship with her? Honestly, if what you say is true you will never be able to have a relationship with a woman because you will be too afraid to destroy your friendship. That's why I believe that you DO truly like/love her but once she told you that you couldn't be Batman you settled for Robin instead of hopping in your Batmobile. Now you're in a situation where you have to repress your inner manhood in order to be around the one you love which is a sorry situation. She may be getting you pussy but at the end of the day that is not the pussy you want - you want hers.

Goddamn, all I can say is Cosign. :yes:
 
Being around a Woman you cannot have sexual relations with is equivalent to having a car you cannot drive, tv you cannot watch, money you cannot spend, so on and so forth.
 

Similar story. I have a friend who looks like a model and is built like one of those chicks from Electrik Red (matter of fact she could fit into that group easily) but I was with someone at the time we met and I knew her family already (played ball with her brothers).

We've been friends for 7 years and we've never done anything, but very early she made passes at me.

No kid though...

Yea I feel you, sometimes I feel like I made a mistake, because she has a beautiful personality, then I think of all her draw backs and I remember why we must just be friends. Generally though, I don't keep girls as platonic friends, he only way I could do that is if I don't like them or can't date them for certain reasons.
 
Yes and No ... All fine women may not be good for dating .. I think looks are overrated ...

Would I reject a fine woman's friendship just cause we aren't sexing? Nah ... that's petty imo .... with that said a lotta fine chicks have nothing else going for them IME...

You are buggin ... unless you have a better chick on your arm or something ... step up to the plate son :cool:


No offense ... but reading your posts here ... it sounds like you CAN'T smash/would if you could

I mean you WOULD beat if she let you right? Or would you politely refuse to keep riding shot gun on the "Model Express"? :dunno:



:lol:

True, I'm sure brother 2 one 3 would fuck if he ever had the chance, so I dunno how he deals with the fact that they'd never wanna fuck him in a million years and just stay looking at those fine girls knowing he doesn't measure up :smh: I couldn't do it.
 
Now the easy answer usually is no. But assuming this woman has qualities that you admire in a friend and she actually brings out the best in you. Could you? I thought I'd never be friends with another woman I find attractive until I started thinking about this recent chick I met. She's very perspective, can hold down her end of a conversation and has morals and values and connects everything that she finds out about me together to impress me with things I'm surprised she knows about me. (We aren't friends we only spoke a few times but I heard her talking on the phone about some guy rubbing her feet and I was thinking if she taken or whatever she has qualities that I like in a friend). Personally I could. Could you? (No I'm not asking for advice about how to deal with her in a round about way I'm asking could YOU do it)

Have you ever seen a snake charmer doing their thing?

Basically to keep the snake at bay and win over the snake he mimics the snakes every move mezmorizing the snake, he isn't agressive nor is he laid back and taking the situation for granted; he has patience like Jobe in the bible and charms that snake how that snake knows to be charmed by being graceful in the process....... BUT based on what your looking for you gotta be confident about your game and stand your ground, she will be in your ass, is up to you to maintain that friendship and not take it over..... Always remember women are based on emotions and not MIND; so don't expect her to want the same from you....

I think you gotta get to know her more and decide what your doing from their, don't let what you see upfront fool your Mind into believing what might not really be there....... :cool:
 
True, I'm sure brother 2 one 3 would fuck if he ever had the chance, so I dunno how he deals with the fact that they'd never wanna fuck him in a million years and just stay looking at those fine girls knowing he doesn't measure up :smh: I couldn't do it.

:rolleyes:

Of course nigga. I only fuck Precious looking hoes all day everyday:yes:


The girl in my sig and I go back 9 years. And when I was a senior and she was a sophomore I found out she developed a crush on me, but left it where it was. If you go back that long with a person, know their family and have a steady healthy friendship...Sometimes it's best to leave things where they are rather than to not only lose a friend, but have the situation get weird & foggy when emotions get involved. To this day we're cool, and just because she's fine as hell doesn't mean she's wifey material niggas.

And didn't you say you "turned down" your friend who's a model? If so, then you should know what I'm talking about.

Smarten up.

 
:rolleyes:

Of course nigga. I only fuck Precious looking hoes all day everyday:yes:


The girl in my sig and I go back 9 years. And when I was a senior and she was a sophomore I found out she developed a crush on me, but left it where it was. If you go back that long with a person, know their family and have a steady healthy friendship...Sometimes it's best to leave things where they are rather than to not only lose a friend, but have the situation get weird & foggy when emotions get involved. To this day we're cool, and just because she's fine as hell doesn't mean she's wifey material niggas.

And didn't you say you "turned down" your friend who's a model? If so, then you should know what I'm talking about.

Smarten up.


No quotes needed, I turned her down period.
 
Sure you did.

Just how you don't believe me...I don't believe you

And neither 1 of us gives a fuck if the other does or not.:yes:

What I don't believe, is all your friends magically wanna fuck now, ur hanging around them as a sucker who can't fuck, that's the real deal :yes: Every bitch you know doesn't go 9 years back. C'mon son. In fact I'm sure you made that bullshit up too :smh: :yes:
 

What I don't believe, is all your friends magically wanna fuck now, ur hanging around them as a sucker who can't fuck, that's the real deal :yes: Every bitch you know doesn't go 9 years back. C'mon son. In fact I'm sure you made that bullshit up too :smh: :yes:

Who said they were trying to fuck me:confused:

The last thing I do is simp on hoes, but it's quite sad how you're worried about who I know and kick it with. All the schools I went to had fine ass girls. You claim you're from LA, but who knows.

Once again dumb nigga, smarten up.

Of course I don't know her, her brother, and her moms. Of course not :rolleyes:

 
Who said they were trying to fuck me:confused:

The last thing I do is simp on hoes, but it's quite sad how you're worried about who I know and kick it with. All the schools I went to had fine ass girls. You claim you're from LA, but who knows.

Once again dumb nigga, smarten up.

Of course I don't know her, her brother, and her moms. Of course not :rolleyes:


I never said I was FROM LA, you can go search on here and see where I said I was from, I said it several times. You could never fuck with me in the smarts realm so "dumb nigga" is a "dumb nigga" comment. Pick a different insult before you get Da Don'd. Claiming you have hoes, you friend zone ass nigga. Stick to hating on baby and praying for pussy. :smh:
 

I never said I was FROM LA, you can go search on here and see where I said I was from, I said it several times. You could never fuck with me in the smarts realm so "dumb nigga" is a "dumb nigga" comment. Pick a different insult before you get Da Don'd. Claiming you have hoes, you friend zone ass nigga. :smh:

You're not even from my city, but you wanna speak on who I'm friends with.

Dumb nigga, you strike again.:lol:

The fact of the matter still remains. Having fine friends benefits the male in the long run. Stay on topic or stop posting in this thread. How hard is it to comprehend:confused:

 
You're not even from my city, but you wanna speak on who I'm friends with.

Dumb nigga, you strike again.:lol:

The fact of the matter still remains. Having fine friends benefits the male in the long run. Stay on topic or stop posting in this thread. How hard is it to comprehend:confused:


:rolleyes: Nigga please. You've earned yourself a new name. "Friend zone ass nigga" I'm done.
 
:rolleyes: Nigga please. You've earned yourself a new name. "Friend zone ass nigga" I'm done.

Giving men nicknames are we.:smh:

I'd rather be a friend to a fine chick than trying to figure out names to call other niggas.

You're posting very homo my dude.
 
You're not even from my city, but you wanna speak on who I'm friends with.

Dumb nigga, you strike again.:lol:

The fact of the matter still remains. Having fine friends benefits the male in the long run. Stay on topic or stop posting in this thread. How hard is it to comprehend:confused:


That is not a fact by any stretch of the imagination, especially for me. I don't want to generalize, but in my experience 99% of women who just wanted to be friends with me didn't really want friendship, they wanted a person to summon when they wanted an issue to disappear. They wanted all the benefits of me being their Man but didn't want to provide any of the benefits of them being my Woman. Women know I'm smart so if it isn't a call about how to put songs on the iPod, it's a call about how to fix a computer, or they need a ride, or they need someone to talk to...fuck that...don't call my phone. You see, Women exhibit a different kind of energy and vibe to me that doesn't allow me to hang out with them like I hang out with my homies. When I get around Women I can trust I feel relaxed, comfortable, and want to bond with them in a way only a Man and a Woman can. If she doesn't feel that same way then we have nothing to talk about because I will not suppress my instinct to satisfy anyone's wants. Yes, she may have fine friends but so the fuck what...I'll get my own Women...I'm fly as fuck and can make that happen.
 
That is not a fact by any stretch of the imagination, especially for me. I don't want to generalize, but in my experience 99% of women who just wanted to be friends with me didn't really want friendship, they wanted a person to summon when they wanted an issue to disappear. They wanted all the benefits of me being their Man but didn't want to provide any of the benefits of them being my Woman. Women know I'm smart so if it isn't a call about how to put songs on the iPod, it's a call about how to fix a computer, or they need a ride, or they need someone to talk to...fuck that...don't call my phone. You see, Women exhibit a different kind of energy and vibe to me that doesn't allow me to hang out with them like I hang out with my homies. When I get around Women I can trust I feel relaxed, comfortable, and want to bond with them in a way only a Man and a Woman can. If she doesn't feel that same way then we have nothing to talk about because I will not suppress my instinct to satisfy anyone's wants. Yes, she may have fine friends but so the fuck what...I'll get my own Women...I'm fly as fuck and can make that happen.


Different regions, different people fam:dunno:

Our friends do for themselves and when we all do function together it's to live shows or other common interest we have. It's been rare that I've had a female friend bug out and trip for kicking it. If anything, they're right there rolling with us and like to do much of the same things we do. Play video games, music, art exhibits, etc. More often than it it's been good times when we're out.

And I'm not saying cats NEED a fly friend to get at hoes, by no means. But me and my boys have noticed an influx in attention we get when we're all out together.

I think the biggest difference between your friends and mine would be, that we could be out with them & their dude and have no problems. Cats are just laid back that way where we are.
 
:rolleyes:

Do me a favor, and never reply to anything you see next to my name. You are literally one of the dumbest muthafuckas on here.




No problem Friends Zone ass nigga. I found this song you wrote :lol:


Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date
But a year to make love she wanted you to wait
Let me tell ya a story of my situation
I was talkin' to this girl from the U.S. nation
The way that I met her was on tour at a concert
She had long hair and a short miniskirt
I just got onstage drippin', pourin' with sweat
I was walkin' through the crowd and guess who I met
I whispered in her ear, "Come to the picture booth
So I can ask you some questions to see if your hundred proof"
I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah
She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra
I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused
I said, "How do you like the show?"
she said, "I was very amused"
I started throwin' bass, she started throwin' back mid-range
But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange
Then when I asked, "Do ya have a man?" she tried to pretend
She said, "No I don't, I only have a friend"
Come on, I'm not even goin' for it
This is what I'm goin' sing

You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend

So I took blah-blah's word for it at this time
I thought just havin' a friend couldn't be no crime
'Cause I have friends and that's a fact
Like Agnes, Agatha, Germaine, and Jacq
Forget about that, let's go into the story
About a girl named blah-blah-blah that adored me
So we started talkin', getttin' familiar
Spendin' a lot of time so we can build a
A relationship or some understanding
How it's gonna be in the future we was plannin'
Everything sounded so dandy and sweet
I had no idea I was in for a treat
After this was established, everything was cool
The tour was over and she went back to school
I called every day to see how she was doin'
Everytime that I called her it seemed somethin' was brewin'
I called her room, a guy picked up, and then I called again
I said, "Yo, who was that?" "Oh, he's just a friend"
Don't gimme that, don't even gimme that
Jus' bust this

You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
And you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend, oh baby
You, you got what I need but you say he's just a friend
But you say he's just a friend

So I came to her college on a surprise visit
To see my girl that was so exquisite
It was a school day, I knew she was there
The first semester of the school year
I went to a gate to ask where was her dorm
This guy made me fill out a visitor's form
He told me where it was and I as on my way
To see my baby doll, I was happy to say
I arrrived in front of the dormitory
Yo, could you tell me where is door three?
They showed me where it was for the moment
I didn't know I was in for such an event
So I came to her room and opened the door
Oh, snap! Guess what I saw?
A fella tongue-kissin' my girl in the mouth,
I was so in shock my heart went down south
So please listen to the message that I send
Don't ever talk to a girl who says she just has a friend
 
Different regions, different people fam:dunno:


I was born and raised in Los Angeles County so try again.

Our friends do for themselves and when we all do function together it's to live shows or other common interest we have. It's been rare that I've had a female friend bug out and trip for kicking it. If anything, they're right there rolling with us and like to do much of the same things we do. Play video games, music, art exhibits, etc. More often than it it's been good times when we're out.

And I'm not saying cats NEED a fly friend to get at hoes, by no means. But me and my boys have noticed an influx in attention we get when we're all out together.

This is fine and respectable but you discredit yourself by saying that anyone who disagrees is wrong or lonely - that's that young boy mentality. All I'm saying is that a large majority of Men do not subscribe to this new age "Women and Men are exactly the same" BS that has Men thinking that they have to suppress their natural urges to hang out with these Women. I'm old school to the core therefore any female who doesn't see me as a sexual being can never become anything more than someone I say hi and bye to. I don't want to hang out, I don't want to see a movie, I don't want to watch football, or anything with her and there is absolutely no reason to. By your own admission you use your female friends like they're chrome rims or a platinum chain...nothing but flashy shit to attract other Women. Whatever works for you is fine but like I said don't try to paint all men with your new age paint brush.
 
This is fine and respectable but you discredit yourself by saying that anyone who disagrees is wrong or lonely - that's that young boy mentality. All I'm saying is that a large majority of Men do not subscribe to this new age "Women and Men are exactly the same" BS that has Men thinking that they have to suppress their natural urges to hang out with these Women. I'm old school to the core therefore any female who doesn't see me as a sexual being can never become anything more than someone I say hi and bye to. I don't want to hang out, I don't want to see a movie, I don't want to watch football, or anything with her and there is absolutely no reason to. By your own admission you use your female friends like they're chrome rims or a platinum chain...nothing but flashy shit to attract other Women. Whatever works for you is fine but like I said don't try to paint all men with your new age paint brush.



Word, everyones not like me and they might not be lonely at all. I don't know everybody and their personalities so of course I wouldn't know.

I don't use female friends to get chicks, there's no problem pulling out here, you being born & raised in LA County know this. What I said was I noticed the attention we get when we're out with them. You don't have chicks you can just chill and be cool with, and that's great. I don't have any expectations from my homegirls. My reasons for keeping homegirls is to stay informed about functions and networking & just meeting new people and having good times. I like to keep my options and opportunities open and available.


 
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