I think the biggest difference between your friends and mine would be, that we could be out with them & their dude and have no problems. Cats are just laid back that way where we are.
No the biggest difference between your female friends and mine is that I'm fucking all of mine. I go out to dinner with them, watch movies, football, go to comedy shows, Six Flags Magic Mountain, and do all kinds of fun shit but WE ARE FUCKING. I don't hang out with Women I do not share an intimate relationship with and I don't hang out with Women and their Men unless the Man is my homeboy and then it would simply be me hanging with the homie.
Word, everyones not like me and they might not be lonely at all. I don't know everybody and their personalities so of course I wouldn't know.
If you don't know everything stop speaking in absolutes.
I don't use female friends to get chicks, there's no problem pulling out here, you being born & raised in LA County know this. What I said was I noticed the attention we get when we're out with them. You don't have chicks you can just chill and be cool with, and that's great. I don't have any expectations from my homegirls. My reasons for keeping homegirls is to stay informed about functions and networking & just meeting new people and having good times. I like to keep my options and opportunities open and available.
I do have chicks I can chill and be cool with but I FUCK THEM.
They keep me informed about functions but I FUCK THEM.
I network through them but I FUCK THEM.
I have good times with them but I FUCK THEM.
It's simple.