Could you maintain a friendship with a fine woman you arent fuckin

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Now the easy answer usually is no. But assuming this woman has qualities that you admire in a friend and she actually brings out the best in you. Could you? I thought I'd never be friends with another woman I find attractive until I started thinking about this recent chick I met. She's very perspective, can hold down her end of a conversation and has morals and values and connects everything that she finds out about me together to impress me with things I'm surprised she knows about me. (We aren't friends we only spoke a few times but I heard her talking on the phone about some guy rubbing her feet and I was thinking if she taken or whatever she has qualities that I like in a friend). Personally I could. Could you? (No I'm not asking for advice about how to deal with her in a round about way I'm asking could YOU do it)
 
I have a very attractive female friend (model attractive) who even liked me but I rejected her for other reasons, one personal and the other reason is because she has a kid. So we've just been friends.
 
No

... unless she was

A) Helping dvancing my career OR
B) Trough her I am making good money
C) Fat / Unattactive

I don't want or need "lady-friends" outside of the few I already got (and those are fuck-buddies so I'm still straight)
 
No

... unless she was

A) Helping dvancing my career OR
B) Trough her I am making good money
C) Fat / Unattactive

I don't want or need "lady-friends" outside of the few I already got (and those are fuck-buddies so I'm still straight)

Exactly. We're either professional, sexual, or nothing.
 
Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.
 
No

... unless she was

A) Helping dvancing my career OR
B) Trough her I am making good money
C) Fat / Unattactive

I don't want or need "lady-friends" outside of the few I already got (and those are fuck-buddies so I'm still straight)

Red, we already know you're not into chicks...........I don't think this question was meant for you son.....:cool:
 
yeah, but i have to change the terminology a little bit. there's a difference between being friends & being "friendly". i can be friendly to anyone, but truthfully you get maybe 2-3 friends your whole life. everyone else is an associate & associates can change with the circumstance, whether it be a new job, new neighborhood, new gym, etc. your friends stay your friends regardless. as far as females go, having a dime as a "friend" can be strategic. my homegirl keisha, no lie she look like she should be on the side of a box of tcb or dark & lovely or some shyt, like hoodrats would buy the shyt hoping to look like her. thing is, keisha has a dude & has been with him for years. so since its not likely that i can get my foot in the door with her, the next best thing is to have her act as my pr rep & use her to get other chicks as fine as her, whether it be her friends that she can put in a good word for me with or when we're out and about just posting up with her & using her as bait. fine women attract other fine women.
 
I've carried on a strictly platonic relationship with a very beautiful woman for the past 17 years. When we were teens I thought about fucking but I also thought about fucking every female that I came into contact with at that time. She saw me through some terrible times and I wouldnt think of soiling our relationship just to add another notch on my belt. It's funny but she embodies all the chracteristics that I want in a woman but I can never see myself crossing that line, her friendship means the world to me.
 
Pussy does not have a face. If they are not fucking, keep it trucking, meet and greet is in the lobby! I only text women like that when they are a good resource or an asset, no need for phone conversation or visits. Keep it "all business" with women that you are not fucking.

 
Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.

Yeah I became real cool with this one girl a few years ago, she happens to be Columbian and white. Me and her became real good friends and she is like a lil sister to me but her friends she hangs out with are fine as hell....:yes::yes::yes:
 
Yeah I became real cool with this one girl a few years ago, she happens to be Columbian and white. Me and her became real good friends and she is like a lil sister to me but her friends she hangs out with are fine as hell....:yes::yes::yes:

exactly:yes:


Always a good thing to keep some cool fine ass homegirls on your team. It can only help maximize your possibilities:cool:

:lol: @ these lonely cats who say NO
 
... the next best thing is to have her act as my pr rep & use her to get other chicks as fine as her, whether it be her friends that she can put in a good word for me with or when we're out and about just posting up with her & using her as bait. fine women attract other fine women.

Yep. And I do.

Fine girls run in packs. As long as you stay cool you've always got chances to meet their friends and mix & mingle.

The best thing about having a fine friend is that she can attract other chicks. Big homie told me that if chicks see you with an unattractive chick they think that's all you can get.

I remember taking homegirl out to the Hibachi place and a play - she put on this backless joint with her hair up and some ill pumps - every chick in the place was paying attention to her like she was giving a eulogy. Showed up solo in the same general area and chicks were breaking the ice with "where's your girl - where did she get those shoes?" Like I fucking know.

Your mileage may vary but the friend zone jawn can put you up on some game and help you get out of that rut. "Upgrade you" is more than just a song - just gotta let it happen to you.
 
I have a very attractive female friend (model attractive) who even liked me but I rejected her for other reasons, one personal and the other reason is because she has a kid. So we've just been friends.

Similar story. I have a friend who looks like a model and is built like one of those chicks from Electrik Red (matter of fact she could fit into that group easily) but I was with someone at the time we met and I knew her family already (played ball with her brothers).

We've been friends for 7 years and we've never done anything, but very early she made passes at me.

No kid though...
 
It can be done (if you're mature enough).


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i have a model chick i would NEVER mess with simply cuz her life is so fucked, i dont want that shyt falling into my lap. (plus two kids and a baby dad that think he a thug.) Just aint worth da bullshyt drama. But the good part bout it is dat she got cute ass friends that she just lines up for me like nuttin. :yes:
 
Only if I didn't want to be with her. I'm friends with a bad broad, but her attitude is so ridiculously un-attractive, I don't even want to hit it that bad anymore.

I'm not even really friends with her, I just like shitting on her self-esteem because somebody needs to. :dunno: :lol:
 
yea,,, i've known a fine chick since the 6th grade,,, not nearly as fine now, as she was in high school (& years after),,, but we are cool as shit & i would never go there,,, you can tell who gets pussy & who doesn't by the responses,,, only dry dick kats are out of control in this scenario,,, when you are getting pussy, it's no big deal,,,
 
I could maintain the friendship right up until i fuck.....

Strategically befriending a fuckable broad is basically a cop-out. Usually some shit done by a dude who missed or lost his opportunity to fuck.

beautiful/fuckable women create the "friend zone"....they never get put in them.
 
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