Cookin for your man?

Jabajaw

Potential Star
Curious about the ladies' take on this...how do y'all feel about doin' the cookin' for the man your with?... is it A.)demeaning and old fashioned or B.) a good trait for a woman to have?
 
I've nearly forgotten what that feels like. My ex girlfriend used to cook fresh fish and vegetables and all kinds of healthy food. That was the best feeling in the world coming home to that sometimes.

When a woman takes the time out of her world to put in the effort to make something for a man, I don't know why but that seems more intimate than sex to me. It's a special and beautiful thing. Even if the food doesn't taste so good, it's that effort put behind it that gives it the flavor.

Damn I miss that.
 
I've been cooking since I was young.


I love cooking for my man or my guest and just watch them eat, it comes naturally!
 
I've nearly forgotten what that feels like. My ex girlfriend used to cook fresh fish and vegetables and all kinds of healthy food. That was the best feeling in the world coming home to that sometimes.

When a woman takes the time out of her world to put in the effort to make something for a man, I don't know why but that seems more intimate than sex to me. It's a special and beautiful thing. Even if the food doesn't taste so good, it's that effort put behind it that gives it the flavor.

Damn I miss that.

Awww... :)
 
demeaning?!

im from the south...so not only do i cook...but i cook that stick to your ribs...smothered pork chops...collard greens...mac and cheese...sweet potadoes...and red velvet cake for dinner kind of cooking...all homemade of course

AND i will gladly fix your plate :D

i dont make that heavy food all the time...and honestly i can make just about anything...its whatever he likes:)
 
I've nearly forgotten what that feels like. My ex girlfriend used to cook fresh fish and vegetables and all kinds of healthy food. That was the best feeling in the world coming home to that sometimes.

When a woman takes the time out of her world to put in the effort to make something for a man, I don't know why but that seems more intimate than sex to me. It's a special and beautiful thing. Even if the food doesn't taste so good, it's that effort put behind it that gives it the flavor.

Damn I miss that.
I can definately empathize... my Mom cooks for my Dad...my sister cooks for her husband... they really take pride and regarded it as a skill to perfect...I'm not sure if it's cause I live in NY but it seems it's not as looked at as a necessary trait these woman are looking to have...I take it it's not ironic that many of these woman can not cook and haven't been around a mother that cooked so I wonder if it's more of a matter of feeling inadequate as a person who can cook masked by a fascade of "it should be a 50/50 thing" or "why can't he cook for me"...Don't want to get too deep but I can imagine that with the rampant single mother families throughout the U.S., children are not seeing their mother cook for their husband a healthy, economical meal might influence the next generation's view of it. Also seems like in the frenzy of working on career goals, cooking for your man is more regarded as an unequal step back.
 
sssshhhhhhhhiiiiittttttt!!!!!!

i make the women i am with cook for me butt ass naked. there is nothing sexier than being able to see her pussy from the back sway back and forth while she stirs up a healthy dinner. i love the way her breast are perky and her ass is so round. a couple of times we have burnt things due to me slipping up from behind and taking the pussy while i tell her to "don't stop what you are doing, keep making my food!!"

damn i love a naked woman cooking me food.
 
I cook for my man everyday and I actually enjoy cooking for my family. Granted I do the majority of the cooking he does cook for me sometimes. He makes me pancakes for breakfast:)in bed. But snyway I see nothing demeaning about cooking for my man at all. Now if he was on some like "Bitch go make me a sammich!!":angry: type shit then that nigga would starve. But if u in a loving relationship I see nothing wrong with a woman feeding her man.:yes:
 
Cooking for one another is quite telling.

It shows the basic instinct to nurture and care for one another

But, some sistas think that it means that they are submissive if they do so. One sista stayed with me for a few days and did not enter the kitchen once

After we broke up she told her friends 'I don't do dishes in my man's house'

They all said she messed up and she was way too lazy

"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

:yes:
 
Cooking for one another is quite telling.

It shows the basic instinct to nurture and care for one another

But, some sistas think that it means that they are submissive if they do so. One sista stayed with me for a few days and did not enter the kitchen once

After we broke up she told her friends 'I don't do dishes in my man's house'

They all said she messed up and she was way too lazy

"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

:yes:

I don't think cooking is submissive:smh:I mean I'm gonna eat so why not feed him too:lol:Anyways my mom brought me up that whenever you have a guest in your home you have to feed them ... so I pretty much cook for anybody that comes over and if I am too tired then I will always buy them something to eat
 
I don't think cooking is submissive:smh:I mean I'm gonna eat so why not feed him too:lol:Anyways my mom brought me up that whenever you have a guest in your home you have to feed them ... so I pretty much cook for anybody that comes over and if I am too tired then I will always buy them something to eat


That is a refreshing attitude :yes:

Sure, when my lady came around, I made sure that I was a good host too. But the idea of her helping me was foreign to her. Maybe it was how she was raised (?)

Her Dad was not around so maybe she would not have seen that kind of domestic interraction between her parents

I bought the food, I cooked the food, I served the food

Can a brother get some help with the dishes?


:lol:
 
That is a refreshing attitude :yes:

Sure, when my lady came around, I made sure that I was a good host too. But the idea of her helping me was foreign to her. Maybe it was how she was raised (?)

Her Dad was not around so maybe she would not have seen that kind of domestic interraction between her parents

I bought the food, I cooked the food, I served the food

Can a brother get some help with the dishes?



:lol:

Seriously:eek:that is hella tacky:smh:I mean if I go over to someones place for dinner I'm helping out ... I could never imagine not holding my own man down when he needs my help in the kitchen:smh:But my situation is reversed ... I would always be the one cooking etc and he would never help me out:dunno:guess it all depends on the person
 
demeaning?!

im from the south...so not only do i cook...but i cook that stick to your ribs...smothered pork chops...collard greens...mac and cheese...sweet potadoes...and red velvet cake for dinner kind of cooking...all homemade of course

AND i will gladly fix your plate :D

i dont make that heavy food all the time...and honestly i can make just about anything...its whatever he likes:)

damn can we get married...... no mac and cheese though :lol::lol: These days you can barely find women who want to make a bowl a cereal for their kids in the morning let alone make food like that.
BTW i will fix my own plate you worked hard enough
 
I guess I'm a bit confused cuz if he is my man then he has already met all of my qualifications so why wouldn't I wanna take care of him:confused:If he is a mysoginist or chauvinist then he wont be my man and I aint gotta worry about him feeling all "in control" just cuz I cooked for him. If you made him your man then why not make it a priority to take care of him:confused:What is the sense of having a man you don't wanna take care of cuz you all concerned that he wont appreciate it ... dump his ass then:dunno:
 
I guess I'm a bit confused cuz if he is my man then he has already met all of my qualifications so why wouldn't I wanna take care of him:confused:If he is a mysoginist or chauvinist then he wont be my man and I aint gotta worry about him feeling all "in control" just cuz I cooked for him. If you made him your man then why not make it a priority to take care of him:confused:What is the sense of having a man you don't wanna take care of cuz you all concerned that he wont appreciate it ... dump his ass then:dunno:

soooo what are you whipping up tonight lone. I think i can make it to the boarder in time for dinner.
 
doggish did you mean border?? :cool::hmm:

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Me and my man have cooking battles to see who can out cook the other. We stay in the kitchen. Very competitive. its so sexy when hes chowing down like damn baby! love it. same for him. he loves to cook for me.
 
:hmm:

Each an everyone of you know the last time ya'll was in the kitchen, ya'll burnt that bitch down.

Thinking spatulas are for spanking. :smh:

Ya'll not fooling good ole Shane!

No sir.​
 
As a man I can always appreciate a good meal, it's even better when that meal is prepared by lovely lady...:yes:
 
I enjoy cooking, so it's not that big of a deal for me. All I need is some reciprocity and appreciation.
 
I love to cook... I like for people to enjoy my cooking and tell me they enjoy it (I have a thing for praise) lol...

My roommate loves that I love to cook since his girlfriend doesn't, hell she likes to come over and see what I'm cooking..

My ex is coming over tonight, and since he had a bad week, I'm gonna make him a home cooked meal... I love to try new things out in the kitchen...
 
damn can we get married...... no mac and cheese though :lol::lol: These days you can barely find women who want to make a bowl a cereal for their kids in the morning let alone make food like that.
BTW i will fix my own plate you worked hard enough

no mac and cheese?

i can make it low fat...or just rice if u are lactose intolerant...dont worry i got you:D

if u dont like southern cooking i can do some homemade fettucine alfredo with tirmasui for dessert

i got you!!
 
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