Cheatin' It aint worth it!
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I understand many of the comments posted about "its her time to cheat now" and "she must have caught u and now your feeling guilty" and all that other shit.
Many of you that say that have dealt with rotten azz women or was raised by one and cant see past your pain.................
For me, I am tired of a battle I dont have to fight. One poster stated I must deal with wack azz females............Man I have never dealt with sub par women, being they are educated, fine and freaks-they can and will put you thru bullshit-regardless of how tight ya game is or how much you have other women on the side. Women I dealt with understood they would be second place, they accepted it and maintained their role.
Now ask yourself, would you accept second place. A mf would have to be a hoecake to accept that -male or female. That was the eye opener, my wife is first and will not accept anything other than first. She is numero uno, its simple as that.
Im still young, both of have great careers that if one of us quit, each ones salary would make it a "so what" deal. Im not getting any younger and neither are any of you..
Many of you that say that have dealt with rotten azz women or was raised by one and cant see past your pain.................
For me, I am tired of a battle I dont have to fight. One poster stated I must deal with wack azz females............Man I have never dealt with sub par women, being they are educated, fine and freaks-they can and will put you thru bullshit-regardless of how tight ya game is or how much you have other women on the side. Women I dealt with understood they would be second place, they accepted it and maintained their role.
Now ask yourself, would you accept second place. A mf would have to be a hoecake to accept that -male or female. That was the eye opener, my wife is first and will not accept anything other than first. She is numero uno, its simple as that.
Im still young, both of have great careers that if one of us quit, each ones salary would make it a "so what" deal. Im not getting any younger and neither are any of you..
mononghamy is a monoga-must.
Sometimes I think I'm from another world (preach)
When I'm trynna tell a woman just exactly where I stand that (aight)
I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don't want a girl, I want a girl who understands that
And that's some hard shit to explain
To a woman that's in love with you, it's a pitiful thing
Until I had to figure
That I don't wanna play around, but I don't wanna settle down
And that's a man's dilemma, 'cause every man remembers
How his daddy and his uncles did it
'Cause more than likely that's the way they're gonna do it
I know it sound fucked up and most wont admit it
But yo, I gotta face it 'cause I know I'm living through it
'Cause when the party stops and niggaz get old
And the chain and the cars and the houses get sold, and that
Other side of the bed gets cold, you don't wanna be alone
So girl I'm trynna hold you..
-Phonte, Little Brother
When I'm trynna tell a woman just exactly where I stand that (aight)
I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don't want a girl, I want a girl who understands that
And that's some hard shit to explain
To a woman that's in love with you, it's a pitiful thing
Until I had to figure
That I don't wanna play around, but I don't wanna settle down
And that's a man's dilemma, 'cause every man remembers
How his daddy and his uncles did it
'Cause more than likely that's the way they're gonna do it
I know it sound fucked up and most wont admit it
But yo, I gotta face it 'cause I know I'm living through it
'Cause when the party stops and niggaz get old
And the chain and the cars and the houses get sold, and that
Other side of the bed gets cold, you don't wanna be alone
So girl I'm trynna hold you..
-Phonte, Little Brother
If you divorce your wife and chase women it wouldn't be cheating. Take the presure off, live alittle
if you aint cheating you aint trying, if you got caught cheating you wasn't trying hard enough and nobody likes an underachiever.
real talk, i think its ingrained into mankind (male and female) for a reason. to help propagate the species. i had a convo with someone yesterday about cheating and they disagreed totally, even though its clearly a human trait and we all know nature doesn't like to pass along traits that don't help a species survive. when a woman cheats she increases her chances of getting pregnant as well as diversifying the gene pool, there by increasing the chance for the species to populate to a sustainable level. when a man cheats he ensures his genes will be spread out and continue on in as many tribes as possible, there by helping to also diversify the gene pool as whole. not to mention the continued propagation of the species.
somehow now its believed that monogamy, which is against most peoples nature is somehow more civilized than open sexual relationships. forced monogamy leads to toxic relationships and environments not suited for raising healthy well adjusted children. it also leans towards the ownership and claiming of rights upon other human beings.
cheating, just like every other moral idea is defined by faith based cultural beliefs and the idea of cheating in todays world is drastically different than that of 1,000 years ago. even in todays world it can differ from region to region and culture to culture in as much as the usa, where extramarital sex is considered taboo and illegal and a place like japan, where extramarital sex isn't ostracized as long as it is with a woman of the night and no love is involved.
since our culture doesn't allow men and women with appetites for outside pleasures to do it out in the open and outright they are forced to do it under other than honorable conditions. they have to lie about what they do and where they are to help protect the partners fragile ego and there own ass(ets). just some of my random thoughts....
oh yeah and you mean to tell me that if this fat ass was in your face and no one knew, you wouldnt tap that ass once or twice?
real talk, i think its ingrained into mankind (male and female) for a reason. to help propagate the species. i had a convo with someone yesterday about cheating and they disagreed totally, even though its clearly a human trait and we all know nature doesn't like to pass along traits that don't help a species survive. when a woman cheats she increases her chances of getting pregnant as well as diversifying the gene pool, there by increasing the chance for the species to populate to a sustainable level. when a man cheats he ensures his genes will be spread out and continue on in as many tribes as possible, there by helping to also diversify the gene pool as whole. not to mention the continued propagation of the species.
somehow now its believed that monogamy, which is against most peoples nature is somehow more civilized than open sexual relationships. forced monogamy leads to toxic relationships and environments not suited for raising healthy well adjusted children. it also leans towards the ownership and claiming of rights upon other human beings.
cheating, just like every other moral idea is defined by faith based cultural beliefs and the idea of cheating in todays world is drastically different than that of 1,000 years ago. even in todays world it can differ from region to region and culture to culture in as much as the usa, where extramarital sex is considered taboo and illegal and a place like japan, where extramarital sex isn't ostracized as long as it is with a woman of the night and no love is involved.
since our culture doesn't allow men and women with appetites for outside pleasures to do it out in the open and outright they are forced to do it under other than honorable conditions. they have to lie about what they do and where they are to help protect the partners fragile ego and there own ass(ets). just some of my random thoughts....
oh yeah and you mean to tell me that if this fat ass was in your face and no one knew, you wouldnt tap that ass once or twice?
Don't be surprised if your gal tell you that you are boring now. In there fucked up way of thinking, they get their rocks off as thinking they got the pussy or good to tame you as being theirs. They never really like us fellas, they are turned on by the fact that they may have what many others may want! If you do decide to stop, do it because you just want to be a different person. Don't do it expecting a cookie from your gal, you will not get that! All your time will focus on them and she'll say, youve changed and I don't like it!
I've been in the same situation and the only thing I could really say that was different was, I left the other 9 gals in my rotation alone. Needless to say, I was bamboozled about that. In there crazy minds, they need to have something to bitch about at least every other day. They have to use their emotional spectrum of feelings in the relationship. They will never admit it but indirectly it happens. So you and no other bitches to her means that nobody else wants you so why should she and she will then bounce on your changed, new found faithful, no hoes azz!
They want to feel in their minds that they control you when everyone else wants you. Ex; they want their man to walk in a room with 500 gals with thongs, stillettos, and horny, and want all them to want their man but don't want their man to do nothing because they have the golden pussy!
SHE WILL CALL YOU BORING AND BOUNCE OR FUCK THE NICCA SHE FINDS THAT WAS YOU!
I've been in the same situation and the only thing I could really say that was different was, I left the other 9 gals in my rotation alone. Needless to say, I was bamboozled about that. In there crazy minds, they need to have something to bitch about at least every other day. They have to use their emotional spectrum of feelings in the relationship. They will never admit it but indirectly it happens. So you and no other bitches to her means that nobody else wants you so why should she and she will then bounce on your changed, new found faithful, no hoes azz!
They want to feel in their minds that they control you when everyone else wants you. Ex; they want their man to walk in a room with 500 gals with thongs, stillettos, and horny, and want all them to want their man but don't want their man to do nothing because they have the golden pussy!
SHE WILL CALL YOU BORING AND BOUNCE OR FUCK THE NICCA SHE FINDS THAT WAS YOU!
yeah I got a good one tooooo. But temptation lurks constantly..........
I'm in Atlanta surrounded by plump asses and sistas goin out of they way to look delicious......................................................
It's hard, but the one I got at home holds me down so much. I had to cut off my Georgia State Head Doctor, My thick yellow bitch from Alabama and my horny colombian shortie..................................just to show wifey the proper respect.
I'm in Atlanta surrounded by plump asses and sistas goin out of they way to look delicious......................................................
It's hard, but the one I got at home holds me down so much. I had to cut off my Georgia State Head Doctor, My thick yellow bitch from Alabama and my horny colombian shortie..................................just to show wifey the proper respect.
kthuggin said:Don't be surprised if your gal tell you that you are boring now. In there fucked up way of thinking, they get their rocks off as thinking they got the pussy or good to tame you as being theirs. They never really like us fellas, they are turned on by the fact that they may have what many others may want! If you do decide to stop, do it because you just want to be a different person. Don't do it expecting a cookie from your gal, you will not get that! All your time will focus on them and she'll say, youve changed and I don't like it!
I've been in the same situation and the only thing I could really say that was different was, I left the other 9 gals in my rotation alone. Needless to say, I was bamboozled about that. In there crazy minds, they need to have something to bitch about at least every other day. They have to use their emotional spectrum of feelings in the relationship. They will never admit it but indirectly it happens. So you and no other bitches to her means that nobody else wants you so why should she and she will then bounce on your changed, new found faithful, no hoes azz!
They want to feel in their minds that they control you when everyone else wants you. Ex; they want their man to walk in a room with 500 gals with thongs, stillettos, and horny, and want all them to want their man but don't want their man to do nothing because they have the golden pussy!
SHE WILL CALL YOU BORING AND BOUNCE OR FUCK THE NICCA SHE FINDS THAT WAS YOU!
I have to cosign this because it is true that women like players more than good guys.
good points, But every woman do not behave the same, many are different and a lot of them actually love the man they are with. Will that make them stop from cheating.........who knows-cause cant noun mf dude on tis board can predict a womans mental chance of probability.
I did not go home and put the Ojays "We cried together" song on and spill my guts. Are you mf on flavored crack! You get out what you put in something. I dont want to wake up one morning and realize im old and grey and still running game and chazing women. Look at some of the example in your family and spots you grew up in, it seems like them dudes are stuck in the 70's or 80's cause they still dress and still doing bullshit they did back in their prime. In reality the mf didnt graduate mentally.
All that- its not in the human nature shit to be a one woman man- and all that other talk........................Look, I cant make any of you understand why I choose not to cheat anymore. The few on the board that are on this level already know. Look at their post compared to the ones who are trying to justify it!
I did not go home and put the Ojays "We cried together" song on and spill my guts. Are you mf on flavored crack! You get out what you put in something. I dont want to wake up one morning and realize im old and grey and still running game and chazing women. Look at some of the example in your family and spots you grew up in, it seems like them dudes are stuck in the 70's or 80's cause they still dress and still doing bullshit they did back in their prime. In reality the mf didnt graduate mentally.
All that- its not in the human nature shit to be a one woman man- and all that other talk........................Look, I cant make any of you understand why I choose not to cheat anymore. The few on the board that are on this level already know. Look at their post compared to the ones who are trying to justify it!
nahhh...you just came off some bullshit...
'specially if you all appreciative and shit now of your chick...
you just fugged some chick that you wouldn't want to be seen with...and she either was claiming she was pregnant....or had something (disease)......
you was shitting bricks....when you finally found out she wasn't pregnant..or YOU got a medical...and found out you was clean...you was like fuck that..i love my wifey..i aint cheatin NO MO'.....
but i think someone else already said...that feeling will pass.....
but if what you said is really really true...congrats..you have reached a higher plane....
peace
'specially if you all appreciative and shit now of your chick...
you just fugged some chick that you wouldn't want to be seen with...and she either was claiming she was pregnant....or had something (disease)......
you was shitting bricks....when you finally found out she wasn't pregnant..or YOU got a medical...and found out you was clean...you was like fuck that..i love my wifey..i aint cheatin NO MO'.....
but i think someone else already said...that feeling will pass.....
but if what you said is really really true...congrats..you have reached a higher plane....
peace
Osca Lee said:
I really feel ya bruh. Like I said, make sure you are doing it because you want to be a 'different person' and not because you think that is what she wants. I won't say a better person because we are not perfect and that's just an imperfection of man to me.
I think people dont cheat because of the consequences but not because it is not in the naturally to not want more than one person. If that was the case a guys dick would only work for one bitch only, a females cat would only get wet for one nicca, and that's just not the case! SO, A PERSONS FIRST MIND IS TO HIT THAT ASS, YOU HAVE TO TRY VERY HARD TO NOT DO IT! BECAUSE ITS NATURAL TO WANT TO HIT THAT BROAD THATS LOOKING GOOD WHEN SHE CROSSES YOUR PATH WHILE YOU ARE WITH YOUR GIRL.
THATS WHY I TRY TO HAVE MY WIFE SEXY TO DEATH WHILE WE ARE OUT TOGETHER, OTHERWISE IN CERTAIN ENVIRONMENTS, I'd LOSE FOCUS AND BE IN THE DOGHOUSE!
I don't profess to be as knowledgeable 'bout chics as you cats "appear" to be but, dudes talkin' about chics cheating on you cuz they're boring is cuz they're dealing with GIRLS, not WOMEN. GIRLS cheat cuz they have no fuckin' MORALS or RESPECT. A WOMAN will support you and hold you down, sometimes even if you're less than a man.
Bottomline, if you cheatin' on the one you're with, then you have no morals or respect for them.
Bottomline, if you cheatin' on the one you're with, then you have no morals or respect for them.
ScorpDiesel said:
scorp and kt, that is REAL TALK as so many on the board claim.
I didnt get vd, get caught or any of the of the conclusions that many of the other things dudes stop cheating from happen to me. I am just tired, simple as that.
MY woman is real, always have been and I already knew this, so its no surprise to me.
My woman can walk amongst the stars of hollywood and blend in perfectly. Gave birth to my army -5 kids to be exact- and no stretch marks or cottage cheeze weigh 120 and 5'5-Ph.D and physically and mentally holdin it down as a wife, mother and a professional.
So yes, I would be a mf fool to continue to do the bullshit I was doing.
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