Charge it to the game bruh...
Breaking up with you're girl
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^^^^^ So true
she was fucking someone else...most of us have been there..get some bounceback pussy and move on...once you meet the right one you wont even remember the bitch
Charge it to the game bruh.... move on go on a fucking spree, especially don't call her or chase her. If/when she come back around.... fuck her good BUT stay bout your business .treat her like a booty call.all power will be yours
she was fucking someone else...most of us have been there..get some bounceback pussy and move on...once you meet the right one you wont even remember the bitch
This right here.......Stay open to the new. Shut the door and never reach out again to the ex. If she calls dead that shit quickly and keep it moving.
I've never been dumped before unless it was in my plan all along. The biggest mistake you made here was allowing yourself to care more than she does. That's the easiest way to avoid the "she's out of my life" blues. I'm sure you realize this now and its a shame you had to learn it the hard way, but never give someone else the most power in a relationship and caring for her more shows that you did just that.
Don't respond, why do you BGOL cats come in here with bullshiet responses? Just don't respond and go onto another thread you're interested in.
You're young though so you're in a great situation, your age is just about fucking and sucking, you don't really need to have shiet to tear down the whole block. Don't take her advice imo, you're too young to isolate yourself, get out there, niggas your age roll in groups, get some new pussy, hit the bars, clubs and stay fresh.
You're in a good spot, drop some good dick, mix it up with a little attitude to a chick here and there and you'll have a good woman in no time.
She did use you for dick and companionship, that's common with some chicks, not all though, mature women get down like that, childish chicks don't know how to pull it off. I've been used like that when I was 19, bitch on now on facebook with 4 kids and found jesus, be lucky your young and you deal with confused bitches and not these mid 30's year old former hoes who are now pefect angels who found jesus and are looking for a man.
I really wish I was 22 again.
I agree with this man. It is always one person in the relationship who cares more. The trick is to be the former in the relationship because you can always adjust it when you see the other prove that they are worth your love and dedication. Sad to say but ole girl used you as a stepping stone. She gave you her time while she was down but soon as she "thought" she was on the up and up she dipped. Life is fille with people(not just females) like that and that is why its hard to call a lot of people your "friends". Just take the punches and focus on yourself. Find something you are good at and immerse your self in it. If you keep at that, you will become successful and that dumb ass bitch will try her hardest to get back with you...at that point it will be all fun and games.
arent u overdue for another "i want to die" thread.
I've been got before... it happens. 
This also makes me think about this one chick who I use to talk to from my first try at college
hmm. I hit it once.. never cared for her, BUT I always listened to her problems about being unemployed, her baby's father going crazy, and other stresses. Not because I wanted to but because she called at least 4 times a week for advice and conversation. Man, I swear after listening to her for at least a year and a half... being "friends"... This broad FINALLY gets a job in the field she went to school for and haven't hit a nigga up SINCE! 
Seriously, this recently crossed my mind and when I thought about it... I was like, "Damn this hoe used me for support until she got on her feet.". Bitch got brand new instantaneously. 
These hoes funny like that mayne. Don't trust em' until they take a bullet for you.
This also makes me think about this one chick who I use to talk to from my first try at college
hmm. I hit it once.. never cared for her, BUT I always listened to her problems about being unemployed, her baby's father going crazy, and other stresses. Not because I wanted to but because she called at least 4 times a week for advice and conversation. Man, I swear after listening to her for at least a year and a half... being "friends"... This broad FINALLY gets a job in the field she went to school for and haven't hit a nigga up SINCE! Seriously, this recently crossed my mind and when I thought about it... I was like, "Damn this hoe used me for support until she got on her feet.". Bitch got brand new instantaneously. These hoes funny like that mayne. Don't trust em' until they take a bullet for you.
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Basically that's what "bad boys" usually do, they don't commit and get serious till the chick decides "he's a keeper", they play head games and lack full time interest to aviod getting hurt and to keep themselves together.
Yep, maybe not intentionally but anytime a woman can come up and find a man with more it's a chance she might take it. Not being too harsh but if you're not doing well financially, once she comes up and passes your status she's gonna bounce.
Yeah, it's real talk but alot of what we call real is really just all about the money and hustle. Once people do better than you they usually want nothing to do with you, cold facts....
That goes for basically anyone, why you can't get too attached to people, it's just a money hustle for 99% of us anyways.
I've had homies just disappear one day once they did better than me, just real talk, adapt and move on.
never wanted to die though... you haven't even paid attention. Not hating though
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only a kid would clown u for being real like that. and every dude in here that's had life experience has dealt with what u going through right now.
u mentioned smashing a girl or just partying so u won't have to think about your girl. but after fukin whoever u gonna fuk, u gonna drive home. and eventually u gonna be in a room by yourself. and u know what? u ain't gonna be thinkin about the girl u just fuked. u gonna be thinking about your ex-girl.
u can go party too with all your boys. THEY gonna be wilding out and partying and havin a good time like
the point is, there is NUTHING u can do to get over heart ache. there's a big difference between 'like' and 'love and it sounds like u may be going through the love thing. nothing u can say will change her mind either. so don't call pestering her, asking her 1,000 questions about who she with or why she wanted to break it off. cause on the real, it ain't like she just thought of this yesterday. she BEEN thinking about ending it with you. she just didn't say nuthin until now. whether it was to get to a point where she could emotionally move on w/o it being hard on her OR if it was because she wasn't in a good place financially and didn't wanna rock her life before getting another job, there ain't sheit u can say to her to make her wanna get back with u. only thing u can do is hold ya head up and keep pushin.
sheit, if u don't jock or bother her and be like 'i cared 4 u. hope u find whatever it is you're looking for' then be out, she gonna eventually be on YOUR jock when she discovers that she fuked up and lost a good man (provided of course yo azz is a good man)
most women gotta go through a few bad situations b4 they figure out that they downgraded after ending your relationship......THEN they wanna come backthat sheit happens 2 every dude eventually
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