Bitch made "Good Men" in the dating pool
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Your response is as asinine as her damn rant!
I am upset because of cats like you giving credence to a trifling hoes paper-thin justifications.
A man is a man-period! There are weak assholes out there who are substandard men,but the problem is, todays woman wants yesterdays preferential treatment while providing you with todays woman NOT yesterdays wife.
Went over your head?
Well let me break it down. Hoes are smart and they want you to play their game.
The good woman is one who does what traditional good women did: cook,clean,support their men,hold them down,be subservient,etc...
Todays woman does not buy into the traditional marital role and IF THEY DO,then it comes with "preconditions".The bible had no preconditions!
Chicks want you to play the traditional man role: coddle them,pay for everything for them,place them on a pedestal, bust your ass,and do all the hard manual work LIKE TRADITIONAL MEN DID plus SHE ALSO WANTS YOU TO HELP CLEAN THE HOUSE,COOK,RAISE THE KIDS, ETC.
Let me ask you all a question:
What ROLE OR WORK does the today's married woman/wife perform exclusively in a relationship or marriage?
They are UNWILLING to fulfill traditional roles that come with marriage, but they DO hold you accountable! They compare your performance as a husband or provider to commonly-held image of a traditional man.
We all hear it: "you ain't a REAL man" how the fuck do they know what a real man is????
Do me a favor ask a chick does she know what a REAL WOMAN is and listen closely and watch how they dance around the answer!
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It is impossible for a good man to be a soft punk. They are direct opposites. It is impossible for a good man to be a thug. Direct opposites as well. A good man can and will take care of his family and other responsiblities and he will stand up to whatever threats may come towards that family. A good man doesn't have game. He just does him and isn't concerned with who likes it or approves.
The writer clearly embraces the idea that a man should have "a little bit of thug" in him. Standing up for yourself or your woman or your family or putting good dick down are not thug traits. They are real man traits. The biggest problem is that somehow being a "thug" or "hood" or "gangsta" has replaced being a real man in the minds of many women. They think that if a guy isn't a "thug" he can't protect them or can't satisfy them sexually. The sad irony is that the "thug" is more likely to put her safety in jeopardy and less likely to give a fuck about her sexual pleasure. This chick is clearly bitter and frustrated due to bad decision making as a result of being misguided. She's not a alone.The sad thing is that like most women instead of trying to learn from experience and change for the better she expects men to do all the work.
The reality is that many young women have a warped impression of men. Their choices in men are proof of this. Men make fucked up choices too but the difference is men are not the keepers of life. We don't get to decide when sex happens or whether or not the babies that are the result of said sex get to be born. Therefore there is a greater burden on female decision making. If women don't make good choices in mates, society suffers. We all get to see the proof everyday.
Many times the best answers go overlooked in threads...today this will not be the case.
C/S
I keep noticing more and more people saying the same thing you're saying here in your post LoneStar. I'm seeing the criticisms of blogs and articles like this, but never a better idea or solution. Can you give a better way to convey the dating frustration of both sexes and present a better solution that does not include sugar coating for either sex's shortcomings?
I'm with you on your premise Gameboy --this didn't just start happening, women have been making choices like this for a long time now-- so why act brand new? How women often choose men rarely makes sense to men. I don't think it ever will. Just when you think you have it figured out... you find out you know nothing at all.
When I read this piece, I found myself agreeing with it more than I disagreed. With the amout of soft ass cats I see out here today, I'd be mad and frustrated if I was a woman too. Lot of cats running around calling themselves men when they acting like little boys.
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Being a male doesn't make you a man
Being born a female doesn't make you a woman.
You are doing men and women a disservice by giving them credit for being something they are not.
Real women have been choosing real men since the beginning of time.
Hood rats chose irresponsible niggas that have no future but appear to have excitement in the present time. Nice whip and clothes,,rims and bling and live with their mothers. Will kick it with the hoodrat chick because he can use her for whatever she will give him.
As another poster said, after she been run through by a bunch of mofokrs then she wants a good man but then its to late and she ends up in her 40's and 50's still sitting in clubs ,dressing like she 17 and chasing the next dick that makes her feel she still is desirable..
But she isn't and that's her life... A ho ass chick with a burnt up pussy and a bunch of kids that she has raised to be as worthless as she is and they grown asses still living in her apartment with their kids..
And the niggas she thought was down ass brothas. Well after their moms passes away they sit in store parking lots or parks talking bout how the white man held them down cause they ain't got shit,an't offer shit and can only look for some busted down welfare ho to take care of em..
I buy bottles of cold water from they ass and chews on stoney while driving home from work daily
Being a male doesn't make you a man
Being born a female doesn't make you a woman.
You are doing men and women a disservice by giving them credit for being something they are not.
Real women have been choosing real men since the beginning of time.
Hood rats chose irresponsible niggas that have no future but appear to have excitement in the present time. Nice whip and clothes,,rims and bling and live with their mothers. Will kick it with the hoodrat chick because he can use her for whatever she will give him.
As another poster said, after she been run through by a bunch of mofokrs then she wants a good man but then its to late and she ends up in her 40's and 50's still sitting in clubs ,dressing like she 17 and chasing the next dick that makes her feel she still is desirable..
But she isn't and that's her life... A ho ass chick with a burnt up pussy and a bunch of kids that she has raised to be as worthless as she is and they grown asses still living in her apartment with their kids..
And the niggas she thought was down ass brothas. Well after their moms passes away they sit in store parking lots or parks talking bout how the white man held them down cause they ain't got shit,an't offer shit and can only look for some busted down welfare ho to take care of em..
I buy bottles of cold water from they ass and chews on stoney while driving home from work daily
America has been feminized. Men have been trained to believe the woman is more valuable than him. They trick off to get a "date", then if the situation turns into a relationship it's like they are back in the second grade and living with mommy.
American television and movies have made this shit seem cute. It's funny to see a henpecked "man" that have to ask his wife permission for shit or sneak out to go to the fucking bar.
Western men have been trained to be weak ass bitches by these wannabe arachnid women. It is better to be hated by woman for being a jerk than be despised for being weak. Women do some crazy shit to weak men.
Men tend to blame hoes for doing foul shit, but even the filthiest whore in the world knows who to screw over and who not to. You may not know she is a hoe. But if you are weak you will find her fucking your friend or find her fucking in your home. If you're a man she will do her best to hide that shit from your ass. Bitch will be cheating in another county or city.
If one were to use this article as an indicator of feminine understanding, then the moral of this article is that women, due to their psychologically infantile manners of decision making, are admitted perpetual masochists.
Are these woman worthy of raising your sons....and god-forbid....your daughters?
Brothas...evaluate the woman in your life from an objective lens.
Think beyond of how she makes you feel below the waist, because many women (after being released on a sexual rampage in the 60s) only evaluate men by how those men make them feel below the waist.
Women are inadequate decision makers who have no business at the head of a household!
This article is the evidence!
What more do you need to hear?
Men, start thinking above the waist!
We have to save our families...not our women.
Some of us have a tendency to blame our women, but they are completely unfit to repair whats been done.
They are incapable of saving our families, and their incapability only permits them to sustain families similar to that of a life support unit keeping a brain-dead individual alive in a vegetative state.
Society has convinced us that women are our equals at every sector, but society does not acknowledge the difference in "impressionability" between the genders.
Who did the serpent convince to take fruit from the tree of knowledge?
The story of adam and eve did not "really" happen, but this "parable" was an illustration of the relationship between men and women.
The world and material objects (represented by the serpent) convinces woman (eve).
The woman (eve) influences man (adam) to make a change for the worse.
Then man (adam) blames woman (eve).
This ^^^^ is the natural order of things!
This "impressionability gap" is the reason why women believe that men are responsible for being fathers against their will when women decide to bring a child to term, but contrarily, these same women will also tout the privileges of "pro choice" and "the right to choose".
Isnt that ^^^^^ senseless, but In a woman's mind this imbalance of rights and responsibilities makes perfect sense!
So men...it is up to us to save the family unit.
Unfortunately, there have been 2 generations of questionable men who have female tendencies raised by single-mothers (not the "good men" character traits described by the article above...and definitely not ALL men raised by single women), so those of us who know better must step up and take control of our relationships and take control of these women.
Yes...I said it.
And if you cant control her....leave her alone...and stop having sex with her because that will only continue the trend
Are these woman worthy of raising your sons....and god-forbid....your daughters?
Brothas...evaluate the woman in your life from an objective lens.
Think beyond of how she makes you feel below the waist, because many women (after being released on a sexual rampage in the 60s) only evaluate men by how those men make them feel below the waist.
Women are inadequate decision makers who have no business at the head of a household!
This article is the evidence!
What more do you need to hear?
Men, start thinking above the waist!
We have to save our families...not our women.
Some of us have a tendency to blame our women, but they are completely unfit to repair whats been done.
They are incapable of saving our families, and their incapability only permits them to sustain families similar to that of a life support unit keeping a brain-dead individual alive in a vegetative state.
Society has convinced us that women are our equals at every sector, but society does not acknowledge the difference in "impressionability" between the genders.
Who did the serpent convince to take fruit from the tree of knowledge?
The story of adam and eve did not "really" happen, but this "parable" was an illustration of the relationship between men and women.
The world and material objects (represented by the serpent) convinces woman (eve).
The woman (eve) influences man (adam) to make a change for the worse.
Then man (adam) blames woman (eve).
This ^^^^ is the natural order of things!
This "impressionability gap" is the reason why women believe that men are responsible for being fathers against their will when women decide to bring a child to term, but contrarily, these same women will also tout the privileges of "pro choice" and "the right to choose".
Isnt that ^^^^^ senseless, but In a woman's mind this imbalance of rights and responsibilities makes perfect sense!
So men...it is up to us to save the family unit.
Unfortunately, there have been 2 generations of questionable men who have female tendencies raised by single-mothers (not the "good men" character traits described by the article above...and definitely not ALL men raised by single women), so those of us who know better must step up and take control of our relationships and take control of these women.
Yes...I said it.
And if you cant control her....leave her alone...and stop having sex with her because that will only continue the trend
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She is saying that if you are a good man you must be boring and your wife will cheat on you. She's actaully said women don't want a 100% good man. The blatant misuse of the term "good man" and the call for men to adapt their game to be more like the thugs getting pussy while putting no onus on women to do shit but what "nature" dictates displays flawed reasnoning that warrants criticism.
black women
they really do think that they can define manhood: "ive seen open heart surgery on house, i can do it now."
i swear the majority of black women in the dating pool are good for two things:
1. to look at
2. to skeet of on--and then clean your seed like you were trying to clean a crime scene and dispose of all the evidence.
IM SO HAPPY I DIDNT FUCK UP IN MY 2O'S AND GET THE WRONG ONE PREGNANT.
they really do think that they can define manhood: "ive seen open heart surgery on house, i can do it now."
i swear the majority of black women in the dating pool are good for two things:
1. to look at
2. to skeet of on--and then clean your seed like you were trying to clean a crime scene and dispose of all the evidence.
IM SO HAPPY I DIDNT FUCK UP IN MY 2O'S AND GET THE WRONG ONE PREGNANT.
It is impossible for a good man to be a soft punk. They are direct opposites. It is impossible for a good man to be a thug. Direct opposites as well. A good man can and will take care of his family and other responsiblities and he will stand up to whatever threats may come towards that family. A good man doesn't have game. He just does him and isn't concerned with who likes it or approves.
The writer clearly embraces the idea that a man should have "a little bit of thug" in him. Standing up for yourself or your woman or your family or putting good dick down are not thug traits. They are real man traits. The biggest problem is that somehow being a "thug" or "hood" or "gangsta" has replaced being a real man in the minds of many women. They think that if a guy isn't a "thug" he can't protect them or can't satisfy them sexually. The sad irony is that the "thug" is more likely to put her safety in jeopardy and less likely to give a fuck about her sexual pleasure. This chick is clearly bitter and frustrated due to bad decision making as a result of being misguided. She's not a alone.
The reality is that many young women have a warped impression of men. Their choices in men are proof of this. Men make fucked up choices too but the difference is men are not the keepers of life. We don't get to decide when sex happens or whether or not the babies that are the result of said sex get to be born. Therefore there is a greater burden on female decision making. If women don't make good choices in mates, society suffers. We all get to see the proof everyday.
Something tells me the original post is nothing but the typical finger pointing and deflection. These women aren't tired of telling men how to be men? It's not like they know how to be a lady.
I won't bother reading it.
I won't bother reading it.
preachWhere is this bitch at that the fathers stick around?
Most get the fuck out of dodge to avoid bitches like her.
And i do not blame them...you owe it to yourself to be happy
a bitch looks for whats wrong...let her look by her self and
then throw stones from a far....
You will waste tons of energy on bitches if you dont know how
to call it quits and roll out on them. There is no medal of honor
for standing beside a miserable bitch....nothing at all but grief.
Make sure who you are with doesnt have a foul ass toxic spirit.
Well well w
I am glad niggas on Bgol saw through the bullshit of this article.
pieces of shit like yourself would agree with the bitch, because your the primary beneficiary of the fuckery
and where has it gotten you in life, nothing more than a druken daze telling bullshit stories on a porn board
She is telling what today's Black women looks for in a man. Everything she is stating is true to a point.
The real point is the black community if fucked. It's no wonder we have so many OOW Baby mommas, and guys with 13 kids with 11 moms. Because of this stupid mentality.
The real point is the black community if fucked. It's no wonder we have so many OOW Baby mommas, and guys with 13 kids with 11 moms. Because of this stupid mentality.
She told nothing but the truth. Had this come from Tariq Nasheed all types of dudes would be co-signing. But cats hate to hear a woman tell them they could care less if your a good man or not.
Does this motherfucker look like an authority on dating
she sure does to me. the avg chick.
You always hear men explain to woman how most woman love "bad boys"...often thier response is... "well stop chasing video hoes..."
In reality avg woman everyday are like this..
hey jackass Tariq has said time and time again similar shit, but he tells bros to be themselves, don't lower themselves to what a bitch may find attractive
You a little sensitive aint you, I didn't say anything that contradicts what you just posted..
dude if Tariq said that shit, everybody would stop listening to his ass
The only diffrence between what Flex post, and what this woman posted is what you already stated. Flex tells you to charge her to the game. I guess cats need to hear that last little bit of advice so they won't be lost.
But she admitted what Flex told you, your uncles, pops and every other experienced male told you.... that most woman are like this.
I'm pointing out that she at least is telling the truth, like it or not. Now you do what you want with it.
co-sign. women are emotional and based their decision on emotions no matter what. this is their downfall.
ahahahahahaahahah!!! Bitches like this have 0 credibility. This ho doesn't even have a man of her own and is out here advocating the formula for other women's happiness!
i felt lightheaded reading it.
co-sign
It is impossible for a good man to be a soft punk. They are direct opposites. It is impossible for a good man to be a thug. Direct opposites as well. A good man can and will take care of his family and other responsiblities and he will stand up to whatever threats may come towards that family. A good man doesn't have game. He just does him and isn't concerned with who likes it or approves.
The writer clearly embraces the idea that a man should have "a little bit of thug" in him. Standing up for yourself or your woman or your family or putting good dick down are not thug traits. They are real man traits. The biggest problem is that somehow being a "thug" or "hood" or "gangsta" has replaced being a real man in the minds of many women. They think that if a guy isn't a "thug" he can't protect them or can't satisfy them sexually. The sad irony is that the "thug" is more likely to put her safety in jeopardy and less likely to give a fuck about her sexual pleasure. This chick is clearly bitter and frustrated due to bad decision making as a result of being misguided. She's not a alone.
The reality is that many young women have a warped impression of men. Their choices in men are proof of this. Men make fucked up choices too but the difference is men are not the keepers of life. We don't get to decide when sex happens or whether or not the babies that are the result of said sex get to be born. Therefore there is a greater burden on female decision making. If women don't make good choices in mates, society suffers. We all get to see the proof everyday.
Rick Ronson
Banned
the debate is that the issue should never come up in a relationship
these bitches heads are twisted
the caliber of bitch this issue comes up with is confused (hood mentality broads)
Not every female thinks like this mane...
this isnt the norm so dont accept it as that.
You should be able to be sweet to your girl without getting run over
A bitch who says you passed the test because you checked her is shit....immature
Thats high school level shit some of these bitches dont let go of along with their
shallow ass search criteria ......
give these bitches enough rope to hang themselves with all that silly shit
just stand back and be observant of how she handles kindness
Look for the bitch who pushes the limits of your kindness....
just weed them out all together....that aint no valid test of a man
stupid ass bitches!!!!
Bitch you a grown ass woman...check your mothafuckin self.
Fuck i look like your father?
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She and others like her cannot get their point across. Shes not really sayin you have to fit this ideal or your not a good man. What I got out of it was bla, bla, bla, finger point, insult, state the obvious. Not to sound like a misogynist, but most females arent to be taken seriously. She likes what she likes... Which can change by the minute. Therefore to be what she wants you to be would involve you having ESP, and giving enough of a shit to actually apply it. One man already said it... Do you. If she likes it, cool, if not to hell with her. The more advise you apply from females the worse youre gonna do with them. They can/will give logical answers/advise. The problem is they arent logical creatures. Pay this bitch no mind and most you come across no nevermind.
can you elaborate on this more?
how often do women change what they like? and is it always set in stone?
Rick Ronson
Banned
Yall can have these type bitches ....there are enough to go around
very common...usually emotionally off centered.
And will always feel the need to test even if its to see what her position is with you.
It's not that complicated and women that make it that complicated have screws missing.
Damaged goods, self defeating, conflict natured, shallow,limited growth type bitches.
You cannot let a bitch dictate the relationship like this cause its not healthy
or conducive to a solid relationship.
This is the clown type bitch that end up getting clowned.
very common...usually emotionally off centered.
And will always feel the need to test even if its to see what her position is with you.
It's not that complicated and women that make it that complicated have screws missing.
Damaged goods, self defeating, conflict natured, shallow,limited growth type bitches.
You cannot let a bitch dictate the relationship like this cause its not healthy
or conducive to a solid relationship.
This is the clown type bitch that end up getting clowned.
Females are like water. They can change direction, state of being, temperature based on their environment. Her friends have alot of influence,(more than male relationships) What time of year it is affects the type of men she deals with. She can like one type of dude with one set of traits this week and completely disregard him next week because of some shit one of her homegirls noticed about him. She can flip the switch and become a total slut when she goes outta town, or once summer hits. Ive know females to be fickle since I was like 12. Next time you talk to a homegirl with a man, ask her what she likes about him... Wait for that niggas aint shit text a few weeks later and ask her what happened... The very thing she liked about him is now annoying. He went from caring to clingy, serious, to no fun, Quiet to rigid... What she likes depends to much on moods, surroundings, people they deal with, everyday shit everybody deals with. If you try to form an opinion on what they want by observing them youre head would cave in. Ive learned not even to give a fuck about shit. Im me, they like you when they like you, when they dont move on to the next one. I aint got time to play guessing games with chicks.
For the record, I would never be with a broad who would write some shit like this. I don't care if she look like Esther Baxter.
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