Bitch made "Good Men" in the dating pool

[DAYNE]

the debate is that the issue should never come up in a relationship

these bitches heads are twisted

the caliber of bitch this issue comes up with is confused (hood mentality broads)

Not every female thinks like this mane...

this isnt the norm so dont accept it as that.


You should be able to be sweet to your girl without getting run over

A bitch who says you passed the test because you checked her is shit....immature

Thats high school level shit some of these bitches dont let go of along with their
shallow ass search criteria ......

give these bitches enough rope to hang themselves with all that silly shit

just stand back and be observant of how she handles kindness


Look for the bitch who pushes the limits of your kindness....

just weed them out all together....that aint no valid test of a man


stupid ass bitches!!!!

Bitch you a grown ass woman...check your mothafuckin self.

Fuck i look like your father?

Yall can have these type bitches ....there are enough to go around

very common...usually emotionally off centered.

And will always feel the need to test even if its to see what her position is with you.

It's not that complicated and women that make it that complicated have screws missing.

Damaged goods, self defeating, conflict natured, shallow,limited growth type bitches.

You cannot let a bitch dictate the relationship like this cause its not healthy
or conducive to a solid relationship.

This is the clown type bitch that end up getting clowned.

preach.....

 

[peterlongshort]

I'M STEALIN' THIS SHIT!!

 

[J Storm]

Is she advocating a "half thug" ?

You know what a HALF THUG is?

THIS.

 

[Mello Mello]

Subs for later.

 

[regulus]

cough denzel cough tupac with a degree cough cough nerd thug spectrum cough google it

 

[CeeloChamp]

The fact is that a good man has never lost a good women.

He may lose a fine women

He may lose a gainfully employed women

He may lose many types of women

But a good women he will never lose.

Stop the tea party campaign.

Good women don't like bad boys

Confused girls that have potential might but by the time they are finished experimenting with what they think is excitement they are stuck.

I was a bad boy when I was younger,now that I am grown I am a good man.

Don't get it twisted though. being good means I provide a good safe condition for my family. I will still peel your cap if it comes to that or I will have it done.


Some of ya'll seem to not know what a good man or good woman is. Might be because you chose your mentors and role models with a faulty method.

Good doesn't mean soft.

Half you wanna be g's are soft and thats why gun play is first on your agenda.You don't know how to give an ass whoopin and damn sure don't know how to take one so you reach for the burner.

Sad thing is that after you use and get locked down you become the thing you so despise because you never learned how to fight and since you won't have a gun,you will be cleaning up for somebody so they protect your ass.


How hard r u really ?

i guess nobody else saw the realest shit written in this thread

 

[regulus]

i guess nobody else saw the realest shit written in this thread

The shit is so self evident that nobody felt the need to point out the ordinance that was just dropped.

 

[mariano42]

Females are like water. They can change direction, state of being, temperature based on their environment. Her friends have alot of influence,(more than male relationships) What time of year it is affects the type of men she deals with. She can like one type of dude with one set of traits this week and completely disregard him next week because of some shit one of her homegirls noticed about him. She can flip the switch and become a total slut when she goes outta town, or once summer hits. Ive know females to be fickle since I was like 12. Next time you talk to a homegirl with a man, ask her what she likes about him... Wait for that niggas aint shit text a few weeks later and ask her what happened... The very thing she liked about him is now annoying. He went from caring to clingy, serious, to no fun, Quiet to rigid... What she likes depends to much on moods, surroundings, people they deal with, everyday shit everybody deals with. If you try to form an opinion on what they want by observing them youre head would cave in. Ive learned not even to give a fuck about shit. Im me, they like you when they like you, when they dont move on to the next one. I aint got time to play guessing games with chicks.

interesting.

why is it females are never into you when you show them attention, but when you dont they want your attention? does this also factor in on your previous post of changing their minds and how effective is this? this happened to me on two occasion when i stopped chasing these females then they wanted to talk to me a few months down.

 

[Mt. Yukon]

interesting.

why is it females are never into you when you show them attention, but when you dont they want your attention? does this also factor in on your previous post of changing their minds and how effective is this? this happened to me on two occasion when i stopped chasing these females then they wanted to talk to me a few months down.

I wish I knew man. There are a few that Ive come across that genuinely like it when you show them you care, but of the whole most of them are just ass backwards as shit. The deeper into the rabbit hole you go, the more eccentric things become. I gave tryin to understand them up in my mid teans. I dont think its as cut and dry as not paying them attention, but that you arent changing your day to day to suit them. Anything not the norm will incite curiosity. So when you stop fucking with them, thats not normal. Most ninjas are thirsty as fuck steady tellin them what they wanna hear. So when one comes along who doesnt its intriguing. But you have to get them when you got em. The window doesnt stay open for long as most have the attention spans of fruit flies. I have the most success when Im just straight forward and could careless what she will say, do or think. Take the angle of shes just another person in the wonderful world of you. Its up to her as to how big of a part shes gonna play, dont ask her for shit. Make her play your game.

 

[Mello Mello]

I agree with a lot of what she said about attraction as I've said some of the same. Most good men are self titled. Every mother fucker thinks he's a good man even the dude who's a bad boy will probably tell why he's a better catch than the next guy.

Some dudes just lack the skill to keep a woman enticed.

As for the good man contengent that has all these guys thinking they deserve to be picked over the next man. I point the finger at black women for that. Their the ones saying their aren't enough "good black men". Hence the frenzy to label themselves good.

 

[Anthony-Cruz]

It is impossible for a good man to be a soft punk. They are direct opposites. It is impossible for a good man to be a thug. Direct opposites as well. A good man can and will take care of his family and other responsiblities and he will stand up to whatever threats may come towards that family. A good man doesn't have game. He just does him and isn't concerned with who likes it or approves.

The writer clearly embraces the idea that a man should have "a little bit of thug" in him. Standing up for yourself or your woman or your family or putting good dick down are not thug traits. They are real man traits. The biggest problem is that somehow being a "thug" or "hood" or "gangsta" has replaced being a real man in the minds of many women. They think that if a guy isn't a "thug" he can't protect them or can't satisfy them sexually. The sad irony is that the "thug" is more likely to put her safety in jeopardy and less likely to give a fuck about her sexual pleasure. This chick is clearly bitter and frustrated due to bad decision making as a result of being misguided. She's not a alone. The sad thing is that like most women instead of trying to learn from experience and change for the better she expects men to do all the work.

The reality is that many young women have a warped impression of men. Their choices in men are proof of this. Men make fucked up choices too but the difference is men are not the keepers of life. We don't get to decide when sex happens or whether or not the babies that are the result of said sex get to be born. Therefore there is a greater burden on female decision making. If women don't make good choices in mates, society suffers. We all get to see the proof everyday.

Wow. Amazing post dude.

 

[Anthony-Cruz]

All I got out of that was.....

Fuck!!!​

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

ha!!

that chick probrably in her late 30's and miserable...

 

[snark9]

Bitch Made “Good Men” In the Dating Pool
Deborrah Cooper | 06/25/2009


But if your goal is to sleep next to a woman that is madly and passionately in love with you every night for the rest of your life, you better listen and incorporate the traits that WOMEN want into your personality.

You can be right and alone, or you can be happy and in love. You pick.

http://survivingdating.com/dating-beyatch-made-men

WHAT A STUPID CUNT TO THINK WE SHOULD LISTEN TO HER.


the problem today with masculinity is that too many men pattern their sense of manhood based on female desires.

that's why so many dudes walk around here obsessed with shoes, clothes, and jewelry [like bitches].

to them, masculinity is directly proportional to how much sexual access women grant them, therefore making women arbiters of their sense of masculinity.

so when a female 'disses' them they fall apart and get emotional [like a bitch].

real masculinity develops irrespective of female wants.

 

[clyde]

WHAT A STUPID CUNT TO THINK WE SHOULD LISTEN TO HER.


the problem today with masculinity is that too many men pattern their sense of manhood based on female desires.

that's why so many dudes walk around here obsessed with shoes, clothes, and jewelry [like bitches].

to them, masculinity is directly proportional to how much sexual access women grant them, therefore making women arbiters of their sense of masculinity.

so when a female 'disses' them they fall apart and get emotional [like a bitch].

real masculinity develops irrespective of female wants.

Very good.

In fact, there have been a lot of great points made in this thread. I think threads like this and the computer job threads shows the value of BGOL.

Iron sharpens Iron

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

it is impossible for a good man to be a soft punk. They are direct opposites. It is impossible for a good man to be a thug. Direct opposites as well. A good man can and will take care of his family and other responsiblities and he will stand up to whatever threats may come towards that family. A good man doesn't have game. He just does him and isn't concerned with who likes it or approves.

The writer clearly embraces the idea that a man should have "a little bit of thug" in him. Standing up for yourself or your woman or your family or putting good dick down are not thug traits. They are real man traits. The biggest problem is that somehow being a "thug" or "hood" or "gangsta" has replaced being a real man in the minds of many women. They think that if a guy isn't a "thug" he can't protect them or can't satisfy them sexually. The sad irony is that the "thug" is more likely to put her safety in jeopardy and less likely to give a fuck about her sexual pleasure. This chick is clearly bitter and frustrated due to bad decision making as a result of being misguided. She's not a alone. The sad thing is that like most women instead of trying to learn from experience and change for the better she expects men to do all the work.

The reality is that many young women have a warped impression of men. Their choices in men are proof of this. Men make fucked up choices too but the difference is men are not the keepers of life. We don't get to decide when sex happens or whether or not the babies that are the result of said sex get to be born. Therefore there is a greater burden on female decision making. If women don't make good choices in mates, society suffers. We all get to see the proof everyday.

( in shao kahn voice) outstanding....flawless victory !!

 

[idunno]

They're still little girls.She'll be back...

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

they're still little girls.she'll be back...

throwback...wow !!

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

Bump ^^

 

[mariano42]

I wish I knew man. There are a few that Ive come across that genuinely like it when you show them you care, but of the whole most of them are just ass backwards as shit. The deeper into the rabbit hole you go, the more eccentric things become. I gave tryin to understand them up in my mid teans. I dont think its as cut and dry as not paying them attention, but that you arent changing your day to day to suit them. Anything not the norm will incite curiosity. So when you stop fucking with them, thats not normal. Most ninjas are thirsty as fuck steady tellin them what they wanna hear. So when one comes along who doesnt its intriguing. But you have to get them when you got em. The window doesnt stay open for long as most have the attention spans of fruit flies. I have the most success when Im just straight forward and could careless what she will say, do or think. Take the angle of shes just another person in the wonderful world of you. Its up to her as to how big of a part shes gonna play, dont ask her for shit. Make her play your game.

interesting

 

[mariano42]

( in shao kahn voice) outstanding....flawless victory !!

*assist*

 

[Devilstrider]

The fact is that a good man has never lost a good women.

He may lose a fine women

He may lose a gainfully employed women

He may lose many types of women

But a good women he will never lose.

Stop the tea party campaign.

Good women don't like bad boys

Confused girls that have potential might but by the time they are finished experimenting with what they think is excitement they are stuck.

I was a bad boy when I was younger,now that I am grown I am a good man.

Don't get it twisted though. being good means I provide a good safe condition for my family. I will still peel your cap if it comes to that or I will have it done.


Some of ya'll seem to not know what a good man or good woman is. Might be because you chose your mentors and role models with a faulty method.

Good doesn't mean soft.

Half you wanna be g's are soft and thats why gun play is first on your agenda.You don't know how to give an ass whoopin and damn sure don't know how to take one so you reach for the burner.

Sad thing is that after you use and get locked down you become the thing you so despise because you never learned how to fight and since you won't have a gun,you will be cleaning up for somebody so they protect your ass.


How hard r u really ?

Damn I started reading the thread and stopped to respond to this. Man this is some real shit.

 

[Mentor B]

I really wouldn't pay attention to all this irrelevant prose written by these bitches. Black men of today need to focus on getting money the legal way by establishing careers and being entrepreneurial - not some but all.

And if a woman has enough sense to get at you while you're going through such a process, you better hop on it because they're rare.

Always keep a lookout for women who are checking for you and seldom go out of your way to holla at these hoes of today. You're less likely to waste time and money that way.

 

[KunningLinguist]

Your response is as asinine as her damn rant!
I am upset because of cats like you giving credence to a trifling hoes paper-thin justifications.

A man is a man-period! There are weak assholes out there who are substandard men,but the problem is, todays woman wants yesterdays preferential treatment while providing you with todays woman NOT yesterdays wife.


Went over your head?

Well let me break it down. Hoes are smart and they want you to play their game.
The good woman is one who does what traditional good women did: cook,clean,support their men,hold them down,be subservient,etc...

Todays woman does not buy into the traditional marital role and IF THEY DO,then it comes with "preconditions".The bible had no preconditions!

Chicks want you to play the traditional man role: coddle them,pay for everything for them,place them on a pedestal, bust your ass,and do all the hard manual work LIKE TRADITIONAL MEN DID plus SHE ALSO WANTS YOU TO HELP CLEAN THE HOUSE,COOK,RAISE THE KIDS, ETC.
Let me ask you all a question:

What ROLE OR WORK does the today's married woman/wife perform exclusively in a relationship or marriage?

They are UNWILLING to fulfill traditional roles that come with marriage, but they DO hold you accountable! They compare your performance as a husband or provider to commonly-held image of a traditional man.

We all hear it: "you ain't a REAL man" how the fuck do they know what a real man is????

Do me a favor ask a chick does she know what a REAL WOMAN is and listen closely and watch how they dance around the answer!

said perfectly....

i was married and this is the truth

 

[ArsenalCannon357]

I really wouldn't pay attention to all this irrelevant prose written by these bitches. Black men of today need to focus on getting money the legal way by establishing careers and being entrepreneurial - not some but all.

And if a woman has enough sense to get at you while you're going through such a process, you better hop on it because they're rare.

Always keep a lookout for women who are checking for you and seldom go out of your way to holla at these hoes of today. You're less likely to waste time and money that way.

 

[freshnclean]

interesting.

why is it females are never into you when you show them attention, but when you dont they want your attention? does this also factor in on your previous post of changing their minds and how effective is this? this happened to me on two occasion when i stopped chasing these females then they wanted to talk to me a few months down.

Because they all want what they cant have. I've been in the same boat, and sometimes I think it has slightest to do with how attracted they are to you, but the challenge that it gives them to get you.

ha!!

that chick probrably in her late 30's and miserable...

Yup, and she missed her window...Sad but true

the problem today with masculinity is that too many men pattern their sense of manhood based on female desires.

that's why so many dudes walk around here obsessed with shoes, clothes, and jewelry [like bitches].

C/S...Its one thing to take care of your appearance, but its another thing to be obsessed with those material things like a
woman is. Thats an extremely feminine trait...

to them, masculinity is directly proportional to how much sexual access women grant them, therefore making women arbiters of their sense of masculinity.

so when a female 'disses' them they fall apart and get emotional [like a bitch].

real masculinity develops irrespective of female wants.

I think the reason alot of men think that the amount of sexual access granted to them equates to masculinity is because they didnt have a father/father figure to teach them how masculinity is defined. Not saying all men from single mother households have that mentality, but alot of them do.

 

[Soul On Ice]

bump
for anyone who missed the jewels that were dropped in this post

 

[mikemagic63]

Either way, women complain when you dog em and complain when you don't. Just do what feels right for you and own up to the outcome.

 

[water]

Bottom line is this: women are not men. We do not choose a mate by your logical linear thinking male standards. We choose a man based on our hearts… through some ancient, primal, mating call we are drawn to the alpha male, the warrior in spirit, the man we feel will protect us but who can make us laugh with funny stories and kiss us tenderly at the same time.

"good" men want women to choose a mate based on mental analysis and a checklist. And some women will do that! They’ll listen to you and pick the man their family thinks is a great catch, a good church going brotha, a man who was probably a virgin until he was 25.

And this man… the one that makes logical sense, will eventually get married, but he won’t ever be passionately loved. his wife is the one that has him around to pay the bills, but gets her toes curled by the thug dude from 105th that makes her heart race.






She should title this, "How to raise hoes"

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

 

[Dmain_Event]

All this good man, bad man bullshit is just a communist plot to further divide the black family and have us dependent on "the man" (the current leader of the Communist... I mean Democrat party) for our sustenance. Be yourself. Do what you love to do and do it well and the paper will come to you (don't forget to keep in shape... bitches love abs). Women fucking love me, and I am not a preppy, or a thug. I just make money, keep in shape, and try and hold a half way decent convo and the panties drop, I take care of my business and she is begging for more. Plain and simple. Don't be a simp.

 

[ShortyCumStain]

Some serious jewels were dropped in this thread.

 

[malaki]

isn't she saying the same shit thugtician does?

 

[mrjody]

Your response is as asinine as her damn rant!
I am upset because of cats like you giving credence to a trifling hoes paper-thin justifications.

A man is a man-period! There are weak assholes out there who are substandard men,but the problem is, todays woman wants yesterdays preferential treatment while providing you with todays woman NOT yesterdays wife.


Went over your head?

Well let me break it down. Hoes are smart and they want you to play their game.
The good woman is one who does what traditional good women did: cook,clean,support their men,hold them down,be subservient,etc...

Todays woman does not buy into the traditional marital role and IF THEY DO,then it comes with "preconditions".The bible had no preconditions!

Chicks want you to play the traditional man role: coddle them,pay for everything for them,place them on a pedestal, bust your ass,and do all the hard manual work LIKE TRADITIONAL MEN DID plus SHE ALSO WANTS YOU TO HELP CLEAN THE HOUSE,COOK,RAISE THE KIDS, ETC.
Let me ask you all a question:

What ROLE OR WORK does the today's married woman/wife perform exclusively in a relationship or marriage?

They are UNWILLING to fulfill traditional roles that come with marriage, but they DO hold you accountable! They compare your performance as a husband or provider to commonly-held image of a traditional man.

We all hear it: "you ain't a REAL man" how the fuck do they know what a real man is????

Do me a favor ask a chick does she know what a REAL WOMAN is and listen closely and watch how they dance around the answer!

Very good sir..

 

[Mello Mello]

Your response is as asinine as her damn rant!
I am upset because of cats like you giving credence to a trifling hoes paper-thin justifications.

A man is a man-period! There are weak assholes out there who are substandard men,but the problem is, todays woman wants yesterdays preferential treatment while providing you with todays woman NOT yesterdays wife.


Went over your head?

Well let me break it down. Hoes are smart and they want you to play their game.
The good woman is one who does what traditional good women did: cook,clean,support their men,hold them down,be subservient,etc...

Todays woman does not buy into the traditional marital role and IF THEY DO,then it comes with "preconditions".The bible had no preconditions!

Chicks want you to play the traditional man role: coddle them,pay for everything for them,place them on a pedestal, bust your ass,and do all the hard manual work LIKE TRADITIONAL MEN DID plus SHE ALSO WANTS YOU TO HELP CLEAN THE HOUSE,COOK,RAISE THE KIDS, ETC.
Let me ask you all a question:

What ROLE OR WORK does the today's married woman/wife perform exclusively in a relationship or marriage?

They are UNWILLING to fulfill traditional roles that come with marriage, but they DO hold you accountable! They compare your performance as a husband or provider to commonly-held image of a traditional man.

We all hear it: "you ain't a REAL man" how the fuck do they know what a real man is????

Do me a favor ask a chick does she know what a REAL WOMAN is and listen closely and watch how they dance around the answer!

Right. Men are expected to uphold traditional obligations while women abandon theirs. This is what they mean when they refer to being a real man. To suffer in silence, grin and bare it and just pay the cost without complaining. To them it's about shouldering all the blame and responsibility. The system and it's mind state is too fucked up and needs to be fixed. This is evident in most divorce laws. Men are still expected to pay even if the wife wants to leave the relationship.

WHAT A STUPID CUNT TO THINK WE SHOULD LISTEN TO HER.


the problem today with masculinity is that too many men pattern their sense of manhood based on female desires.

that's why so many dudes walk around here obsessed with shoes, clothes, and jewelry [like bitches].

to them, masculinity is directly proportional to how much sexual access women grant them, therefore making women arbiters of their sense of masculinity.

so when a female 'disses' them they fall apart and get emotional [like a bitch].

real masculinity develops irrespective of female wants.

And it's sad as fuck. They're only trying to look better than the next dude to get more women.

It's up to men to define our own manhood and it's women choice to accept or reject the types of manhood we present to them. But most these dudes just trying to be the good man they think women want which is sad. Be your own man.

All this good man, bad man bullshit is just a communist plot to further divide the black family and have us dependent on "the man" (the current leader of the Communist... I mean Democrat party) for our sustenance. Be yourself. Do what you love to do and do it well and the paper will come to you (don't forget to keep in shape... bitches love abs). Women fucking love me, and I am not a preppy, or a thug. I just make money, keep in shape, and try and hold a half way decent convo and the panties drop, I take care of my business and she is begging for more. Plain and simple. Don't be a simp.

Word up.

Self development is what all these relationship articles fail to mention. That's some of the best advice in this thread. Just do you. Make yourself the best man you want to be.

It's like men have lost the will to live for themselves, but I can see how we've lost our way. We live in a society that caters to women. Most voters are women, most corporations cater to women, so do the courts and religious institutions. Men just fell in place.