BGOL, How did You Get Over Getting Your Heart Broke?
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My take your gay or you really love her and she don't love you the same!
+look at that ASS! I don't smoke! Shit smack that ASS SON!
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How old are you nigga 45? you old ass played out motherfucker. Singing becha by golly wow to bitches is over you scary ass bitch.
man..why you wasted your time with that simple muthafucka. The only pussy he gets is when he fingers himself. He is pink and bleeds once a month.
GUIIIIDDEEEEDAAAAMMMNNNN!!!!
How you hanging in there Cruz?
Man I'm all fucked up over this chick still! Today I took a nap and dreamt of her, we was kicking it like we used to which felt great but than she later left me which had me feeling ill again. I'm going thru withdrawal which sucks big time, all I do is think of her all day long. I miss her so much.
Having great feelings towards a person who doesn't give a shit about you is one of the worst feelings... You sit there and think to yourself 1001 ways of how you could of salvaged the relationship, did something else, or conjure up some silly ideas of how to force her to show you the same love and appreciation you adored her with.
I sit here and try to force myself to talk bad about her but it's hard to because she was one of the greatest personalities I've ever gotten to known and because I have that sliver of hope we will reconnect...but the cold truth is that will never happen... except she did say she would trick for $200-$300...my dumb sucker ass has actually been entertaining that shit in my head.
Man I'm all fucked up over this chick still! Today I took a nap and dreamt of her, we was kicking it like we used to which felt great but than she later left me which had me feeling ill again. I'm going thru withdrawal which sucks big time, all I do is think of her all day long. I miss her so much.
Having great feelings towards a person who doesn't give a shit about you is one of the worst feelings... You sit there and think to yourself 1001 ways of how you could of salvaged the relationship, did something else, or conjure up some silly ideas of how to force her to show you the same love and appreciation you adored her with.
I sit here and try to force myself to talk bad about her but it's hard to because she was one of the greatest personalities I've ever gotten to known and because I have that sliver of hope we will reconnect...but the cold truth is that will never happen... except she did say she would trick for $200-$300...my dumb sucker ass has actually been entertaining that shit in my head.
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How you hanging in there Cruz?
Man I'm all fucked up over this chick still! Today I took a nap and dreamt of her, we was kicking it like we used to which felt great but than she later left me which had me feeling ill again. I'm going thru withdrawal which sucks big time, all I do is think of her all day long. I miss her so much.
Having great feelings towards a person who doesn't give a shit about you is one of the worst feelings... You sit there and think to yourself 1001 ways of how you could of salvaged the relationship, did something else, or conjure up some silly ideas of how to force her to show you the same love and appreciation you adored her with.
I sit here and try to force myself to talk bad about her but it's hard to because she was one of the greatest personalities I've ever gotten to known and because I have that sliver of hope we will reconnect...but the cold truth is that will never happen... except she did say she would trick for $200-$300...my dumb sucker ass has actually been entertaining that shit in my head.
please cut this and frame it on your wall man...he dropped the best advice seen in these parts in a long time
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Originally Posted by Rick Ronson
I will trump all these niggas advice
You would be going through much less trouble if you were winning and focused on that
Pussy and relationships are side bar consolation type shit.
Now go chase that second prize trophy ass bitch you strung out on.
Chemistry is also important in relationships
please cut this and frame it on your wall man...he dropped the best advice seen in these parts in a long time
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Originally Posted by Rick Ronson
I will trump all these niggas advice
You would be going through much less trouble if you were winning and focused on that
Pussy and relationships are side bar consolation type shit.
Now go chase that second prize trophy ass bitch you strung out on.
Chemistry is also important in relationships
I'm trying, believe me. I think I'm so used to winning that losing for once has me feeling quite loserish. I sat here and took everyone's advice, spent more valuable time with my kids,got pussy nearly everyday, enjoyed my hobbies, read books and came up with a plan to better my future but at the end of everything I keep coming back to her thinking why the hell she play me like that?
sometimes there ain't a cure or advice u can get to make the pain go away, playa. sounds like she was your first 'real' love and if that's the case, it could take you up to a year to get over what you're going through emotionally.
won't feel like it now, but you WILL get over this. won't hurt as much. you'll start to feel other girls, etc. on top of that you self analyzed yourself with the whole gettin mad and bein a bit childish about sheit she dun already apologized for. that alone speaks to ya growth. grab hold of positive sheit in your life, keep ya head up and keep it movin
good luck playa
won't feel like it now, but you WILL get over this. won't hurt as much. you'll start to feel other girls, etc. on top of that you self analyzed yourself with the whole gettin mad and bein a bit childish about sheit she dun already apologized for. that alone speaks to ya growth. grab hold of positive sheit in your life, keep ya head up and keep it movin
good luck playa
there is no answer for the pain. the best advice anyone could give you this to embrace it and not run away from the feelings that you have. takes time to learn from this experience, reflect on the ways that you can change to be a better person so that you don't make the same mistakes in your next relationship. remember, only a loser carries baggage, deal with your issues now. but most importantly, learn from the pain so it doesn't happen againHow you hanging in there Cruz?
Man I'm all fucked up over this chick still! Today I took a nap and dreamt of her, we was kicking it like we used to which felt great but than she later left me which had me feeling ill again. I'm going thru withdrawal which sucks big time, all I do is think of her all day long. I miss her so much.
Having great feelings towards a person who doesn't give a shit about you is one of the worst feelings... You sit there and think to yourself 1001 ways of how you could of salvaged the relationship, did something else, or conjure up some silly ideas of how to force her to show you the same love and appreciation you adored her with.
I sit here and try to force myself to talk bad about her but it's hard to because she was one of the greatest personalities I've ever gotten to known and because I have that sliver of hope we will reconnect...but the cold truth is that will never happen... except she did say she would trick for $200-$300...my dumb sucker ass has actually been entertaining that shit in my head.
Thanks for the advice sadly I fell for a sidepiece. I guess it was bound to happen eventually... I didn't love her at all but she did fall in the homegirl category because we talked about the world with each other, introduced me to family, etc As I examine the relationship I know exactly what went wrong.
It shouldn't of happened in the first place. I was just a temporary thrill until she found a sugar daddy. Like Chris Rock said, women never downgrade. She was some dope boy hood princess so she was used to getting everything for nothing until he got locked up shortly after having a baby. She was struggling and having financally difficulty.
She always told me her life is like a movie and I guess I got lost in it too. One moment she screaming at me "stop this is wrong, we can't do this" and the next moment we fucking like crazy.
See she never offically ended it with me and never admitted that she had a new man in her life but knowing her situation, I knew what the fuck was up.
I feel somewhat better now typing this out instead of keeping it bottled inside.
yall are not going to believe this...nah forget it
do tell,you aint got nothin to lose
Real talk in this thread. I took a loss myself back in November over a 2 year relationship.
New pussy will help in the short term, but YOU AS A PERSON must be able to deal with it in the long term.
The fuckedup thing is how friends of her side seem to enjoy it as the relationship ended.
Anyway, keep your head, keep it moving, improve yourself ...etc.
New pussy will help in the short term, but YOU AS A PERSON must be able to deal with it in the long term.
The fuckedup thing is how friends of her side seem to enjoy it as the relationship ended.
Anyway, keep your head, keep it moving, improve yourself ...etc.
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Just took a loss last night and searched out this thread for advice and to vent a bit.......
She truly was my best friend. We did a lot together and always had fun. The chemistry was there in full effect and that is probably why I got it so bad. To hear that I'm everything she wanted, just not now, crushed me. I felt she was everything I wanted and had until last night. Come to find out her people really got in her ear as it pertains to us and its unfortunate. Funny because they were all for us but I'll leave it alone.
I'm trying to let go and let go as fast as I can but its hard when shes calling/texting me crying and apologizing. Just to be clear I have not responded to any of it and I don't plan on responding for a while. I know I'll only make matters worse and the whole situation harder than what it has to be if I open up the lines of communication right now. On one hand I'm thinking why is she apologizing? She got exactly what she wanted in the end, but then I realize again that she was my best friend and we talked about everything.
I loved her dearly and hopefully one day again It can return to that between us, but really what are the chances of that? I realized the both of us are hurting and losing. Shit makes me want to jump into a bottle, but I refuse to go there. We both brought a lot to the table. I will not reach out, lash out, or down her. I guess its time I sit my ass down somewhere. Life must go on one way or another.
*Pulls up a chair*
She truly was my best friend. We did a lot together and always had fun. The chemistry was there in full effect and that is probably why I got it so bad. To hear that I'm everything she wanted, just not now, crushed me. I felt she was everything I wanted and had until last night. Come to find out her people really got in her ear as it pertains to us and its unfortunate. Funny because they were all for us but I'll leave it alone.
I'm trying to let go and let go as fast as I can but its hard when shes calling/texting me crying and apologizing. Just to be clear I have not responded to any of it and I don't plan on responding for a while. I know I'll only make matters worse and the whole situation harder than what it has to be if I open up the lines of communication right now. On one hand I'm thinking why is she apologizing? She got exactly what she wanted in the end, but then I realize again that she was my best friend and we talked about everything.
I loved her dearly and hopefully one day again It can return to that between us, but really what are the chances of that? I realized the both of us are hurting and losing. Shit makes me want to jump into a bottle, but I refuse to go there. We both brought a lot to the table. I will not reach out, lash out, or down her. I guess its time I sit my ass down somewhere. Life must go on one way or another.
*Pulls up a chair*
Brother been there...
i cant tell you nothing but YOU WILL GET OVER IT...
you WILL think about her from time to time for years...
but fam if you try to make her "feel better" it wont help YOU...
worse if you become "friends" and sex occasionally it will only lead to confusion and worse when she finds another...
she will.
You will HATE her instead of the growing indifference your feeling now.
I would recommend a couple of rounds of this...
BTW I mean the hot latina chick...
Cruz, updates? So, what happened. 
I'm kind of in this situation now. She was my "best friend" and pretty n' all that... But being me... She is only a thought, a memory. I'm not letting my world stop because I miss her and think about her a lot.
Only thing I'm mad about is... At one point, she did some fucked up shit and I told her umma bounce. She cried and hooped and hollered saying she love me to death... So I stayed. She ended up leaving me in the end in a fucked up way and not talking to me again.
This women man... Everything they say; full of shit.
I'm kind of in this situation now. She was my "best friend" and pretty n' all that... But being me... She is only a thought, a memory. I'm not letting my world stop because I miss her and think about her a lot.
Only thing I'm mad about is... At one point, she did some fucked up shit and I told her umma bounce. She cried and hooped and hollered saying she love me to death... So I stayed. She ended up leaving me in the end in a fucked up way and not talking to me again.
This women man... Everything they say; full of shit.
I'm not there, BEEN there at times, but always in the back of my mind I'm thinking...
CONTROL.
Women cry and want to stay together with you, because they want to leave on THEIR terms. They can't take being dumped, but if you "take them back," as soon as one hour later they can conjure an argument and "leave" you.
Try not responding to a woman... she's like a cat, she NEEDS a response form you. She will hound you until she gets one.
Brothas, you have to remain in control at all times. Don't let "love" or anything like that cloud your vision. She may seem like the greatest thing since sliced bread, but at the root of everything, she is a woman, the incomplete part of a man. Her existence was formed from our foundation.
I love the one I'm with, but I will leave her and anyone else in a minute. I've seen it with my eyes too many times... a woman will tell you she loves you more than God, and next week yo shyt is out in the yard because your phone rung at 1:30 in the morning, and it was the wrong number.
It hurts, and there is no shortcut to peace. Even being w/ other women won't help completely, but it's a dayum good try! Only time will heal you. Even then, thoughts and feelings will creep up like the other poster said. Use that experience to protect you in the future. Vow to never be there again!
CONTROL.
Women cry and want to stay together with you, because they want to leave on THEIR terms. They can't take being dumped, but if you "take them back," as soon as one hour later they can conjure an argument and "leave" you.
Try not responding to a woman... she's like a cat, she NEEDS a response form you. She will hound you until she gets one.
Brothas, you have to remain in control at all times. Don't let "love" or anything like that cloud your vision. She may seem like the greatest thing since sliced bread, but at the root of everything, she is a woman, the incomplete part of a man. Her existence was formed from our foundation.
I love the one I'm with, but I will leave her and anyone else in a minute. I've seen it with my eyes too many times... a woman will tell you she loves you more than God, and next week yo shyt is out in the yard because your phone rung at 1:30 in the morning, and it was the wrong number.
It hurts, and there is no shortcut to peace. Even being w/ other women won't help completely, but it's a dayum good try! Only time will heal you. Even then, thoughts and feelings will creep up like the other poster said. Use that experience to protect you in the future. Vow to never be there again!
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real talk
looking back, what would you have done differently? I would not have gotten involved with the woman to begin with.
You lost. She cute as hell bruh. SOMEBODY fucking the brakes off that. I know I would.
You lost. She cute as hell bruh. SOMEBODY fucking the brakes off that. I know I would.
...damn nigga you cold as a muthafucker saying that shit...even if it true
Its been a few days and I haven't reached out to her in any form. I've been honestly asking myself is she the one for me and the answer has been yes with no hesitation. I confidently believe this woman is the future wife. I'm still keeping to not contacting her until she makes that move and I believe she will. If 30 days has gone by with no word from her, I'll sit her down, Lay it out there, and accept what comes of it. Confidence feels like its on 1000% right now.
The truth ^ like a mf.
Time and fully separating yourself from her....and her friends, family and text messaging. Get rid of all that communication bullshit like talking to her circle because all those rotten ass mf's go back and tell her everything you said or doing plus they make up shit.
Take this segment of time and fix yourself, patch up friendships that you fucked up because of her. Become a better person
buy a fat prostitute. fuck her like she stole your last $20, nut on her face then when she bitches about you doing that, punch her as fast as possible in the face. When she wipes the tears and asks why you did that, punch her in the gut two times, maybe a kidney shot too. After she catches her breath, spit at her face, then a 2 piece to the chin. As she tries to get up from that, turn her around, spank her fat ass with your belt. After about 10 minutes of that, another 2 piece to that shit she calls a tummy, and while she is on the floor gasping for air, spit at her, throw her the money owed, and say "keep the change bitch"....
I do that every time my heart is broken, and feel great afterwards...
I do that every time my heart is broken, and feel great afterwards...
ok, but what about the rest of the 23 hours when your mind is going through all the past and those fuck up feelings start to fuck your head up til the point you start to look out in space and daydreaming.....
Sorry to hear that, I wish you the best.
You lost. She cute as hell bruh. SOMEBODY fucking the brakes off that. I know I would.
...damn nigga you cold as a muthafucker saying that shit...even if it true
Somebody already was when I was with her. It ain't that bad blkking, she was a side chick. I still think of her on a weekly basis tho. I still hope one day she'll contact me on some hey wasup shit lol I'm constantly comparing her to other women all the time. I'll never be over that bitch.
Sorry to hear that, I wish you the best.
Isnt it good to accept true feelings about rotten ass women, to me you have the upper hand. Its the good in them that is permanently implanted in your thoughts. The comparing is normal, I found myself doing the same thing but realized it dont mean shit
Isnt it good to accept true feelings about rotten ass women, to me you have the upper hand. Its the good in them that is permanently implanted in your thoughts. The comparing is normal, I found myself doing the same thing but realized it dont mean shit
Absolutely. Man I was so smitten over this chick I tricked myself into think her flaws were cute. She's an alcoholic and would always come to work drunk and sometimes looking a mess. Like crust on her mouth, boogers in her nose, wrinkled or stained clothing. I would be thinking to myself "damn she so cool, she don't give a fuck what the world thinks"
All the shit everybody else said and take a trip and see the world. Oh, fuck at least one of her friends. Even if she ugly, treat her like a queen then be successful, whatever the fuck is it you do. Let me know how it works out and stop bitching, you a human man. Man law states the world is yours.
fucking a rando is a bandaid...so is drinking
forgive her for the hurt...not because she deserve it...but because YOU deserve it
once you forgive her....u move on
a way to tell if u have forgiven her is that you dont have an emotional reaction when you see her
also work on yourself...focus on being a better you....they say the best revenge is be a better you...so when she does ever see u she will see what she missed out on
forgive her for the hurt...not because she deserve it...but because YOU deserve it
once you forgive her....u move on
a way to tell if u have forgiven her is that you dont have an emotional reaction when you see her
also work on yourself...focus on being a better you....they say the best revenge is be a better you...so when she does ever see u she will see what she missed out on
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