BGOL, How did You Get Over Getting Your Heart Broke?

[alexw]

I have plenty of emotions Idiot. However, I'm not going to alter my fucking lifestyle over a bitch. I've liked the chase for as long as I could remember, it's fun to me, why would I stop? Because some girl bounced with the next dude? c'mon man get your emotions in order. I think it's stupid to act like you don't have emotions as well, but that doesn't mean you stop your life. Like I said, if you're really that shocked take 2 weeks off. After that hit the streets. I don't have to try to prove shit to some internet guy, you don't know shit about me You don't know shit about my life, what I look like or how I roll. I don't even give a fuck about internet bitches, go find a post where I'm big upping some average or fat net bitch posted on here. Not everyone is ugly like you.

youre so mad and angry now

more insults...the deep need to prove me wrong since im exposing your bullshit

like i said man, its easy to spot cats like you who fake like theyre ladies men

you just listen to what they say



hell, read what you wrote again

this thread is about relationships and youre talking about the chase

man go fuck one of those imaginary hoes you have

 

[SaKem]

dude, i can tell im hurting you deep by all the name calling in each of your responses

the truth fucking hurts doesnt it

that name calling doesnt bother me bruh

the fact is that all humans should sit down and evaluate their failed relationships

if you dont, youre going to carry that baggage into your next relationship and so on

but youre a player tho....you fuck mad hoes

why does it sound like you dont even believe that shit

most players dont brag about fucking...they brag about bitches buying them shit and so on

thats another reason why i can tell you aint getting no pussy man

stop fucking lying

SO the one sitting around crying and fussing over his bitch is getting pussy, meanwhile the attractive young man with a real future who is on the the next bitch is the one not getting any bitches, RIIIIGHHHT gotcha. You ugly niggas stress shit too much. I don't do that baggage shit you do. If something doesn't work out it doesn't work out. You remain yourself, you don't sit there and sulk for years wtf is that bullshit? If you fucked her over and you're the serious relationship type then you can learn from that.

 

[alexw]

i think getting my heart broken and taking a sincere self assessment was the best thing that could ever happen to me relationship wise.

the mistakes i was making needed to be addressed, needed to be inspected and corrected.

it also helped me to find a woman who was as suited to be with me as i was to be with her, rather than trying to be what i thought SHE WANTED me to be, and what i was OBLIGATED to be.

in the 90's i was caught up in the feminine ideology that men werent shit, and i set out to prove i was a "good man", not knowing that no matter how good you were if the woman wasnt SHIT, it DIDNT MATTER how GOOD you were.

as for your situation, you need to be real honest about her, cause you're painting her out to be a saint, and that is never the case. dont BLAME it all on her, but explore the possibility that she may have contributed to how shit went.

damn good poster brother BDB

Did anybody suggest that he alter his lifestyle because of what a woman did to him??? Are we suggesting that he sit there and sulk his life away?? No. Our point is that he sees it for what it is, and move forward. Period.

Please point out where we suggest he "sulk like a bitch"

your whole argument is off base...

and your projecting...

I know dudes like you, all it takes is one cold female and she will have your nose wide open....then "bam"....she gets you..

yet you get "bad bitches" normally...

yeah man, its so easy to see through this dudes BS

hell even pimps reflect on why they got knocked for a bitch so it wont happen again

dude is simply trying to impress cats on the net

his internet alter-ego

 

[alexw]

SO the one sitting around crying and fussing over his bitch is getting pussy, meanwhile the attractive young man with a real future who is on the the next bitch is the one not getting any bitches, RIIIIGHHHT gotcha. You ugly niggas stress shit too much. I don't do that baggage shit you do. If something doesn't work out it doesn't work out. You remain yourself, you don't sit there and sulk for years wtf is that bullshit? If you fucked her over and you're the serious relationship type then you can learn from that.

now youre leaving the realms of a wannabee and entering into super retardation territory

this post doesnt make a bit of sense

you dont do baggage...do you even know what the term means?

man clearly youre not even capable of having a debate with me

you win pussy magnet

 

[SaKem]

Did anybody suggest that he alter his lifestyle because of what a woman did to him??? Are we suggesting that he sit there and sulk his life away?? No. Our point is that he sees it for what it is, and move forward. Period.

Please point out where we suggest he "sulk like a bitch"

your whole argument is off base...

and your projecting...

I know dudes like you, all it takes is one cold female and she will have your nose wide open....then "bam"....she gets you..

yet you get "bad bitches" normally...

You told him to sulk like a bitch man. There's no need to change who you are. You MOVE FORWARD. ON TO THE NEXT. I've gone through what he's going through a long time ago. I know the deal. The biggest mistake I made was altering my lifestyle and over-sulking. It's stupid and unnecessary.

 

[Spectrum]

damn good poster brother BDB


yeah man, its so easy to see through this dudes BS

hell even pimps reflect on why they got knocked for a bitch so it wont happen again

dude is simply trying to impress cats on the net

his internet alter-ego

 

[SaKem]

now youre leaving the realms of a wannabee and entering into super retardation territory

this post doesnt make a bit of sense

you dont do baggage...do you even know what the term means?

man clearly youre not even capable of having a debate with me

you win pussy magnet

How old are you nigga 45? you old ass played out motherfucker. Singing becha by golly wow to bitches is over you scary ass bitch.

 

[SaKem]

damn good poster brother BDB


yeah man, its so easy to see through this dudes BS

hell even pimps reflect on why they got knocked for a bitch so it wont happen again

dude is simply trying to impress cats on the net

his internet alter-ego

Yea it's impossible for men to date in real life!
You put pussy on a pedestal too much man. Get off BGOL and talk to some real women with your old ugly ass.

 

[Pworld297]

get some YACK!!

Yeah a whole lot of liquor helps!

 

[alexw]

How old are you nigga 45? you old ass played out motherfucker. Singing becha by golly wow to bitches is over you scary ass bitch.

im in my mid 30s man

as i said before, you win bruh

you have the game all figured out

youre Superfly on the net

and Bradly Hawkins in real life

i understand, fam

 

[SaKem]

A lot of the dudes on here are pussy whooped fucking faggots who complain about black women and stupid bullshit like that. Alex is def. one of those niggas. You complain about black women because you have NO women. Half of the bullshit problems with them you lonely motherfuckers have on here I have no concept of. Stop dating tired hood bitches when you finally get the nerve to go outside and talk to real women.

 

[Spectrum]

im in my mid 30s man

as i said before, you win bruh

you have the game all figured out

youre Superfly on the net

and Bradly Hawkins in real life

i understand, fam

man..why you wasted your time with that simple muthafucka. The only pussy he gets is when he fingers himself. He is pink and bleeds once a month.

 

[SaKem]

im in my mid 30s man

as i said before, you win bruh

you have the game all figured out

youre Superfly on the net

and Bradly Hawkins in real life

i understand, fam

You got it bro. You even know who I was with last night. You know everything about me Fucking loser ass nigga. 35/36 still fucking losing.

 

[SaKem]

man..why you wasted your time with that simple muthafucka. The only pussy he gets is when he fingers himself. He is pink and bleeds once a month.

Says the guy who moved to Brazil to buy pussy

 

[True Real Info]

You told him to sulk like a bitch man. There's no need to change who you are. You MOVE FORWARD. ON TO THE NEXT. I've gone through what he's going through a long time ago. I know the deal. The biggest mistake I made was altering my lifestyle and over-sulking. It's stupid and unnecessary.

just as I thought

okay brotha, go holler at your bad bitches lined up around the corner trying their best to look like bgol porn stars for your pleasure. Im sure your bitches will cosign you as they type your thoughts on the forum as you speak them....

 

[alexw]

man..why you wasted your time with that simple muthafucka. The only pussy he gets is when he fingers himself. He is pink and bleeds once a month.

man its fun watching him explode

 

[alexw]

Says the guy who moved to Brazil to buy pussy

to buy pussy?????

im not going to put his business out there but if only you knew

that nigga was rolling with joe biden in iraq, man

lmaooooooooooooooooooooooo another fail

 

[SaKem]

just as I thought

okay brotha, go holler at your bad bitches lined up around the corner trying their best to look like bgol porn stars for your pleasure. Im sure your bitches will cosign you as they type your thoughts on the forum as you speak them....

"my bad bitches lined up around the corner blah blah" shut the fuck up and take your sonning like a man.

 

[Spectrum]

man its fun watching him explode

Man. That cat needs

a. a positive male role-model in his life

b. a groupon for half-off tampons

 

[SaKem]

Man. That cat needs

a. a positive male role-model in his life

b. a groupon for half-off tampons

Yea keep buying pussy homie.

 

[SaKem]

man its fun watching him explode

Yea I e-explode! Go outside sometimes bro.

 

[alexw]

Man. That cat needs

a. a positive male role-model in his life

b. a groupon for half-off tampons

 

[BigDaddyBuk]

man..why you wasted your time with that simple muthafucka. The only pussy he gets is when he fingers himself. He is pink and bleeds once a month.

oh SHIT.

that shit hurt MY FEELINGS...and it wasnt even directed towards me.

damn, ninjas becoming collateral damage getting hit with net shrapnel.

 

[Spectrum]

That muthafucka boiling tea right now to calm his cramps

 

[playaman5]

See that's the problem with you niggaz. You get hurt and the first thing you do is go out and bag a bunch of low levels and create an addiction and a hate for women. That's the way soft niggaz hide their feelings. Then you are more fucked up than you were before. Or jump into a another fucked up relationship and end up with a baby with some rat. I see it happen all the time.

Take time and be by your self homie. Take a break from women period. Atleast two or three months to focus on nothing but you. Get your mind right and get your body right. Don't even look for women but trust they'll be flocking to you. Say focused in school. With out a girl your money will be right too. Stack what you can.

Do shit by your self some times. No homiez just you. Before the years out a dime will fall in your lap. She'll be in the places you go by yourself doing the same shit you are doing. Chilling by her self. This is 100% fool proof, trust.

CO-SIGN! This exact thing happened to me and played out just like u said. Good advice bro!

 

[Rick Ronson]

You get used to it after a while and just go through bitches

Next thing you know you're like.....damn I forgot all about that one.

You will fuck your whole life up taking bitches serious though.

If you're not goal oriented and focused they can really distract
you from your path with the pussy and problem package.

Yes it's a package deal.


Some of them can be integrated but many can't.

 

[Spectrum]

oh SHIT.

that shit hurt MY FEELINGS...and it wasnt even directed towards me.

damn, ninjas becoming collateral damage getting hit with net shrapnel.

He gonna send all your PMs in a few days talking about.. he sorry for acting like that but sometimes his hormones get the best of him..

 

[SaKem]

You get used to it after a while and just go through bitches

Next thing you know you're like.....damn I forgot all about that one.

You will fuck your whole life up taking bitches serious though.

If you're not goal oriented and focused they can really distract
you from your path with the pussy and problem package.

Yes it's a package deal.


Some of them can be integrated but many can't.

Now this is good advice for the OP

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

if your heart is broken take time out for you look at what you did or didn't do.
basically destroy and rebuild.
then you gotta get into you again, put all of your energy and new found free time into doing stuff you want to do wanted to do or can do.
work on yourself, inside and out...meaning get your shit together. if it is financially, then emotionally, if it is emotionally and financially, improve on it and make a new plan a new challenge out of life.

don't worry about women...none. don't go chase, don't try and fuck the pain away, don't even be concerned about finding a new broad. the whole thing is, when you're not looking and you're focusing on you and feeling better about you and your life they'll come to you.

you need to go into the don't care if i do don't care if i don't fuck other women mode.

the scariest thing in the world to a woman, is a man who isn't obsessed with getting her pussy, a dude who will fuck if presented with the right circumstance, but won't budge off of their game plan or off of their goal track in order to get their pussy.

a dude who enjoys pussy but doesn't need it to define how he's doing in life is a scary thing to them.

be that dude, and when you're ready to have another relationship don't lose yourself, the you you've built and worked on and continue to be upfront and yourself the entire time.,

compromise on small things in your next one
not principles and values.

 

[alexw]

That muthafucka boiling tea right now to calm his cramps

He's the dude in the red:

 

[Spectrum]

if your heart is broken take time out for you look at what you did or didn't do.
basically destroy and rebuild.
then you gotta get into you again, put all of your energy and new found free time into doing stuff you want to do wanted to do or can do.
work on yourself, inside and out...meaning get your shit together. if it is financially, then emotionally, if it is emotionally and financially, improve on it and make a new plan a new challenge out of life.

don't worry about women...none. don't go chase, don't try and fuck the pain away, don't even be concerned about finding a new broad. the whole thing is, when you're not looking and you're focusing on you and feeling better about you and your life they'll come to you.

you need to go into the don't care if i do don't care if i don't fuck other women mode.

the scariest thing in the world to a woman, is a man who isn't obsessed with getting her pussy, a dude who will fuck if presented with the right circumstance, but won't budge off of their game plan or off of their goal track in order to get their pussy.

a dude who enjoys pussy but doesn't need it to define how he's doing in life is a scary thing to them.

be that dude, and when you're ready to have another relationship don't lose yourself, the you you've built and worked on and continue to be upfront and yourself the entire time.,

compromise on small things in your next one
not principles and values.

 

[NewyorkRealTalk]

That muthafucka boiling tea right now to calm his cramps

Sent from my Rezound

 

[Spectrum]

He's the dude in the red:

 

[playaman5]

I've read every single post in this thread and I've got some really amazing advice from cats on here. I really appreciate it. After reading this thread, I really feel a lot better about the situation cause in almost every post, cats were saying some real shit, a lot of it I agree with.

I've already been on the gym shit, mostly hooping but I'm really gonna hit the weights hard and just get cut. I'm 6'0, 195 but I'm not as lean and cut as I want to be and this is the perfect time to do it. I'm gonna continue to focus on my school and getting good grades, continue working part time and doing my volunteering, continue kicking it with my nigs, continue my little side hustles and just focus on me. I'm really gonna do the things I need to do for myself. Every time I've ever done that, chicks come out of nowhere and are on my dick.

I find when I'm looking for broads, especially replacement girls, I only feel shittier. If I just focus on myself and still talk to girls here and there at school, work or whatever, I'll eventually meet someone cool that I'm interested in. But that's not even my focus right now. I'm just gonna focus on me and it feels good to think about. After reading this read and reflecting, looking back, she obviously didn't care about me as much as I cared about her and maybe I got a little caught up with her but fuck it, I can't be thinking about her if she's not even thinking about me. Just wanted to thanks again for the advice fam, it's greatly appreciated.

Never forget that! Happens ALL the time!

 

[SaKem]

if your heart is broken take time out for you look at what you did or didn't do.
basically destroy and rebuild.
then you gotta get into you again, put all of your energy and new found free time into doing stuff you want to do wanted to do or can do.
work on yourself, inside and out...meaning get your shit together. if it is financially, then emotionally, if it is emotionally and financially, improve on it and make a new plan a new challenge out of life.

don't worry about women...none. don't go chase, don't try and fuck the pain away, don't even be concerned about finding a new broad. the whole thing is, when you're not looking and you're focusing on you and feeling better about you and your life they'll come to you.

you need to go into the don't care if i do don't care if i don't fuck other women mode.

the scariest thing in the world to a woman, is a man who isn't obsessed with getting her pussy, a dude who will fuck if presented with the right circumstance, but won't budge off of their game plan or off of their goal track in order to get their pussy.

a dude who enjoys pussy but doesn't need it to define how he's doing in life is a scary thing to them.

be that dude, and when you're ready to have another relationship don't lose yourself, the you you've built and worked on and continue to be upfront and yourself the entire time.,

compromise on small things in your next one
not principles and values.

Men should always be doing this, regardless of whether they're in pain or not, I'm always challenging myself and improving my position. That's probably why I don't feel the way these dudes feel, my focus in too "lazered" out and too much is riding on my performance to be worried about moping over women at this point in my life. I have an overachiever type of personality.

This is good advice for when the OP starts dating a girl again.