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You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

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My exhusband did this-called and said his parents in a bad accident then texted me that he needed help because the chick he is w/ was flipping out:hmm:

PREDICTION: His last ditch attempt will be to invent some tragic situation to try to gain my sympathy but that will not work neither and then he will finally get bored and go away(I hope)

My ex did that crap and I almost fell for it. After I stopped accepting his calls he sends me an email saying that his dad has cancer. I of course fell for it until I found out he has known about his dad having cancer for years:angry:. If I wouldn't have already been seeing someone I would have ended up taking him back. Thank God I rebound quick:D


Some of the lyrics to this song comes to mind:
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How come u guys (black me) dont want to realize that there was already a black population in America before the slave trade?
 

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How come u guys (black me) dont want to realize that there was already a black population in America before the slave trade?

Speak on it, and please include links, and use the MLA format to cite your sources. Thank you.
 

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Speak on it, and please include links, and use the MLA format to cite your sources. Thank you.

Been reading up onsome Ivan van Sertima lately

Here Clegg break it down pretty well...do some research on the names mentioned

Evidence of the early Africans is widespread and varied. Dozens of majestic stone heads have been found at ancient sacred sites, such as La Venta and Tres Zapotes in southern Mexico (See photograph). Ranging up to 9 feet and 4 inches in height, with a circumference of 22 feet, and weighing 30 to 40 tons, these colossal statues depict helmeted Black men with large eyes, broad fleshy noses and full lips. They appear to represent priest-kings who ruled vast territories in the ancient New World from provinces near the Gulf of Mexico.

In the holy city of La Venta, dating back to at least 1500 BC, four of these large stone heads were discovered on a ceremonial platform featuring a miniature step pyramid and a conical pyramid - the earliest of such monuments to appear in the Americas.

Other art-work also serves as evidence of Africans in America before Columbus. For years the late art historian, Alexander Von Wuthenau, collected ancient clay figurines that provide clues regarding the diversity of America's pre-Columbian population. His remarkable African collection depicts priests, chiefs, dancers, wrestlers, drummers, beautiful women and stately men - a collage of Black people who occupied every stratum of society from Mexico to South America.

Negroid skulls and skeletons have also been found throughout the New World. Polish professor Andrzej Wiercinski has revealed the discovery of African skulls at Olmec sites in Tlatilco, Cerro de las Mesas and Monte Alban. Furthermore, very ancient African skeletons have been unearth in California, Mexico, Central and South America.

The best evidence of the Black presence in America before Columbus comes from the pen of the "great discoverer" himself. In his Journal of the Second Voyage, Columbus reported that when he reached Haiti the native Americans told him that black-skinned people had come from the south and southeast in boats, trading in gold-tipped medal spears. At least a dozen other European explorers, including Vasco Nunez de Balboa, also reported seeing or hearing of "Negroes" when they reached the New World.

Nicholas Leon, an eminent Mexican authority, recorded the oral traditions of his people. Some of them reported that "the oldest inhabitants of Mexico were blacks[T]he existence of blacks and giants is commonly believed by nearly all the races of our sail and in their various language they had words to designate them."

Early Mexican scholars were convinced that the impact of the Black explorers on the New World was profound and enduring. One author, J.A. Villacorta, has written: "Any way you view it, Mexican civilization had its origin in Africa." Modern excavations throughout Latin America appear to confirm Villacorta's conclusions.

The Olmec civilization, which appears to have been of African origin or to have been dominated by Africans, was the Mother Culture of Mexico. Of this, Michael Coe, the leading American historian on Mexico, has written that, "there is not the slightest doubt that all later civilizations in [Mexico and Central America], rest ultimately on an Olmec base."

Ivan Van Sertima, the foremost authority on the African presence in ancient America, has built a strong case demonstrating that many Olmec cultural traits were of African origin: "A study of the Olmec civilization reveals elements that so closely parallel ritual traits and techniques in the Egypto-Nubian world of the same period that it is difficult to maintain [that] all these are due to mere coincidence." Other scholars believe that Africans introduced a calendar, writing, pyramid and tomb construction, mummification, as well as certain political systems and religious traditions to the native Americans.

Who were the Africans who sailed to America before Columbus? Indian scholar R.A. Jairazbhoy states that the earliest settlers were Ancient Egyptians led by King Ramesis III, during the 19th dynasty. Van Sertima also believes that most of the explorers sailed from Egypt, but during the much later 25th dynasty. Many other scholars insist that the navigators came from West African nations, such as Ghana, Mali and Songhay

Whoever these Black people were, they most certainly sailed to America in ancient and medieval times and left a profound imprint on New World soil. As Jairazbhoy notes: "The black began his career in America not as slave but as master."

http://www.rense.com/general43/before.htm
 

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If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.

You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

Men ARE NOT mind readers

If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

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Been reading up onsome Ivan van Sertima lately

Here Clegg break it down pretty well...do some research on the names mentioned

Evidence of the early Africans is widespread and varied. Dozens of majestic stone heads have been found at ancient sacred sites, such as La Venta and Tres Zapotes in southern Mexico (See photograph). Ranging up to 9 feet and 4 inches in height, with a circumference of 22 feet, and weighing 30 to 40 tons, these colossal statues depict helmeted Black men with large eyes, broad fleshy noses and full lips. They appear to represent priest-kings who ruled vast territories in the ancient New World from provinces near the Gulf of Mexico.

In the holy city of La Venta, dating back to at least 1500 BC, four of these large stone heads were discovered on a ceremonial platform featuring a miniature step pyramid and a conical pyramid - the earliest of such monuments to appear in the Americas.

Other art-work also serves as evidence of Africans in America before Columbus. For years the late art historian, Alexander Von Wuthenau, collected ancient clay figurines that provide clues regarding the diversity of America's pre-Columbian population. His remarkable African collection depicts priests, chiefs, dancers, wrestlers, drummers, beautiful women and stately men - a collage of Black people who occupied every stratum of society from Mexico to South America.

Negroid skulls and skeletons have also been found throughout the New World. Polish professor Andrzej Wiercinski has revealed the discovery of African skulls at Olmec sites in Tlatilco, Cerro de las Mesas and Monte Alban. Furthermore, very ancient African skeletons have been unearth in California, Mexico, Central and South America.

The best evidence of the Black presence in America before Columbus comes from the pen of the "great discoverer" himself. In his Journal of the Second Voyage, Columbus reported that when he reached Haiti the native Americans told him that black-skinned people had come from the south and southeast in boats, trading in gold-tipped medal spears. At least a dozen other European explorers, including Vasco Nunez de Balboa, also reported seeing or hearing of "Negroes" when they reached the New World.

Nicholas Leon, an eminent Mexican authority, recorded the oral traditions of his people. Some of them reported that "the oldest inhabitants of Mexico were blacks[T]he existence of blacks and giants is commonly believed by nearly all the races of our sail and in their various language they had words to designate them."

Early Mexican scholars were convinced that the impact of the Black explorers on the New World was profound and enduring. One author, J.A. Villacorta, has written: "Any way you view it, Mexican civilization had its origin in Africa." Modern excavations throughout Latin America appear to confirm Villacorta's conclusions.

The Olmec civilization, which appears to have been of African origin or to have been dominated by Africans, was the Mother Culture of Mexico. Of this, Michael Coe, the leading American historian on Mexico, has written that, "there is not the slightest doubt that all later civilizations in [Mexico and Central America], rest ultimately on an Olmec base."

Ivan Van Sertima, the foremost authority on the African presence in ancient America, has built a strong case demonstrating that many Olmec cultural traits were of African origin: "A study of the Olmec civilization reveals elements that so closely parallel ritual traits and techniques in the Egypto-Nubian world of the same period that it is difficult to maintain [that] all these are due to mere coincidence." Other scholars believe that Africans introduced a calendar, writing, pyramid and tomb construction, mummification, as well as certain political systems and religious traditions to the native Americans.

Who were the Africans who sailed to America before Columbus? Indian scholar R.A. Jairazbhoy states that the earliest settlers were Ancient Egyptians led by King Ramesis III, during the 19th dynasty. Van Sertima also believes that most of the explorers sailed from Egypt, but during the much later 25th dynasty. Many other scholars insist that the navigators came from West African nations, such as Ghana, Mali and Songhay

Whoever these Black people were, they most certainly sailed to America in ancient and medieval times and left a profound imprint on New World soil. As Jairazbhoy notes: "The black began his career in America not as slave but as master."

http://www.rense.com/general43/before.htm

Somebody is going to hate that I quoted all that...anywho...

Yeah, I was pretty familiar with the Olmecs, and the shrines(is that an appropriate word), and Cheik Anta Diop wrote in Precolonial Black Africa that Sundiata traveled to South America on vessel from Mali. So there has been interaction with the two continents for some time.

I'm impressed by the way, some people feel that Van Sertima is not a credible source.
 

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should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

1.why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

2.why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

3.whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

4.whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

5.is it true most men want a woman like their mother

6.how important is lingere

7.girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

8.how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

8.why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

9.why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

10.whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

thanks for answering :)

1.If the sex toys are for u then u should enjoy them if not:confused:

2.men cockblock other men for multiple reasons including, but it all comes down to feeling empowerment and ownership

3.a lot of us are dumbasses

4.drop his ass off at the train station r airport

5.:lol: self explanitory

6.I do but that's because my mom has the qualities of a strong independent hard working woman

7.not as important as pussy

8.TURN-ON!!!

8.it all depends on circumstances, goals, initiative and progress

9.because they don't kno how to talk 2 women or their used 2 talkin 2 women that like that high school shyt...:lol: or maybe we just wanna know (sum uv yall women got crazy boyfriends n x's)


10.time will tell
 

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should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

how important is lingere

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

thanks for answering :)

In the order that you asked:

Yes...Even if it appears that the toys are for you. What is he trying to compensate for....?

It's human nature. Misery loves company. This applies to women also.

Simple: Men who flaunt money are basically insecure. I'm not sure about being upset about the inquiry though; I might be a little spooked if someone I'm not familiar with began to ask about my finances...

Either commit to help him with his problems or drop him. No in between.

Swallowing versus catching?.... No difference to me. Do whatcha like.

Like their mother? Only if they have a good relationship with their mother.

Lingerie is KEY! Use it wisely...

Porn loving women? Definite turn on. Denotes an open minded woman and a better lover.

Date outside my socioeconomic status? No problem with the right person... Probably better if you're educational equals though...

I have no idea why they say that...I have never said that...May need to go to the source on that one...

I think because we want to know that there is nothing artificial about our women...Full disclosure, no lies. Small lies lead to bigger ones you know...

There is no quick way to do that. It takes time and patience on the part of both participants. If either party refuses to take time or be patient then it is likely not meant to be...
 

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should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage

whats the differene between swallowing and catching it

is it true most men want a woman like their mother

how important is lingere

girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus

why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line

why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard

whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear

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1. I don't own any sex toys, I cant objectively answer this question. Sounds like you're in for a voyage.

2. Might need specifics on this, but men are competitive by nature. Also, If a guy wants you, one of the strategies he has in mind is to put a monkey wrench in for another guy. Logically it goes like this. Say the guy you like is the thuggish type but your friend is nerdy. He'll talk bad about the thug in hopes that you reject thuggy bear and go for urkle. Whether its him or not. Then, other women will see that you like urkle and that would make him more of a catch to other women. Basically, he's trying to raise his own stock by decreasing the other guy.

3. What are you inquiring about? There's simple questions... like how do you make a living? And then there are pretentious questions like... Why don't you buy me a 'fill in the blank.' If you are suggesting what I should and should not do with my money, we may have a problem, and frankly its none of your business.

4. Leave. You're not Dr. Phil. Either you enjoy your time with the person or you don't. Things may get better or they may not. Mostly not.

5. Swallowing requires you to do the action...gulp! catching one only requires you not to dodge, duck, and/or weave. I can bust on your back. When I tell my homeboys, I can say...she caught one on her back like POWWWWW! ...or SPLAAAT!!!! But swallowing is like, yo, she swallowed my shit like it was kool-aid.

6. Nope. It's just easy to identify certain traits in a person that was there with you most of your formative years.

7. Don't care. Just an extra step to get to the pussy. Looks nice, but deep in my brain there's a voice saying can't wait to get that shit off of her.

8. Turn-On. Especially if we are watching porn I like. I had a girl that didnt like watching black porn because she thought she had to compete with the girl in the movie. That was a real let down.

9. Don't care. The chairman of the board, my dick, tends to prioritize physical traits over status in searching for a mate. I do well for myself, so I don't look for someone to increase my social standing. I prefer to have a good time with what I have.

10. I say this all the time, but it's not easy being the initiator. Especially when you want something like sex. You see someone from afar that looks good to you. Within seconds you want to fuck the shit out of them, then you're supposed to sit there and say hello, how are you, what's that you're reading? Crack jokes, get the number. You're sitting there buying time until the person gets comfortable around you, then horny enough to let you fuck. on a regular basis if you throw in extended dating. All while you're thinking...damn I wonder if she swallows? I have alot more to say on this subject, I'll save it for a later date. Basically, the guy that says, ayeee where yo man at, is just being brash and upfront. You might want some guy to finesse a bit more, but all he's doing is saying what he wants up front. You're fine enough to have a man, If you don't have one, let me hit that. In reality, it's less deceptive then the guy that chats you up for hours, leading you into believing he wants something other then a rompfest, then never calls you again, or pretends to like you to keep the privileges up.

11. Imagine if the new skinny jeans fad became widespread. Guys were doing everything in skinny sagging jeans. going to board meetings, clubs, everything. Skinny jeans becomes the norm and not a fad. In fact, you couldnt get a decent man unless he had a full wardrobe of size-to-small jeans. Dudes would spend money and time buying skinny jeans because they thought it was cool or less of a hassle. Say, you meet a guy you really like on a day he happens to have regular pants. He has money, a big dick, whatever the fuck you like in a man. One day, you're feeling real horny, call him up, comes to your crib, he has skinny faggot-ass jeans on. You're still willing to fuck him, date him, whatever the pinnacle is for you women. Its disappointing, that these guys had to buy into a fad and in doing so, made the fad into the norm. Man, I could keep going on and on about this. Weave sucks. It really fucking sucks, but I'll be damned if I pass up pussy because of it.

12. There is no quick way to find out if he is sincere about anything... Unless you give him the pussy upfront. After a man busts a nut, he is at his most honest. And even that is tricky. He may be very aware and might still tell you shit not to fuck up his game plan. Sometimes I'm not satisfied until my 3rd nut, So I'm probably not going to say or do anything to ruin my chances. And then, you have to compete with me wanting to go to sleep. fuck that cuddle shit. besides, this is life not TV. A man can be sincere about something and change his mind afterwords. The key is to find out what his motivation is. And, you best believe sex is somewhere in there. You'd better believe sex has to be there, or else that should be a red flag.
 

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seriously ask me.

any question you may have wondered regarding why men do, how, where, when and why or just because. you may like the answer, you may not.

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When you get into a serious relationship, do you think most men want you to no longer be friends with your Ex's? If so, why is that?
 

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When you get into a serious relationship, do you think most men want you to no longer be friends with your Ex's? If so, why is that?

I'm friends with a few of my ex's so i don't think you have to cut them off unless you occasionally slip up and hit it then thats a problem. Personally i don't beef with people who still have relationships with people from the past. Before you met me you knew this person and after me you will probably still know this person so there is nothing i can do about that. I hate people who go around demanding you cut or keep friends that is straight bullshit to me.

However and this is all on you, parading ex's around your current man is a slap in his face whether you meant to do it or not. Going around and doing shit with them on the side is wack as hell too. Never ever ever and i mean ever cancel plans with your man to do something with your ex :smh:

Anybody from your past has to wait and even then you don't give them all of your time. I think it is in bad taste to spend alot of time with ex's on the phone or otherwise :dunno: thats just me. If you maintain a person from your past you should go out of your way to make sure that the current person in your life knows and understands that they come first. Yeah its wack and petty but it is what it is, most people act like it is no big deal until the shoe is on the other foot. It all comes down to respect.
 

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I'm friends with a few of my ex's so i don't think you have to cut them off unless you occasionally slip up and hit it then thats a problem. Personally i don't beef with people who still have relationships with people from the past. Before you met me you knew this person and after me you will probably still know this person so there is nothing i can do about that. I hate people who go around demanding you cut or keep friends that is straight bullshit to me.

However and this is all on you, parading ex's around your current man is a slap in his face whether you meant to do it or not. Going around and doing shit with them on the side is wack as hell too. Never ever ever and i mean ever cancel plans with your man to do something with your ex :smh:

Anybody from your past has to wait and even then you don't give them all of your time. I think it is in bad taste to spend alot of time with ex's on the phone or otherwise :dunno: thats just me. If you maintain a person from your past you should go out of your way to make sure that the current person in your life knows and understands that they come first. Yeah its wack and petty but it is what it is, most people act like it is no big deal until the shoe is on the other foot. It all comes down to respect.

:yes::yes::yes:one of main reasons me and my ex split:yes::yes::yes:
 

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I'm friends with a few of my ex's so i don't think you have to cut them off unless you occasionally slip up and hit it then thats a problem.

Damn @ how casual you made that sound. LOL. Wow.

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1.Why do men lie to women they don't give a shit about?

Mostly because the women keeps falling for the lie over and over. Why change something to works.

2. Why do men periodically call women who they don't want?

A man can enjoy your conversation without wanting a relationship. Now if he wants to come over for sex and you give it to him you know the answer.

3. Why do men suddenly stop sleeping with women they enjoy having sex with assuming the woman was drama free?

If the women is drama free and not pressing him for something I have no idea. Alot of women who think they are drama free and far from it. I once dated a women like you described but she had a habit of wanting to know everything that was going on. Telling her it was none of her business just brought on more questions. When I mentioned to her this is the reason your relationships don't work out she got huffy and puffy. It was concept she never could grasp.


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I'm friends with a few of my ex's so i don't think you have to cut them off unless you occasionally slip up and hit it then thats a problem. Personally i don't beef with people who still have relationships with people from the past. Before you met me you knew this person and after me you will probably still know this person so there is nothing i can do about that. I hate people who go around demanding you cut or keep friends that is straight bullshit to me.

However and this is all on you, parading ex's around your current man is a slap in his face whether you meant to do it or not. Going around and doing shit with them on the side is wack as hell too. Never ever ever and i mean ever cancel plans with your man to do something with your ex :smh:

Anybody from your past has to wait and even then you don't give them all of your time. I think it is in bad taste to spend alot of time with ex's on the phone or otherwise :dunno: thats just me. If you maintain a person from your past you should go out of your way to make sure that the current person in your life knows and understands that they come first. Yeah its wack and petty but it is what it is, most people act like it is no big deal until the shoe is on the other foot. It all comes down to respect.

:hmm:

I've decided to cut'em all off. They're not worth losing the one I love.
 

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:hmm:

I've decided to cut'em all off. They're not worth losing the one I love.

Sometimes the smartest thing is knowing when to fight and when not to :dunno:

I don't care how cool my ex's are now and our relationship they are EX's for a reason and i'll never allow them to come between somebody new *shrugs*
 

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I have a question for ask a black man: Are there psychological implications to liking white men brutalize humiliate and degrade black women in pornagraphy?
 

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I have a question for ask a black man: Are there psychological implications to liking white men brutalize humiliate and degrade black women in pornagraphy?

Some niggas look at black women as scary beasts they cant tame. :smh:

So to see black women bow down/submit to white men and be broken is exciting to them.

Those same niggas deep inside feel inferior to white men.

What these niggas overlook is those same women would NEVER let them do no shit like that. :smh:

On some:
"Nigga you must be crazy!!!" :hmm:

Foul barbaric behavior is accepted expected from Yakub.
 
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I have a question for ask a black man: Are there psychological implications to liking white men brutalize humiliate and degrade black women in pornagraphy?

Some niggas look at black women as scary beasts they cant tame. :smh:

So to see black women bow down/submit to white men and be broken is exciting to them.

Those same niggas deep inside feel inferior to white men.

What these niggas overlook is those same women would NEVER let them do no shit like that. :smh:

On some:
"Nigga you must be crazy!!!" :hmm:

Foul barbaric behavior is accepted expected from Yakub.

How any black man can find pleasure in that is beyond me. :smh:
 

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should a woman be concerned if a man has more sex toys than she does
As long as you were both freaks when you met...no problem...but when one goes much further than the other.....watch out!

why do men cockblock other men even when they arent in a relationship ...Just silliness...rarely on purpose

why do men flaunt their money then get upset when women inquire about it.....They are just like anyone else ....they don't like being used.....wait to be offered....

whats the best way to deal with a man with alot of baggage
....If it is dangerous baggage like violent or untrustworthy baggage...RUN FOREST RUN!....sometimes a person with baggage needs someone with COMMON baggage....who gets it!
whats the differene between swallowing and catching it
To me a woman who catches it is into the sex and just trying to please me.....a woman who swallows it is even sexier.....and if she makes that "aaahhhh sound after she swallows....she might get a ring!
is it true most men want a woman like their mother
No....but it is true that that is what they are looking for....they want the opposite of their mom....but they seek what they are familiar with.....go figure!
how important is lingere
Lingere is nice when it looks nice and comes with a dance and fits well....but like a fat girl with lingere that gets swallowed up by her fat or a skinny girl that has 75 layers of shit to pull off is not good!
girls who like and watch porn...turn on or red flag?
Porn is great to watch together and apart, but I think even porn watchers are suspicious about other porn watchers in a way. Kind of like a guy sleeping with a girl and then calling HER a HO!...there is something sneaky about it in private.

how do u feel about dating outside your socio-economic stadus
I have done this....it never works for long. It can work with a truly generous person, but the person who is on the receiving end will always be waiting for the other shoe to drop, with a nasty remark, or innuendo that you are nothing and I am something.
why do men say "ayeeeeeeeee where yo man at" as a pickup line
....Men who have pick up lines are just afraid to say something like "Hi...my name is"...for fear of rejection....it's an ice breaker.why are guys so obsessed with natural hair on the mainboard
Cuz they want to touch it and pull it when having sex...and they are afraid of snatching you $300 weave out of your head!....not to mention, the weave thing is a girl thing, not a man thing, so outside of it being pretty..they just don't want to mess it up.
whats the quickest way to find out if a man is being sincere or trying to tell a woman what she wants to hear
Keep your legs closed....if he is still there....you have something...if he is still TALKING to YOU....find a way to keep him.....everyone else is just saying things to get to something they want...be it sex or whatever....it is always better to say nice things than bad things....we all do this...so there is nothing personal about it.
thanks for answering :)
 
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