This may offend a lot of women, and a lot of men, but if you got more than two kids by more than two people and you've never even been engaged, you are part of the problem because you are irresponsible.
People out here making kids as if they don't understand how babies are made. Women out here looking like they had a baby by every boyfriend they had since high school. Guys out here with a handful of baby mamas and women are still trying to get with them
How are those men not outcast?
If you got more kids and you can afford to look after, to teach, and to feed, that's your fault. Condoms exist for a reason (and abortions were legal for a long time) and yes condoms bust, but not at the rate of all these kids is out here in this world.
Men and women engaging in irresponsible Behavior result in children running wild out here with no one to look after them and no one to teach them any damn thing.
The boys and girls grow up thinking that single Parenthood is the way to be. The girls don't expect the males to be there, and the boys grow up thinking they don't need to be there.
The girls grow up with no idea what a real man looks like, so they don't know what to look for in one. The boys grow up with no idea what a real man looks like so they grow up with only poor examples of who to emulate.
Single Parenthood begets single Parenthood begets single Parenthood.
Yes, marriage is fail all the time, but at least those women tried to do it the right way. If you have a baby by a boyfriend you are doing it wrong. If you have a baby by a girlfriend, you are doing it wrong. You are making an 18+ year commitment to someone who is not willing to make a commitment to you and it is the children who suffer
( I know I oversimplified the hell out of that, but I said what I said)