After 4 years of curving him... She finally saw something in him (or she settled, you be the judge)
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This is the problem. Let's say the girl in question was this girl. Whole lot of us would forgive her ugly soul to be with her gorgeous exterior. By the time we realize the mistake it's too late (got her pregnant).
Luckily that's not my story but easily could have been. When I came to Atlanta at 18 I was overwhelmed. Never seen that many fine Black girls. If I didn't have good friends around me I would have been sucked into the Spelman vortex like so many before me.
A great number of women are hive-minded. That is why when you insult some females (like Oprah or Beyoncé), they get offended. Women's communication is mainly socialization (which is why they are better at it than us). As men, when we communicate, its usually for a purpose. We think of ourselves as individuals, even when we are crewed up, which is why we don't take it personally if a woman insults a specific man. Our attitude is "well, that's that knigga!"
And I agree with you. There is a difference between being used and feeling used. If you go out with a woman and y'all have a good time and at the end of it all, you blow her back out and call it a night - if both of y'all had fun, its even-steven. You could say that technically, both of y'all used each other. If she feels pressured to give up the box or if you string her along with promises but keep disappointing her after she does for you, then of course, she will feel some kind of way about that.
The problem is that a lot of women nowadays throw in a re-assessment after the fact. They go home, discuss the night with their female "frienemies" and those chicks shame them into believing they should have taken advantage of you instead of things being even. A lot of women shame other women for not taking advantage of a man. They also shame women for having their physical desires met. "You mean the nigga didn't pay none of your bills or nothing? He ain't shit." "If you're giving up the coochie, he could at least pay a light bill or something" "Why are you even dealing with him?" "He's trash!" I've personally heard many conversations like this. Females like this only think of men as utilities. A lot of them are bitter because they have a value assessment associated with their pussies and when they are not getting what they want, they blame the man they are dealing with and by default, all men because they see men through a woman's lens.
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there is some truths in these statements
Bish looks like she wakes up mad.
Send me her contact
Real fukn rap here!
Salute!
THIS^^^^ i try to tell young guys this all the time, fuckers be coming to work crying over these 20 something year old's
eww,
she's on the Jamale Hill side of the game.
Gassing that hoe up,
the game is all fucked up
Good point but she still was simping this nigga out for 4 years, turning him down, using him for free meals and I'm guessing that nigga got nowhere near the pussy. He was probably flirting and she was probably awkwardly shutting him down.
What the fuck does she do when that relationship hits a snag? Respect is everything.
I guess I am reading this different than everyone else. Her post is only her point of view and tells things as she seen it. Hell I have women I have fucked that could tell the same story about how I was trying to fuck for five or ten years and she finally gave in this having curved me for a long time However trying to fuck only means that any time I ran into her in the streets or sent her a text I was trying to fuck. It does not mean I was not smashing fifty eleven other chics while shooting at her every so often. I do not believe brother was not smashing hella chics while still throwing shots at this chic. Just so happen they hooked up probably when he was in between hoes and it’s working out. Women love to tell the story about how men chase them for years and the whole time that man have been in five relationships and been engaged once.
simp ass nigga
Not my woman.
Not my problem.
Besides:
- He wanted her.
- He pursued her.
- He got her. (After 4 years).
If he's happy & can live with her particular "narrative", then who am I to question it....?
I'm happy they're happy.
But what I will say is, the same chicks who will applaud his persistence would be telling other women that a man doesn't really love you and he aint worth it if he doesn't marry you in the first year. Patience and persistence is for men only in their eyes.
This is an important question
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