After 4 years of curving him... She finally saw something in him (or she settled, you be the judge)

She’s gonna regret that statement. Young fella is gonna continue to improve and she is gonna decline in value. Then he is gonna circle back and get the one’s he couldn’t when he was younger.
That dumb nigga gonna put a ring on her finger and let off a few rounds in her and the kids will come soon after.

Her desirability will fall, but she will keep a hand in his pockets. This simp has and will keep losing :smh: .
 
If I was an established man before I met my wife, I would definitely have a tougher mindset towards women. Me and my lady connected when I was still trying to find myself.

I was an easy catch when I was younger, but most chicks I dated didn’t want a guy with a potential future. They wanted guys that had shit together right then and there. I couldn’t compete with that and I didn’t try either.

My brother from another.

Man oh man what would our lives have been like if WE grew up with social media?
 
What's funny is that modern feminism would say that persistence from a guy is tantamount to harassment and even sexual assault. This chick must have had a pregnancy scare or something and shut down her ho phase early. Either way, they ain't gonna make it.
 
Ya'll taking this chick personally...hit too close to home?!

This chick is changing the narrative for dramatic effect for social media. She ain't that fine. Plus I bet dude was smashin' her and other chicks while she was "making up her mind" . Give homie the benefits of the doubt. Ain't nothing wrong with entertaining possible wifey material, BUT doing your thing on the side.

Finally, I'll give her "some" credit for seeing the light before she got too old. I've run across several chicks who were holding out for "Mr. Perfect" (even when they were 6s or 7s at best). Now they straight hatin' that my wife is waaay above they grade in looks and $$$ and we have two good-looking kids. At least this chick didn't wait until she's 40 to start talking about settling down and having a family. I know a fit and fine but difficult 46 yr old who is having delusions of grandeur about having kids.
 
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This is actually a VERY common thing amongst women with you think about it. There is always going to be that one dude that will thirst after her regardless of her looks. Many just don’t announce it.

She was just trying to see how far she should go.
What bothers me worse than you posting how you felt about me is, I take it one step back, your "thought" that you settled for me. Then to tell the world and can't wait to tell my unborn kids.

If he can't see, she ain't in his corner and just waiting for the next thing better to come along, then he is lost. No talking to him nor coming back. He will get his wake up call at some point 10-20 yrs later.

Aside from her looks, she's ugly inside as well.
Not my type, not ride or die.
 
What bothers me worse than you posting how you felt about me is, I take it one step back, your "thought" that you settled for me. Then to tell the world and can't wait to tell my unborn kids.

If he can't see, she ain't in his corner and just waiting for the next thing better to come along, then he is lost. No talking to him nor coming back. He will get his wake up call at some point 10-20 yrs later.

Aside from her looks, she's ugly inside as well.
Not my type, not ride or die.

Yeah, man. It’s super foul. But these type of guys can only learn through experience regardless of the obvious red flags. I try to school these youngins on the importance of taking care of yourself first and the pussy will fall into your laps when you got shit together a certain way. It’s the kats that chase that gets burned.

When I stopped chasing is how I met my wife. When I was chasing, I got done super dirty by women that was looking for the next best thing.

But to announce it is a new level of fuckery that no human should even deal with.
 
Yeah, man. It’s super foul. But these type of guys can only learn through experience regardless of the obvious red flags. I try to school these youngins on the importance of taking care of yourself first and the pussy will fall into your laps when you got shit together a certain way. It’s the kats that chase that gets burned.

When I stopped chasing is how I met my wife. When I was chasing, I got done super dirty by women that was looking for the next best thing.

But to announce it is a new level of fuckery that no human should even deal with.

game set match
 
What bothers me worse than you posting how you felt about me is, I take it one step back, your "thought" that you settled for me. Then to tell the world and can't wait to tell my unborn kids.

If he can't see, she ain't in his corner and just waiting for the next thing better to come along, then he is lost. No talking to him nor coming back. He will get his wake up call at some point 10-20 yrs later.

Aside from her looks, she's ugly inside as well.
Not my type, not ride or die.
take care of yourself and the bitches will follow is top 10 old school Harlem rule

that's why we was looked as cocky ass nigs cause we the type that be like bitc h I'm the prize you lucky to be standing next to me lol.. Old school rules and mindset
 
Most chicks isn’t going outright and say she curved a guy she ended up with. I don’t expect them to.

That type of honesty is best left unsaid.

I’m blessed to have my wife as well and if she did curve me, I would rather continue living life not knowing. It’ll be 14 years together this August. Lol
My wife used to tell her family and mine some shit like that but not our friends or anything.
She'd tell them that she didn't have any interest in me whatsoever and how I'd shoot my shots and they'd drift off into space...let HER tell it. :lol:

The truth WAS that I'd SHOWN interest in her after working beside her and we were both going through relationship woes. Before THEN, we couldn't stand one another based solely off of some third party gossiping and shit starting..."Girl, you know what he said about you?"

I came back from my off days and she stormed over and confronted me over some shit that I didn't have a damned clue about and I told her that she must be crazy af. She threatened to take the shit to Management and then the bitch who started the shit confessed to her that she was lying in an effort to be her friend.:hmm::smh:

Later on down the line, she saw me spitting a another chick who was pressing me. I had one of those old electronic Rolodexes for contacts and after the chick walked away, she asked me, "So what, you trying to rap to her?" I handed her my Rolodex and told her to put her contact info in there and the following week we were hanging out together and she started bring me home cooked meals for lunch.

Two years later, we married.

She never told that shit in public but would run that down to her sisters and her mom about how I was in pursuit of HER and she wasn't thinking anything about me, as though I was gonna be Friend-zoned. I know that they could see through her story though.
 
"We met at Alabama State in 2014. I curved her for a long time, tapping that ass and throwing a few free meals her way so she'd let me keep coming back. I was awful even though she supported and took care of me, but something, most definitely God, in 2018 told me to give her a chance and stop chasing behind all those other hoes and I have been hooked ever since. Now I can't wait to tell our kids what a sweet patient woman their mother was while I was still trying to get my shit together."


In other words, she's the female equivalent of a BGOL member. Mirrors are rough some days, huh?
 
"We met at Alabama State in 2014. I curved her for a long time, tapping that ass and throwing a few free meals her way so she'd let me keep coming back. I was awful even though she supported and took care of me, but something, most definitely God, in 2018 told me to give her a chance and stop chasing behind all those other hoes and I have been hooked ever since. Now I can't wait to tell our kids what a sweet patient woman their mother was while I was still trying to get my shit together."


In other words, she's the female equivalent of a BGOL member. Mirrors are rough some days, huh?

What u been putting down in the kitchen? How 2020 been treating you? You been sticking to your resolutions? Fuck these kniccas...I'm tryin to check on you...bae
 
"We met at Alabama State in 2014. I curved her for a long time, tapping that ass and throwing a few free meals her way so she'd let me keep coming back. I was awful even though she supported and took care of me, but something, most definitely God, in 2018 told me to give her a chance and stop chasing behind all those other hoes and I have been hooked ever since. Now I can't wait to tell our kids what a sweet patient woman their mother was while I was still trying to get my shit together."


In other words, she's the female equivalent of a BGOL member. Mirrors are rough some days, huh?

I just bought a full body mirror and I can't stop crying
 
translation:

he thirsted for four years.. and for four year

I strung him along, in case I could level up..

I mis-calculated and am so glad his thirst

was so strong he stayed in my stable...

and eventually got promoted....lol

I aint mad at her at all..

I just rejoice Im too mature for that bullshit... those are

thirsty guy problems


Yup... I cant see it... Have some pride about yourself young man!!!:smh:
 
"We met at Alabama State in 2014. I curved her for a long time, tapping that ass and throwing a few free meals her way so I never gave her dick and let her buy me and cook me food, and she'd let me keep coming back. I was awful even though she supported and took care of me, but something, most definitely God, in 2018 told me to give her a chance and stop chasing behind all those other hoes and I have been hooked ever since. Now I can't wait to tell our kids what a sweet patient woman their mother was while I was still trying to get my shit together."


In other words, she's the female equivalent of a BGOL member. Mirrors are rough some days, huh?
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With the corrections above then it would be equal.

The problem I have isn't about her pushing him to the side, that's fine, she wasn't feeling him and hey, anyone has to feel out a person at first and may not like them.

But to say you were happily using him to buy you meals, or if a guy was using a girl, no intentions of getting with them, then brag about it later, that's foul.
 
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With the corrections above then it would be equal.

The problem I have isn't about her pushing him to the side, that's fine, she wasn't feeling him and hey, anyone has to feel out a person at first and may not like them.

But to say you were happily using him, or if a guy was using a girl, no intentions of getting with them, then brag about it later, that's foul.

Thanks. I forgot about the ones who just want to eat well and have a place to crash. My point tho is its funny watching all these folks in here with the faux outrage clutching their pearls like they haven't done the same or worse and bragged about it on here, some with homegrown pics to boot. Some of these folks want to be the only ones who play games and get over on folks and that's not reality. The don't recognize it outside of IG tho, and they aren't really mad about IG just that women won't give access for FREE.
 
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