A Proper Ass Whoopin
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The second kid looked lik3 hebwaz in a merry go round lol. On a side Note i dont think those were his kids. That waz a villlage whoopin' s in it takes a whole villiage
Those kids are gon a go menendez brothers on yout ass when they get older you better beat them little niggas now!
Nah just kidding
Homie was doing the sky walkerHeld that lil nukka in the air like a piñata ....
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Running on air.
Bullshit, you can issue Corporal punishment not excessive, no bruises and below the waist is all within CPS guidelines....
Love it, I don’t know if that’s their Dad but he loves them little boys. “Don’t steal,wop,don’t steal, wop,don’t steal,wop!
Man my moms whooped me for little dumb kid shit and got whooped by my pops 1 time (that's all that was needed).
I respect both of them til this day but my punishments were not just ass whoopings. I was talked to and made to understand shit.
So that's what I do with my kids minus the ass whooping because they don't require such actions.
I see so many parents screaming, cussing, etc...at their kids like that shit is really going to be effective. Shit you're just teaching them how to react to others when shit gets out of your control, etc...
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I successfully raised my 8 children 5 boys and three girls. successfully ran a foster care child placing agency. what he did in public created an opportunity for CPS to get in his household business. Tear their assess up AT HOME.
whoop him then sit him down for a talk..let him know you still love him..but tell him what he did was wrong..ask him if he understands..when he says yes..give him a high five..in the future he'll know where you stand with nonsense and he won't want to disappoint you..he knows you care..and it'll make him a strong man when he comes of age...
I wonder how many in the thread have seen one of their parents physically abuse by their spouse.
Would you allow your parents to hit your kids like they hit you?
Would you allow your parents to hit your kids like they hit you?
https://www.ebony.com/life/stacey-patton-children-whupping/
We’ve all seen it. The 2-year old who has fallen out, kicking and screaming in the middle of a store, or the mouthy, defiant teenager who’s rolling her eyes and her neck at everything. It’s easy to look at kids like that and think, “That kid needs is a good, butt whupping!”
According to a 2015 Pew Research survey, Black parents are more than twice as likely as White parents and nearly twice as likely as Hispanic parents to use corporal punishment to discipline their children on a regular basis. Black parents are also far less likely than White or Hispanic parents to never spank their children. And that’s the sort of parenting pathology that Dr. Stacey Patton hopes to combat.
Patton, who holds a Ph.D. in African-American History, and is the author of a new book, Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won’t Save Black America, urges Black parents to look at the history and the impact of the practice and reconsider. EBONY.com sat down with Dr. Patton for an in-depth look at her findings.
EBONY: Why do you think we hit our children?
Dr. Stacey Patton: People think that hitting a child is a form of teaching. We think it will protect them. And people grow up to invert the violence they experience as children as something that was good, particularly in African-American culture. As a people, we attribute our success to having had our bodies processed through violence and quite frankly what it does is confirm a long-standing racist narrative about Black bodies. The only way to control us, the only way to make us “good,” law-abiding, moral people is with a good whupping. It seems that we unconsciously agree with that narrative.
EBONY: You said in your book that Black people are “the most locked up, unhealthy, stressed out, demonized group of people in America. Whupping children hasn’t saved us from any of this!” So why do you think we believe it has?
Dr. Stacey Patton: We don’t make the connection between the historical traumas, the science that talks about the psychological damage that hitting children has, the chronic illnesses that get produced by hitting children, the domestic violence between Black men and women or the shootings in the streets. We don’t take a moment to stop and look and say, “How much of that is attributed to what’s happened to us in the foundational moment of our lives (which is childhood)?” We don’t make those connections.
EBONY: You also explore the Black church in your book. You say the church has always urged parents to use “the rod of correction,” but then you point out that the phrase, “Spare the rod, spoil the child” isn’t actually in the Bible & Jesus was a gentle person who liked children. Would Jesus spank? Where did we get that from?
Dr. Stacey Patton: Firstly, I should say that I’m not a Christian, though I was raised in the Black church. In the New Testament there’s no evidence whatsoever, that Jesus hit children. Based on Jesus’ principals of empathy, love, and his directives to adults on how to treat children, I don’t think he would have whupped a child. The whole, “Spare the rod, spoil the child” misinterpretation is Old Testament. I pushed this conversation a little further to say, “Listen, first of all, African-Americans have only been Christians for about 200 years.” And we came to Christianity through our brutal, horrible and dark mistreatment during slavery. There’s absolutely no evidence that Black people in West Africa treated their children with this kind of ritualistic violence prior to contact with European missionaries. We need to interrogate this theology.
EBONY: Talk about the specific damage we do to our male and female children when we hit them.
Dr. Stacey Patton: I interviewed Black men to learn if there was any connection between mothers beating their sons as boys and how they grew up to treat women later in life. I found that many of their stories confirmed what the psychological literature had been saying for decades. These men grow up to have some really ugly attitudes towards women. I also found it striking that we don’t live in a society that believes that Black males experience pain. Far too many mothers look at their boys, particularly as their bodies grow—just as the larger, racist society does—and see their potential criminality. I’ve talked to mothers who say, “If I don’t beat my son, he’s going to knock me down some day.” And so anti-Blackness is filled into the ways that some Black mothers rear their sons.
EBONY: What should parents with a 3-year-old whose mind hasn’t developed enough to understand reason or a 16-year-old who’s rebelling?
Dr. Stacey Patton: We have to deconstruct our thinking about Black children. That’s half the battle right there. We have to throw away the fear, we have to throw away the cultural conditioning, and the racist ideas about Blackness. Parents must educate themselves in child development. What’s happening in your child’s brain at 2 years old? We need a public health program that teaches parents why their child is hitting, why a child fights and why a teenager may begin to suck her teeth. We are too inclined to think of a child as being intentionally willful when they’re actually not. Parents also have to reconnect with their own humanity. There’s this sort of intuitive response to beat out of their children the same things that were beaten out of them.
We’ve all seen it. The 2-year old who has fallen out, kicking and screaming in the middle of a store, or the mouthy, defiant teenager who’s rolling her eyes and her neck at everything. It’s easy to look at kids like that and think, “That kid needs is a good, butt whupping!”
According to a 2015 Pew Research survey, Black parents are more than twice as likely as White parents and nearly twice as likely as Hispanic parents to use corporal punishment to discipline their children on a regular basis. Black parents are also far less likely than White or Hispanic parents to never spank their children. And that’s the sort of parenting pathology that Dr. Stacey Patton hopes to combat.
Patton, who holds a Ph.D. in African-American History, and is the author of a new book, Spare the Kids: Why Whupping Children Won’t Save Black America, urges Black parents to look at the history and the impact of the practice and reconsider. EBONY.com sat down with Dr. Patton for an in-depth look at her findings.
EBONY: Why do you think we hit our children?
Dr. Stacey Patton: People think that hitting a child is a form of teaching. We think it will protect them. And people grow up to invert the violence they experience as children as something that was good, particularly in African-American culture. As a people, we attribute our success to having had our bodies processed through violence and quite frankly what it does is confirm a long-standing racist narrative about Black bodies. The only way to control us, the only way to make us “good,” law-abiding, moral people is with a good whupping. It seems that we unconsciously agree with that narrative.
EBONY: You said in your book that Black people are “the most locked up, unhealthy, stressed out, demonized group of people in America. Whupping children hasn’t saved us from any of this!” So why do you think we believe it has?
Dr. Stacey Patton: We don’t make the connection between the historical traumas, the science that talks about the psychological damage that hitting children has, the chronic illnesses that get produced by hitting children, the domestic violence between Black men and women or the shootings in the streets. We don’t take a moment to stop and look and say, “How much of that is attributed to what’s happened to us in the foundational moment of our lives (which is childhood)?” We don’t make those connections.
EBONY: You also explore the Black church in your book. You say the church has always urged parents to use “the rod of correction,” but then you point out that the phrase, “Spare the rod, spoil the child” isn’t actually in the Bible & Jesus was a gentle person who liked children. Would Jesus spank? Where did we get that from?
Dr. Stacey Patton: Firstly, I should say that I’m not a Christian, though I was raised in the Black church. In the New Testament there’s no evidence whatsoever, that Jesus hit children. Based on Jesus’ principals of empathy, love, and his directives to adults on how to treat children, I don’t think he would have whupped a child. The whole, “Spare the rod, spoil the child” misinterpretation is Old Testament. I pushed this conversation a little further to say, “Listen, first of all, African-Americans have only been Christians for about 200 years.” And we came to Christianity through our brutal, horrible and dark mistreatment during slavery. There’s absolutely no evidence that Black people in West Africa treated their children with this kind of ritualistic violence prior to contact with European missionaries. We need to interrogate this theology.
EBONY: Talk about the specific damage we do to our male and female children when we hit them.
Dr. Stacey Patton: I interviewed Black men to learn if there was any connection between mothers beating their sons as boys and how they grew up to treat women later in life. I found that many of their stories confirmed what the psychological literature had been saying for decades. These men grow up to have some really ugly attitudes towards women. I also found it striking that we don’t live in a society that believes that Black males experience pain. Far too many mothers look at their boys, particularly as their bodies grow—just as the larger, racist society does—and see their potential criminality. I’ve talked to mothers who say, “If I don’t beat my son, he’s going to knock me down some day.” And so anti-Blackness is filled into the ways that some Black mothers rear their sons.
EBONY: What should parents with a 3-year-old whose mind hasn’t developed enough to understand reason or a 16-year-old who’s rebelling?
Dr. Stacey Patton: We have to deconstruct our thinking about Black children. That’s half the battle right there. We have to throw away the fear, we have to throw away the cultural conditioning, and the racist ideas about Blackness. Parents must educate themselves in child development. What’s happening in your child’s brain at 2 years old? We need a public health program that teaches parents why their child is hitting, why a child fights and why a teenager may begin to suck her teeth. We are too inclined to think of a child as being intentionally willful when they’re actually not. Parents also have to reconnect with their own humanity. There’s this sort of intuitive response to beat out of their children the same things that were beaten out of them.
Immediately had flashbacks to when i got whupped with the Hot Wheels racetrack section 
This may or not be related to your comment, but that wasn't their pops. One, he called one of the kids nigga as he was whipping them. Not that a kid's pops wouldn't call them nigga, but not usually. Two, when he finished he told them to tell their mom to come down to the shop.
No it's like saying what works on a young child's body (severity of punishment), isn't going to work on old child's body. Therefore the level of violence increases. For instance if your father whooped you with a belt as a young child. As a older child he may switch to punching you.
Obtuse? Really?
You say parents stop spanking their kids. Did you even read what I wrote.
I clearly wrote a progression from whooping a younger child, to punching a older child.
So if anyone is being obtuse on purpose. It's yourself.
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if you got punched blame your abusive ass mom.
according to YOU your pops didnt progress to punching you, right?
so wtf are you talking about?
dont dump that shit on all parents, and dont lie saying we progress to greater violence.
the reason your boy Gershoff was taken to task is because HE COULDNT PROVE IT.
so again, stop being a jackass.
You just one stupid mutherfucker.
Yes I got whoopings (not like what ole boy did in the video) but I also said my punishments did not involve whoopings alone. I was talked to. I also said my father beat me once. My parents did not believe that whoopings was the key to keeping me straight. That's why once again as I said they talked to me (not screaming and cussing at me) to make me understand. Thus the reason I was not punched or anything else as I got older.
Weak ass parents like yourself believe it's the only way.
Hey don't get mad at me punk that your parent/s raised you as a girl because they saw the bitch in you early.
This move just proves you were raised as a girl.
They brought it on themselves.
I agree it should be done at home, but do we agree this is not abuse and not a reason for CPS?
As a former contractor for the State of INdiana licensed worker for DCS.
I absolutely agree its not abuse. I have seen less get children taken out the house. Especially if the family's black.
Spare the rod spoil the child.
Its better kids get “the rearing“ from the parents or old heads in the community than the justice system.
Its better kids get “the rearing“ from the parents or old heads in the community than the justice system.
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