3somes And/or Swingers

[itwazuntme]

i hope those of you that think it is a problem while in a committed relationship do realize that you are exhibiting said insecurity issues. it's cool though. like i said, if you ain't cool w/it, then swingin' ain't for you...

as for the cat looking for swinging videos, most cats that swing keep shit like that amongst themselves. for example, i have pix of my 1st escapade at a hotel, but i'm not posting'em in here. not because i'd be embarrassed at all, but because the pics are not just of me & the wife. i'm not trying to broadcast anyone else's shit w/o them knowing about it. that's not a cool thing to do as someone who's into this type shit...

i have posted pics of the wife before. i don't believe there are any pics on her of me, but i really don't have a reason to be posting my pics on here...

"free your mind and your ass will follow..."

i hope those of you that think it is a problem while in a committed relationship do realize that you are exhibiting said insecurity issues. it's cool though

Like us monogamous folks who value the sanctity and loyalty of a committed relationship need your approval

"it's cool though"

Perhaps you're the insecure one, maybe your wife is fuckin' other dudes because you can't stimulate her. Maybe you knew this and decided your best bet was to allow her to get stimulated with your approval instead of without. Haaaa look at your dumb ass now....slave angry aint you...you didn't hear a word I said, did you?

I said maybe you're not stimulating your WIFE!!!! here it comes, "I dick my wife down, got her moaning, she pushes me off her I hit it so hard"......Dumbass.......I mean LOVE.....you can't show your wife LOVE....any hard dick nigga can fuck....but you....you can't LOVE your wife.

Any man who potentially exposes his wife to genital herpes (which a condom can't prevent), potential airborne diseases, TB, influenza, mononucleosis and HIV infection (condoms do break) willingly, cannot love his wife and I bet she doesn't feel LOVED either. Maybe well fucked, but not loved.

There's nothing insecure about anyone who wants to preserve and keep sacred their relationship with one another. They are within themselves developing a strong spiritual bond, that will stand the test of time, inseperable as one, while you draggin' a gang of flunkies with you. You're a manipulative person too, I can see that in your tone. My geuss, you're not only doin' the wife, but the husband too (that's known to happen with swingers) and he's doin' you too.

Get it right Bucky Nekkid.

 

[itwazuntme]

i hope those of you that think it is a problem while in a committed relationship do realize that you are exhibiting said insecurity issues. it's cool though. like i said, if you ain't cool w/it, then swingin' ain't for you...

as for the cat looking for swinging videos, most cats that swing keep shit like that amongst themselves. for example, i have pix of my 1st escapade at a hotel, but i'm not posting'em in here. not because i'd be embarrassed at all, but because the pics are not just of me & the wife. i'm not trying to broadcast anyone else's shit w/o them knowing about it. that's not a cool thing to do as someone who's into this type shit...

i have posted pics of the wife before. i don't believe there are any pics on her of me, but i really don't have a reason to be posting my pics on here...

"free your mind and your ass will follow..."

i hope those of you that think it is a problem while in a committed relationship do realize that you are exhibiting said insecurity issues. it's cool though

Like us monogamous folks who value the sanctity and loyalty of a committed relationship need your approval.

Perhaps you're the insecure one, maybe your wife is fuckin' other dudes because you can't stimulate her. Maybe you knew this and decided your best bet was to allow her to get stimulated with your approval instead of without. Haaaa look at your dumb ass now....slave angry aint you...you didn't hear a word I said, did you?

I said maybe you're not stimulating your WIFE!!!! here it comes, "I dick my wife down, got her moaning, she pushes me off her I hit it so hard"......Dumbass.......I'm talkin' LOVE.....you can't show your wife LOVE....any hard dick nigga can fuck....but you....you can't LOVE your wife.

Any man who potentially exposes his wife to genital herpes (which a condom can't prevent), potential airborne diseases, TB, influenza, mononucleosis and HIV infection (condoms do break) willingly, cannot love his wife and I bet she doesn't feel LOVED either. Maybe well fucked, but not loved.

There's nothing insecure about anyone who wants to preserve and keep sacred their relationship with one another. They are within themselves, developing a strong spiritual bond, that will stand the test of time, inseperable as one, while you draggin' a gang of flunkies with you. You're a manipulative person too, I can see that in your tone. My geuss, you're not only doin' the wife, but the husband too (that's known to happen with swingers) and he's doin' you too.

Get it right Bucky Nekkid.

 

[itwazuntme]

I had to post that three times y'all sorry....I really despise this person. I feel the trickery and deceit of satan in his/her post...I know this is a homosexual male or bi-male....my spirit is disturbed by how adamant he is regarding multiple partner sex...bastard

 

[LoneStar29]

Like us monogamous folks who value the sanctity and loyalty of a committed relationship need your approval

Perhaps you're the insecure one, maybe your wife is fuckin' other dudes because you can't stimulate her. Maybe you knew this and decided your best bet was to allow her to get stimulated with your approval instead of without. Haaaa look at your dumb ass now....slave angry aint you...you didn't hear a word I said, did you?

I said maybe you're not stimulating your WIFE!!!! here it comes, "I dick my wife down, got her moaning, she pushes me off her I hit it so hard"......Dumbass.......I mean LOVE.....you can't show your wife LOVE....any hard dick nigga can fuck....but you....you can't LOVE your wife.

Any man who potentially exposes his wife to genital herpes (which a condom can't prevent), potential airborne diseases, TB, influenza, mononucleosis and HIV infection (condoms do break) willingly, cannot love his wife and I bet she doesn't feel LOVED either. Maybe well fucked, but not loved.

There's nothing insecure about anyone who wants to preserve and keep sacred their relationship with one another. They are within themselves developing a strong spiritual bond, that will stand the test of time, inseperable as one, while you draggin' a gang of flunkies with you. You're a manipulative person too, I can see that in your tone. My geuss, you're not only doin' the wife, but the husband too (that's known to happen with swingers) and he's doin' you too.

Get it right Bucky Nekkid.

I had to post that three times y'all sorry....I really despise this person. I feel the trickery and deceit of satan in his/her post...I know this is a homosexual male or bi-male....my spirit is disturbed by how adamant he is regarding multiple partner sex...bastard

Honestly I feel where you're comin from ... cuz when I told him I wasn't 100% 'bout it he started calling me immature and insecure and shit like a person can't decide for themselves wether they wanna be in an orgy or not

 

[itwazuntme]

Honestly I feel where you're comin from ... cuz when I told him I wasn't 100% 'bout it he started calling me immature and insecure and shit like a person can't decide for themselves wether they wanna be in an orgy or not

I know right...I'm tellin' you...this joker is gay and he's recruiting

 

[bishoplogan]

i wasn't talking about personal videos just group sex in general. but i found what i was looking for not under Swingers bu under orgies. tnx anyway

 

[bishoplogan]

i wasn't talking about personal videos just group sex in general. but i found what i was looking for not under Swingers bu under orgies. tnx anyway

 

[whiteboytx]

i wasn't talking about personal videos just group sex in general. but i found what i was looking for not under Swingers bu under orgies. tnx anyway

Group sex is fun...with straight guys...and a lot of bi women.

Most of the employees at the gym my cuz and I go to...get together once or twice a month for swingers parties...and yep...it's one big orgy.

My cuz and I spend most of the time fucking as a couple...but we've also done some swapping...and I have to admit she looks very sexy riding a black guy she likes to play with.

Also...some of the black women seem to enjoy indulging their interracial urges at those parties.

 

[Buttnaked]

y'all mafuckas is dumb as shit. you are immature if you feel defensive about what i'm saying.

i don't brag on my dick. never have, and i ain't startin' now. my wife can tell you herself whether or not she's into what we do alone. i believe she is a member of BGOL...

as for satan, are you serious?

fuck satan. that shit is stupid to even say. there is no such thing as satan or heaven or hell. are you fucking crazy?

i'm going to say this slow for you...

S-W-I-N-G-I-N-G I-S F-O-R M-A-T-U-R-E & S-E-C-U-R-E A-D-U-L-T-S!!!

if you ain't w/it, fine. does that mean you are fucked up? no, but you do have insecurities. all humans do. fear/insecurity = greatest motivator of human behavior. it's reality. i have them too, just not about swinging or my relationship w/the wiziniz...

clearly you have spiritual insecurities/fears. that's why you actually believe in the whole satan/god dynamic while someone such as myself only believes in the oneness of all things. is god omnipotent? sure. you're likely wondering WTF does this have to do w/swinging? everything...

i follow a path that is not for everyone, as such, my approaches to certain life situations are quite different from your average idiot. not saying that anyone who tried to come at my neck is an average idiot, but you are masterfully providing an exhibition of you immaturity if not insecurity.

'sup w/the pseudo personal attack? unable to have an intellectual/sexual conversation w/o one? if so, i can function on your level. it is not all that difficult.

that said, nothing you suggest negates my statements about swinging. you are embracing archaic ideas of sexual intimacy that tend to be grounded in philosophies of emotional ownership and subjugation. these trains of thought lend themselves to suggestions that sexually liberated women are whores, hos, sluts, skanks, etc.

that's immature.

watch how you come at someone who actually possesses the abilities to think & communicate. you have me confused w/someone with whom you are familiar...

i'm not him. i'm god...

embrace enlightenment & you will be too...

don't get your panties in a bunch about this post. it may well be beyond your understanding. don't sweat it. you might see the light 1 day...

we all know peeps laugh at what they do not understand...

i don't understand ignorance very well...



does that make more sense to you that way?

 

[LoneStar29]

^^^I didn't read the whole post cuz it's waaaaaaaaaaaay too long but you really need to stop hatin' on the people that don't wanna participate in the swinger movement ... you were calling us insecure and shitjust cuz I don't wanna fuck in a circle with a bunch of old people that don't make me insecurefreak

 

[Buttnaked]

My geuss, you're not only doin' the wife, but the husband too (that's known to happen with swingers) and he's doin' you too.

here's a thought:

how the fuck do you know about swinging when you've clearly indicated that it is something you don't do?

how foolish is that really?

you don't even have any anectdotal support for your foolishness...

as far as my sexuality, again, i have nothing to prove to anyone here. that would engender bragging on the dilz...(see above post)

don't hastigate 'cause you're can't wrap your mind around sexual freedom.

here, try this:

how are your patently false negative assumptions any different from the early Europeans assuming that Indians did not know what to do w/the land on which they lived, simply because they used it in an entirely different way from the Europeans idea of land use?

don't put your shit off on me. if you pay attention (i know it may be difficult for you), you will notice that i did not put anything off on anyone. all i did was state a fact of observable, documentable, human behavior: insecurity motivates. if the shoe fits yo' ass, don't be bent w/me...

now go make yourself infinitely useful elsewhere...

 

[Buttnaked]

^^^I didn't read the whole post cuz it's waaaaaaaaaaaay too long but you really need to stop hatin' on the people that don't wanna participate in the swinger movement ... you were calling us insecure and shitjust cuz I don't wanna fuck in a circle with a bunch of old people that don't make me insecurefreak

STFU if you didn't read the post...

if you get past that, i'm not down on anyone. you're suffering from incomprehension if you suggest otherwise. never said that at all. as far as insecurity, it is what it is.

what you may not realize, usually because most don't pay attention to such things, is that damn near every if not all of the decisions that you make and have made in your life thus far have been ruled by your insecurities...

take the time to use some truly analytical thought, and you will find that i speak the triznuth...

free your mind and you may not fuck up as often...[don't take this last one personal.]

and yes, Buttnaked is a freak. i was b4 i met my wife. i was b4 i ever started swingin'. i'ma be 1 until i no longer find it interesting, exciting, invigorating, & liberating...

if you ain't a freak like that, i ain't mad at you at all...

you do you...

suggestion: don't fuck w/me. you're not likely on my level of intellect...seriously...

 

[LoneStar29]

^^^Well you're posts are too long ... aka you talk too much ... aka you stfufreak

 

[MTL]

I had 2 threesomes while married. I worked out fine because there were ground rules between my now ex husband and the friends we did it with. As long as everyone understands there should be no problem. Trust is important. We trusted each other. Personally, i'd do almost ANYTHING with my partner (as some of you know) but i don't fuck around.

 

[Buttnaked]

^^^Well you're posts are too long ... aka you talk too much ... aka you stfufreak

guess what?

i still ain't mad at you. especially if that's your ass in your sig...

the point is, we are all insecure. in addition, you know what they say about hiding enlightenment: put it in books and most won't find it...

am i wordy? yes, i know cats on here ain't the most enlightened, so i usually keep it short.

the foolishness in this post required some thought & expression thereof.

you seem to like that word there...

FREAK!
besides, i type like i think & talk. i talk so my jaws can stay in shape.[no gayness to be implied] my wife appreciates that...

 

[Buttnaked]

I had 2 threesomes while married. I worked out fine because there were ground rules between my now ex husband and the friends we did it with. As long as everyone understands there should be no problem. Trust is important. We trusted each other. Personally, i'd do almost ANYTHING with my partner (as some of you know) but i don't fuck around.

gee, sounds quite similar to what i've been proposing all along...

oddly, this is coming from someone who actually has swinging experience...

hmmm!

 

[LoneStar29]

guess what?

i still ain't mad at you. especially if that's your ass in your sig...

the point is, we are all insecure. in addition, you know what they say about hiding enlightenment: put it in books and most won't find it...

am i wordy? yes, i know cats on here ain't the most enlightened, so i usually keep it short.

the foolishness in this post required some thought & expression thereof.

you seem to like that word there...

FREAK!

Oh so NOW you like my sig ... in the other thread you said it wasn't hotWhatever

My point(short and sweet)is that just because I don't wanna have an orgy that don't make me insecure ... thank you for your time

 

[Buttnaked]

Oh so NOW you like my sig ... in the other thread you said it wasn't hotWhatever

My point(short and sweet)is that just because I don't wanna have an orgy that don't make me insecure ... thank you for your time

didn't i tell you not to fuck w/me...

just 'cause i said your sig is not hot doesn't mean i don't like the ass in it...

stop that lady...

i still don't think the sig is "hot." i just like the ass pic...

 

[bigirl]

@ the ASSumptions in this thread

 

[Buttnaked]

@ the ASSumptions in this thread

don't make me like you...

 

[followup]

I had to post that three times y'all sorry....I really despise this person. I feel the trickery and deceit of satan in his/her post...I know this is a homosexual male or bi-male....my spirit is disturbed by how adamant he is regarding multiple partner sex...bastard

WOW

I had forgotten all about this thread. @ Bucket Nekkid: maybe it's not so wrong for people to feel insecure about bringing other people into their sex lives. We're only human and most people tempted too many times will give in and may start dipping out. Nothing immature about it. Just human nature. Do you, and don't hate on others doing them

 

[bigirl]

just cuz I don't wanna fuck in a circle with a bunch of old people that don't make me insecurefreak

Congratulations you won the prize for dumbest thing I have read on this site in months.

 

[Eva Hornae]

I went to a swinger's club last night for the first time!

 

[Buttnaked]

WOW

I had forgotten all about this thread. @ Bucket Nekkid: maybe it's not so wrong for people to feel insecure about bringing other people into their sex lives. We're only human and most people tempted too many times will give in and may start dipping out. Nothing immature about it. Just human nature. Do you, and don't hate on others doing them

i'ma be gentle w/you, 'cause i dig your tone. you didn't blindly and foolishly try to come at my neck as it were...

if you peep what i posted a couple back, human nature is supremely guided by our interpretations of our insecurities. it has been a long standing theory of mine that has repeatedly proven itself through observation & analysis. while not scientifically documented, it stands on its own.

recall that i stated that i too function within the confines of the prison built by my human insecurities. the difference between me and many others is that i am actively aware of my state, and somewhat diligently work at destroying said prison...

can't work on what you don't acknowledge exists...

and again i will state: swinging is for mature & secure adults.

that's all i've said. don't know why some have a problem w/that statement. it may appear to be an opinion, but under closer scrutiny, you will begin to realize that is much more prone to being factual in nature...

 

[Buttnaked]

I went to a swinger's club last night for the first time!

now you know you corny as shit for only posting that you went...

details, details...

while being discreet @ your discretion of course...

 

[amir79]

Never attempted swinging but me and the wife & female friend had looooong discussions about threesomes. We never went as far as intercourse or any real sexual encounter. The reality of the situation is that a lot of sacrifices has to be made in order to allowing another person to enter your bedroom. First off you have to extend your perception of TRUST. You have to really understand everyone motives that will be involved. Is it simply to express your sexual freedom, or is it a greed factor involved. We soon decided that our relationship was worth more than a simply tryst. Her friendship was also worth more. In my opinion it is alright to have thoughts and discussions about fantasies, but once they become reality it no more of a fantasy. You dig.

 

[LoneStar29]

Congratulations you won the prize for dumbest thing I have read on this site in months.

 

[Eva Hornae]

now you know you corny as shit for only posting that you went...

details, details...

while being discreet @ your discretion of course...

Let's just say I was treated like a princess, OMFG!!! ::

When I first entered, the host & hostess showed me around and introduced me to the long time members, then we went to see the different rooms they had and the types of activities that were available.

They had a stripper pole in the middle of the place, and I indulged in being a stripper!

There was this couple, black guy with his sexy white girl, they liked me, myself and the guy were dancing, that fucker can whine he had dread locks and I HAD TO pull them while dancing with him that shit was so sexy, I wore my garter and mini skirt with some heels becuz it was garter and stocking night!

Ninja had my ass out in the open, but heck I didn't care i was having fun. When the music stopped, we sat down and he gave me shots of Malibu rum the passion fruit flavor, then he and her started getting down on me in the open, shit was mad fun!


Other couples were there giving each other head while others were dancing!



Some went down to the room and was fucking, going into those rooms each party/person had to be naked, I never wanted to, but next time who knows!



I so enjoyed the atmosphere, similar to a gay bar, cuz everyone was open-minded and was just having loads of fun!

 

[LoneStar29]

^^^

 

[Shadow]

When the music stopped, we sat down and he gave me shots of Malibu rum the passion fruit flavor, then he and her started getting down on me in the open, shit was mad fun!

I hope you returned the favor. Sharing is caring, baby......

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

Let's just say I was treated like a princess, OMFG!!! ::

When I first entered, the host & hostess showed me around and introduced me to the long time members, then we went to see the different rooms they had and the types of activities that were available.

They had a stripper pole in the middle of the place, and I indulged in being a stripper!

There was this couple, black guy with his sexy white girl, they liked me, myself and the guy were dancing, that fucker can whine he had dread locks and I HAD TO pull them while dancing with him that shit was so sexy, I wore my garter and mini skirt with some heels becuz it was garter and stocking night!

Ninja had my ass out in the open, but heck I didn't care i was having fun. When the music stopped, we sat down and he gave me shots of Malibu rum the passion fruit flavor, then he and her started getting down on me in the open, shit was mad fun!


Other couples were there giving each other head while others were dancing!



Some went down to the room and was fucking, going into those rooms each party/person had to be naked, I never wanted to, but next time who knows!



I so enjoyed the atmosphere, similar to a gay bar, cuz everyone was open-minded and was just having loads of fun!

WOW

 

[Eva Hornae]

WOW

you should have seen how sexy I was, shit I would have done me to!

 

[Eva Hornae]

I hope you returned the favor. Sharing is caring, baby......

I was the guest of honor!

 

[absolutvodka]

I had 2 threesomes while married. I worked out fine because there were ground rules between my now ex husband and the friends we did it with. As long as everyone understands there should be no problem. Trust is important. We trusted each other. Personally, i'd do almost ANYTHING with my partner (as some of you know) but i don't fuck around.

lol...........

 

[Iron]

Let's just say I was treated like a princess, OMFG!!! ::

When I first entered, the host & hostess showed me around and introduced me to the long time members, then we went to see the different rooms they had and the types of activities that were available.

They had a stripper pole in the middle of the place, and I indulged in being a stripper!

There was this couple, black guy with his sexy white girl, they liked me, myself and the guy were dancing, that fucker can whine he had dread locks and I HAD TO pull them while dancing with him that shit was so sexy, I wore my garter and mini skirt with some heels becuz it was garter and stocking night!

Ninja had my ass out in the open, but heck I didn't care i was having fun. When the music stopped, we sat down and he gave me shots of Malibu rum the passion fruit flavor, then he and her started getting down on me in the open, shit was mad fun!


Other couples were there giving each other head while others were dancing!



Some went down to the room and was fucking, going into those rooms each party/person had to be naked, I never wanted to, but next time who knows!



I so enjoyed the atmosphere, similar to a gay bar, cuz everyone was open-minded and was just having loads of fun!

SPUNX QUIT PLAYING WITH MY EMOTIONS YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT I WANT.