oddly, all of the answers & comments here are still having their founding motivations in the insecurity and immaturity factors of a person & interpersonal relationships...
peep all the comments w/doubts or that just straight said hell naw...
almost all the reasons cited were security or maturity issues...
goes back to my original point:
CONSENTING ADULTS, SEXUALLY MATURE, EMOTIONALLY SECURE!
can't have pieces. gotta have the balance in all 3 or you're gonna run into dumb shit...
unless you like dumb shit, don't fuck w/swingin' w/o the above mentioned balance. other than that, do you...
i'm tellin' you though, the shit is fun as hell. for example, i am not burdened by any doubt whatsoever that i can satisfy my mate. anytime she has to get me off of her pussy 'cause she can't take cummin' any more, i'm not too concerned. anytime she's passing out on me after we finished bonin' and i'm still up for another round, i'm not too concerned about satisfaction. as a result, i ain't worried about some other nigga controlling my relationship w/his dick. that's basically what most cats would be afraid of...some dude stroked my jawn better than me & now she's gonna wanna keep gettin' that...
i'm not concerned. if you can't be this comfortable w/swingin', then neither you nor your relationship is ready for this type of lifestyle. i don't do this shit all that frequently, but that's more because of my 9-5 lifestyle and family life than because of lack of opportunity...
be safe, be smart, enjoy the experience securely & maturely...
otherwise leave it the hell alone...
peep all the comments w/doubts or that just straight said hell naw...
almost all the reasons cited were security or maturity issues...
goes back to my original point:
CONSENTING ADULTS, SEXUALLY MATURE, EMOTIONALLY SECURE!
can't have pieces. gotta have the balance in all 3 or you're gonna run into dumb shit...
unless you like dumb shit, don't fuck w/swingin' w/o the above mentioned balance. other than that, do you...
i'm tellin' you though, the shit is fun as hell. for example, i am not burdened by any doubt whatsoever that i can satisfy my mate. anytime she has to get me off of her pussy 'cause she can't take cummin' any more, i'm not too concerned. anytime she's passing out on me after we finished bonin' and i'm still up for another round, i'm not too concerned about satisfaction. as a result, i ain't worried about some other nigga controlling my relationship w/his dick. that's basically what most cats would be afraid of...some dude stroked my jawn better than me & now she's gonna wanna keep gettin' that...
i'm not concerned. if you can't be this comfortable w/swingin', then neither you nor your relationship is ready for this type of lifestyle. i don't do this shit all that frequently, but that's more because of my 9-5 lifestyle and family life than because of lack of opportunity...
be safe, be smart, enjoy the experience securely & maturely...
otherwise leave it the hell alone...
