Standard rules to dating and relationships don't apply when your a celebrity especially for female celebs. Imagine the powers dynamics of who they have to date so shit is not awkward.
2 Questions - how is it certain chick's never get wifed?...
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A woman settling/committing to somebody they love in their prime years in life, is definitely the proper play if they are serious about getting married. Problem is, in their prime years, a lot of them settle, until a better situation comes along. Play that game until they are 40, then ready to settle and commit. By then, for most, nobody wants to marry their indecisive asses.
So they want you to believe... IT is all about the MONEY. In MONEY there is Security but, I am not going to attempt to change YOUR mind.
There's way too many dudes that would be willing to marry them since most men can only dream of getting with them
Who do you know under 70 that wants to marry them broads??
Anybody would fuck, but nobody really wants them like that for a lifetime partner, bruh.
Too many better, younger options for a wealthy man
A woman settling/committing to somebody they love in their prime years in life, is definitely the proper play if they are serious about getting married. Problem is, in their prime years, a lot of them settle, until a better situation comes along. Play that game until they are 40, then ready to settle and commit. By then, for most, nobody wants to marry their indecisive asses.
I've just heard that settling line from older women who use it as justification to not get married. We all settle, but settling isn't bad. It's realistic. I bought the house I could afford, the best car I could afford, I work a job that gives me the best work/life balance, my fiance is human and therefore imperfect. All of that could be considered settling. But at some point it's simply the proper play. The people who live by "the world is not enough" mantra usually have bottomless holes they will never fill, and will die trying to. There's always someone smarter, better looking, more charming, more interesting etc... But what you gonna do??? Keep going from person to person until you get the perfect mate??? That seems like an existence led by people who aren't innately happy and are looking for other people/things to get it for them.
Most cats on this board have fucked prettier women recently than them old broads. They are way past their primes, these young girls will embarrass their asses at any function or venue.
Then they priced themselves out of their market because most women
And the men above them can pull more viable candidates for their time & attention.
Your looking at this through the wrong lense...
"Most" dudes would give them some play.
But the don't want most dudes, they want men who they see as their better and the men in that stratosphere can pull more viable candidates for their time and attention.
*two cents*
A woman settling/committing to somebody they love in their prime years in life, is definitely the proper play if they are serious about getting married. Problem is, in their prime years, a lot of them settle, until a better situation comes along. Play that game until they are 40, then ready to settle and commit. By then, for most, nobody wants to marry their indecisive asses.
Also some people never got choices like that till they got much older so I cannot blame some men for feeling a way when some 40 year old with 2 kids tries to holler at that guy. I know a few dudes pushing 50 childless
The woman chase them and they don't want them, they too old and they don't feel like they winning anything.
Men and respect go hand in hand, if it ain't feeling right, it's gonna be a problem.
Word.
settling is when you have great capabilities but you choose to halt them for a pause save zone...you settle for under 6 fig career when you had the capability of making 6-7 figs using your talent.. Society pressure you to take the settle route than achieving your potential or you stop pushing yourself cause a simple situation present itself.. You take it but it you would've waited or push yourself you could've achieved greatness or a more fulfilling achievement... Like I said there are a lot of miserable people in situations that could be happy if they made better choices or pushed themselves but they settled... Maybe some people are pushing themselves to reach maximum potential and didn't just throw in a towel cause an ok significant other appeared.. As a comedian said once b4 you ever had your wife stare quietly at you with a screw face for no single reason..well it's because she's thinking why didn't I go with the better choice.. That joke can go towards many people who look at their significant other , their job situation, cause I'm pretty sure some of you have done that and go why the fuck am I in this position... This is not for the happy individuals but the miserable
Juss to give an example I know quiet a few dudes when it came to a career choice or in a relationship who def have had regrets on their decisions... Some are applying themselves to change their situations to give them a better peace of mind cause when you get older you understand how truly important it is...peace of mind is 1 of the main goals to aim for and will not settle for less
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By nature, women are designed to reproduce and nurture relationships
Just because a chick is a celebrity dime, that doesnt mean she has the core skills to make a relationship work....Core skills such as: taking accountability when required to, conflict resolution skills, communication skills, etc.
On the other hand, you got regular chicks who are 7's but they have those core skills and no problems maintaining their relationships/marriages.
On the other hand, you got regular chicks who are 7's but they have those core skills and no problems maintaining their relationships/marriages.
Now when applied to romantic relationships... How does always looking for the B.B.D. equate to any kind of long term success??? Maybe their goal is to fuck as many people until they can cash their chips in. Maybe they are one of those rare people who don't want a comited relationship. But there really aren't that many opportunities to find a person that checks most of the superficial boxes AND the relationship, business, intellectual boxes that actually wants your ass back. Add to the fact that people really aren't as special to others as the view themselves to be and the "not settling" in a relationship sense just doesn't seem to work as a strategy. Playing musical careers is one thing, you can sell a house, get another car and continue to go bigger/better so long as you have money to do so. But none of that promises you a perfect mate. So while I understand the concept. I just see it as a flawed way to view the process of selecting a life partner. But most of my guy friends I went to college with. Married, kids, what I consider real world happy. The women... Some got married and are real world happy. Most of them... Getting older, throwing themselves into their careers,(working for other people) slowly getting harder to deal with as people.
After my hours of profound research on Mya and Ashanti, I came to the conclusion that Mya Harrison is a Dyke not ready to come out and say it, based on her comments on how she loves the woman body and hangs out a female strip clubs she is a low key carpet muncher really don't want dick probably dating another female entertainer on the low.
Case B, Ashanti Douglas as thick and fine as she is and trust me she knows this, I came to the conclusion she is a real bitch arrogant rude and expects you to eat her pussy and asshole and chase it down with a cup of her piss in a champagne glass, probably doesn't really like to swallow ya nuts either, so after a while of getting your rocks of between those thighs you probably get over it real quick because the bitch is obnoxious annoying and thinks she is gods gifts to the human race and salty she sexier the 99% of all female artist but cant sniff nowhere near a smash hit anymore .
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Case B, Ashanti Douglas as thick and fine as she is and trust me she knows this, I came to the conclusion she is a real bitch arrogant rude and expects you to eat her pussy and asshole and chase it down with a cup of her piss in a champagne glass, probably doesn't really like to swallow ya nuts either, so after a while of getting your rocks of between those thighs you probably get over it real quick because the bitch is obnoxious annoying and thinks she is gods gifts to the human race and salty she sexier the 99% of all female artist but cant sniff nowhere near a smash hit anymore .
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Umm, you do know Mya been thru a few industry nuccas right?
http://whosdatedwho.com/dating/mya
And here's Ashanti
http://whosdatedwho.com/dating/ashanti
And probably right about Ashanti or she's just trying to land someone with financial backing that she will be ok and not mistreated. Who knows.
People ask why some aren't married or have kids and I gave you 1 reason why it's possible... The situations that were put on the table wouldn't made them happy in the long run or wasn't going to be longevity so they didn't compromise and settle for limited satisfaction due to society pressures.. People that aren't married by 30+ or have kids get scrutinized by others on some why aren't you married yet or have any kids and some people due to society pressures start worrying about fitting in to a mold and than jump head first into certain situations that really isn't the perfect fit but do so cause they believe it's what they have to do in order to follow society concept...than theres others that go fuck that bullshit and say juss because the best opportunity hasn't present itself yet doesn't mean it won't happen and wait it outNow when applied to romantic relationships... How does always looking for the B.B.D. equate to any kind of long term success??? Maybe their goal is to fuck as many people until they can cash their chips in. Maybe they are one of those rare people who don't want a comited relationship. But there really aren't that many opportunities to find a person that checks most of the superficial boxes AND the relationship, business, intellectual boxes that actually wants your ass back. Add to the fact that people really aren't as special to others as the view themselves to be and the "not settling" in a relationship sense just doesn't seem to work as a strategy. Playing musical careers is one thing, you can sell a house, get another car and continue to go bigger/better so long as you have money to do so. But none of that promises you a perfect mate. So while I understand the concept. I just see it as a flawed way to view the process of selecting a life partner. But most of my guy friends I went to college with. Married, kids, what I consider real world happy. The women... Some got married and are real world happy. Most of them... Getting older, throwing themselves into their careers,(working for other people) slowly getting harder to deal with as people.
Either she doesn't know how to keep a man, or she doesn't want to keep a man.
Word. Alot of these chicks waste some time chasing/being with the dudes that aren't ready to settle down. Once out of those relationships/situations, they now have a desire to avoid anything that feels like settling. Essentially, they've missed their window. Now these chicks are in their late thirties and the dudes around them in the same age bracket don't fit the mold they want
Marriage isn't for everyone. Even bad bitches.
Now these women are in their late 30's/ early 40's and the men their age are now established and have access to women they deem more viable of their attention and attentiveness.
Those women happen to be not them. Or if they are choose it is on the man's terms.
The same women that spend their 20's and early 30's getting dicked down by men in their late 30's early 40's are the same women who complain about men not dating women their own age when they reach their late 30's early 40's....
The irony.
*two cents*
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Marriage isn't for everyone. Even bad bitches.
I'm sorry, what did you say??? All I heard was tittys...
WHY would a WOMAN ever REALLY need to get married? She has got the PRIZE that SOME MEN will PAY anything to get. If SHE has any SKILLZ at all there is an ENDLESS POOL of MEN, all she has to do it PICK from he RIGHT POOL of them.
Naa it’s not that simple. Women out number men, due to several different reasons. If you say theirs 10 women and only 5 available guys. Well the other 5 women will be short period or have to share a man. Every woman can’t be married or be in a relationship. Simply because theirs not enough good guys available.
“Oprah” is Hypogamy even though she’s not married. Which puzzle me why her and Stedman not married and they been together since 1986.
This is most definitely a mathematical and statistical truth.
But in addition to that reality marriage itself as an institution or lifestyle choice is not as culturally popular or expected as it once was.
Marriages themselves are suffering from a higher failure or divorce rate than years before. Sometimes there may be a slight bump in successful marriages or marriages period.
Dividing the numbers by race or ethnicity the black marriage rate has been suffering and declining for years.
So True.
And Hollywood is just FULL of hot yet emotionally damaged dime pieces.
2 high profile names that immediately come to mind:
Halle Berry and her BFF Vivica A. Fox.
2 beautiful and desireable women who are seemingly incapable of establishing and maintaining loving relationships with men.
WHY would a WOMAN ever REALLY need to get married? She has got the PRIZE that SOME MEN will PAY anything to get. If SHE has any SKILLZ at all there is an ENDLESS POOL of MEN, all she has to do it PICK from he RIGHT POOL of them.
Hate to go there man but this is classic simp thinking...pure simp talk.
Don't worry I used to think the same way. Ex-simp speaking here.
When they say it's a man's world they ain't lying but you have to be a man of some means. Yes a chick does have some advantage in life or dating or whatever by being attractive or by using her body or looks or sexuality. But if you look at it those assets are just commodities. They're resources. When a person or individual of any gender has resources they have an advantage because of those resources. If they use those resources or advantages properly or are just more resourceful when they lack certain resources or advantages they can sometimes succeed where others can't or have more trouble. Women typically value relationships over sex but sex is much easier for women to find then it is for men because of our high testerone levels and because society generally discourages more aggressive females when it comes to sex or sexual partners. That has changed or lessened somewhat in the last few decades but is still generally true.
Damn a lot of gems are being dropped here
Love the views and the posts!props on the convo !
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