2 Questions - how is it certain chick's never get wifed?...

The longer a man and woman go bouncing in and out of relationships the more likely they will be fucked up to live with. Not to say they couldn't find someone who's level of fucked up works for them but the chances get slimmer as the years go on. Especially if you are a female because of looks fading. Men's earning potential keeps them in the game to a degree but even that goes only so far if you ain't making yacht and mansion money. After a while you find people saying things like marriage ain't for them and they ain't trying to be in a relationship anyway but most of that is just "taking my ball and going home" talk. Nobody wants to be that person who's body is found partly eaten by their pet while the TV is still playing because they been dead for days and their pet ain't eaten and nobodies around to check on you.
 
As far as dancers , they've had these things called go go bars for decades...chicks in outfits that don't get naked..nj is 1 of them states that are legendary for having those... Half naked girls performing tricks and giving lapdances .. A broad with a fat ass in a g string shaking it 2 feet from your face or putting it on your lap and grinding on your crouch is easily understandable on how they can influence dudes to throw money on them
 
I look at these chick's
Mya
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https://goo.gl/images/iJTrkr
https://goo.gl/images/L7TFQn


Tracee Ellis Ross
https://goo.gl/images/y6Q9Ah
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https://goo.gl/images/6rs5sG

And wonder why? Is it the baggage? Is it the mind? Just something I just never understood ...
Also, why aren't strippers getting naked and still make money!?



BRUH....you need to read up on "hypergamy" and "red pill male" and "briffaut's law". understanding these things will explain everything you need to know.
every woman esp western women expect and strive to secure the best male possible that she can get. this leads to chicks that know they are 5 and 6s trying to date up the male scale to 7,8,9s. but another 5 or 6 male wouldnt get the time of day. some women call it their bad boy phase or wild phase. whatever you call it, no guy wants damage used up multichildren females when he has worked hard to achieve his best state. IT BOILS DOWN TO CHOICES. WOMEN HAVE LOTS OF CHOICE IN THEIR EARLY YEARS AND MANY MAKE POOR CHOICES THAT STAY WITH THEM FOR LIFE.....BAD BOYS, CHILDREN BY THEM, DRUGS, PARTYING, FUQING OVER GOOD GUYS, ETC... AND THEN WHEN THEY GET OLDER AND TIRED OF RIDING WHAT SOME CALL THE COCK CAROUSEL, THEY LOOK TO WISE UP OR LIFE KICK THEM IN THE TEETH OR SETTLE DOWN WITH A BETA OR WHATEVER THEY CAN GET. SOME NEVER SETTLE AND CONTINUE TO THINK THEIR SEXUAL MARKET PLACE VALUE (MYA/TRACEE/ETC---ALL FINE BEAUTIFUL WOMEN) WILL BE HIGH FOREVER....ITS NOT. <--- THESE HIT THE WALL THE WORST BC THEY END UP SINGLE ALONE WITH CATS OR CRYING WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN MY AGE.
I THINK WOMEN CANT HELP THEIR HYPERGAMOUS NATURE BUT IT SCREWS THEM OVER IN THE WORST WAY BC IT IS AMPLIFIED BY FB, SNAPCHAT, INSTAGRAM, AND ALL THESE INTERNET THIRSTY DUDES THAT GAS WOMEN UP. THEY WILL PASS OVER/ SCREW OVER A GOOD MAN FOR THE NEXT BETTER THING...ALWAYS LOOKING TO UPGRADE. SOONER OR LATER TIME CATCHES UP WITH YOU AND YOU CANT UPGRADE AND END UP BEING OLD AND ALONE. SOME WOMEN CAN HANDLE BUT MOST CAN NOT AND HANG OUT WITH THEIR GIRLFRIENDS ALOT BUT NEVER FIND ANY MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A GROWN MAN OUTSIDE THEIR ADULT SONS.

WOMEN HAVE THE ALL THE POWER AND CHOICES UP FRONT AND EARLY ~ 18-30. MEN GET THEIR CHOICES LATER IN LIFE 30+ AND IT LASTS LONGER. THATS JUST THE WAY NATURE MADE IT.

I TELL ALL YOUNGER MEN TAKE YOUR TIME GETTING MARRIED. VET HER PROPERLY. JUST AS SHE SHOULD YOU. EVEN THEN THINGS CHANGE. SEE BRIFFAUT'S LAW.

Briffaut’s Law, another of the key concepts of The Red Pill, encapsulates male powerlessness as an eternal truth: “The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.”

its a vicious unforgiving cycle that fucking up america, our homes and particularly the black community. how many times have you heard black women say.....im smart, educated, making money, and handle my own business and SINGLE unable to find a good man (<--- hypergamy is what kills these women) i tell women all the time stop listening to your girlfriend about men unless she is happily married and can openly discuss male issue without getting emotional. real talk in other words...not based on feelings.
 
Peace,

Believe it or not, there are women who don’t want to get married. A lot of men believe that all women are just sitting around waiting for a cat to put a ring on it but some chicks value their freedom and independence just as much as we do.
 
Peace,

Believe it or not, there are women who don’t want to get married. A lot of men believe that all women are just sitting around waiting for a cat to put a ring on it but some chicks value their freedom and independence just as much as we do.

The rare exception to the rule if true.

ALL women NEED a man. 'Need' varying for woman to woman.

Now Mya & Ross might not need a man in their life for nothing but dick and career guidance but most women don't roll like that.

I don't buy that independent shit for a second. The gov't is 'Daddy' to a lot of these chicks quiet as it's kept.

@tallblacknyc Them chicks who don't 'need' a man via a romantic or resources based relationship DAMN sure lean on a man for GUIDANCE. Please tell me I'm wrong.

*two cents*
 
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That one post (jsmh)
Hypergamy...

The men that THEY WANT either....

- Don't want them.

- Had them and are done with them.


- Know better/can do better.

Simple.

*two cents*
I hear this...

Peace,

Believe it or not, there are women who don’t want to get married. A lot of men believe that all women are just sitting around waiting for a cat to put a ring on it but some chicks value their freedom and independence just as much as we do.
I get that .

The exception to the rule.

Most women NEED a man. 'Need' varying for woman to woman.

Now Mya & Ross might not need a man in their life for nothing but most women don't roll like that.

I don't but that independent shit for a second. The gov't is 'Daddy' to a lot of these chicks quite as it's kept.

*two cents*
OK, just Curious as to what people thought
 
The longer a man and woman go bouncing in and out of relationships the more likely they will be fucked up to live with. Not to say they couldn't find someone who's level of fucked up works for them but the chances get slimmer as the years go on. Especially if you are a female because of looks fading. Men's earning potential keeps them in the game to a degree but even that goes only so far if you ain't making yacht and mansion money. After a while you find people saying things like marriage ain't for them and they ain't trying to be in a relationship anyway but most of that is just "taking my ball and going home" talk. Nobody wants to be that person who's body is found partly eaten by their pet while the TV is still playing because they been dead for days and their pet ain't eaten and nobodies around to check on you.

Who the fuck cares you'd be dead.

Let the dog and the maggots feast ....

It's not like you taking that body with you to your next life...

So let the muthafucka get recycled B....
 
Peace,

The exception to the rule.

Most women NEED a man. 'Need' varying for woman to woman.

Now Mya & Ross might not need a man in their life for nothing but most women don't roll like that.

I don't but that independent shit for a second. The gov't is 'Daddy' to a lot of these chicks quite as it's kept.

*two cents*

Women are more complex than you give them credit for man.

There are plenty of women who don’t comfortably operate within the traditional framework of male/female relationships. Brothers like to think that black women are struggling without us but, statistically speaking, one can easily make a case for the opposite being true. Black women are out earning us, outliving us and generally happier than us. I certainly won’t make the argument that they don’t need us but quite a few of them are deciding that they don’t need marriage.
 
Who the fuck cares you'd be dead.

Let the dog and the maggots feast ....

It's not like you taking that body with you to your next life...

So let the muthafucka get recycled B....
I feel you. It's just the thought of giving up the ghost with nobody there and nobody knowing you gave up the ghost. Dying alone. It's a possibility when you live alone. Hell you could go out like Elvis and nobody but the dog or cat would know until your people got curious about you not returning calls.
 
OK, just Curious as to what people thought

ALL women NEED men.

Directly, indirectly.

Consciously, subconsciously.

Overtly, covertly.

That "INDEPENDENT/BOSS BITCH" shit is a facade. Every woman has a man in her life to some capacity that they pull good on...

For resources...

For connections...

For money...

For protection...

For guidance...

For company...

For love...

For sex...


Women NEED men. Our ATTENTION/ATTENTIVENESS is valuable to them.

So don't ever give that shit away for free.


EVER.

*two cents*
 
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I feel you. It's just the thought of giving up the ghost with nobody there and nobody knowing you gave up the ghost. Dying alone. It's a possibility when you live alone. Hell you could go out like Elvis and nobody but the dog or cat would know until your people got curious about you not returning calls.

That wouldn't bother me at all

Though I know I got more than enough fam and friends who would

Miss my presence. ..

But to me there is something beautifully serene about living a memorable life and being able to relive it in memory your last days..

In solitude..

Sheet I ain't even 45 yet and I got a lifetime of dope memories...

And I ain't even half way done yet..
 
Peace,



Women are more complex than you give them credit for man.

There are plenty of women who don’t comfortably operate within the traditional framework of male/female relationships. Brothers like to think that black women are struggling without us but, statistically speaking, one can easily make a case for the opposite being true. Black women are out earning us, outliving us and generally happier than us. I certainly won’t make the argument that they don’t need us but quite a few of them are deciding that they don’t need marriage.

They are not that complicated.

We are not that complicated.

To deduce it down to the root.

All great societies are built on the backs of men.

Period.


To quote a comedian, "If women ruled the world we'd be living in mud floor huts with silk drapes over the window holes."

Everything else fits into that over arching theme.

I've been in some hairy situations in my life and trust me when I tell you I've seen the hardest bull dyke turn into a damsel in distress when the shots ranged out.

Don't let this 3rd & 4th wave feminist dogma trip you up for a second fam. They'd be nothing without us.

Nothing.

Lastly, to the 'Black Women out doing Black Men' comment....

Why do you think that is? By their own hand? Or by a system put in place by OTHER MEN structurally built to generate and maintain dysfunction in a community.

"BLACK WOMEN RUN SHIT!" well how is that working out? Most of all...for black women?!? Isn't the deafening lamentation "WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN!?!"


*two cents*
 
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People are either for purpose or function. A woman of purpose has value to the people in her life. A woman of function serves on purpose. Women know if they are purpose or function women. Stop feeling sorry for or worrying about em.
 
Peace,

Believe it or not, there are women who don’t want to get married. A lot of men believe that all women are just sitting around waiting for a cat to put a ring on it but some chicks value their freedom and independence just as much as we do.

Peace,



Women are more complex than you give them credit for man.

There are plenty of women who don’t comfortably operate within the traditional framework of male/female relationships. Brothers like to think that black women are struggling without us but, statistically speaking, one can easily make a case for the opposite being true. Black women are out earning us, outliving us and generally happier than us. I certainly won’t make the argument that they don’t need us but quite a few of them are deciding that they don’t need marriage.

Marriage ain't for everyone. The same way some dudes don't get married, some chicks don't either.

And especially these days when financially, you can hold your own.

It's just not for everyone the way society wants it to be.
Couldn’t have said it better myself
 
That wouldn't bother me at all

Though I know I got more than enough fam and friends who would

Miss my presence. ..

But to me there is something beautifully serene about living a memorable life and being able to relive it in memory your last days..

In solitude..

Sheet I ain't even 45 yet and I got a lifetime of dope memories...

And I ain't even half way done yet..
I lost my older brother last month. He died due to complications from his surgery for colon cancer. His test results came back and he beat the cancer but due to other issues he had his body couldn't handle the strain of the surgery. I know this is an entirely different scenario but I could see the fear in his eyes whenever they tried to induce him into sleep so the respiratory machine could work better. He would physically fight so they had to restrain him. He knew. He used to tell me last year that if he goes in that hospital he ain't coming out.

I've seen a few people die and never seen anyone do it without some sort of fear.
 
It's a different time we are living in as well

Many folks see the whole marriage thing as one big scam ...

From the over priced dress that's only going to be worn once...

To the diamond ring... thats not worth half of what you paid for it.

In this digital age marriage is not as feasible as it once was...
 
It's a different time we are living in as well

Many folks see the whole marriage thing as one big scam ...

From the over priced dress that's only going to be worn once...

To the diamond ring... thats not worth half of what you paid for it.

In this digital age marriage is not as feasible as it once was...
I can agree with this to a LARGE DEGREE. I just don't think it's meant for humans to walk their life alone.
 
I lost my older brother last month. He died due to complications from his surgery for colon cancer. His test results came back and he beat the cancer but due to other issues he had his body couldn't handle the strain of the surgery. I know this is an entirely different scenario but I could see the fear in his eyes whenever they tried to induce him into sleep so the respiratory machine could work better. He would physically fight so they had to restrain him. He knew. He used to tell me last year that if he goes in that hospital he ain't coming out.

I've seen a few people die and never seen anyone do it without some sort of fear.

No doubt because we been trained to think death is a bad thing...

Most of us dont realize it's actually a beginning of a beautiful peaceful thing..

Of course only if you know this and didn't do anything stupid like sell your soul for trinkets and waning fame..

Hospitals are the fuckin worst..

So many people go in with one thing and come out with ten other things..

But I digress.. ..

Here is to your bro finding peace and going

Home...
 
Each woman has her own reasons or situation(s). Whether it makes sense to you and I is moot. It makes sense to them and I rarely waste time trying to figure it out. If she doesn't want to commit, so be it. Next.
 
No doubt because we been trained to think death is a bad thing...

Most of us dont realize it's actually a beginning of a beautiful peaceful thing..

Of course only if you know this and didn't do anything stupid like sell your soul for trinkets and waning fame..

Hospitals are the fuckin worst..

So many people go in with one thing and come out with ten other things..

But I digress.. ..

Here is to your bro finding peace and going

Home...
I appreciate that bruh.
 
I think social standards keeping saying that only men can't be dateable (no money, boring, physical appearance like height and etc) but I don't believe that. There's a lot of women that ain't shit, trust. She maybe getting approached or fucked but having someone stick with you is a different fucking game and I'm not just talking about marriage. I just think there are women that's not worth being around with regardless of how they look.

That's why I laugh when you hear older women with no kids or never being in a relationship talk about working on themselves, or no men are worth their time. You will they this more with all this #metoo and white feminism shit now. The only exception is intimacy issues or traumatic experiences (rape victim) the woman experienced. Humans are social creatures.

Humans of NY had a woman like this in her late 40s thinking about adopting victimizing herself.
 
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WHY would a WOMAN ever REALLY need to get married? She has got the PRIZE that SOME MEN will PAY anything to get. If SHE has any SKILLZ at all there is an ENDLESS POOL of MEN, all she has to do it PICK from he RIGHT POOL of them.

:dunno::dunno::dunno:
 
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