Real talk here...does this really happen to men?

i've had that problem with a 2 or 3 women who i didn't feel a connection with sexually,,, i would have to tell them to turn around then hit it doggystle, while sometimes pretending they are someone else (celebrity, neighbor, etc) & then i could bust,,, it's a mental block,,, if he's having this problem with wifey, then he should NOT get married
 
Ima hafta cosign this shid. I had a girl that thought I was Superman, but on the real I was already brunt out from hitting another chic. This was back in my ole sinful days:lol::lol::lol:
lol he prolly scared if he nutt she might see that not much coming out
 


Men fake orgasms?????!! WTH??? Where is this thread at? OMG!
:lol:

Up until the 'thread' I thought I was the only one.................................boy was a I wrong. We just don't discuss that shit with each other and women don't know. I could have lived until 100 and would have thought I was the only guy mastered that art.

I mean sometimes I should be in tears holding a golden statue thanking god...........I need an award!!! As you just found out, ya'll don't even know it happens.
 
lol @men faking it.

one of the funniest thread i read on here.

I really don't know or want to know how men fake orgasms seems like some of the cats in that thread must be on some heavy drugs.
 
Dude may just have a mental block. That shit has happened to me often. Sometimes, I just wasn't into the woman emotionally. I was afraid to gt her knocked up. It could be a host of issues.

Women do that shit all the time and no one sees anything wrong with a woman not having an orgasm during every sexual encounter.
 
when i drink (sometimes when i'm sober) it's damn near impossible to get a nut. especially with a condom on. it don't matter how good da pussy is.
 
Has she actually sat down and had a conversation with him about this? That would be the best approach to the problem.

She said she did and he said she should be glad he can go a long time. :lol:

She says it makes her feel like something is wrong with her that he can't get off all the time.

I want to see this thread about men faking orgasm. Damn...I'm in my late
30's and have never heard of this stuff! LOL Just wow.
 
There is nothing wrong with him, it happens to me sometimes. I just keep going and going, I don't have to get mine everytime. I'm more concerned with my girl getting hers..

c/s i can usually control when i nut in order to make sure i completely pleased my woman but the bad side effect to this is sumtime she is worn completely out b4 i even realize i need to get mine.
ive faked a nut plenty times jus so that she doesnt think i didnt njoyd myself.


i love to bust a nut but watchin a woman cum/orgasm/squirt/gyrate in bed is even better to me
 
My man's wife hooked me up with her cuz....

I smashed three consecutive nights and aint buss.

I had to leave shorty alone. That was yrs back.

In that situation, I was CHASING a nut.

But it's been times since I been older that I'll stop sex prematurely

and not feel a way about it.

Some chicks make you buss faster than others...some is more work.

I'm not marrying a chick If I cant buss off.....naaaah
 
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Damn, she right!!! :yes:
 
i've had that problem with a 2 or 3 women who i didn't feel a connection with sexually,,, i would have to tell them to turn around then hit it doggystle, while sometimes pretending they are someone else (celebrity, neighbor, etc) & then i could bust,,, if he's having this problem with wifey, then he should NOT get married

pretending they someone else lol dang man that's wild.
 
Hmmm...I don't think it's a macho thing. From what she has told me, even when they first started having sex, he would come sometimes, but not all the time, it just depends. Doesn't sound like a macho thing. He told her he just doesn't come all the time, even if it feels good to him.

If he doesn't think it's a "problem" that he doesn't come then he must take some sort of pride in it. Release is the natural and expected thing. Every time he gets hard for long periods of time and doesn't come it's extremely unhealthy physically (and probably mentally too, for both of them).
 
If he doesn't think it's a "problem" that he doesn't come then he must take some sort of pride in it. Release is the natural and expected thing. Every time he gets hard for long periods of time and doesn't come it's extremely unhealthy physically (and probably mentally too, for both of them).

The "blue balls" thing is a myth. I don't think it hurts a man physically if he can't come, but I'm not 100% sure about that.
 
Up until the 'thread' I thought I was the only one.................................boy was a I wrong. We just don't discuss that shit with each other and women don't know. I could have lived until 100 and would have thought I was the only guy mastered that art.

I mean sometimes I should be in tears holding a golden statue thanking god...........I need an award!!! As you just found out, ya'll don't even know it happens.

:roflmao::roflmao:

OH HELL NAW!!!

WHERE IS THIS THREAD DAMMIT????!!!!!!!!!!!
:lol::lol::lol:
 
Also, dude may not even want to have sex. It bugs me out how men are considered sexually dysfunctional if they don't bust a nut especially when we get older because sex becomes more than just busting a nut.
 
The "blue balls" thing is a myth. I don't think it hurts a man physically if he can't come, but I'm not 100% sure about that.

No myth. Maybe he's using Viagra. Lots of pornstars do. Read what the precautions say about erections that last for long periods of time. Not healthy at all.
 

IT HAPPENS TO ME. ALWAYS HAS. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO "CUM" QUICKLY , BUT SOMETIMES AND IT DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN FOR ME, I JUST DONT CUM. I CAN JUST GO ALL NIGHT. I DONT KNOW WHY, BUT THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES THAT I GET FRUSTRATED THAT I CANT FINISH. OF COURSE THEY LOVE IT BUT I DONT. THEN I HAVE HAD WOMEN IN MY LIFE WHERE I GET OFF ALL THE TIME NO PROBLEM. I DONT KNOW, IT MUST BE CHEMISTRY OR SOMETHING.

I'm like that too kind of sometimes.
 
No myth. Maybe he's using Viagra. Lots of pornstars do. Read what the precautions say about erections that last for long periods of time. Not healthy at all.

blunt you are absolutely right I never heard of someone having a erection that last a super long time that's not normal nor healthy.
 
Also, dude may not even want to have sex. It bugs me out how men are considered sexually dysfunctional if they don't bust a nut especially when we get older because sex becomes more than just busting a nut.

If he didn't want to have sex he wouldn't get hard in the first place. "Busting a nut" is a totally different thing. He has to TRY not to do that once he's been hard for a while.
 
Dude is just an immature fool who thinks it's MACHO to hold out forever, not realizing that it's a stupid and dangerous thing to do to himself and that there are limits to what a woman wants to be subjected to sexually.

BLUNT YOU ARE A FUCKING IDIOT. NOT ALL MEN CUM ALL THE FUCKING TIME. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM BEING IMMATURE. IT COULD BE MANY DIFFERENT THINGS. SHE MAY NOT TURN HIM ON , OR LIKE THE POSITIONS THAT TURN HIM ON. HE MIGHT JERK OFF TOO MUCH, OR BE TAKING SOMETHING THAT MAKES IT HARD FOR HIM TO REACH THAT POINT. OR HE JUST MIGHT BE A CAT THAT HAS PROBLEMS BUSTING OFF. IT HAPPENS AND WILL VARY WITH DIFFERENT PARTNERS. SHIT SHE JUST MIGHT BE BAD IN BED. YOU NEED TO STOP TALKING ABOUT WHAT YOU DONT KNOW.

THE MORE YOU FUCKING TALK , THE DUMBER THE PEOPLE WHO LISTEN TO YOU GET.
 
I'm learning a lot tonight...Damn!
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Lack of orgasm
The cause is the prolonged sexual stimulation of the erect penis (intentional or unintentional), that does not result in orgasm and ejaculation. This can, in some circumstances, be a consensual sexual act as part of erotic sexual denial.

During sexual arousal in a male, the parasympathetic nervous system increases its inputs to the genital tissues, resulting in increased blood flow to the testicles and prostate areas. As this happens, other fluid outflow muscles constrict, causing less bodily fluid to leave the area than enter, ensuring a high enough regional blood pressure to allow a sustained erection for penetration during sexual intercourse. Erection occurs with the parasympathetic nervous system's local release of nitric oxide, causing relaxation of the smooth muscles in the arteries of the corpus cavernosum and resulting in blood engorgement.

If orgasm is not achieved, blood and lymphatic fluid tend to pool, and the blood becomes oxygen-deprived. The technical term for this is vasocongestion.

Some men may deprive themselves of an orgasm purposely to prolong sexual activity. Their sexual partner may also request that they refrain from ejaculation for a longer period to increase their duration of sex. If this is the case, massaging the testicles or using a vibrator on the testicles during the prolonged sexual activity may prevent the blood from pooling and actually prevent or decrease the severity of blue balls.

Men with priapism or orchialgia may experience an extreme, prolonged form of blue balls, which may require medical attention.
 
The "blue balls" thing is a myth. I don't think it hurts a man physically if he can't come, but I'm not 100% sure about that.

Don't listen to blunt.

Any man in here been with a woman long enough knows many time you didnt' want to have sex. EArly in the morning when we have to leave you dont. You women that are nice just give us the quicky, not looking to get off for youself. Teamwork.

We come home you sleep and we like :hmm:.................."whats up with the puss??????????" You like " I am tired I just worked 12 fuckign hours and gave you some right before work!!!!" :(

We like :hmm:

You like :("OK come on".


Turns out some of the smart men in the world do the same shit to keep the peace.
 
BLUNT YOU ARE A FUCKING IDIOT. NOT ALL MEN CUM ALL THE FUCKING TIME. IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM BEING IMMATURE. IT COULD BE MANY DIFFERENT THINGS. SHE MAY NOT TURN HIM ON , OR LIKE THE POSITIONS THAT TURN HIM ON. HE MIGHT JERK OFF TOO MUCH, OR BE TAKING SOMETHING THAT MAKES IT HARD FOR HIM TO REACH THAT POINT. OR HE JUST MIGHT BE A CAT THAT HAS PROBLEMS BUSTING OFF. IT HAPPENS AND WILL VARY WITH DIFFERENT PARTNERS. SHIT SHE JUST MIGHT BE BAD IN BED. YOU NEED TO STOP TALKING ABOUT WHAT YOU DONT KNOW.

THE MORE YOU FUCKING TALK , THE DUMBER THE PEOPLE WHO LISTEN TO YOU GET.

I have to agree with this in the fact that men aren't machines. I think it's unfair to think that men can just come like 1-2-3. Obviously it's more common that we think or know. I guess people just don't talk about it. I honestly didn't think men had trouble cumming, I have never experienced this with a man before. However, I have never thought like Blunt does!
 
The "blue balls" thing is a myth. I don't think it hurts a man physically if he can't come, but I'm not 100% sure about that.

ITS NO MYTH MAMA. ITS CAUSED BY FLUID BUILD UP IN THE TESTICLES CAUSED BY LONG PERIODS OF SEXUAL AROUSAL. I HAD IT A FEW TIMES WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER WHEN ME AND MY GIRL WOULD FOOL AROUND ALL DAY AND NOT ACTUALLY DO ANYTHING. IT FELT LIKE A DULL PAIN IN MY NUTS.
 
I have to agree with this in the fact that men aren't machines. I think it's unfair to think that men can just come like 1-2-3. Obviously it's more common that we think or know. I guess people just don't talk about it. I honestly didn't think men had trouble cumming, I have never experienced this with a man before. However, I have never thought like Blunt does!

I've never had problems cumming people that do they need to go to the doctor to get a checkup cause they might have a blockage somewhere. I find it normal and healthy to bust especially if you having sex I mean how can someone not bust if they are having sex with a female that's weird to me.
 
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