Real talk here...does this really happen to men?

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Serious talk..

My friend is supposed to get married in August this year and she told me tonight that her man does NOT cum all the time when they make love, he comes sometimes and other times he goes on and on with sex and stays hard, but can't come, but he tells her he is satisfied! I have never heard of a man having trouble cumming. Ya'll ever heard of anything like this or for the few brave souls who want to admit they have had trouble? :confused:

Please don't clown. I feel for this sista. She is now worried or doubting should she marry this man.
 
happens to me sometimes when i drink, i just wont nutt, I keep going and going till im tired then stop, its ok but not as good as busting a nutt
 
only happens if the pussy is wack
dont cum and satisfied
for a man?
doubt hes telling the truth.
 
happens to me sometimes when i drink, i just wont nutt, I keep going and going till im tired then stop, its ok but not as good as busting a nutt

Co/sign
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he prolly got other chics on the side, if she was his main chic busting a nutt wouldnt be a prob
 
There is nothing wrong with him, it happens to me sometimes. I just keep going and going, I don't have to get mine everytime. I'm more concerned with my girl getting hers..
 
Serious talk..

My friend is supposed to get married in August this year and she told me tonight that her man does NOT cum all the time when they make love, he comes sometimes and other times he goes on and on with sex and stays hard, but can't come, but he tells her he is satisfied! I have never heard of a man having trouble cumming. Ya'll ever heard of anything like this or for the few brave souls who want to admit they have had trouble? :confused:

Please don't clown. I feel for this sista. She is now worried or doubting should she marry this man.

can't speak for every dude. my 2nd nut in a session takes a lot of effort
the 3rd one most times doesn't happen unless the female lets me get into
some phreaky shit with her. :lol: its how my body is.

so if i know the female got that good good. i'd handle my first before
seeing her. then have her working hard to get me off for the 2nd one.
 
There is nothing wrong with him, it happens to me sometimes. I just keep going and going, I don't have to get mine everytime. I'm more concerned with my girl getting hers..

yeah but it is highly strange if you fucking a chick for a long period of time and you don't nutt that is odd.
 
Does she come all the time?

We had a thread with men that have 'faked it'. Shit happens, don't mean shit. She talk too much, she need to join a message board. :lol: :lol:
 
I appreciate the honest answers. She thinks something is wrong with her, or with him! I had never heard of it before. You always hear about premature ejaculation, but not this.
 
Happens to me sometimes.

It a mental thing. If you have master your mental shit, then you can choose when you bust. Sometime, esp after my first nut, I fuck just to please her. Once she gets one (or two), I take the rubber off, wash my dick off, get back in the bed and go to sleep.

It happens, its not that unusual.
 
Dude is just an immature fool who thinks it's MACHO to hold out forever, not realizing that it's a stupid and dangerous thing to do to himself and that there are limits to what a woman wants to be subjected to sexually.
 
There is nothing wrong with him, it happens to me sometimes. I just keep going and going, I don't have to get mine everytime. I'm more concerned with my girl getting hers..
if u been with her for a while and u dont nutt all the time that pussy has to be whack or ur just tired of it
 
Happens to me sometimes with condoms. If your friend is using this as an excuse, she probably just doesn't want to get married.
 
I appreciate the honest answers. She thinks something is wrong with her, or with him! I had never heard of it before. You always hear about premature ejaculation, but not this.

I thought that stuff only happens in porn but in my real life I nutt if the pussy is bad or good it's just a instinct and my love for pussy.
 
Does she come all the time?

We had a thread with men that have 'faked it'. Shit happens, don't mean shit. She talk too much, she need to join a message board. :lol: :lol:



Men fake orgasms?????!! WTH??? Where is this thread at? OMG!
:lol:
 
If he is using protection, then the condoms may be too tight which decreases the sensaton.

With my ex, I used the gold pack trojans when I wanted to cum, but if she ever saw me grab those blue pack Trojans...she was like "uh oh". lol

Could go for quite some time.
 
he prolly got other chics on the side, if she was his main chic busting a nutt wouldnt be a prob

Ima hafta cosign this shid. I had a girl that thought I was Superman, but on the real I was already brunt out from hitting another chic. This was back in my ole sinful days:lol::lol::lol:
 
Serious talk..

My friend is supposed to get married in August this year and she told me tonight that her man does NOT cum all the time when they make love, he comes sometimes and other times he goes on and on with sex and stays hard, but can't come, but he tells her he is satisfied! I have never heard of a man having trouble cumming. Ya'll ever heard of anything like this or for the few brave souls who want to admit they have had trouble? :confused:

Please don't clown. I feel for this sista. She is now worried or doubting should she marry this man.

IT HAPPENS TO ME. ALWAYS HAS. I HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO "CUM" QUICKLY , BUT SOMETIMES AND IT DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN FOR ME, I JUST DONT CUM. I CAN JUST GO ALL NIGHT. I DONT KNOW WHY, BUT THERE HAVE BEEN TIMES THAT I GET FRUSTRATED THAT I CANT FINISH. OF COURSE THEY LOVE IT BUT I DONT. THEN I HAVE HAD WOMEN IN MY LIFE WHERE I GET OFF ALL THE TIME NO PROBLEM. I DONT KNOW, IT MUST BE CHEMISTRY OR SOMETHING.
 
certain prescription drugs can decrease the libido and/or make it difficult or impossible to have an orgasm. So if he's taking any medication, that my be the cause.

another possible cause could be performance anxiety. If he feels pressure to have an orgasm in 3 minutes or if he feels he needs to make her have a massive orgasm every single time, that might inhibit his ability to have an orgasm.

Has she actually sat down and had a conversation with him about this? That would be the best approach to the problem.
 
Dude is just an immature fool who thinks it's MACHO to hold out forever, not realizing that it's a stupid and dangerous thing to do to himself and that there are limits to what a woman wants to be subjected to sexually.

Hmmm...I don't think it's a macho thing. From what she has told me, even when they first started having sex, he would come sometimes, but not all the time, it just depends. Doesn't sound like a macho thing. He told her he just doesn't come all the time, even if it feels good to him.
 
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