As I got older I noticed this shit happening to me sometimes
Real talk here...does this really happen to men?
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Unless there's something physically wrong with him, he should be able to achieve orgasm through masturbation. If he can't, then he needs to see a doctor ASAP!
One exercise that a sex therapist will give a couple is to have the man masturbate to the point of "no return", and then initiate intercourse so that he can ejaculate into his partner. As long as he's physically healthy, getting her pregnant should not be a problem.
Wow. . . . It's confirmed Blunt's a woman.
No, it's not. That's why we get so mad when y'all be teasin' a motherfucker.
As for the issue, the guy may just have an issue with prolonged ejaculation. She might have to have her suck him off or take care of himself, up to the point of almost getting there, then dig her out.
Or, he could be on some anti-depressants
Or she could be wack in bed.
Or he jacks off too much to porn and has screwed up his ability to function with "real" women
Or he could be cheating and getting his nut somewhere else.
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He could be doing Kegels, and have built up his PC muscle to the point where he can orgasm without ejaculating...
I don't understand why females tell others females about their sex lifes?
1. Women are looked at as hoes if they have sex prior to marriage
2. Females like to talk, and will put all yo biz in the streets...the fact you made this thread is a good example
Serious talk..
My friend is supposed to get married in August this year and she told me tonight that her man does NOT cum all the time when they make love, he comes sometimes and other times he goes on and on with sex and stays hard, but can't come, but he tells her he is satisfied! I have never heard of a man having trouble cumming. Ya'll ever heard of anything like this or for the few brave souls who want to admit they have had trouble?
Please don't clown. I feel for this sista. She is now worried or doubting should she marry this man.
I don't understand why females tell others females about their sex lifes?
1. Women are looked at as hoes if they have sex prior to marriage
2. Females like to talk, and will put all yo biz in the streets...the fact you made this thread is a good example
me too. If some of the men on here were really getting pussy like they say they do, it would be like that for them too
But seriously, is it because you miss your wife and you can't get off with another woman?
Damn, this post has been eye opening and great.
So many women think that men don't have feelings and can get off like a machine in a woman. Now we know that it's just as emotional and/or psychological as it can be for a woman. Just wow.
Where do you get this misinformation? It's virtually impossible for a woman to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate.
Sperm is not in pre-ejaculate except after a recent ejaculation. There have been studies done, and out of those, none of the studies found sperm and a study after a recent ejaculate found sperm, but they were immobile.
There are too many people going around like you telling folks they can get pregnant with pre-ejaculate. It's a huge myth and was probably started by planned parenthood for some organization trying to scare teens.
Only a few sperm cells are in there IF ANY and having 1 or 2 sperm get a woman pregnant is astronomical odds. There is a reason that the average ejacuation contains HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of sperm. You need that many to get a good one.
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Where do you get this misinformation? It's virtually impossible for a woman to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate.
Sperm is not in pre-ejaculate except after a recent ejaculation. There have been studies done, and out of those, none of the studies found sperm and a study after a recent ejaculate found sperm, but they were immobile.
There are too many people going around like you telling folks they can get pregnant with pre-ejaculate. It's a huge myth and was probably started by planned parenthood for some organization trying to scare teens.
Only a few sperm cells are in there IF ANY and having 1 or 2 sperm get a woman pregnant is astronomical odds. There is a reason that the average ejacuation contains HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of sperm. You need that many to get a good one.
I first heard it on oprah years ago....
Women. 
Got a good man who puts it on ya. You're worried about how many times he comes? Enough to call off the wedding? And you, lola, call it a "problem"? Ya'll on some other shit. Everybody is human, not perfect. Sometimes ya feel like a nut, sometimes ya don't. Go ahead and tell ya girl to drop the guy and watch how fast somebody else snatches him up. Probably you.
Got a good man who puts it on ya. You're worried about how many times he comes? Enough to call off the wedding? And you, lola, call it a "problem"? Ya'll on some other shit. Everybody is human, not perfect. Sometimes ya feel like a nut, sometimes ya don't. Go ahead and tell ya girl to drop the guy and watch how fast somebody else snatches him up. Probably you.
Where do you get this misinformation? It's virtually impossible for a woman to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate.
Sperm is not in pre-ejaculate except after a recent ejaculation. There have been studies done, and out of those, none of the studies found sperm and a study after a recent ejaculate found sperm, but they were immobile.
There are too many people going around like you telling folks they can get pregnant with pre-ejaculate. It's a huge myth and was probably started by planned parenthood for some organization trying to scare teens.
Only a few sperm cells are in there IF ANY and having 1 or 2 sperm get a woman pregnant is astronomical odds. There is a reason that the average ejacuation contains HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of sperm. You need that many to get a good one.
Pre-ejaculate is the reason why "pulling out" is not an effective strategy for birth control. You can still get pregnant. The pregnancy rate is like 1 in 4 for pulling out.
C/S. I don't need to nut every time. I just like beating up the pussy. If I can beat it till it dries up completely, then I can stop. Nutting is too easy. Not nutting, well that takes some work.
Women.
It always has to be one to ruin the discussion.
Why the fuck are you angry?
Did you underperform for a woman and she left you or something?
I don't want her fucking man. I have a husband. Quit fucking around with ghetto chickenheads. Respectible, mature women don't do that shit.
I have to admit though...this was FUNNY!
Yes, but pulling out is based on when a man comes, so there are some sperm possibly deposited in the vagina.
Blunt's misinformed self was saying that a woman can get pregnant from some pre-cum, but nothing else and he doesn't need to ejaculate at all to get a female pregnant.
Nah, doesn't work like that.
Men fake orgasms?????!! WTH??? Where is this thread at? OMG!
Yes, men can fake orgasms. Also, ejaculation doesn't equate to an orgasm. 'Just because he came didn't mean you made him cum'-Chris Rock
Where do you get this misinformation? It's virtually impossible for a woman to get pregnant from pre-ejaculate.
Sperm is not in pre-ejaculate except after a recent ejaculation. There have been studies done, and out of those, none of the studies found sperm and a study after a recent ejaculate found sperm, but they were immobile.
There are too many people going around like you telling folks they can get pregnant with pre-ejaculate. It's a huge myth and was probably started by planned parenthood for some organization trying to scare teens.
Only a few sperm cells are in there IF ANY and having 1 or 2 sperm get a woman pregnant is astronomical odds. There is a reason that the average ejacuation contains HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS of sperm. You need that many to get a good one.
Um. . . No.
A guy does not have to get his nut off for a woman to get pregnant. There is sperm in pre-ejaculate. Now, some guys have more fluid than others based on a lot of factors, but there are plenty of pre-cum babies in this world.
It's not as bad as coming inside, but very possible.
We can now add "pulling out" to the list of many things that you speak with authority on, yet seem to not know a goddamned thing about. Please, use the pill, and make sure they all to wear condoms.
After I lost my son, I wasn't able to cum with my BM for a looooong time.
Even if I was to have sex with her now (which doesn't happen), it would be extremely hard to bust.
One time, with another girl I was with that I was having the same issue, I forced that shit out & it felt.....wrong. Like I ripped my soul or something. Me & that girl parted ways a couple weeks later.
It's a mental thing & both parties need to sit down & discuss it. Trust me, men block shit & don't think it affects them, but it always affects you...someway.
Even if I was to have sex with her now (which doesn't happen), it would be extremely hard to bust.
One time, with another girl I was with that I was having the same issue, I forced that shit out & it felt.....wrong. Like I ripped my soul or something. Me & that girl parted ways a couple weeks later.
It's a mental thing & both parties need to sit down & discuss it. Trust me, men block shit & don't think it affects them, but it always affects you...someway.
Could be the beginning stages of DIABETES.......No bullshit. Tell him to go get that shit checked.....Diabetes is the leading cause of ED....and that is how it starts out. How it ends is amputation or death.
NEVER? YOU HAVE NEVER CUM FROM ANY TYPE OF INTERCOURSE????
I BET YOU FIND THIS "WOMAN" ATTRACTIVE???
I'M JUST SAYIN'......
This thread drives me nuts!!! It just illustrates how women don't understand men for shit! There are many, many reasons why a man may not achieve orgasm, here are a few:
5. Maybe the guy is under stress at his job or has something stressful hanging over his head.
4. Maybe the guy masturbated too much that day.
3. Condom could be too tight, that will remove a lot of sensation. Try different condoms and/or lubrication.
2. Men are visually stimulated, maybe the woman prefers that the light be turned off.
1. The woman bitching about the man not cumming can cause performance anxiety!
5. Maybe the guy is under stress at his job or has something stressful hanging over his head.
4. Maybe the guy masturbated too much that day.
3. Condom could be too tight, that will remove a lot of sensation. Try different condoms and/or lubrication.
2. Men are visually stimulated, maybe the woman prefers that the light be turned off.
1. The woman bitching about the man not cumming can cause performance anxiety!
ALL of that is about not being able to get hard (impotence) in the first place, and not about holding back on coming once you already are hard and have been going at it for a long time (which is the crazy-ass subject of this thread).
NEVER? YOU HAVE NEVER CUM FROM ANY TYPE OF INTERCOURSE????
I BET YOU FIND THIS "WOMAN" ATTRACTIVE???
I'M JUST SAYIN'......
And that's why nobody talks about it.
No, these are examples of reasons why a man may not have an orgasm. I am not talking about impotence. Like a said, women don't understand men for shit.
Where are all these pre-cum babies you are talking about? Please.
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And what makes you an authority? Look it up. I did. On medical websites and Google, it tells you all about this mighty pre-cum that some of you think are getting women pregnant.
Again, there is a reason that hundreds of millions of sperm are produced in one ejaculate. You need that many to get pregnant.
I'm not saying it has NEVER happened, but the case of pregnancy from pre-ejaculate is rare.
Now if a guy busts and doesn't pull out fast enough, you are going to have more than pre-ejaculate. That's different.
You aren't understanding the difference between pre-ejaculate and pulling out after a man busts.
From Med Link:
While pre-ejaculation is not produced with any sperm in it to begin with, it may pick some up long the way. What happens is that, as it travels through the urethra, the pre-ejaculation may pick up sperm from a previous ejaculation. However, this is rare, as urination clears out previous sperm from another ejaculation.
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Well, if you read this thread, it's not as uncommon as we think! A lot of brothas on here have this happen from time to time.
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