Y'all need to go to a salon and get your dome professionally waxed.
No bumps, or ingrowns cause it pulls the hair out from beneath the skins surface.
It's $15-20 but you'll only have to go every 2-3 weeks, as opposed to 2-3 days w/ shaving.
And don't use depilatory creme's cause, overtime they'll darken your skin

. I guess if your darkskinned like Moblack you won't really notice it though
And actually Gaijan Khan is right about the Long Hair thing.
When you got long hair, you'll get random black girls approaching you asking you if they can braid it, or white girls asking to touch it.
Black women in particularly are envious of dudes w/ long hair, cause they have trouble growing their own hair long w/out Weaves or extensions. Since they're jealous/hateful towards you, this creates sexual tension which will make it easier to fuck em

(For more on this theory, read
the "Dandy" chapter in
Art of Seduction by
Robert Green)
And also, having long hair is a sign of wealth. Because you generally can't get a "good job" with long hair. Which means you're either BROKE AS HELL/unemployed or RICH AS HELL (Owning your own business, or being in the Entertainment industry)
And chemist brought up a good point about Shea Butter.
It will naturally give you waves whether you got long or short hair. It will also absorb into your scalp, as opposed to caking it up, like most grease or pomades do.